Best Ordinary Freaks Podcasts (2024)

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The Orgasm Gap, Diddy's Freak Offs, FWBs, Deep Fornication, Choking While Kissing 1:04:06

3h ago1:04:06

1:04:06

I'm fairly disappointed that our listener base hasn't worked very hard to help Ally out in her search for sex with a dominant older man. Maybe they don't exist? Or maybe our listener base consists largely of folks who just want that vicarious experience, not the sweet escape. We solider on though, discussing Diddy's behavior and how that compares t…

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Ally's Wild Confession: The Shocking Quest for a Dominant Friend With Benefits 1:13:51

4d ago1:13:51

1:13:51

Let's cut right to the chase: Ally is looking for a certain kind of man to satisfy her needs, and she's not finding him. This isn't your typical female ask for a life partner or a long-term relationship. It's more a recognition that she's had difficulty finding someone who can get the job done for her. Which brings up an interesting difficulty that…

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Deborah's Dreams: How I Explored & Found Meaning in Four Pivotal Dreams During My Midlife Unraveling 16:30

3d ago16:30

16:30

In this episode, I share how I explored and found meaning in four dreams representing pivotal points in my midlife unraveling and reconstruction. It all started in 2013 when I journaled, "I can't live this way anymore." Then Hermes the Trickster showed up seducing me with the promise that pursuing an MA/PhD in depth psychology would save my Soul. C…

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Exploring Anger Through Active Imagination (reflections and guided meditation) 22:45

8d ago22:45

22:45

This guided meditation will help you explore anger and discover what it wants from you. Emotions are one way our unconscious tries to get us to explore something, turn it into an insight that would be useful right now, and prompt us to unfold into a future version of ourselves. The idea for this guided meditation came from my work with a couple who…

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Freaking Hermes! How Your Unconscious Tortures You into Action (blog post of 8/25/24) 8:05

14d ago8:05

8:05

In this episode, I read a recent blog post: Freaking Hermes! How Your Unconscious Tortures You into Action. “Freaking Hermes!” This is how one of my clients started a recent session. I laughed and told him this was a very good thing. He didn’t like that answer, but by the end of the session, he was ready to have a difficult and honest conversation …

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Ally's Naughty Desires, Woke Mate Selection, Cum Shot Glasses, Psychological Dominance 1:20:38

14d ago1:20:38

1:20:38

I really appreciate Ally's choice to talk in detail about her submissive proclivities prior to a hoped-for sexual encounter this weekend. I'm not sure how common it really is for women to like men to be dominant and/or aggressive during sex. As she points out, it's definitely common enough to make successes out of movies like 50 Shades of Grey. Reg…

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Touchless Orgasm: A Chat About Pleasure w/Jenn Wodtke, Pleasure & Orgasm Coach 56:40

20d ago56:40

56:40

Jenn Wodtke is back for a chat about Touchless Orgasm, which she describes as a revolutionary shift in how women can experience pleasure. Instead of relying on external stimulation—hands, a toy, a partner, erotic novels—touchless orgasm allows you to find the pleasure that is already inside you. Start by learning Jenn's three keys for touchless org…

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Taboos, Too-Obvious Arousal, No Foreplay, Dating Economics, OnlyFans Killing Free Porn 1:13:48

21d ago1:13:48

1:13:48

Straight back from consuming the dreadful convention coverage from the political parties, Mike tackles porn and society. The key word for the week is "taboos," as so much of what we're allowed to talk about now revolves around what will and won't make other people uncomfortable. The history of mankind is best understood by thinking economically, an…

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Bisexual Partners, Nashville Bachelorettes, Being Filmed, Penises Getting Longer, Anilingus 1:05:59

1M ago1:05:59

1:05:59

Ally thinks she's never been filmed while having sex, with or without her knowledge and consent. The joke's on her, because I'm relatively sure pretty much everyone has been filmed at one point or another by the powers that be for blackmail material. She also hasn't noticed in her sexual experiences the claimed increase in penis length that researc…

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The Deeper Meaning of the Republican Party Emerging as a Symbol of the Wounded Masculine: A Path to Healing 1:15:57

2M ago1:15:57

1:15:57

I'm super excited to share this very timely episode, my chat with depth psychology colleague and friend, Dr. Craig Chalquist, former psychotherapist and current Academic Program Director of Consciousness, Psychology, and Transformation at National University. Congratulations to Craig for recently securing his second PhD in philosophy and religion. …

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Porn Illegal In Africa, Condom Rejection, Fappening Novelties, Women Touching Women Down There 1:03:05

2M ago1:03:05

1:03:05

One surprising challenge for the man traveling through Africa is that porn is illegal in essentially every country there. This, combined with spotty Internet access, can genuinely inhibit a man from being able to orgasm during his trip. Not to mention what it might do to prostate-cancer rates. Condom use, or lack thereof in early sexual encounters,…

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Squirting From Skene's Glands, Flatulence, Wiping Up After Handjobs, Rejecting Butt Play 1:00:35

2M ago1:00:35

1:00:35

Keith has a serious problem while touring Southern Africa: Access to high-quality porn. We take it for granted in this day and age, but it relies completely on high-speed Internet access. How much porn per day should a man prepare before such a trip, and what should he do if he runs out? We dive deeper into questions of squirting and what esoteric …

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The Intersection of Arousal, Shame & Fear of Trans People 14:20

2M ago14:20

14:20

In this episode I read a blog post that I wrote after reflecting on a few chats with male clients over the past few months. Click here to read the post. Some of those men were conscious of an inner battle between their feminine and masculine that was holding them back in some way from fully expressing their creativity. For other male clients, this …

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Female Feedback, Oral Semen Management, Narrow Penises, Internal Porn, The Saddest 69 1:06:54

3M ago1:06:54

1:06:54

It turns out that Ally has never been with a man whose penis was so tightly circumcised that he had an immobile foreskin when erect. This came up because I wanted to understand what goes into her management of semen when the guy orgasms in her mouth. Come to find out this generally isn't an issue for her, which makes me wonder whether she's having …

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Very Big Clits, Growing Your Clit, Squirting Truth, Phones During Foreplay, Climaxing Early 1:03:11

3M ago1:03:11

1:03:11

I think the clit might be the most misunderstood part of the sexual apparatus. What's really going on with that small penis-analog that sometimes isn't difficult to even locate? People really just don't talk enough about clits. Why is that? On some level women are in luck, given that men generally haven't extended to clits the specific body-part fe…

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Peace Building from the Inside Out: A Chat w/Sher Griffin, Founder of The Compassion Collective 1:05:54

3M ago1:05:54

1:05:54

You might be a natural peace builder and not even know it! In this episode, I’m excited to do something different with someone I’ve already had on Dose of Depth. Click here to listen to my previous chat with Sher Griffin titled: Misfits to the Rescue: The Intersection of Autism, Giftedness & ADHD. Sher embraces her uniqueness as someone with a rece…

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Women's Locker Rooms, Unattractive Vulvae, OnlyFans Professors, Misgendered Fantasies, Firsts 1:08:18

4M ago1:08:18

1:08:18

Maybe all women fantasize about being a man during sex in order to get off. I have often hypothesized that it's just more fun for the male partner to do the act. In this gender-bending world, it's hard to know what's going to work for someone. One man's autofellatio is another man's pegging. In this episode, Ally and Mike discuss details of what go…

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Pleasure & Arousal: The Literal and Symbolic w/Jenn Wodtke, Pleasure & Orgasm Coach 26:53

4M ago26:53

26:53

My new friend Jenn Wodtke and I have a conversation about pleasure. I come at the topic from the symbolic perspective and Jenn brings a more practical and literal lens to the topic. I share some interesting personal stories too. You'll love our unique takes on sexual fantasies and the problem of sacralizing suffering over pleasure. Jenn Wodtke is a…

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Cuckolding Before Nutting, MMF Repeat Orgasms, Too Much Exhibitionism, Competitive Dominance 1:06:07

4M ago1:06:07

1:06:07

Even men who are into cuckolding tend to restrict it to their fantasies or to what they think about when pretty aroused. We discuss a man who wants deeply to interact with the penis of another man, until he orgasms at which point the desire recedes immediately. What should he do? Simply remain aroused as long as possible? A woman is tired of turnin…

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Men's Patriarchal Wound: A Chat w/William Diplock, Psychotherapist & Trainer for Gender Equity & Reconciliation International (GERI) 1:11:22

4M ago1:11:22

1:11:22

In this episode, I’m excited to have a chat with William Diplock, Senior Trainer and Program Coordinator for Gender Equity & Reconciliation International, in Brisbane, Australia. William is a Senior GERI Trainer and Program Coordinator for GERI, in Brisbane, Australia. GERI stands for Gender Equity & Reconciliation International. I will include a l…

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Blowjob Derangement Syndrome, Vaginal Sensations, Oral Initiation, Refusal To Reciprocate 1:04:19

4M ago1:04:19

1:04:19

It's an oft-discussed trope that women become much more attached to men after the first time they have sex. But, does the same logic apply to oral sex performed on the guy? That is to say, does it matter where exactly the penis goes? And, does it matter where the semen goes? Keith is interested in understanding how, in a normal relationship, a blow…

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Relational Intelligence & Authentic Relating: A Chat w/Marc Beneteau, Author of Broke, Single, Crazy & Old: The Redemption of a Love and Sex Addict 1:05:09

5M ago1:05:09

1:05:09

In this episode, I’m excited to have a chat with Marc Bènèteau about relational Intelligence, authentic relating, circling, and Marc’s honest telling of the end to his “40-year war against himself and the world.” He is the author of four books covering various topics in Relational Intelligence, Emotional Communication, sexuality, and human potentia…

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Pillow Princesses, Cow Fetishes, Complementing Nude Photos, Aggressive Fingering 1:01:20

5M ago1:01:20

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It's complicated, as a man, to know how to respond to receiving a nude photo from a female partner. The obvious answer is you should be complementary, and not respond with a dick pic or similar. But then, how strong should the complements be? Is she forcing you to interact with her insecurities? We struggle often to define the term "fingering" as i…

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Men Behaving Badly, Sex Critiques, Condom Lies, Impregnation Fetishes, Too Wet For Oral 1:01:46

5M ago1:01:46

1:01:46

In this day and age, it's hard to believe how poorly informed men can be about women's sexual responses. This week, we've found a selection of odd male behaviors in relationships which we make an effort to explain. To wit, what would possess a man to send a list of "mistakes" made by a sexual partner after their first encounter? From my perspective…

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A Misplaced Prostate, Gagging During Cunnilingus, Refusal to Touch It, Short Refractory Periods, What's More Gay? 1:03:45

5M ago1:03:45

1:03:45

A listener ponders: Given a choice between a series of probably gay activities and pegging, which is the most gay? And, how would we rank-order the experiences which all sound pretty gay, including two men facing each other and then masturbating simultaneously on to a black towel. Along the same lines, a man really really wants to enjoy being pegge…

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Terrapsychology, Enchantment & Re-Storying: A Chat w/Dr. Craig Chalquist, Academic Program Director of Consciousness, Psychology, and Transformation at National University. 1:09:02

5M ago1:09:02

1:09:02

What's your relationship with place? Can you feel the places you live or visit speaking to you about their experience? Do you have an irrational preference to live near the water? Or a hatred for suburban living? In this episode, I’m excited to have a chat with my new depth psychology buddy and a fellow alum of Pacifica Graduate Institute. Dr. Crai…

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Religious Insemination, Chubby Threesomes, Working For Sex, Dirty Fingering, Is He Gay? 1:04:11

5M ago1:04:11

1:04:11

The release date of this episode will make it hard for listeners, as they'll have to tear themselves away from the new Taylor Swift album to give us their full attention. Her emotions regarding her most recent failed relationship are notable, if only because they don't really sound like those I would expect from a 35-year-old woman. But we'll soldi…

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Guided Active Imagination for Anxiety (and other negative emotions) 17:34

5M ago17:34

17:34

This episode is for people suffering from anxiety or other negative emotions, like overwhelm, guilt, panic, feeling trapped, fear, sadness, etc. I will guide you through some breath work and connecting with the parts of the body where those emotions are gathered. Then we will invite your unconscious to attach an image to that area of the body. The …

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Female Orgasm Blame Game, Sex Toy Surprise, STI Test Forgeries, Is It Semen? 1:03:51

6M ago1:03:51

1:03:51

If one were to try to assign "blame" for men's difficulty in ascertaining whether a female partner has orgasmed, who bears the most responsibility? Traditionally, I would view it as the man's fault. Given our interest in that part of the female body, you'd think more men would conduct significant online research. But what if women are actively tryi…

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The Film Aquaman and The Book of Revelation (blog post) 15:42

6M ago15:42

15:42

In this episode I read a blog post I wrote in 2020 about the film Aquaman, and then I updated it in 2023. Film images are one way my unconscious speaks to me directly. Certain films have had a strong pull on me, especially during my midlife unraveling and reconstruction. Now, I do not question my urge to view some films or even Netflix series as ma…

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Where To Place Your Semen? Hard Penis Feel, 69 Positioning, Inaccurate Tinder Pics 1:03:45

6M ago1:03:45

1:03:45

Keith wanted to discuss where to place his semen in an early sexual encounter. It's not as simple a problem as it sounds. It requires forethought for each position. And, since the woman may often simply express the desire that he "put it inside," it's a lonely road the man must travel to find a proper exterior setting. As I sit here in my bed in Du…

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Birth Control Virtue Signaling, MFF Threesome Downsides, Plugging For Tightness, Oral Expectations 1:10:59

6M ago1:10:59

1:10:59

There's no way to know the full extent to which people claiming to use multiple forms of birth control are virtue signaling. Sure, it's believable that in early sexual encounters people might use a condom as well as the pill, to protect against STIs. But there's definitely some sort of limit here, and later in a relationship the benefit derived is …

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The Intersection of Vulnerability & Creativity: A Chat w/JD Edwin, Author of the Headspace Series 48:31

6M ago48:31

48:31

In this episode, I bring back one of my favorite writers and guests. JD Edwin is a science fiction and urban fantasy author who believes the first goal of fiction is FUN! She is the author of the Headspace series, an easy-to-read, action-packed science fiction trilogy published by Story Cartel Press. Headspace (book 1) Master of the Arena (book 2) …

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Need Your Ass Kicked? Rob Thomas Shows Up in a Dream (blog post) 7:05

6M ago7:05

7:05

In this episode, I read a blog post I wrote a couple weeks ago. Click here to read it. It was turning out to be an interesting week. Of course, this story begins with a dream that includes Rob Thomas and having to pee really bad. Before I go on, if you're enjoying Dose of Depth podcast, would you be sure to rate it and share my episodes. It would a…

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Boudoir Photos, Cliché Vacation Dreams, Magic Penis Shapes, Not Going Down 1:02:52

6M ago1:02:52

1:02:52

Like the peninsular docks that jut out from the islands of the Maldives, a dildo a man purchased for his wife seemed to touch just the right spots, giving her the first "penetration-only" orgasm he's ever witnessed. Now, heartbroken, he's unsure whether this will permanently alter their relationship. Another man is upset that his wife allowed anoth…

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Dinner's Ready! Clit Sizes, Cam Roulette, Genital Perfumes, Pushy Head 1:02:24

7M ago1:02:24

1:02:24

It's always a difficult situation for a woman when she's pleasuring a man orally and he starts to get a bit too pushy. But here we discuss a young lady who was surprised by the act and unable to control the depth of penetration at all. What are some techniques for managing this? If she bites him, will she really get punched? What's the best way for…

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The Three Sevens Club, Surreptitious Snaps, Sex Or Fleshlight, Size Frustration 1:03:27

7M ago1:03:27

1:03:27

Which countries have the largest and the smallest penis sizes? Would it surprise you to find out that the smallest nation is just a bit more than half the size of the largest one? It's a complicated topic, though, because if a guy wants to get into the Three Sevens Club, he's going to need to be extremely tall, have a large penis and make a lot of …

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Orgasms Of Our Youth, Male Masturbator Reviews, Camgirl Pasts, Clit Sucking, Elizabethan Dirty Talk, Nonbinary Lineage 1:02:28

7M ago1:02:28

1:02:28

That glow I have is the good feeling from being told by Ally, in no uncertain terms, that my orgasms are surely stronger than hers, and perhaps stronger than all women's. "Why else would men pursue sex so much more than women," she says. "It must be better for you guys." Amen to that, and thanks to Ally we also learned that the products of teenage …

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My Clients Teach Me So Much: Random Reflections 10:07

7M ago10:07

10:07

In this episode, I read a blog post I wrote in February, 2024. As usual, a recent walk on a sunny day prompted some new ideas about how to share some of what my clients and I have learned together on our journeys. The topics are exploring the spiritual meaning of physical/body challenges and changing up a story about trauma to release shame. Enjoy …

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Porn Preferences, Thrusting, Masturbation Details, Cowgirl Flaccidity, Date Vetting 1:02:39

7M ago1:02:39

1:02:39

In spite of the vigorous efforts of men to post detailed feedback on porn and sex toys, few take this part of men's lives seriously. It's a shame, because for most men it's an important enough part of their lives that one wonders whether someone can really know a man without understanding his porn preferences. This episode, Mike wanted to discuss a…

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Hyperventilating During Orgasm, Interoceptive Therapy, Porn Site Commenting, Anal Aftermath 1:03:11

8M ago1:03:11

1:03:11

A woman reports experiencing an extraordinary number of orgasms experienced during a bondage session. So many so, in fact, that she passes out from the experience, and she claims that each orgasm became painful, starting about halfway through the session. What is she experiencing? Is in analogous to the male experience or something completely diffe…

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Activating Your Inner Philosopher: A Chat w/Johnny Price, Poet, Philosopher, Sage & Seeker of Truth 57:36

8M ago57:36

57:36

In this episode I want to inspire you to activate your inner philosopher because the world needs your reflections about the meaning of your life within the context of all the chaos going on. CG Jung warned something like, the fate of humanity depends upon the self-reflecting individual so as not to get swallowed up by mass-minded ideas (aka conspir…

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Dating App Honesty, Beauty and IQ, Straight Men and Gay Porn, Social Taboos 1:02:28

8M ago1:02:28

1:02:28

Like Icarus flying too close to the sun, we decided to tackle a series of topics this week that could get us banned from the Internet or worse. In general, we are very timid men, unwilling to challenge social norms, but this week was different. I blame climate change. This may surprise you, but it sounds like men sometimes lie on dating application…

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Surprise MMF Threesome, Womansplaining, Orgasm Expertise, Monogamy While Sugaring 1:01:41

8M ago1:01:41

1:01:41

Some men might not be upset to find out their partner invited another man to join their bedroom festivities. But, even those who at some time or another have declared they'd be up for "anything" may not really mean they want to take it quite that far. Who are the real masters of the domain of orgasm? Is it perhaps time for women to concede that men…

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Self-Intimacy: Reflections & Guided Meditation 18:00

8M ago18:00

18:00

This episode is about self-intimacy and includes a guided meditation for those seeking a deeper and more intimate relationship with themselves and others. Sexuality, arousal, passionate physical touch are all ways creative intelligence works through us to increase consciousness. The expansion of consciousness always involves an unleashing of creati…

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A Chat About the Movie Poor Things w/PJ Dever 54:05

8M ago54:05

54:05

In this episode, I’m sharing my passion for Jungian film theory. I’ve been wanting to incorporate my thoughts about the deeper meaning of movies into my podcast. I guess my second viewing of the movie Poor Things pushed me over the procrastination edge. The fact that I could not immediately articulate how this film – Poor Things – impacted my psych…

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Loyalty Tests, Phone Rummaging, Intimate Vs Sexual Touching, Cumkiss Speculations 1:03:18

8M ago1:03:18

1:03:18

What a world it is that people will stand up and shout you down for having the audacity to suggest that a fluid emanating from a woman's urethra is urine. Perhaps we are the Galileos of a new enlightenment, called to the world to bring knowledge to the huddled masses. Incidentally, and perhaps appropriately, if you want to see Galileo's middle fing…

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Surgery Pitfalls, Porn Viewing Trends, Gay Cruising, Sex Worker First Times 1:03:18

9M ago1:03:18

1:03:18

In a thought-provoking start to the new year, we discuss requests for unusual types of porn made by men on Reddit, paired with a conversation about PornHub's 2023 porn trends data. Where are men coming up with these rather strange requests? Is it indicative of what they want in real life, or have they just been conditioned by online content? If you…

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Smaller Is Better! Cheating Etiquette, Squirting In Faces, 2023 Sex Count 59:57

9M ago59:57

59:57

Before getting to the heart of the matter -- how many times one should have had sex in 2023 -- we discuss some topics of perhaps more general interest. A woman has a curious predilection for small penises, prompting her to receive a large number of dick pics showing off all the smaller-than-average men available on the Internet. Her opinion, presum…

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Intimacy Vs Submissiveness, Oral Tastes, The Scent Of A Woman, Holidays Abroad 1:04:40

9M ago1:04:40

1:04:40

Discussion continues of Keith's concern that women don't particularly enjoy giving head, turning partly to the question of whether they're enjoyment of sex would be enhanced by "leaning into" a more submissive role rather than focusing primarily on emotional closeness. For the holidays, Keith made an effort to find a lady-friend willing to come wit…

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