Letting Go of Control: Finding Strength and Security in Foster Care and Adoption

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Struggling to steer through the unpredictable journey of foster care and adoption, I've often grappled with the need to keep a tight grip on every turn and decision. It's a road marked by both yearning and anxiety, where the desire for control often feels like the only seatbelt we have. Throughout our deeply personal conversation, I open up about how this quest for control mirrors the behavior of our children, who seek their own sense of power in response to fear. Yet, as we navigate these high-speed twists and turns, we're reminded that true safety and security come from the hands of a trusted parent. This episode is an invitation to embrace the passenger seat, to lean into the trust we must place in a higher plan—a theme underscored by the poignant lessons of 1 Peter 5:7 and the book of Habakkuk.
For those who walk the path of foster care and adoption, I offer a heartfelt prayer in this episode, asking for the strength and peace that come from surrendering to a plan beyond our own. It's a moment of connection, where I call for guidance and solace under God's watchful presence. We explore the significance of prayer in providing a sense of reassurance and safety amidst the tumultuous care for these precious lives. Listeners are encouraged to join in this communal reflection, to find solace, and to parent with unwavering faith, patience, and joy. This episode is not just a discussion, it is a shared journey toward trusting in a plan greater than our own, and it's an honor to have you along for the ride.

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Chapters

1. Letting Go of Control: Finding Strength and Security in Foster Care and Adoption (00:00:00)

2. Trusting God's Control in Foster Care (00:00:09)

3. Prayer for Foster and Adoptive Parents (00:13:40)