Money, Sex & Power: The Untold Connection

Everyone's Talkin' Money

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Episode Description: Jessica B. Harris may have been born and raised in New York City, but she has Tennessee roots through her father and has spent much of her life split between homes in the Northeast and the South – specifically New Orleans. For more than fifty years, she has been a college professor, a writer, and a lecturer, and her many books have earned her a reputation as an authority on food of the African Diaspora, as well as a lifetime achievement award from the James Beard Foundation. A few years back, Netflix adapted her book, High on the Hog: A Culinary Journey from Africa to America , into a 4 part docuseries. And I’m very proud to say that she’s a longtime contributor to Southern Living with a regular column called The Welcome Table. This episode was recorded in the Southern Living Birmingham studios, and Sid and Jessica talked about her mother’s signature mac and cheese, the cast-iron skillet she’d be sure to save if ever her house were on fire, and her dear friend, the late New Orleans chef Leah Chase. For more info visit: southernliving.com/biscuitsandjam Biscuits & Jam is produced by : Sid Evans - Editor-in-Chief, Southern Living Krissy Tiglias - GM, Southern Living Lottie Leymarie - Executive Producer Michael Onufrak - Audio Engineer/Producer Jeremiah McVay - Producer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

about a year ago 39:29

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Money, sex, and power—three things we all think about but rarely talk about honestly. In this episode of the Unraveling Your Relationship with Money series, I’m joined by Kirsten Trammell, host of The Naked Connection podcast, to explore the deep emotional ties between these forces and how they shape our lives, relationships, and financial choices.

Why do we tie money to self-worth? How does financial power show up in relationships? What does money have to do with intimacy and control?

From childhood money wounds to gender roles, relationship power struggles, and the lies we tell ourselves about money, this episode goes deep. If you’ve ever felt shame about wanting more money, struggled to talk finances with your partner, or wondered why money conversations feel more intimate than sex, this is for you.

What You'll Learn

Why money fights in relationships aren’t really about money
How financial power impacts intimacy and connection
How gender roles influence money beliefs and how to unlearn them

Resources and Links

Subscribe to The Naked Connection podcast HERE

Preorder my book Unraveling Your Relationship with Money – the guide to ditching money shame and taking control. http://www.everyonestalkinmoney.com/book

Join the conversation on Instagram @shannahgame.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a review. The more we talk about money, the more power we take back.

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Money, Sex & Power: The Untold Connection

Everyone's Talkin' Money

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published about a year ago

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Why do we tie money to self-worth? How does financial power show up in relationships? What does money have to do with intimacy and control?

What You'll Learn

Why money fights in relationships aren’t really about money
How financial power impacts intimacy and connection
How gender roles influence money beliefs and how to unlearn them

Resources and Links

Subscribe to The Naked Connection podcast HERE

Preorder my book Unraveling Your Relationship with Money – the guide to ditching money shame and taking control. http://www.everyonestalkinmoney.com/book

Join the conversation on Instagram @shannahgame.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and leave a review. The more we talk about money, the more power we take back.

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Why You Overspend, Procrastinate, and Compare: 6 Money Biases That Are Sabotaging Your Financial Goals 32:45

3 days ago32:45

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You’ve got the budget app. You’re reading the personal finance books. You know what you should be doing with your money—so why does it still feel so hard to follow through? In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money , Shari breaks down six sneaky psychological biases that shape your money decisions without you even realizing it. From anchoring to optimism bias, these aren’t personal flaws—they’re predictable brain glitches. But once you spot them, you can stop them. You’ll walk away understanding: What anchoring bias is and why it makes that $100 dress feel like a steal (when it’s not) Why the fear of losing money feels worse than actually losing it—and how that keeps you stuck How your brain protects old money stories through confirmation bias Why instant gratification keeps winning, even when your future self is begging you to chill How optimism bias tricks you into thinking “next month” will magically fix everything Why social proof bias is fueling lifestyle creep—and what to do instead This is the episode that will make you pause mid-scroll, mid-spend, or mid-self-doubt and say, “Ohhhh, that’s what’s going on.” If any of these biases hit home, share the episode with a friend and DM Shari @everyonestalkinmoney to keep the conversation going Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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A Guide to Pricing Your Worth and Healing Your Money Mindset with The Biz Hippie: Scarlett Stanhope 53:29

6 days ago53:29

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Scarlett Stanhope, better known as The Biz Hippie, helps coaches, creatives, and conscious entrepreneurs heal their relationship with money and finally feel supported by their businesses. In this raw and powerful conversation, Scarlett opens up about the dark side of doing everything “right” financially—and how it nearly broke her. In this episode, we discuss: How childhood experiences shaped Scarlett’s perfectionism and money patterns Why saving without purpose is just another form of self-protection The real reason making more money doesn’t fix money problems How unspoken scarcity beliefs show up in your pricing, marketing, and sales calls Scarlett’s 3-part framework for identifying and healing money scarcity at its root How to align your pricing with your value (without fear, guilt, or second-guessing) Why “legit business owner energy” starts with knowing your numbers And how to balance intuitive money decisions with strategic action You’ll walk away learning: How to uncover and challenge your internal “scarcity seeds” Why being good at saving doesn’t always mean you’re good with money What “energetic alignment” has to do with pricing your services Why you might be repelling clients without even knowing it The difference between hustle energy and grounded abundance How to finally feel safe in your business—even during a slow month Follow Scarlett Stanhope and The Biz Hippie: Instagram: @scarlettthebizhippie Website: thebizhippie.com Let’s keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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From Broke to Empowered: Mindset Shifts, Money Habits, and Using Credit Wisely with Tiffany Grant, AFC® 50:10

7 days ago50:10

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Is feeling “broke” a mindset—or a money problem? In this eye-opening episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money , I’m joined by Tiffany Grant, AFC®, creator of Money Talk With Tiff and a nationally recognized voice in personal finance education. Tiffany gets honest about what it really takes to move from financial anxiety to clarity—and how to stop letting shame or unrealistic goals derail your progress. We talk about the emotional baggage we bring to our finances, the myths about debt and income that need to die already, and how a little creativity—hello, gamification—can completely change your budgeting experience. Tiffany also opens up about her own debt journey, including what happened when she didn’t hit her goal of being debt-free by 30—and why she now sees that as a win. If you’re tired of “six-figure salary” hype, comparison traps, or beating yourself up for not being perfect with money, this episode is the mindset reset you didn’t know you needed. You'll walk away with: A new perspective on what being “broke” really means Tactical ways to document and take inventory of your finances How self-talk impacts your money habits and confidence Why gamifying your budget could be the trick to staying consistent The power of redefining financial goals when life throws curveballs The difference between using credit as a tool versus as income Permission to ditch the shame and take small, intentional steps forward How to personalize your path to financial freedom Tips for questioning financial advice that doesn’t fit your life A reminder that kindness to yourself is key on this journey Resources + Connect with Tiffany: Website: moneytalkwitht.com Podcast: Money Talk With Tiff Instagram: @moneytalkwitht YouTube: Money Talk With Tiff Twitter: @moneytalkwitht TikTok: @moneytalkwitht Facebook: Money Talk With Tiff Pinterest: Money Talk With Tiff Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Minimalism Is a Mindset: How Decluttering Can Create Time, Wealth, and Emotional Freedom with Shira Gill 44:46

10 days ago44:46

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Minimalism isn’t about cold white walls, tossing your kid’s favorite toys when they’re not looking, or never buying another throw pillow again. It’s about being radically intentional with your space, your time, and your money — and learning how to clear what’s cluttering your life, both physically and emotionally. In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money , Shari sits down with globally recognized home organizing expert and bestselling author Shira Gill , whose books Minimalista , Organized Living , and LifeStyled have transformed how people across the world think about clutter. Together, they unpack what minimalism really looks like (hint: it’s not about deprivation), how to raise kids who value their things without hoarding them, and how simplifying your home can lead to greater financial confidence, more time, and more freedom . Whether your kitchen counter is your current catch-all or your closet is basically a time capsule, this episode will help you get unstuck and start fresh — no color-coded labels required. In this episode, we discuss: How minimalism is actually about radical intention, not restriction Shira’s "one in, one out" rule that keeps chaos in check The hidden emotional and financial costs of clutter How disorganization leads to overbuying, time scarcity, and missed bills Simple organizing systems you can implement today (hello, action basket!) Why letting go of items can actually create abundance How to involve kids in the decluttering process without the meltdowns The connection between a clean space and better decisions — even with food and money You’ll walk away with: An empowering definition of minimalism that doesn’t require a beige aesthetic One simple habit to stop the clutter before it starts Why the “one in, one out” rule is a game-changer — especially with kids How clutter leads to overbuying, time stress, and even financial disorganization The emotional cost of keeping stuff “just in case” How to set up an action basket and donation system that creates instant relief Why getting organized boosts confidence, wellness, and even helps you eat better How to finally let go of items you think you might sell — without guilt Learn more about Shira Check out her bestselling books: Minimalista Organized Living LifeStyled Follow Shira on Instagram: @shiragill Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow Everyone’s Talkin’ Money on Instagram: @everyonestalkinmoney Visit everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com for more episodes, resources, and to join our email list! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Why Your Brain is Hardwired to Make Bad Money Decisions – And How to Rewire It with Hanna Horvath 47:13

12 days ago47:13

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Why do we keep making money decisions that go against our best interests? In this episode, I’m sitting down with Hanna Horvath, Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) and financial psychology expert, to unpack why our brains are literally wired to sabotage our financial goals—and what we can do to change that. Hanna shares powerful insights from her work as the creator of “Your Brain on Money,” explaining how cognitive biases like loss aversion and decision fatigue impact everything from investing to impulse spending. We also dive into why more money doesn’t automatically equal more peace, how to align your financial habits with your core values, and practical strategies to work with your brain rather than against it. Plus, Hanna reveals the simple mindset shifts that can help you spend without guilt, stop financial perfectionism in its tracks, and finally break free from those unconscious money scripts that are keeping you stuck. You’ll hear: Why our brains are wired to make terrible financial decisions The connection between money anxiety and identity How to set up financial guardrails that align with your values The role of decision fatigue in impulsive spending How to separate self-worth from net worth You’ll walk away knowing: Our brains are hardwired to make poor money choices. Loss aversion can lead to irrational financial behaviors. Understanding the emotional aspects of money is crucial. Automating financial decisions can reduce decision fatigue. Creating guardrails helps in making better financial choices. The digital age has made spending frictionless and impulsive. Investing can feel less tangible and more emotional than spending. Self-compassion is key in financial decision-making. Recognizing the disconnect between financial reality and emotions is important. Labeling oneself as 'bad with money' can be counterproductive. Practice self-compassion in financial behavior. Financial habits are a journey, not a destination. Social media heightens financial anxiety. Follow Hanna for more financial psychology insights. https://yourbrainonmoney.substack.com/ Website: https://www.hannahorvath.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourbrain_onmoney/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@yourbrainonmoney LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hanna-riley-horvath/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourbrainonmoney Don’t forget to follow us @everyonestalkinmoney for more money mindset content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Untangle Your Identity from Your Finances: The Separation Process (Part 2) 31:21

14 days ago31:21

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Welcome to Part 2 of one of the most important and personal episodes of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money. In Part 1, we exposed the damaging belief that your self-worth is tied to your net worth—and now, it’s time to do something about it. In this episode, I walk you through my four-part Separation Process—a framework to help you shift from financial shame to clarity, resilience, and empowerment. You’ll learn how to rewire the way you see yourself in relation to money, so you can stop letting your bank balance dictate your self-esteem and finally take back your financial power. You’ll walk away with: The Separation Process:Step 1 – Separate the Math from the Meaning. Learn how to treat your finances as data—not a moral scorecard—so you can make money decisions without shame. Step 2 – Inventory Your Non-Financial Value. Make a list of 10 ways you add value to the world that have nothing to do with money—and keep it close for tough days. Step 3 – Redefine Success on Your Terms. Ditch society’s hustle metric and reimagine what success looks like when it aligns with your values. Step 4 – Practice Compassionate Reality. Handle financial challenges with truth and grace, so you're solving problems—not attacking your own self-worth. Plus: The Worth Resume – a powerful tool to track the value you bring to the world that’s not on a spreadsheet Self-Worth Buffers – five daily practices that build emotional resilience and protect your identity from financial stress Real-Life Scenarios – practical scripts and strategies for common situations where self-worth and money get tangled: We will discuss: Social comparison on Instagram Financial setbacks or mistakes (like missed payments) Saying “no” to spending you can’t afford Having hard money convos with partners or family Even celebrating financial wins without letting them define you This episode is your emotional toolkit for making money decisions from strength, not shame. You are not your balance sheet—and today, we’re putting that truth into action. Follow us on Instagram: @everyonestalkinmoney Create your Worth Resume and tag us using #WorthBeyondWealth Missed Part 1? Go back and start there—it lays the emotional groundwork for everything you hear today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Why Your Self-Worth Is Not Your Net Worth: The Real Cost of Financial Shame (Part 1) 24:12

14 days ago24:12

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We need to talk about the belief that’s quietly running the show in so many of our financial lives: the idea that your bank account determines your value as a person. In Part 1 of this two-part solo episode, we’re digging deep into the emotional roots of this toxic money narrative—and why it’s costing you far more than just dollars. If you’ve ever avoided checking your bank balance out of shame, felt behind because of debt, or judged your worth by your income—this episode is for you. You’ll walk away with: A clear understanding of how our culture ties money to identity—and why that’s so damaging Examples of how financial shame sabotages your decisions, relationships, and confidence Validation that your money story is not your fault—but it is something you can rewrite The first powerful mindset shift you need before making any lasting financial change This episode is the foundation—the truth-telling, soul-stirring conversation that sets the stage for healing. In Part 2, we’ll dive into the actionable tools and practices to reclaim your worth and start making empowered money choices. Follow us on Instagram: @everyonestalkinmoney Share your thoughts using the hashtag #WorthBeyondWealth Want to start separating your worth from your finances? Make your non-financial value list and tag us in it! Don’t miss Part 2 where we walk through the full Separation Process—subscribe now so it drops right into your feed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Vision Before Budget: The Wealth Framework That Helped Dr. Annie Cole Retire 20 Years Early 44:49

17 days ago44:49

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What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t your budget—but the fact that you started with one? I’m joined by Dr. Annie Cole, founder of Money Essentials for Women , who turned a $26K social work salary into $1 million in real estate, nearly $400K in investments, and shaved 20 years off her retirement date—all before turning 40. Her secret? A radically different approach to wealth building that doesn’t start with pinching pennies. Annie walks us through her 5-Step Wealth Framework, including how to create a financial vision that actually aligns with your life, the real reason high-earning women still feel broke, and why investing just $1 could be the best place to start. In this episode we discuss: A clear understanding of why budgeting is not your starting line The mindset shift that took Annie from broke to financially free Three different ways to structure your budget based on your life goals Why your income isn’t the biggest factor in wealth-building—and what is How to start investing today (even if you're scared and have no idea where to start) How to break free from outdated financial beliefs that keep women playing small The #1 habit that accelerated Annie’s wealth and financial freedom How to spend under your means without feeling restricted Why financial planning > penny pinching How to release shame and take control, even if you’re starting from zero Learn more and connect with Annie: Website: https://money-essentials.com Instagram: @moneyessentialsforwomen You’ll Walk Away Knowing: Budgeting is often seen as restrictive and can keep people stuck. A life vision is essential for effective financial planning. Financial goals should align with personal values and aspirations. Income alone does not equate to financial freedom. Investing is crucial for building wealth and passive income. Creating a financial plan can empower individuals to make intentional decisions. Unexpected expenses are a part of life; having a buffer is important. Mindset shifts are necessary for overcoming financial limitations. Women often hold outdated beliefs about money and work. Money coaching fills the gap between financial advice and personal finance education. Here is that blog post I wrote that answers the question "How Do I Start Investing?" If you love what you heard, please be sure to rate and review the podcast. Also, keep in the loop by following us on Instagram at @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Breaking the Money Mindset Loop: How Childhood Beliefs Shape Financial Success with Angela Williams 45:17

19 days ago45:17

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In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money , I sit down with Angela Williams, a licensed therapist, leadership mindset coach, and founder of AngelaMarie.co. Angela specializes in helping high-profile leaders break through emotional and financial barriers to reach their full potential. We dive deep into how childhood beliefs around money can unknowingly drive financial habits in adulthood—and how to rewrite those scripts for good. You’ll hear: How subconscious money beliefs formed in childhood can sabotage financial success in adulthood Why high-achieving women often struggle to feel financially “enough” despite their outward success How unresolved emotional wounds can manifest as financial overspending, burnout, or playing small A practical exercise to identify the limiting beliefs that are blocking you from financial freedom You’ll walk away learning: Why the concept of legacy extends far beyond money—and how to create impact that lasts for generations How subconscious beliefs around money formed in childhood can silently drive financial habits in adulthood Why striving for financial success can actually be a way of avoiding unresolved emotional wounds How to identify the sneaky money beliefs that keep high-achievers feeling financially “not enough” Practical steps to uncover and reframe limiting beliefs about money, wealth, and self-worth Why your financial legacy isn’t just about money—and how to redefine what impact looks like for you Get your Money Blueprint , follow Angela’s work at AngelaMarie.co and tune into her podcast, The Bigger Braver Life Show , where she explores how leaders can step into their next level with confidence. And don’t forget—hit that follow button so you never miss an episode, leave a quick rating and review, and join us on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney for more money conversations that matter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Debt Detox: Why Paying Off Debt Doesn’t Always Feel Like Freedom – Insights from Experian’s Rod Griffin 49:08

21 days ago49:08

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I’m joined by Rod Griffin, Senior Director of Public Education and Advocacy at Experian, to unpack some surprising insights from their latest survey on paying off debt . You’d think paying down debt would instantly feel like a weight lifted – but for many, it’s not that simple. Rod shares why some people don’t feel that immediate impact and what you can do to make the most of your financial progress. In this episode we discuss: The unexpected emotional disconnect some people experience after paying off debt. Why a three-month period may be key to fully feeling the benefits of being debt-free. How mindset shifts – not just willpower – are essential for staying out of debt. Why having cash on hand might not prevent people from taking on more debt. How social media can fuel unnecessary spending and financial pressure. The concept of quiet debt and why so many people struggle to talk about it. How open conversations about money can alleviate shame and guilt. The critical difference between credit and debt – and why that distinction matters. You’ll walk away knowing: Paying off debt can have emotional benefits, but not everyone feels a significant change immediately. A three-month period is often needed to fully feel the impact of paying off debt. Mindset shifts are crucial for staying out of debt; willpower alone isn't enough. Having cash on hand may not prevent people from taking on debt. Social media can create pressure to keep up with others, leading to unnecessary spending. Finding personal anchors and understanding true needs can help manage debt. People are looking for ways to both reduce expenses and increase income to manage debt. Quiet debt refers to hidden financial struggles that people often don't discuss. Shame around money is common, but open conversations can relieve that pressure. Credit and debt are different; understanding this can help manage finances better. Follow the show so you never miss an episode, and keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Reclaiming Your Self-Worth: How to Silence Imposter Syndrome and Stop Outsourcing Your Value with Kamini Wood 48:41

24 days ago48:41

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Ever feel like you’re wearing a mask of success but underneath, you’re drowning in self-doubt? You’re not alone. In this episode, I sit down with Kamini Wood, CEO of Live Joy Your Way and founder of AuthenticMe® Life Coaching, to uncover why so many of us feel like imposters despite our accomplishments. Kamini shares her personal journey from chronic people-pleaser to self-worth advocate and the strategies she uses to help high achievers reclaim their power and stop outsourcing their value. We dig into why imposter syndrome isn’t just a buzzword, how to break free from the trap of perfectionism, and why acknowledging your wins is more than just self-care — it’s self-leadership. You’ll hear: The truth about imposter syndrome and why it’s more common than you think How Kamini shifted from feeling like she wasn’t enough to embracing her worth The surprising connection between perfectionism and financial stress Why we struggle to celebrate our wins — and how to start doing it right now How to turn self-doubt into self-leadership without toxic positivity You’ll walk away with: An understanding of how imposter syndrome is holding you back financially and emotionally Practical ways to identify and reframe limiting beliefs A simple gratitude practice that helps calm your inner critic and boost self-worth The importance of acknowledging your wins — and a powerful way to start doing it today Kamini’s top tip for building self-leadership that aligns with your true values Connect with Kamini Wood: 🌐 Website: https://www.kaminiwood.com/6-ways-to-improve-your-relationship-with-money/ 📸 Instagram: @itsauthenticme 📘 Facebook: @itsauthenticme 🎥 YouTube: Kamini Wood - AuthenticMe 🎧 Podcast: Rise Up, Live Joy Your Way Follow Everyone’s Talkin’ Money on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney for more financial insights and behind-the-scenes content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Stop Budgeting Like a Broke Girl: Build a Spending Plan that Honors Your Life 44:02

26 days ago44:02

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Does the word “budget” make your skin crawl? You’re not alone – but it doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, we’re flipping the script on traditional budgeting and showing you how to build a spending plan that empowers rather than restricts. You’ll hear: Why most budgeting systems are set up to fail – and how to create one that actually works for you. How to identify your core money values and align your spending with what truly matters. The Three-Bucket Spending Plan that turns your budget into a tool for growth, security, and joy. Powerful mindset shifts that transform financial scarcity into abundance. Shari’s personal story of breaking the scarcity cycle and embracing a values-based spending plan. You’ll walk away learning: Your financial reality will always align with your financial energy Common money values include: Freedom and flexibility Security and stability Growth and learning Comfort and well-being Impact and contribution Recognition and status How to reframe budgeting from a punishment to a powerful tool for aligning your spending with your values. Why most budgeting systems set you up for failure – and the three critical mindset shifts that will transform your financial approach. The Three-Bucket Spending Plan that simplifies money management without sacrificing what you love. How to identify your top money values and use them to build a spending plan that actually sticks. Why emotional spending isn’t just about lack of discipline – it’s about unaddressed financial traumas and how to heal them. How to stop saying “I can’t afford that” and start saying, “I’m choosing to spend differently.” How to recognize the scarcity mindset patterns that keep you stuck – and practical steps to break free. Whether you’re tired of feeling guilty every time you spend or you’re ready to start building wealth without sacrificing your sanity, this episode is for you. Tune in, take notes, and get ready to reframe how you manage your money. Follow us on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney for more money mindset shifts and practical tips! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Breaking Free from Golden Handcuffs: How to Align Your Career with Your Values and Financial Goals with Eliana Goldstein 44:26

28 days ago44:26

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Are you trapped in a career that pays well but leaves you feeling unfulfilled? In this episode, career coach Eliana Goldstein reveals why so many ambitious professionals find themselves in the 'golden handcuffs'—high-paying jobs that don't align with their values—and how to break free without sacrificing financial security. You'll hear: Why the 'golden handcuffs' trap so many high achievers The common financial and emotional patterns Eliana sees in her clients How to identify your career values and align them with your financial goals The importance of strategic career pivots and side hustles How to quantify your 'enough' number and avoid the endless money chase You’ll Walk Away Learning: Many high achievers feel trapped in unfulfilling careers. The 'golden handcuffs' create financial and emotional conflict. Societal expectations can lead to career dissatisfaction. Mindset shifts are crucial for career fulfillment. The Career Upgrade Framework helps align values with career choices. Financial stress often impacts career decisions. People often assume they must take a pay cut for fulfillment. Comparison with peers can lead to dissatisfaction. Side hustles can provide purpose and confidence. Self-auditing is essential for understanding career engagement. Follow Eliana on Instagram for daily career tips, and check out her Career Upgrade Framework at ElianaGoldsteinCoaching.com and use the code TALKIN on the checkout page to get $150 off! Here is the link to the course . And don’t forget to follow us @everyonestalkinmoney for more money mindset insights and behind-the-scenes content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Money, Motherhood, and Rediscovering Yourself After Years as a SAHM — Insights from Karen Johnson, the 21st Century SAHM 50:39

4 weeks ago50:39

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In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money , we’re diving into the untold story of stay-at-home moms and financial independence with Karen Johnson, also known as The 21st Century SAHM . Karen opens up about her powerful new book, What Do I Want to Be When They Grow Up? , and the identity crisis many mothers face when they step away from a paycheck to raise their kids. You’ll hear: How to reclaim your financial worth as a stay-at-home mom — even if you’re not bringing in income The emotional and financial cost of sacrificing your career for your family and how to rebuild your sense of self Why investing in yourself isn’t selfish — and how to do it without the mom guilt How to have honest money conversations with your partner when you’re not earning a paycheck Karen’s top advice for women in their 40s navigating big life pivots and financial decisions Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, a working mom, or somewhere in between, this conversation will remind you that your worth isn’t defined by a paycheck — and that it’s never too late to invest in you . You’ll walk away learning: Many women feel guilt about pursuing interests outside of motherhood. Motherhood can feel like a death of previous identity. Social media often portrays an unrealistic view of motherhood. Women are conditioned to feel guilty about not enjoying every moment. Perfectionism can negatively impact mental health in motherhood. It's important to focus on accomplishments rather than shortcomings. Unpaid labor in the household is valuable and should be recognized. Women should feel empowered to ask for what they deserve. Many women handle day-to-day finances but lack knowledge of larger financial matters. It's crucial for both partners to be educated about household finances. Financial literacy can prevent future hardships in case of unexpected events. Women often feel guilty about spending money on themselves. Selfishness in financial decisions can be redefined as self-care. Finding personal hobbies is essential for mental well-being. Aging can bring a sense of freedom and acceptance. Conversations about money should be open and honest, without guilt. Follow Karen on social media @21stcenturysahm and visit the21stcenturysahm.com to pre-order her book, What Do I Want to Be When They Grow Up? And don’t forget to follow us on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney for more real talk about money, motherhood, and finding your power. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Heal Your Relationship with Money: Rachel Duncan on Budget Burnout, Spending Addiction & Financial Compassion 48:16

5 weeks ago48:16