5. Social Stigmas, Sub Drop, and D/s with Roommates

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This week, Lina takes on Society at Large! Hear her thoughts on how to navigate the social stigma around BDSM culture – especially turning those “oh, that’s not normal” comments into something more expansive and inclusive. Lina then digs into those shamey sub drop feels that society and culture have reinforced in our spongy brains and how to retrain your thoughts and be gentle with yourself in those moments. She’s also serving up a hot take on countering toxic positivity, especially in the sex-positive sodia media landscape. And finally, Lina reveals her secret of How to D/s Quietly! (Just kidding, there is no secret). Really though–cohabitating with adults and having a dynamic may seem tricky, but Lina gives her advice on how best go about this because spoiler alert, most people have sex and no matter what, you’re probably going to hear it–dynamic or not!

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Host, Producer - Lina Dune | Producer, Editor - Stella Hartmann |

Producer, Research - Caroline Stephens | Music - Dan Molad

Art by Kayleigh Denner