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AI and digital expert Suchi Srinivasan and fintech practice leader Kamila Rakhimova from Boston Consulting Group (BCG) talk to the women at the vanguard of business, digital, and technology. They’re digging into how these powerhouse leaders got where they are—everything from the joy of projects gone right to the realities of family responsibilities. And crucially, asking: what was that moment you knew you weren't merely getting there...you had arrived? That's when you know you're in your element.
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NOTICE: AlisaCoaches.com is currently under construction. For now, visitors to the site are being directed to this page. Though no articles are published here, you will have access to all "Heart and Soul" podcasts. ----------------------- My name is Alisa. I am a life coach, relationship counselor. Over the past decade, I have worked with hundreds of clients from various countries and from different walks of life. My passion is helping clients to live their best lives possible; helping them to learn their truth.
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NOTICE: AlisaCoaches.com is currently under construction. For now, visitors to the site are being directed to this page. Though no articles are published here, you will have access to all "Heart and Soul" podcasts. ----------------------- My name is Alisa. I am a life coach, relationship counselor. Over the past decade, I have worked with hundreds of clients from various countries and from different walks of life. My passion is helping clients to live their best lives possible; helping them to learn their truth.
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1 A Positive Message About Addiction Recovery 17:00
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17:00Addiction recovery takes a lot of hard work. It takes focus, blood, sweat, teachers, and consistency. However. It is important for those who struggle with sex, p*rn, and masturbation addictions to understand that sexual addiction recovery does not always have to be so negative. In today's episode of Heart and Soul. I shine a light on the positive side of addiction recovery.…
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Men who struggle with addictions of a sexual nature usually do not understand that they are running from something. Identifying your fears and gaining an understanding of how those fears control you are one of the foundational steps that can lead to sexual addiction recovery.
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1 Addiction Recovery: Be In It For The Long Haul 17:00
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17:00When attempting to get assistance for a sexual addiction, many times the sex addict approaches this part of the journey as if there is a quick fix. There is not a quick fix for sexual addiction. Sliding down the rabbit hole of addiction is a lot easier than climbing one's way out of that hole. Climbing out of the rabbit hole is going to take time, effort, focus, dedication, persistence, and it will require much more of you mentally and emotionally than you could ever imagine.…
The concept of NoFap is a healthy one - helping men to stop their masturbation addiction habits. However, it creates an environment for the addict that can be detrimental, mentally and emotionally. Today, I will talk about NoFap, while also commenting on some of the recent posts in the NoFap Subreddit.…
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1 Pornography Addiction: The Road to Recovery 33:00
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33:00Many men approach sex addiction recovery haphazardly. Understanding what the journey to recovery looks like is helpful so that you can be patient with yourself and so that you can be forgiving with yourself. Going cold turkey does not work when it comes to sex, p*rn, and/or masturbation treatment. What works may come as a surprise to the sexual addict, as well as to professionals in the field. In today's episode of Heart & Soul, I am going to share my own methodology in helping clients to work through their sexual addictions.…
There is much more to being a man than having an erection. How did you get the erection? What do you want to do with the erection now that you have it? What are you going to do once your erection is gone? Societies around the globe have long taught men that being a man lies in the simple fact that he has a penis, and the narrative goes on to teach men that everything that they need to know about being a man is wrapped up in what he does once he has an erection. I am here to set the record straight about men and their erect penises.…
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Addictions of a sexual nature are mentally, emotionally, and spiritually taxing on the individual who is trying to break free from their hold. The process is very much like being at war with oneself. In order to keep the momentum going, you have to remind yourself of what you are fighting for. Remind yourself of what you are trading in for immediate gratification. The journey to recovery is not about perfection. Rather, it is about focus.…
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1 How NOT To Ask For Help With A Sexual Addiction 31:00
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31:00Addictions of a sexual nature are very difficult to work through. If you are taking steps to get help, make sure that you are not sending mixed signals, and make sure that you are not acting in a manner that is contrary to addiction recovery. In today's show, I'm going to walk listeners through an email exchange that I received from a man who claimed to want help with his addiction of a sexual nature. Take notes, guys. You can't get help for your addiction while simultaneously seeking out ways to get your fix. In today's show, I will walk you through what you should NOT do if you are trying to get help for your sexual addiction.…
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I have often said that p*rn is not necessarily a bad thing. However, watching p*rn is not a victimless activity for men. Because of the way that men are wired (which is sexually), watching changes p*rn everything about who you are. So, the man becomes the victim. Watching p*rn shapes the way that he sees himself, the way that he sees women, and the way that he sees the world around him. Men who become addicted to watching p*rn become insecure, angry, and entitled. The more extreme versions of such men will become a danger to society.…
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1 How Sex, P*rn, and Masturbation Addicts Are Made 31:00
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31:00Growing numbers of men are struggling with sex, p*rn, and masturbation addictions these days. The key to working through a sexual addiction is not in stopping the behavior. The behavior is just a manifestation of what is broken; it serves as evidence that an individual is hurting. The real key to working through one's addiction is to understand more about the places within oneself that are hurting, broken, and damaged. Today's episode is not glamorous, and it is not full of content that is designed that feed one's addiction. Today's episode is being created to equip men who truly want to break free from addiction to do so.…
One of the most common reasons that sex addicts find themselves on the losing side of their battle with sex addiction is because they no longer acknowledge that things can get better. Hope is powerful because it helps a person to endure the more challenging parts of their journey. It helps the individual to not give up. For, giving up is like embracing death. Hope infuses us with strength. It can be like a beacon in the black of night. You may not know where you are going, exactly, or how you are going to get there, but you just keep heading for the light. Read the full article on AlisaCoaches.com.…
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Addiction, in any form, is a parasite. The thing to remember about a parasite is that it is never finished with its host. Ever. As long as that host is able to sustain life for itself, while also sustaining life for the parasite, the parasite will continue using the host. The parasite’s work is only done when the host is dead. It is only at that time that the parasite stops its destructive work. The good news is that it is possible to break free from sexual addiction. The breakthrough for my clients always happens when they are focused on being committed to their journey. It is in the journey that the healing takes place. It is in the journey that wholeness replaces brokenness, and the addict becomes victorious. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
The dash represents the life actually lived. It represents the hopes and dreams, the love, the tears, the laughter. It also represents the disappointments, the despair, those times when the individual was absolutely shaken to his core, those times when the individual experienced the most glorious moments of his life. The dash represents that which is real and lasting. It represents legacy. And, in the midst of all of the hustle and bustle, the dash represents how the individual’s life was intertwined with, and made an impact on, so many other people’s lives, as well. Live your life. Leave your mark. Make sure that your dash counts! For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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Men cheat for many reasons. Actually, both men and women cheat for many reasons. However, Mistress Alisa's speciality is in working with men. And, in this program, she takes a direct approacch to addressing many of the issues that men face while trying to heal broken relationships, due to infidelity. The steps provided in this segment are sure to yield results for those who follow the advice. Though the work will not be easy, it will absolutely be worth the effort for most men who chose to follow these steps. Let the work begin! For more information: www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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What goes on in the mind of a submissive male? Mistress Alisa is the "submissive whisperer" and She can crack the code. In this podcast, She points out 5 struggles that submissive men face in the lifestyle and in life, in general. She gives tips for working through these challenges and for coming out on the other side of them. This podcast is also great for women who may see that their male partners are struggling, but they do not seem to be able to put their finger on what the problem could be. This is a must-listen for submissive men in the lifestyle, as well as for women with less alpha partners. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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Young men are being attracted to the lure of addiction at younger and younger ages these days. The impact that can have on a 20-year-old is massive. By the time the young man understands that he is addicted, every aspect of his life has been impacted by his obsession with p--o--r--nography. Mistress Alisa weighs-in on the issue. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
When you know your truth and you live it, then nothing and no one can stand in your way. On the journey to wholeness and healing, many who seek recovery find themselves stuck in a rutt because they live their lives like victims. They have given their power and have therefore relinquished their own ability to be strong for themselves. Thinking like a victim and acting like a victim suck the very joy out of life. If you want to live a life that is free and beautiful, one that represents that self that you have always wanted to live, then accept responsibility for your role in the way that your life is now, and make a decision about the changes that you want to make in your life. Then start taking the steps to make those changes. It is not an easy road, but it is one that is doable. However, victims never take this journey. They sit on the side of the road sulking and complaining about what they do not have. But, you are not a victim. So, it is time to stand up and to start owning your journey. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
On a daily basis, sex addicts face extremely negative feelings like: judgment, guilt, shame, embarrassment, self-doubt, and even self-hatred. They wonder how to break free from addiction in order to be the people they have always wanted to be, and in order to live the lives that they have always wanted to live. When faced with all the unhealthy behaviors that they seem absolutely obsessed with, it can be overwhelming to even think about how it could be possible to live a full and rewarding life. It can also be quite challenging for the addict to even feel deserving of such a life. Mistress Alisa to the rescue! Not only is the sex addict worthy of living a beautiful life, but he is also capable of doing so. If you struggle with addiction, or have ever done so, this segment is for you. Be warned, though. This segment is straight-forward and hard-hitting. It is NOT for the weak of heart. This segment is for the individual who is ready to do the hard work that it takes to break free from addictive cycles. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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Mistress Alisa receives several messages of inquiry from men who identify as Dominant. In this segment, she explains why she has, thus far, refused to work with such individuals. This is the story of Mistress Alisa and the "dominant" male who inspired this segment. It is also an invitation for any truly Dominant males in the lifestyle to reach out to Mistress Alisa. She would love to hear from you! For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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This podcast was inspired by yet another real-life situation. Mistress Alisa talks about the patterns that a specific client has found himself in for over 2 decades. She uses this case study to help shine a light on the decisions and behaviors that keep people going in cycles that they claim they want to break out of. If you find yourself in the midst of tumultuous relationship cycles, there is going to be a common denominator: you. Mistress Alisa helps talks about breaking dysfunctional cycles so that you can live the life that you want for yourself. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
In this segment, Mistress Alisa helps addicts to understand what to expect from counselors, as well as what addicts need to be able to expect from themselves. Addicts are required to work for their own freedom. The truth is that no one can "fix" you. This is your journey and others can support you, at best. But there is no one who can "fix" you or take all of your problems away. Consider the amount of time that you invested in getting yourself into a precarious situation. Now, expect to have to work even harder to get yourself out of that same situation. No one can fix or heal an addict. That responsibility is his own. The best anyone else can do is support the addict; hold him accountable; hold up the mirror; require honest interactions. But the fixing - or the healing - of the addict is up to the addict, himself. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
Secrets have consistently been one of the biggest issues that keep My clients from walking in freedom and from walking in their truth. Secrets, lies, manipulations, deceptions. They all belong to the same family of untruths. We are more aware of direct deceptions, however, and not as much attention is placed on the dangers of keepingsecrets. How to reveal your secrets, when to reveeal your secrets, and to whom your secrets should be revealed. I discuss these issues while also impressing upon the listener how important it is for addicts to not keep secrets. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
There are so many definitions of what a Dominatrix is and is not. Mistress Alisa challenges the status quo and introduces personal insights into what a healthy version of a Domme looks like. Mistress Alisa has made a name for herself in BDSM as a Dominatrix who helps Her clients to peace in the lifestyle. Her clients embrace and live their personal truths. Being a Dominatrix does not give one a license to be an immoral person. Being a Dominatrix is an honor and it requires a great deal of responsibility. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
The importance of "letting go" cannot be underestimated - both in life and in BDSM. Mistress Alisa explains what it means to let go, and for the first time She publicly recounts a precautionary tale of what happened when She was in a relationship with a wolf in sub's clothing. She explains how in letting go, She was able to find Her truth and move deeper into Her own destiny - which just happened to include creating her own brand of BDSM. Mistress Alisa warns that if you are so preoccupied with running and/or holding onto things from the past that you are not able to live your truth, and you are absolutely creating problems and not solutions for yourself. This will be an important message for those who find themselves stuck. If you would like to move forward, once and for all, then learning to let go is paramount. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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I received an email request today. On the surface, the message may seem simplistic in nature, but underneath the surface, the message is full of complexity. In this podcast, I delve into an answer that will shed light on what it takes to start to work one's way out of sexual addiction. The original email message: "Hello Mistress, I am a married man who seems to have a growing interest in blackmail. I started off just reading stories and then went to having cam sessions but not showing myself. Now I am on cam and have actually showed my face a few times but believe I have not gave out pertinent information. I'm afraid I am going to cross the line and regret my actions. No matter how hard I seem to try I can't seem to stay away." -xx For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
One of the most important things for a sex addict to be able to do is to identify when the voice of his addiction is speaking, as opposed to the voice of his truth. Determining which voice is speaking is a game-changer in the life of an addict. In this scenario the addict becomes accountable and he becomes empowered. Which voice does he want to listen to? Will he feed his destiny or his addiction? What is he missing? Where does he hurt? What is he afraid of? What kind of help does he need. Realizing that there are two voices fighting for the ear of the addict empowers the individual (the addict). He is much more likely to become enlightened about his own journey and to make healthier life decisions. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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Sex addicts as well as those who love them are oftentimes overwhelmed by the challenges that face addicts on the journey to recovery. It can be difficult to know what is going on in the mind of a sex addict, especially when he has become so accustomed to checking out mentally and emotionally that he, himself, is not fully aware of where he is on his journey. Understanding what to expect as an addict can go a long way to helping you to be better prepared for the journey ahead. What are the challenges that face you? How can you face these challenges and work through them more effectively? Mistress Alisa is here to help answer these questions. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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1 How To Know If You Are Ready For BDSM Counseling 34:00
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34:00If you struggle with , sex, or masturbation addictions, you may have considered getting counseling. This podcast will help you to know if you are, in fact, ready for that counseling. What does it take to receive support for addictions of a sexual nature? What frame of mind should one be in to receive said support? Though an unlicensed professional, Mistress Alisa is a leading expert in the field of BDSM Counseling. For those who are interested in seeking support for addictions of a sexual nature, this is what she has to say on the subject. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
Men seek assistance for sexual addiction everyday. They want to understand how they became addicted. They want to know if they can be helped, and if so, how? I received a question today that moved Me. After answering the individual's question, I decided to turn our interraction into a podcast. I hope that this will help someone. The question: "Hello mistress Alisa, I am a married man who fantasies about this lifestyle. I cannot get it out of my head and it has been affecting my sex life. Saw your page and I'd thought maybe you could offer a little bit of advice. Thank you in advance ma'am." - xx For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
Have you ever thought about what constitutes a submissive male? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online submissive males. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected individual is or is not a true submissive male (sub). Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what they may be doing incorrectly in their profiles and what may be preventing them from successfully connecting with true Dommes. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience. For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com…
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