Best Nova Physical Therapy Podcasts (2024)

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Responding to Family Flying Monkeys 29:15

9h ago29:15

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Responding to Flying Monkeys in the Family is tricky! In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I dive into one of the most difficult challenges victims of narcissistic abuse face—dealing with "flying monkeys" within their own family. These enablers often act on behalf of the narcissist, spreading lies, creating tension, and making it even h…

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Narcissist's weird texting habits 28:25

11h ago28:25

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Narcissist's weird texting habits https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic Manipulative texting habits of narcissists - From abrupt changes in tone to love-bombing through text messages, we analyse the key patterns that make communication with a narcissist so confusing and unsettling. Learn how their erratic messaging …

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6 reasons a Narcissist can't Love their Children 26:08

1d ago26:08

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6 reasons why Narcissists can't Love their Childrenhttps://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic In this episode, we're breaking down six big reasons why narcissists can’t truly love their children. From lacking empathy to always needing control, narcissistic parents just don’t give the unconditional love and support childr…

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The narcissist's obsession with food 48:26

3d ago48:26

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The narcissist's obsession with Food. https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic In this episode, we dive into the complex relationship between narcissists and food. We explore how control, indulgence, power and manipulation often intertwine with their eating habits and yours. Tune in to learn how food becomes a weapon f…

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Framed - Women in Family Court Underworld with Dr Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko. 44:24

5d ago44:24

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Framed by the Family Court.https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic In their book "Framed - Women in the Family Court Underworld ", Dr. Christine and Amy Polacko expose the disturbing realities within the family court system. In this episode, they discuss their new book FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld whic…

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5 Things a narcissist will never give you in a relationship 24:03

7d ago24:03

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5 Things a narcissist will never give you in a relationship https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic We discuss 5 crucial things you will never experience in a relationship with a narcissist in this episode. These are things that you would normally take for granted in a healthy relationship. From emotional support to g…

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Why do narcissists block then unblock you? 44:49

9d ago44:49

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https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic Narcissists block and unblock you as a manipulative way to feed off your emotions. In this episode, "Why does the narcissist block then unblock you?", we dive deep into why narcissists use this strategy, examining the cruel psychological games they play to keep you hooked in cyc…

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Understanding Betrayal Trauma in Narcissistic Abuse 19:23

11d ago19:23

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Understanding Betrayal Trauma in Narcissistic Abuse.https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the concept of betrayal trauma within the context of narcissistic abuse. We unpack the emotional toll this hidden form of trauma takes on survivors. Betrayal trauma can be excruciat…

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When a narcissist turns your family against you. 19:35

14d ago19:35

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https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic The Narcissist turns your Family against you. In this eye-opening episode, we explore the heartbreaking reality of when a narcissist turns your family against you. Dealing with a narcissist who turns your family against you can feel isolating and devastating. In this episode, we…

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Narcissism and Coercive Control with Dr Christine Cocchiola 49:07

16d ago49:07

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Narcissism and Coercive Control https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic In this episode, I speak with Dr. Christine M. Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW. Dr Christine is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher & Survivor. She is a college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years and a social justice advocate for a loca…

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When the narcissist says "I love you" - what do they really mean? 22:29

18d ago22:29

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When a narcissist says 'I love you?'. https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic In this episode, we unpack the hidden meaning behind the phrase "I love you" when spoken by a narcissist. While these words may seem genuine, narcissists often use them as a tool for control and manipulation. We'll explore how their version …

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10 Gaslighting Phrases Narcissists Manipulate you with. 18:57

20d ago18:57

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https://www.amazon.com.au/Fake-Love-Understanding-Healing-Narcissistic 10 Gaslighting Phrases Narcissists Manipulate you with. In this episode, we explore 10 Gaslighting Phrases the narcissist manipulates you with, shedding light on the subtle and damaging tactics used to distort your reality. These manipulative phrases are designed to control, con…

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Going no contact with the narcissist. 24:46

17d ago24:46

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Going no contact with the narcissist. In this episode, I explore the life-changing decision of going no contact with a narcissist and why it's a crucial step for healing. When survivors maintain any form of contact with a narcissist, whether direct or indirect, it can have devastating effects on their emotional and psychological well-being. Learn h…

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Narcissistic Abuse awareness - Vanessa Reiser 40:08

27d ago40:08

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In this episode I am joined by the inspirational Vanessa Reiser! Vanessa M. Reiser is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW), licensed in New York, New Jersey, Massachusetts, and Florida. She is a psychotherapist and the founder of Tell a Therapist, LLC as well as the founder of the nonprofit, Tell a Therapist, INC. She is also the Author of - "N…

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5 ways the covert narcissist blameshifts 55:28

26d ago55:28

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5 ways the covert narcissist blame shifts In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we dive deep into the narcissist's favourite tactic—blame shifting. Discover why narcissists expertly deflect blame, manipulating situations to avoid accountability while making you question your own reality. We'll explore how narcissists twist the truth to k…

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Why do narcissists ruin special occasions? 13:59

25d ago13:59

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Why do narcissists ruin special occasions? One of the most common tactics that narcissists use to maintain control is to sabotage any event that brings you joy. Whether it’s Christmas, your birthday, or a long-anticipated holiday, you can almost guarantee that a narcissist will find a way to ruin it. This pattern of behaviour is not accidental—it’s…

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The Narcissistic Mother daughter relationship. 39:07

26d ago39:07

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The narcissistic mother and daughter relationship. To a narcissistic mother, their daughter represents a threat to their grandiose view of themselves. The daughter of a narcissistic mother spends their whole life trying to please a toxic parent, who can't or won't love them unconditionally. They hang in there however, thinking one day, ONE DAY, the…

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Why do narcissists recycle their exes? 20:12

27d ago20:12

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Why do narcissists recycle their exes? Narcissists love to keep as many exes as they can waiting in the wings so they can recycle them. But why do they do this? Why do they want to keep someone around whom they professed to hate so much? If you have been abused by a narcissist in the past then it's really important to understand the how and why nar…

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Surviving workplace narcissists and psychopaths. 1:28:06

28d ago1:28:06

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Toxic People at Work - Surviving Narcissists and Psychopaths in the Workplace. A toxic workplace, a narcissistic boss, workplace bullying and covert measures of abuse that make your life hell! What do you when this is your job, you can't leave, and you spend more time with these people than you do with your family? In this fascinating episode I tal…

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How do you tell if someone is a narcissist? 40:24

29d ago40:24

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How do you spot a narcissist? The emotional scars left by these toxic individuals are profound, and the mere thought of encountering another narcissist can be terrifying. Unfortunately, spotting a narcissist isn't as straightforward as we'd like—it’s not like they wear a sign that says "Stay Away!" The overuse of the word "narcissist" in society of…

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Should you go to counselling with the narcissist? 21:03

1M ago21:03

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Should you go to counselling with the narcissist? Whether you book the therapy session or the narcissist does, the narcissist always has an agenda when they attend counselling with you. That agenda, NEVER involves fixing themselves or repairing the relationship with the person they love. The narcissist's agenda is always self serving. In this episo…

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Going no contact with the narcissist's Flying Monkeys 19:48

1M ago19:48

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Should you go no contact with the narcissist's flying Monkeys? When navigating narcissistic abuse, one of the most insidious tactics employed by narcissists is the use of "flying monkeys." These individuals, whether aware of it or not, are manipulated to do the narcissist's bidding. But are all flying monkeys toxic? In this blog, we’ll explore what…

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The narcissist doesn't care if you have evidence! 15:14

1M ago15:14

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The narcissist doesn't care if you have evidence! When you as a victim find evidence of the narcissist's lies and betrayals it is natural to feel a sense of vindication. But what is likely to happen when you CONFRONT the narcissist with your evidence? Find out in this episode! In this episode we discuss.... * How does the narcissist react to your p…

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How do you cut ties with a toxic Parent? 1:10:39

1M ago1:10:39

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How do you cut ties with toxic Parents and other Family Members? Going no contact with a narcissistic, toxic parent is difficult. It takes time to understand this parent is never going to change and that you have the right to stop the abuse. The fear, obligation and guilt the narcissistic parent instils in their adult child keeps their child stuck …

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Why does the narcissist come back? - The Hoover manoeuvre explained 43:59

1M ago43:59

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Why does the narcissist come back after they've discarded you? - The Hoover Manoeuvre explained. The narcissist will 'hoover' you back (meaning to suck you back, the term being coined from the Hoover vacuum cleaner), to regain control of you, and to make sure you never forget about them. Narcissists have a way of reappearing in your life, often whe…

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Going to Court with a narcissist? - With special guest Karin Walker 1:05:51

1M ago1:05:51

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Going to court with a narcissist? - You need a lawyer who understands what you are going through! In this episode I speak with Karin Walker. Karin is an award winning lawyer who understands the narcissistic abuse cycle and her expertise in representing victims has also culminated in her being the author of several books that provide invaluable info…

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Children of Narcissists - How do they break free from the feelings of obligation and guilt? 17:22

1M ago17:22

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Adult children of Narcissists - How do they break free from the feelings of obligation and guilt? The narcissist experiences feelings of envy, abandonment and subsequent anger toward their child and will sabotage the relationships of their adult children. They will cause chaos in the relationships of their adult children to bring the focus back on …

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Will the narcissist treat the next person better? - Why do victims fear the next person will get all the 'nice' treatment? 39:48

1M ago39:48

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Will the narcissist treat the next person better? It is typical for all victims to think this given that they have have been blamed for the abuse. But are their fears justified? In this episode we unpack... *Why does every victim think the next person will get all of the 'good' side of the narcissist * How do you override these very 'normal' feelin…

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Police response to domestic violence - With special guest Police Detective Brandon Wootan 57:10

2M ago57:10

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Why do victims of domestic violence not trust the police? A Detective Police Officer discusses the way forward with his empathic and professional model to stem the global epidemic of domestic violence. An understanding of coercive Control, domestic violence, narcissistic abuse are not issues that the average person associates with police. Historica…

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Why do narcissists devalue you? 51:00

2M ago51:00

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Why do narcissists devalue you? Once the narcissist has hooked you in, the devaluation stage must and will begin. They will destroy all that is good about you, because all of those amazing traits and qualities make them feel bad about themselves. They devalue you to punish you for being 'better' than them in any way, and to bring you under their co…

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Can anyone become a victim of narcissistic abuse? - A therapist reveals her own trauma with a narcissist. 1:02:41

2M ago1:02:41

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Can anyone can become a victim of narcissistic abuse? Yes they can. Mental health professionals are not immune to the powerful trauma bond and the manipulative tactics of the narcissist. In this episode I talk to another counselor who reveals her own experience with a number of narcissistic abusers. She bravely talks about the trauma she endured, a…

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LGBTQUIA domestic violence - A victim tells his story. 54:30

2M ago54:30

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Domestic violence in the LGBTQIA+ community Victims of narcissistic abuse/domestic violence in the LGBTQ+ community do not have the same support as victims of domestic violence in a heterosexual relationship . David, a young gay man tells his story, revealing the trauma he suffered as a victim of narcissistic abuse. He also offers much needed insig…

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Should you tell the narcissist they're a narcissist? 13:40

2M ago13:40

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Should you tell the narcissist you know they're a narcissist? Narcissists don't usually take kindly to criticism as we know. But what if you have proof they're a narcissist? You'v done the research and they tick all the boxes, and appear to have at least 5 of the 9 traits for narcissistic personality disorder, and you want to tell them you know! In…

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Co-parenting with a narcissist is impossible! 37:19

2M ago37:19

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Co-Parenting with a narcissist. The challenges of co-parenting with a narcissist are immense. The narcissistic sees any attempt to discuss the children's needs as something that will benefit YOU. Co-parenting can be difficult and requires work when there are two non-disordered parents trying to establish a new life for themselves and their children…

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A Survivor's story from narcissistic abuse - trigger warning 1:21:31

2M ago1:21:31

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In this powerful episode, we share the story of "Marie," a courageous survivor of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse. Despite fearing her abuser and choosing to remain anonymous, Marie bravely recounts her journey from trauma to recovery. She sheds light on the challenges she faces within the United States' family court system, highlighting h…

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Is gaslighting abuse? - An examination of the narcissist's no.1 weapon to make you feel crazy. 50:58

3M ago50:58

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Gaslighting is used by the narcissist to confuse you and make you feel crazy. The cunning abusive strategy that narcissists use to manipulate their victim's reality and control their perceptions by eroding their self-confidence and fostering dependency. In this episode, discover effective strategies to recognize and resist gaslighting tactics, recl…

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The Narcissist Smear Campaign. 1:01:59

3M ago1:01:59

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The narcissist' smear campaign is designed to isolate the victim and destroy their reputation. The narcissist's number one fear is exposure. The smear campaign is a pre-emptive strike to destroy the victims credibility so no-one believes them when they go to talk about their abuse. In this episode I unpack... What is a smear campaign? When does the…

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Am I the narcissist? Unveiling reactive abuse tactics 44:45

3M ago44:45

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Am I the narcissist? Unveiling reactive abuse tactics Why do victims in toxic relationships with narcissists often ask themselves 'Am I the narcissist?' This pervasive question arises because victims of narcissistic abuse are frequently manipulated into feeling like the abuser through tactics like Reactive Abuse and DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Vic…

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Trauma Bonding: Why Victims Stay with Narcissists 39:30

3M ago39:30

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Trauma bonding: Why victims stay with narcissists We explore the complex dynamics of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence in this episode as we address the critical question: 'Why don't you just leave?' Join me as I dive deep into the concept of trauma bonding to understand why victims often struggle to break free from abusive relationships. We…

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Can a narcissist love you? 47:26

3M ago47:26

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In this week's episode, I answer the crucial question: "Can a narcissist love you?" It's hard to believe that someone who professes to love you could be so cruel, but what's even more horrifying is the possibility that your entire relationship was built on lies and the love you felt was entirely one-sided. Understanding the complexities of narcissi…

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Understanding Narcissism and Flying Monkeys in Narcissistic Abuse 47:55

4M ago47:55

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Hi everyone! In this 1st full length episode I explain what a narcissist actually is. It's become a buzzword and so many people use the word without knowing the true meaning, which minimises the trauma of victims and makes it hard for them to get support. The behaviours and traits of the narcissist that we discuss in this episode are NOT isolated i…

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Welcome to the Fake Love and Flying Monkeys Podcast! 9:48

4M ago9:48

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Well Fake Love is finally here! In this introductory episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, Nova Gibson gives you a breakdown of what you can expect in this podcast relating to all toxic relationships involving a narcissist. This episode '#0', is uploaded at the same time as episode #1 so you don't have to wait! Subscribe now so you never miss an…

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