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I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase Kosterlitz and produced by Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. The weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode Chase interviews amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasti ...
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What’s the secret to a happy life? The research says it’s your relationships! But how do you create the connection, joy and ease you crave? You’ve got to think about your relationships in a whole new way. Armed with humor, a ton of research and over 30 years of hands-on experience Dr. Abby Medcalf will teach you simple, actionable tools and strategies that you can use today to make all your relationships the best they’ve ever been (including the one with yourself)! Abby’s a Relationship Mave ...
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We often hear so much about the struggles of the LGBTQ+ community. But on this show, we talk about all of the awesomeness within queer relationships! We're here to de-center the cis, hetero, monogamous relationship escalator- and find out what's working.
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476: How To Not Settle In Your Relationship
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As a relationship progresses most people will inevitably become more comfortable and complacent. In order to have a thriving long term relationship, we must take deliberate steps to avoid complacency, resentment and a loss of connection. Listen to today's show to learn the tools that will help you stay connected and create a loving and lasting rela…
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303. The Secret to Changing Your Unwanted Habits
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Creating a great relationship with yourself or others is all about creating healthy habits: getting into the habit of identifying and regulating your own feelings, getting into the habit of being mindful in conversations, or getting into the habit of resisting urges that sabotage you getting to your goals (yes, put down your phone and the Oreos). C…
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475: Dealing With Infertility And Sexual Health Challenges
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Relationships are difficult to navigate in the best of times. Dealing with infertility and other sexual health issues can add another layer of stress and disconnect in even the healthiest relationships. Listen to today's show to learn the tools to navigate these difficult times with grace and love. In this episode with Gabriela Rosa we discuss rela…
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302. Why You Feel Lonely (Even if You Have Friends) and Three Solutions that Work
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Feeling lonely sucks! If you’re here with me now, you’ve likely experienced the pain of feeling lonely or isolated at some point in your life. Social connection is imperative for humans. It improves our mental well-being and our physical health. Studies have even shown that a lack of social connection can be more detrimental to your health than smo…
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474: Communication Hacks And Embracing Criticism
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It may sound counterintuitive, but there are ways to embrace criticism to create more love in your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate criticism and communication in a more productive, loving way. In this episode with Dr. Warren Farrel we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to not be defensive when dealing…
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301. Is There a Healthy Way to Cut People Off?
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Parental or other familial estrangement is a real thing these days. And it’s more common than ever to block or cut off toxic friends or siblings. But is there a healthy way to cut people off so you can feel at peace with your decision and life? The short answer is, “Yes,” but you need to know the dos and don’ts. Today I’m coming at you with the thr…
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Dating can feel overwhelming and challenging for many people. Navigating dating anxiety and fears can be easier when you have the right tools and awareness. Listen to today's show to learn the tools to date better while managing your anxiety and fears. In this episode with Alistair Wolfe we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Recognizi…
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300. Three Simple Habits to Structure and Plan Your Day so You Can Be Effective, Productive and Calm
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In my 40 years of experience, I’ve worked with bus drivers, billionaires, movie stars, and stay-at-home parents. I’ve worked with people who are depressed, anxious and have ADHD. And I can tell you that the one thing everyone has in common is that they often struggle with feeling ineffective in their day-to-day life. I always say that the most impo…
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472: How To Get Your Finances In Order For Peace Of Mind
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Money is one of the biggest causes of relationship conflict and divorce. Money can also be a personal strain that causes a great deal of stress and anxiety. Listen to today's show to learn how to get your finances in order and gain a deeper understanding of your relationship to money. In this episode with Ben Hockema we discuss relationship advice …
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299. How to Deal with Someone Being Mad at You: The Four Things You Can Do
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One of the toughest parts of being human is dealing with others being angry or disappointed in us. You might react by being angry back, people pleasing or avoiding that person altogether. But no matter what you do, your brain likely keeps coming back to this person who’s angry at you, and you end up feeling anxious, fearful, resentful or drained. W…
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Betrayal is one of the hardest things to move through in life and relationships. Working toward forgiveness is a key factor in the healing process. Listen to today's show to learn how to deal with betrayal, integrate it and forgive. In this episode with Dr. Bruce Chalmer we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Learning what exactly is b…
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298. How to Overcome Social Anxiety: My Top Five Tips for Creating a More Relaxed and Connected Life
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Do you feel self-conscious in social situations? Are you often afraid that others are judging you? Do everyday interactions cause you significant anxiety or embarrassment? And has this fear gotten in the way of living your life? If you have social anxiety, you might feel hopeless that things will ever change, but you’re wrong. Social anxiety is tre…
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Our childhood, religion, culture and many other factors all influence how we view sex and relationships as adults. Listen to today's show to better understand how these things have impacted your views so that you can take an informed approach to improving your sex and relationships. In this episode with Ann Russo we discuss relationship advice topi…
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297. How to Stop Feeling Frustrated and Angry in Your Relationships
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It’s healthy and normal to get frustrated or angry from time to time. However, it’s not healthy or normal to feel frustration and anger on a daily basis. This means your frustration tolerance is too low and it’s time to develop some much-needed skills so you can feel more peaceful and connected with yourself and those around you. Today I’m teaching…
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469: Getting Realistic To Improve Your Life
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Some might say that the secret to happiness is managing your expectations. If you are operating with unrealistic expectations and frameworks, you can expect to be constantly disappointed and upset. LIsten to today's show to learn how to become aware of your thinking and create frameworks that serve you and your happiness. In this episode with Nneka…
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Defining your purpose in life and aligning it with your relationship is a big task. First we must get clear on many things and ask ourselves important questions. Listen to today's show to learn how to live a meaningful life and while thriving in your relationship. In this episode with Molly Fletcher we discuss relationship advice topics that includ…
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467: Take Radical Responsibility For Your Life And Relationship
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It's easy to point the finger at our partner, friend or family member when things are not going well in the relationship. However, the solution to our problems often lies within ourselves. What an amazing thing to realize and embody! We have the power to create the change we want in our lives. Listen to today's show to learn how. In this episode wi…
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466: Gender Polarity And Your Relationship
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There are many factors that influence how you will show up in a relationship. One factor is your relationship with gender, masculinity and femininity. It's important to understand all aspects of yourself in order to show up as the best version of yourself and experience the best relationship possible. Listen to today's show to learn more! In this e…
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296. How Do You Know if You’re in a Healthy Relationship? Five Signs to Look for
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Because so many of us come from dysfunctional families, it can be hard to know if we’re in a healthy relationship or just repeating the screwed up stuff we saw growing up with that seemed normal because it’s all we knew. With a career spanning 40 years, in multiple states and countries, and having worked in every environment you can imagine, I’ve l…
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465: Not Having Enough Sex In Your Relationship?
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Sex can become deprioritized as a relationship progresses. Less sex may be a result of many different factors that if they are left unaddressed, can lead to relationship dissatisfaction and even breakup. Listen to today's show to learn more about how to improve your sex life starting today! In this episode with Dr. Nazanin Moali we discuss relation…
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295. The Three Surprising Reasons Why Relationships Fail
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Why do relationships fail? When I ask people, “What’s the biggest issue in your relationship?” they almost always answer, “We don’t communicate.” That’s wrong (yes, I said it). And that wrong answer has you working on the wrong things. You try out all those communication tools to improve your relationship, but they don’t work! And you know why? Bec…
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Understanding to accept what we can change verse what we cannot change in our lives is a huge part of living a happier life. Listen to today's show to learn how to cultivate acceptance and how it will improve your relationships. In this episode with Dr. Greg Hammer we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How acceptance is an antidote to…
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294. Seven Effective tools to deal with stress in your relationship
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It doesn’t take a genius to know that your relationship is worse off when you or your partner are under stress. A fight with your friend, money woes, that nasty commute, little Jimmy’s newly diagnosed gluten allergy, and those long work days bleed over into your relationship. The research shows that the more frustrations and issues people had outsi…
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Transitions are always bittersweet. We’re reflecting on the transitions we've experienced over the course of the podcast, the changes we've faced recently, and Melisa's departure from the podcast. You’ll hear— (04:00) Melisa’s challenges with sharing queer content online (07:26) Keely using ambiamory as a new label (22:17) Melissa's farewell announ…
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It's normal to feel anxious about things going on in your relationship at one point or another. However, this anxiety can sometimes be overwhelming and difficult. You don't have to be at the mercy of your anxious feelings. Listen to today's show to learn tools to navigate your relationships with more internal calm and peace. In this episode with Ch…
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