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S5 - #11 Codependency Voices: Money Talks
Manage episode 405129409 series 3405162
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Money talks, as they say, and in this episode we hear about the financial dimensions of Brian's codependency. For most of his life, money was not a tool for Brian to express his values and achieve his life goals; instead, it was fuel for his codependent habits - people pleasing, caretaking, lack of boundaries. His financial codependency, not surprisingly, did not lead to financial health; it lead to debt, stress and shame. Recovering from codependency also involved a recovery from financial codependency and we explore what it took for Brian to form a new relationship to money, one that has taken him to solvency and beyond.
00:01:18 Codependency and Money
00:03:36 Financial Caretaking
00:05:38 Self-Centeredness in Financial Codependency
00:06:09 Throwing Money at Problems
00:10:09 Unveiling Financial Shame
00:10:37 Narcissistic Entitlement and Money
00:11:06 Facing Financial Resentment
00:12:48 Post-Divorce Financial Codependency
00:15:43 Using Money to Avoid Abuse
00:16:24 Financial Caretaking as a Coping Mechanism
00:17:12 Rationalizing Financial Decisions
00:18:52 Fear and Shame in Financial Choices
00:21:54 Overcoming Financial Codependency
00:25:17 Processing Financial Shame
00:30:22 Aligning Money with Life Goals
00:32:43 Conclusion and Book Announcement
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58 episodes
Manage episode 405129409 series 3405162
Buy the book now on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CYB1K31V
Money talks, as they say, and in this episode we hear about the financial dimensions of Brian's codependency. For most of his life, money was not a tool for Brian to express his values and achieve his life goals; instead, it was fuel for his codependent habits - people pleasing, caretaking, lack of boundaries. His financial codependency, not surprisingly, did not lead to financial health; it lead to debt, stress and shame. Recovering from codependency also involved a recovery from financial codependency and we explore what it took for Brian to form a new relationship to money, one that has taken him to solvency and beyond.
00:01:18 Codependency and Money
00:03:36 Financial Caretaking
00:05:38 Self-Centeredness in Financial Codependency
00:06:09 Throwing Money at Problems
00:10:09 Unveiling Financial Shame
00:10:37 Narcissistic Entitlement and Money
00:11:06 Facing Financial Resentment
00:12:48 Post-Divorce Financial Codependency
00:15:43 Using Money to Avoid Abuse
00:16:24 Financial Caretaking as a Coping Mechanism
00:17:12 Rationalizing Financial Decisions
00:18:52 Fear and Shame in Financial Choices
00:21:54 Overcoming Financial Codependency
00:25:17 Processing Financial Shame
00:30:22 Aligning Money with Life Goals
00:32:43 Conclusion and Book Announcement
Thank you for liking, reviewing and following our podcast. It helps other people find us.
58 episodes
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