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08. Are You Actually Living Your Own Life? How to Untangle From External Expectations

6 days ago 20:11

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity! Today, we’re diving into an essential question: Are you truly living your life, or are you unconsciously following a script written by others?

We all absorb expectations from family, culture, and society, sometimes without even realizing it. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a life that doesn’t quite fit or that you're making choices to please others rather than yourself, this episode is for you. Jennifer unpacks why this happens and how you can start making choices that align with your truth.

In this episode, Jennifer covers:

✅ How to recognize when you’re living according to external expectations
✅ The role of cultural and family conditioning in shaping your choices
✅ Why your body often knows the truth before your mind catches up
✅ How to start identifying what you truly want
✅ Practical steps to begin making aligned choices with confidence

Resources:

Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business)
3D Authenticity (Jennifer’s small group coaching program)
Connect with Jennifer on Instagram/Threads: @lifescapevisionary
Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com

Join the mailing list! (Sign up and receive Jennifer’s free Stay True To You Reflection Journal—your perfect companion for this journey!)

Action Steps for You

Mini-Challenge: This week, swap “I should” for “I choose to” or “I want to” and notice how it shifts your perspective.

Reflection Prompt: Think of a major life decision you’ve made—was it truly your choice, or did outside expectations play a role? How would you approach it differently today?
Join the Journey:

If you’re ready to break free from the weight of external expectations and start living your life, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more deep dives into self-worth, values, and authenticity—especially for highly sensitive people—in upcoming episodes!

Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life tailor-made for YOU. 💜💚

Send us a text

Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.

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08. Are You Actually Living Your Own Life? How to Untangle From External Expectations

3D Authenticity

published 6 days ago

MP3•Episode home

Welcome back to 3D Authenticity! Today, we’re diving into an essential question: Are you truly living your life, or are you unconsciously following a script written by others?

In this episode, Jennifer covers:

Resources:

Join the mailing list! (Sign up and receive Jennifer’s free Stay True To You Reflection Journal—your perfect companion for this journey!)

Action Steps for You

Mini-Challenge: This week, swap “I should” for “I choose to” or “I want to” and notice how it shifts your perspective.

Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life tailor-made for YOU. 💜💚

Send us a text

Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.

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08. Are You Actually Living Your Own Life? How to Untangle From External Expectations 20:11

6 days ago20:11

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity ! Today, we’re diving into an essential question: Are you truly living your life, or are you unconsciously following a script written by others? We all absorb expectations from family, culture, and society, sometimes without even realizing it. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a life that doesn’t quite fit or that you're making choices to please others rather than yourself, this episode is for you. Jennifer unpacks why this happens and how you can start making choices that align with your truth. In this episode, Jennifer covers: ✅ How to recognize when you’re living according to external expectations ✅ The role of cultural and family conditioning in shaping your choices ✅ Why your body often knows the truth before your mind catches up ✅ How to start identifying what you truly want ✅ Practical steps to begin making aligned choices with confidence Resources: Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business) 3D Authenticity (Jennifer’s small group coaching program) Connect with Jennifer on Instagram/Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com Join the mailing list! (Sign up and receive Jennifer’s free Stay True To You Reflection Journal —your perfect companion for this journey!) Action Steps for You Mini-Challenge: This week, swap “I should” for “I choose to” or “I want to” and notice how it shifts your perspective. Reflection Prompt: Think of a major life decision you’ve made—was it truly your choice, or did outside expectations play a role? How would you approach it differently today? Join the Journey: If you’re ready to break free from the weight of external expectations and start living your life, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more deep dives into self-worth, values, and authenticity—especially for highly sensitive people—in upcoming episodes! Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life tailor-made for YOU. 💜💚 Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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07. Authenticity Fatigue: Why Being Real Can Feel Exhausting (and What to Do About It) 27:28

13 days ago27:28

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity! In today’s episode, we’re diving into a challenge that many of us face on the path to living authentically – Authenticity Fatigue . We’re told that being real, showing up as our true selves, and embracing authenticity will lead to a more fulfilling life. But what happens when that pursuit starts to feel exhausting? If you’ve ever felt drained by the pressure to be ‘real’ all the time or struggled with the emotional labor of authenticity, this episode is for you. Jennifer breaks down why this happens and, more importantly, how to navigate authenticity without burnout. In this episode, Jennifer covers: ✅ What Authenticity Fatigue is and why it happens ✅ The emotional toll of constantly striving to be real ✅ How cultural narratives push us to be ‘on’ all the time ✅ Why self-compassion and boundaries are crucial in maintaining authenticity ✅ Practical strategies to sustain authenticity without depleting yourself Resources: 3D Authenticity (Jennifer’s small group coaching program) Connect with Jennifer on Instagram/Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com Join the mailing list! (Sign up and receive Jennifer’s free Stay True To You Reflection Journal – your perfect companion for this journey!) Action Steps for You: Mini-Challenge: Identify one area in your life where you feel the pressure to be ‘authentic’ in a way that drains you. This week, give yourself permission to step back and practice authenticity in a way that feels sustainable. Reflection Prompt: Think about a time when you felt exhausted from trying to ‘be real.’ What expectations were you placing on yourself? What would it look like to be authentic while also honoring your energy? Join the Journey: If you’re ready to embrace authenticity in a way that truly serves you, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more deep dives into self-worth, values, and authenticity —especially for highly sensitive people —in upcoming episodes! Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life that honors YOU. 💜💚 Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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06. The Highly Sensitive Person's Struggle for Authenticity 26:10

20 days ago26:10

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity ! In today’s episode, Jennifer dives into the unique challenges faced by Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) on the path to living authentically. If you identify as someone who feels everything deeply, or if you've ever wondered why certain environments and situations drain you more than others, this episode is for you. Jennifer explores how being highly sensitive impacts the journey of alignment and authenticity, and how HSPs can navigate this path with grace and self-compassion. In this episode, Jennifer covers: ✅ What it means to be a Highly Sensitive Person ✅ Unique challenges HSPs face in living authentically ✅ How HSPs can harness their sensitivity as a superpower in their authentic expression ✅ How the Wayfinder Practices of Radical Acceptance, Boundaries, Welcoming All Feelings, and Mindfulness work together to support HSP Authenticity ✅ Practical tools and reflections to help HSPs align with their true selves in a world that feels overwhelming at times Resources: Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business) Connect with Jennifer on Instagram/Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron (The OG on HSP's!) Susan Cain Brené Brown Action Steps for You: Mini-Challenge: This week, take a moment each day to check in with yourself. Ask: "What am I feeling right now?" "Is this my own emotion or someone else’s?" "How can I honor my sensitivity in this moment?" Reflection Prompt: Think about a time when you felt overwhelmed or disconnected from your true self. How did your sensitivity play a role, and how might you approach that situation differently with greater awareness? Join the Journey: If you're ready to embrace your sensitivity and start showing up authentically, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more insights into authenticity, self-compassion, and aligning with your true self in upcoming episodes! Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life tailor-made for YOU. 💜💚 Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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05. Mindfulness Isn't What You Think – And That's The Point! 19:59

27 days ago19:59

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity! In today’s episode, Jennifer dives into the practice that is essential for living authentically – Mindfulness. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck in your head, or like life is passing you by while you're worrying about the past or future, this episode is for you. Jennifer explores how mindfulness isn’t just about meditation or relaxation, but rather a powerful tool for showing up authentically moment by moment. In this episode, Jennifer covers: ✅ What mindfulness really is ✅ The three key components of mindfulness: Awareness, Non-Judgment, and Presence ✅ How mindfulness helps reduce stress, anxiety, and autopilot living ✅ Why mindfulness is the foundation for all the other Wayfinder Practices ✅ A simple mindfulness check-in you can practice anytime, anywhere Resources: Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business) Connect with Jennifer on Instagram/Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com Tara Brach Jon Kabat-Zinn Action Steps for You: Mini-Challenge: Try a mindfulness check-in this week! Take a deep breath and ask yourself: What is happening in this exact moment? What do I feel, physically and emotionally? What am I resisting or judging right now? Reflection Prompt: Think about a time when you were lost in your thoughts or distracted by the past or future. How could mindfulness have helped you be more present in that moment? Join the Journey: If you’re ready to start living with more clarity and presence, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more insights into mindfulness, self-compassion, authenticity, and the Wayfinder Practices in upcoming episodes! Thank you for listening, and remember, you are one-of-a-kind and you deserve to live a that is life tailor-made for YOU. 💜💚 Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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04. Inner Critic Intervention: Calling Out Your Inner Bully 18:48

5 weeks ago18:48

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity ! In today’s episode, Jennifer tackles one of the biggest barriers to self-trust and confidence: the inner critic . You know that voice – the one that whispers (or shouts!) doubts, shame, and harsh criticism? It’s time to put it in its place. Jennifer shares how rewiring the inner critic allows you to step into self-acceptance and authentic living. You’ll learn why this voice exists, how it keeps you stuck, and most importantly, how to challenge and reframe its messages so you can finally move forward with courage. This episode covers: ✅ Why the inner critic develops and what fuels it ✅ The real reason it keeps showing up (and how it’s actually trying to help) ✅ How to identify and challenge your inner critic’s favorite scripts with the Wayfinder Practices of Thought Work and Self-Compassion ✅ A practical exercise to start shifting your self-talk today Resources: Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business) The “Thought Swap” Exercise for managing negative self-talk Self-Compassion by Dr. Kristin Neff (for deeper work on self-kindness) Action Steps for You: Pay attention to your inner critic’s go-to phrases —write them down. Challenge them: Ask yourself, Would I say this to a friend? If not, rewrite it with kindness. Try the "Thought Swap" exercise to separate your identity from your inner critic’s voice. Share your experience! Email Jennifer or connect on Instagram to let her know what resonated with you. Connect with Jennifer: Instagram & Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com Join the Journey: If you’re ready to quiet your inner critic and replace doubt with confidence, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more insights in the next episode! Thank you for listening, and remember: Your worth is not up for debate. You are enough exactly as you are. 💚💜 Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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03. Aligned and Unstoppable! The Power of Knowing Your Core Values 22:30

6 weeks ago22:30

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity! In today’s episode, Jennifer dives deep into the power of knowing and living by your core values. If you’ve ever struggled with second-guessing yourself, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or feeling disconnected from your true self, this episode will show you why clarity on your core values is essential for living authentically. Jennifer shares her personal journey of struggling with expectations, suppressing her true nature, and how understanding her values became the turning point in her life. She breaks down how core values serve as an internal compass, helping you make decisions with confidence and live a life that truly reflects who you are. This episode will cover: ✅ Why identifying your core values is crucial for authenticity and fulfillment ✅ How misalignment with your values leads to self-doubt and insecurity ✅ A step-by-step process to uncover and define your personal core values ✅ How to use your values to make decisions with clarity and confidence Resources Mentioned: Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business) Brene Brown’s List of Values Personal Values Assessment Connect with Jennifer on Instagram & Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com Action Steps for You: Reflect on what truly matters to you and start a list of potential core values. Use the step-by-step process shared in this episode to refine and clarify your top 5-7 values. Start applying these values to your daily life—use them as a guide when making decisions. Share your core values with Jennifer! Email her or connect on Instagram to continue the conversation. Join the Journey: If you’re ready to start making decisions with clarity, confidence and alignment, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more insights in the next episode! Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life that reflects your true self! Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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02. People Pleasing Detox! How to Finally Break Free & Live Authentically 22:16

7 weeks ago22:16

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Welcome back to 3D Authenticity! In today’s episode, we’re tackling a huge roadblock to living authentically— people-pleasing. If you’ve ever found yourself saying yes when you want to say no, avoiding conflict at all costs, or constantly seeking validation from others, this episode is for you. Jennifer shares her personal journey of breaking free from people-pleasing and gives you practical steps to start showing up for yourself with confidence. In this episode, Jennifer covers: ✅ What people-pleasing is and why it’s so hard to stop ✅ How people-pleasing drains your energy and keeps you stuck ✅ Shifting your relationship with discomfort ✅ Two Wayfinder Practices to help you move away from people-pleasing: Mindfulness & Boundaries ✅ The crucial role of core values in breaking free from the cycle Resources: Lifescape Visionary Coaching (Jennifer’s business) Connect with Jennifer on Instagram/Threads: @lifescapevisionary Email: lifescapevisionary@gmail.com Action Steps for You: Mini-Challenge: Identify one area in your life where you tend to people-please. Set one small boundary this week—say no to something that doesn’t serve you or speak up in a conversation where you usually stay silent. Reflection Prompt: Think about a time when you put others' needs before your own. How did it make you feel? Write it down and consider what you would do differently next time. Join the mailing list: Newsletter Sign-Up ( Sign up and receive Jennifer’s free Stay True To You Reflection Journal—your perfect companion for this journey! ) Join the Journey: If you’re ready to stop people-pleasing and start living a life that reflects your true self, hit subscribe and stay tuned for more deep dives into authenticity, figuring out your core values, self-worth, and authenticity for the highly sensitive person in upcoming episodes! Thank you for listening, and remember: You are one of a kind, and you deserve to live a life tailor-made for YOU. 💜💚 Send us a text Know who you are. Love who you are. Live who you are.…

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