Equilibrium Echoes podcast

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S3, Ep7 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Shiloh Minor delve into the complex topic of happiness in relationships. They explore the distinction between fleeting happiness and deeper contentment, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility in cultivating happiness. Shiloh shares insights on recognizing contributions in relationships, the impact of negative narratives, and the necessity of non-verbal communication. They discuss the courage required to open up after disconnection and the importance of building a fulfilling lifestyle. The conversation concludes with a focus on letting go of resentment and the critical role of validation in emotional healing. In this conversation, Shiloh Minor and Alyssa Decker explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on themes of victimhood, appreciation, communication, and self-worth. They discuss how women can break free from the cycle of victimhood by recognizing their power in relationships and the importance of appreciation in fostering connection. The conversation also delves into navigating sexual dynamics, reclaiming one's voice and boundaries, and the necessity of embracing change for personal growth. BIO Shiloh is a Magical Marriage Mentor. She helps smart women create soul-satisfying marriages without couples therapy using her proven Real-Love Method. Shiloh’s process creates passion and partnership so quickly that it feels like magic. She is passionate about guiding good women to break generational cycles of being emotionally neglected and taken for granted. She is honored to help determined women get the love, support, and affection that they truly need from the man they have already chosen. Shiloh loves gardening, sauna, and good conversation. She lives in rural Nova Scotia and takes pleasure in the simple things of life. Spending time with her husband and two small boys. Links: https://marriagewithpassion.com/happilymarried - Happily Married Woman Program Socials: https://www.facebook.com/shiloh.minor https://www.facebook.com/Shiloh.LoveYourMarriage/ https://www.instagram.com/shilohthelovecoach/ Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@shilohminorcoaching9040…

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How Emotions Get Stuck in Our Bodies 42:31

16 days ago42:31

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S3, Ep6 - In this episode of Equilibrium Echoes, host Alyssa Decker and energy healer Vanessa Dawn explore the intricate relationship between emotions and the body. They discuss how trapped emotions can manifest physically, the importance of recognizing and processing these emotions, and practical steps for listeners to connect with their bodies and release stored emotions. Vanessa shares her personal journey into energy healing, client experiences, and the significance of breathwork and mindfulness in emotional healing. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-compassion and understanding in the healing process, while also addressing the challenges posed by logic and the ego in emotional work. BIO Vanessa is a Certified Practitioner in the Emotion Code, Body Code, Belief Code, and Intuitive Rebirth, with training in Energetic Muscle Testing, Integrated Quantum Therapy, Western Astrology, and Trauma Informed Care. She offers one-to-one energy-shifting sessions and is creating a guide to help people connect with their own body and energy field through nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and self-reflection. Her vision for her business, Dawning Hope, is to let others know that even after the darkest night, the sun always rises, and the dawn brings new hope. https://www.dawninghope.net…

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Understanding Self-Sabotage and the Subconscious 47:46

23 days ago47:46

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S3, Ep5 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Andi Hess delve into the complexities of self-sabotage, exploring its roots in the subconscious mind and the protective mechanisms that drive it. They discuss the role of hypnosis in understanding and overcoming self-sabotage, emphasizing the importance of visualization and reparenting one's inner child. The conversation highlights how individuals can access their true desires and the significance of dreams as indicators of personal growth. In this conversation, Andi Hess and Alyssa Decker explore the profound impact of subconscious beliefs on personal growth and manifestation. They discuss the importance of understanding who we need to become to achieve our goals, the role of childhood conditioning in shaping our beliefs, and how to navigate emotional associations that hold us back. Through the lens of hypnosis and coaching, they emphasize the significance of allowing ourselves to dream and the power of reframing our narratives to align with our true desires. BIO Andi Hess is an award-winning Certified Hypnotherapist, Rapid Results Coach, and international speaker. With over 20 years of experience as a productivity consultant, corporate trainer, and organizational leadership professor, she has been featured on stages across the world. After checking off her entire bucket list by 37, Andi developed her signature Be Limitless formula for achieving anything you want. Inspired by the belief that everyone already has what they need within them, Andi is dedicated to helping women remix their lives and achieve the extraordinary. www.remixcoach.com…

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Reclaiming Yourself: How to End Destructive Relationship Cycles 43:50

30 days ago43:50

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S2, Ep4 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Tina Djuretic explore the cycles of relationships, particularly focusing on the impact of childhood trauma and generational patterns. Tina shares her personal journey through abusive relationships and the insights she gained about herself and her family dynamics. The discussion delves into the importance of understanding one's past to break free from toxic cycles and the role of forgiveness in healing. Tina emphasizes the significance of self-discovery and the spiritual awakening that can arise from confronting painful experiences. In this conversation, Tina shares her profound journey of self-discovery and healing during a time of isolation. She discusses the importance of writing as a therapeutic tool, the significance of understanding and healing the inner child, and the necessity of reprogramming the subconscious mind. Tina emphasizes the value of embracing triggers as opportunities for growth and the transformative power of self-love in attracting healthier relationships. BIO Tina Djuretic is a Canadian author living in Vancouver. She was raised by strict, religious parents who isolated her from the rest of the world. What followed were three toxic relationships that nearly killed her. After her last breakup she sought help in the form of a channeller, who sent her on her path of healing. While writing her memoir she was able to find forgiveness; both for herself and her abusers. This process taught her a lot about generational trauma, gaslighting, narcissists, and putting up healthy boundaries. It's Tina's goal to share her story with anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation, and to educate people on the subject of toxic relationships, healing, spirituality, and not just surviving...but THRIVING. Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-My-Sovereignty-Memoirs-Empath/dp/1068956402 Author website: https://www.sovereignandsage.com…

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Creating Connections Through Storytelling 52:09

5 weeks ago52:09

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S3, Ep3 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and JD explore the significance of storytelling in emotional health and the importance of connection in our lives. JD shares his journey in founding a mental health ecosystem and emphasizes the power of sharing personal stories as a means of healing. They discuss the challenges of meaningful communication in the age of social media, the impact of negative reactions, and the necessity of intentionality in fostering connections. The conversation also touches on the difficulties of making friends as adults and the importance of being open to conversations, even in moments of isolation. In this engaging conversation, J.D. and Alyssa explore the nuances of human connection, from navigating awkward conversations to the simplicity of childhood friendships. They discuss the importance of curiosity and openness in adult interactions, the transformative power of storytelling, and the shared humanity that binds us all. The dialogue emphasizes the need for active listening and vulnerability, highlighting how small moments of connection can lead to profound emotional health benefits. BIO J.D. is a husband and father of two. He is the founder of the mental health ecosystem, Fragile Moments, which seeks to create the tools and community for the mind that advances the conversation toward one of healing. His to-the-point content is all in the name of amplifying the mental illness conversation through storytelling and connecting with human beings on an authentic level.…

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The Secret Sauce to Thriving (Not Just Surviving) in Relationships 48:24

6 weeks ago48:24

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S3, Ep2 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Rebecca Thomas explore the multifaceted concept of emotional intelligence, discussing its significance in personal relationships and self-awareness. They delve into the challenges individuals face in recognizing and expressing their emotions, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for empowerment rather than taking on the emotional burdens of others. Through practical examples and insights, they highlight how understanding and harnessing emotional intelligence can lead to more authentic living and healthier relationships. In this conversation, Rebecca Thomas and Alyssa Decker explore the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries, the connection between boundaries and self-trust, and the role of internal conversations in emotional intelligence. They discuss practical tips for fostering self-awareness and emotional growth, emphasizing the need for kindness towards oneself and the impact of our internal dialogue on our overall well-being. BIO For more than 20 years Rebecca has been helping people break through obstacles that seem to be holding them back in life. With her high energy, contagious confidence, and natural ability to lead, she’s been teaching women how to show up for themselves in BIG, unapologetic ways. Her clients reclaim their power, live intentionally, and do so THEIR way, making their own rules as they go. LINKS: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MarieOfVenus Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MarieOfVenus LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marieofvenus/ Website: https://www.marieofvenus.com/ Community Pilot Program goes live in January.…

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Raising Resilient Kids: Helping Children Manage Anxiety 47:12

7 weeks ago47:12

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S3, Ep1 - In this episode of Equilibrium Echoes, host Alyssa Decker speaks with Michelle Blais, an expert on anxiety in children and founder of the Raising Resilience Program. They discuss the intertwined nature of anxiety and resilience in children, exploring how anxiety manifests differently in kids compared to adults, the importance of building resilience, and practical strategies for parents to help their children navigate anxiety. The conversation emphasizes the significance of modeling resilience, recognizing stress patterns, and creating a supportive environment for children to learn from failures. In this conversation, Michelle Blais discusses the importance of embracing the learning process for children, emphasizing that mistakes are growth opportunities. She highlights the significance of understanding anxiety in children and how parents can support their kids through small, intentional changes in language and behavior. Michelle shares practical tips for parents to model resilience and emotional regulation, fostering a supportive environment for their children's development. BIO Michelle Blais is a passionate elementary school teacher with over 17 years of experience working with children from grades 1-5. Drawing on her background in psychology, her mission is to instill confidence and resilience in children by helping them develop a growth mindset. A self-proclaimed “recovering perfectionist”, she has used the very strategies that she teaches her students to completely transform her own mindset and regulate her nervous system. Michelle now dedicates herself to empowering parents with these proven techniques, believing that parents play the most crucial role in fostering sustainable, long-term mindset changes in their children. Self-Regulation Video Toolbox This fun, step-by-step video toolbox offers a variety of calming, regulating strategies for your child to choose from when they are feeling anxious or nervous. Watch the video together with your child as a part of your daily routine so that they can integrate the strategies. Link: https://www.misschellemindset.com/selfregvideo…

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Let's Talk Food: Relationship or Situationship? 39:45

19 weeks ago39:45

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S2, Ep18 - In this episode, Alyssa Decker and Angel Luk discuss the intricate relationship between nutrition and mental wellness. They explore how emotional eating manifests, the societal role of food in celebrations, and the impact of childhood messages on adult eating habits. The conversation emphasizes the importance of mindfulness, practical meal planning, and creative solutions for busy parents. Angel shares insights on recognizing unhealthy patterns, shifting mindsets, and the significance of treating oneself with care. The episode concludes with resources for listeners to connect with Angel and access helpful tools for their wellness journey. Bio: Angel Luk, RD, is a dietitian featured in HuffPost, Yahoo!, Newsweek, DailyMail.co.uk , MedicalNewsToday.com , and Reader’s Digest, with 129+ interviews and talks. Since 2012, she has transformed the health of thousands of clients—from elite athletes at the Richmond Olympic Oval to bariatric weight loss surgery patients. Her two books are endorsed by New York Times bestselling authors, and she has spoken at conferences like the BC College of Family Physicians. She co-founded TeamVIPMoms.com to help new moms confidently navigate feeding and self-care, and provide a supportive, no-judgment, safe space—all without the overwhelm of conflicting information online. Main website: https://www.FoodMysteries.com Free resource: https://www.FoodMysteries.com/hidden-forces Download "Hidden Forces Manipulating Your Eating -FoodMysteries.com.pdf…

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Detaching From What People Say 51:37

20 weeks ago51:37

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S2, Ep17 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Elizabeth Soto-Bias explore the importance of detaching from other people's opinions, especially in the context of personal challenges like divorce. They discuss how societal expectations and personal beliefs can impact mental health and relationships, and emphasize the need for self-acceptance and understanding one's own value. The conversation also touches on the concept of projection and how others' judgments often stem from their own experiences rather than reflecting reality. In this conversation, Elizabeth and Alyssa delve into the complexities of emotional responses, the impact of past experiences on current feelings, and the importance of taking responsibility for one's emotions. They explore the journey of healing triggers, the challenges of people pleasing, and the tools available for self-discovery and emotional health. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding one's reactions, the role of coaching and support, and the empowerment that comes from detaching from others' opinions. BIO: Elizabeth Soto-Baez (bye-ez) is a transformational & mastery-certified Women’s Empowerment Coach, published author, & trauma-informed breathwork facilitator. She works with women in their 30’s and 40’s who have lost their identity, self-worth & passion for life. After losing herself in a 13-year marriage, numbing out, and moving through life as a robot, Elizabeth now desires to draw women back to themselves. She works alongside them helping build the lines of communication within, igniting self-love so they can create their next best life. You can find Elizabeth at launchyourlifecoaching.com . Her email is elizabeth@launchyourlifecoaching.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/launch.your.life.coaching/ https://www.launchyourlifecoaching.com/free-breathwork-guide…

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Escaping From Narcissistic Abuse 40:53

21 weeks ago40:53

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S2, Ep16 - In this episode of Equilibrium Echoes, host Alyssa Decker and guest Mia Hanks delve into the complexities of narcissism and narcissistic abuse. Mia shares her personal journey of surviving a 29-year marriage to a covert narcissist, highlighting the subtle red flags, the impact of gaslighting on identity, and the challenges of leaving such a relationship. They discuss the importance of recognizing the signs of narcissism, the misconceptions surrounding the term, and the emotional turmoil faced by victims. The conversation emphasizes the need for validation and understanding in the healing process, as well as the mental struggles involved in breaking free from an abusive relationship. In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Mia Hanks discuss the complexities of narcissistic abuse, the importance of recognizing and accepting the reality of abusive relationships, and the necessity of having a support system in place. They emphasize the need for commitment to healing, the role of therapy, and the importance of being a safe person for those in abusive situations. Mia shares her personal journey and offers resources for those seeking help, including therapy and legal advice. Bio-- Mia Hanks is a survivor of narcissistic abuse. Mia was married to a covert narcissist for 29 years and she has recently published a memoir about her experiences called Bride-Made: A Memoir. Mia is passionate about raising awareness about narcissism and helping other victims find their voices. IG handle- npd.andme TikTok handle- @npdandme…

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How to Have Hard Conversations 50:42

22 weeks ago50:42

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S2, Ep15 - In this conversation, Alyssa Decker and Emily Hawkins delve into the intricacies of having hard conversations, exploring personal experiences, the impact of assumptions, and practical strategies for effective communication. Emily shares her journey from a corporate leader to a fractional COO, emphasizing the importance of clarity and understanding in conversations. They discuss the nature of conflict, the significance of asking the right questions, and how to approach difficult discussions with empathy and openness. In this conversation, Emily Hawkins and Alyssa Decker explore the intricacies of communication, particularly in conflict situations. They discuss the importance of asking the right questions to unlock deeper conversations, the significance of listening to understand rather than to respond, and how to navigate challenges in relationships. The dialogue emphasizes building trust, managing internal narratives, and embracing different perspectives to foster healthier interactions. BIO: Emily Hawkins is a seasoned business leader and the creator of LeaderSHIFT where Emily guides small business owners to implement strategies that not only keep more money in their businesses but also foster lasting success and growth. With over 15 years of experience in the corporate world—where she led teams, streamlined processes, and saved millions for large organizations— Emily made the pivotal decision in 2017 to leave the corporate sector and dedicate herself to helping small businesses thrive through her innovative approach. Equipped with a Supply Chain degree from the University of Tennessee, an MBA in Global Business from Georgia Tech, and a Robbins-Madanes life coaching certification, Emily has successfully coached over 2,500 individuals and business owners, guiding them to unlock their potential. Emily’s expertise and impact have earned her recognition, including being featured in Forbes in 2020 for her groundbreaking work. Emily believes meaningful changes in a business don’t require a fancy degree or technical know-how—just a healthy sense of curiosity and a willingness to adapt. @emilyhawkins4u https://www.emilyhawkins4u.com emily.hawkins@emilyhawkins4u.co m…

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The Stories We Tell Ourselves 45:23

23 weeks ago45:23

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S2, Ep14 - In this episode, Alyssa Decker interviews Tina Sasso, a holistic wellness health coach, about the stories we tell ourselves and our internal dialogue. They discuss how these stories and beliefs affect our lives and what we can do to change them. Tina shares her personal journey of healing and replacing the belief that she is not good enough with the truth of her worth. They also explore the importance of mindset and identity in achieving long-term health goals and how to uncover the root causes of self-sabotage. The conversation emphasizes the need for curiosity, faith, and self-awareness in transforming our internal narratives. In this conversation, Tina and Alyssa discuss the importance of self-care, self-reflection, and self-compassion. They explore the impact of negative self-talk and the power of reframing our thoughts and beliefs. They also touch on the concept of the four tendencies from Gretchen Rubin's book, 'The Four Tendencies,' which explores different motivations and accountability structures. The conversation emphasizes the need to prioritize self-care and self-love in order to have the capacity to care for others. They provide practical steps for starting small and gradually building self-care habits. As a Nurse Practitioner and Holistic Wellness Health Coach, as well as a Survivor of Relationship Trauma, Tina is passionate about empowering Women Survivors of Relationship Trauma and/or Addiction. Her mission is to help them take charge of their health, boost their energy and confidence, and achieve their optimal health and life goals through the utilization of Faith, Mindset/Identity, Mindfulness, Gratitude, Self-love/Self-care, Healthy Boundaries, Accountability, and Consistent healthy habits. All nurturing the path of letting go of what doesn’t serve and embracing all that does. This is facilitated through a private Facebook community called "Tina Sasso-Love Your Health," a 90-minute Health Audit session, a 10-day natural detox challenge called “Shred10 Challenge”, a 12-week personalized 1:1 Health Coaching program, and a customized Small Group Health Coaching program. Once someone signs up with the lead magnet I will have an upcoming newsletter (Nov 2024 is the goal) with information/invitation to join the Shred10 Challenge. https://tina-sasso-np-holistic-wellness-health-coach.ck.page/fb20087909…

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Relationships Are Hard... and Other Lies I Believed 30:05

24 weeks ago30:05

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S2, Ep13 - In this episode of Equilibrium Echoes, Alyssa Decker discusses her upcoming book, 'Relationships Are Hard and Other Lies I Believed.' She explores the complexities of relationships, emphasizing that while they require work, they should not be hard all the time. Alyssa shares insights on emotional safety, the importance of boundaries, and the dynamics of healthy versus unhealthy relationships. She highlights the significance of repair after conflicts and encourages listeners to seek help if their relationships feel overwhelmingly difficult. The episode concludes with a preview of her book and an invitation to join the waitlist for a free copy. Hi, I'm Alyssa. So happy to meet ya! Your journey through difficult relationships is tough. I know, because I’ve been there. It took me a few years to figure out how to show up to my most challenging relationships the way I wanted to (with confidence and peace). Now, I’m here to help you make the same shift, in far less time. I know from experience that what is happening in your relationship might not be your fault at all. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t change it. You can change so many things simply by learning the skills of navigating these relationships… and oftentimes, the relationship changes when you change how you are showing up. I am a certified life coach, with additional education in CBT and NLP. Learning is always useful, but when combined with life experience, it’s a game changer. I’m excited to join you on your journey into peace, healing, and resolve! coachingwithalyssa.com https://alyssadecker.com/podcast https://www.facebook.com/Equilibrium.Echoes/ https://www.instagram.com/coachingwithalyssa614/ https://www.instagram.com/equilibriumechoespodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EquilibriumEchoes614 Book Wait List https://coachingwithalyssa.com/book-wait Launch Team https://coachingwithalyssa.com/launch-team…

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You Are NOT Responsible for Their Emotions 40:46

25 weeks ago40:46

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S2, Ep12 - In this episode, Alyssa Decker shares insights from her new book, 'Relationships Are Hard and Otherwise I Believed.' She discusses the burden of feeling responsible for others' emotions, the exhaustion that comes with managing those feelings, and the importance of allowing oneself and others to experience pain as a part of growth. Alyssa emphasizes the need for self-care and empowerment, encouraging listeners to focus on their own emotional well-being rather than trying to control the emotions of those around them. Hi, I'm Alyssa. So happy to meet ya! Your journey through difficult relationships is tough. I know, because I’ve been there. It took me a few years to figure out how to show up to my most challenging relationships the way I wanted to (with confidence and peace). Now, I’m here to help you make the same shift, in far less time. I know from experience that what is happening in your relationship might not be your fault at all. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t change it. You can change so many things simply by learning the skills of navigating these relationships… and oftentimes, the relationship changes when you change how you are showing up. I am a certified life coach, with additional education in CBT and NLP. Learning is always useful, but when combined with life experience, it’s a game changer. I’m excited to join you on your journey into peace, healing, and resolve! coachingwithalyssa.com https://alyssadecker.com/podcast https://www.facebook.com/Equilibrium.Echoes/ https://www.instagram.com/coachingwithalyssa614/ https://www.instagram.com/equilibriumechoespodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EquilibriumEchoes614…

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Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Addiction 53:51

26 weeks ago53:51