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Why You've Not Met Your Person - Matthew Hussey

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Sponsored by Hostinger. Go to https://www.hostinger.com/aliabdaal and use the code ALIABDAAL to get 10% off your own website and domain.

Sponsored by Grammarly - ⚡️ Sign up and download for FREE using my link http://grammarly.com/deepdive.

I’ve built a brand new community for like-minded people called Productivity Lab. We’ll have online classes, workshops, and coaching to help you double your productivity. You can find out more here 👉 https://eu1.hubs.ly/H08Gblz0

Check Out My New York Times Bestselling Book Feel-Good Productivity! 👉

Amazon https://geni.us/JFhDr5?utm_source=deepdive_audio&utm_medium=Description&utm_campaign=post_launch&utm_content=Matthew_hussey

Website https://www.feelgoodproductivity.com/?utm_source=deepdive_audio&utm_medium=Description&utm_campaign=post_launch&utm_content=Matthew_hussey

Matthew Hussey is one of the world's leading dating experts and a New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams.

In this interview turned coaching session we'll discuss his new book, "Love Life", the challenges of finding love, how to handle other people’s emotional responses and the importance of setting boundaries.

(00:00) Intro

(1:15) Welcome, Matthew

(4:05) Do men and women have the same challenges when looking for love?

(10:15) Can you choose who to be attracted to?

(17:06) “Life mountains”

(26:35) Question your instincts

(30:20) Masculine vs feminine energy

(37:40) Boundaries

(46:00) Parents vs partner

(1:00:17) Duty and obligation to parents

(1:11:40) Putting my needs first

(1:23:30) Being responsible for someone else’s feelings

(1:28:00) About finding love

🔗 CONNECT WITH MATTHEW

🎥 YouTube Channel

🐦 X ( Twitter )

📸 Instagram

💻 Website

👥 Linkedin

🔗 CONNECT WITH ALI

🎥 YouTube Channel

🐦 X ( Twitter )

📸 Instagram

💻 Website

👥 Linkedin

📚 RESOURCES MENTIONED
The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life - David Brooks

📄SHOW NOTES & TRANSCRIPT

Visit the website for the transcript and highlights from the conversation - https://aliabdaal.com/podcast/

🎙 ABOUT THE PODCAST

Deep Dive is the podcast that delves into the minds of entrepreneurs, creators and other inspiring people to uncover the philosophies, strategies and tools that help us live happier, healthier and more productive lives.

Want to start your own podcast? We use Transistor! https://go.aliabdaal.com/transistor

🎧 LISTEN FOR FREE

Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7gZkflC...

RSS - https://feeds.transistor.fm/deep-dive

🙏 LEAVE A REVIEW

If you enjoyed listening to the podcast, we'd love for you to leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts to help others discover the show :) https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...

👋🏼 GET IN TOUCH

You can also Tweet @AliAbdaal with any feedback, ideas or thoughts about the lessons you've learnt from the episodes and we can thank you personally for tuning in 🙏

PS: Some of the links in this description are affiliate links that I get a kickback from 😜

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Sponsored by YNAB - visit http://www.ynab.com/abdaal.

Sponsored by Hostinger. Go to https://www.hostinger.com/aliabdaal and use the code ALIABDAAL to get 10% off your own website and domain.

Sponsored by Grammarly - ⚡️ Sign up and download for FREE using my link http://grammarly.com/deepdive.

I’ve built a brand new community for like-minded people called Productivity Lab. We’ll have online classes, workshops, and coaching to help you double your productivity. You can find out more here 👉 https://eu1.hubs.ly/H08Gblz0

Check Out My New York Times Bestselling Book Feel-Good Productivity! 👉

Amazon https://geni.us/JFhDr5?utm_source=deepdive_audio&utm_medium=Description&utm_campaign=post_launch&utm_content=Matthew_hussey

Website https://www.feelgoodproductivity.com/?utm_source=deepdive_audio&utm_medium=Description&utm_campaign=post_launch&utm_content=Matthew_hussey

Matthew Hussey is one of the world's leading dating experts and a New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams.

In this interview turned coaching session we'll discuss his new book, "Love Life", the challenges of finding love, how to handle other people’s emotional responses and the importance of setting boundaries.

(00:00) Intro

(1:15) Welcome, Matthew

(4:05) Do men and women have the same challenges when looking for love?

(10:15) Can you choose who to be attracted to?

(17:06) “Life mountains”

(26:35) Question your instincts

(30:20) Masculine vs feminine energy

(37:40) Boundaries

(46:00) Parents vs partner

(1:00:17) Duty and obligation to parents

(1:11:40) Putting my needs first

(1:23:30) Being responsible for someone else’s feelings

(1:28:00) About finding love

🔗 CONNECT WITH MATTHEW

🎥 YouTube Channel

🐦 X ( Twitter )

📸 Instagram

💻 Website

👥 Linkedin

🔗 CONNECT WITH ALI

🎥 YouTube Channel

🐦 X ( Twitter )

📸 Instagram

💻 Website

👥 Linkedin

📚 RESOURCES MENTIONED
The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life - David Brooks

📄SHOW NOTES & TRANSCRIPT

Visit the website for the transcript and highlights from the conversation - https://aliabdaal.com/podcast/

🎙 ABOUT THE PODCAST

Deep Dive is the podcast that delves into the minds of entrepreneurs, creators and other inspiring people to uncover the philosophies, strategies and tools that help us live happier, healthier and more productive lives.

Want to start your own podcast? We use Transistor! https://go.aliabdaal.com/transistor

🎧 LISTEN FOR FREE

Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7gZkflC...

RSS - https://feeds.transistor.fm/deep-dive

🙏 LEAVE A REVIEW

If you enjoyed listening to the podcast, we'd love for you to leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts to help others discover the show :) https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast...

👋🏼 GET IN TOUCH

You can also Tweet @AliAbdaal with any feedback, ideas or thoughts about the lessons you've learnt from the episodes and we can thank you personally for tuning in 🙏

PS: Some of the links in this description are affiliate links that I get a kickback from 😜

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