Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture

Husband Material

What is the difference between outgrowing porn and purity culture? In this replay from The Porn Free Man Conference, you'll experience dramatic examples of what these two approaches look like, sound like, and feel like when you are...

1. Reaching out to a friend after watching porn (failure vs. feedback)
2. Sharing vulnerable parts of your story (harsh and critical vs. gentle and kind)
3. Checking in with your small group (lots of accountability vs. lots of attunement)
4. Feeling the urge to watch porn (battle our sexuality vs. befriend our sexuality)
5. Being sexually attracted to someone (fear and shame vs. curiosity and compassion)
6. Celebrating 6 months without porn (behavior modification vs. becoming mature)

Drew Boa, Doug Carpenter, Henry Brown, and Jordan Castille are all members of the Husband Material Leadership Team.
Related episodes:

• How To Outgrow Porn (Intro To HMA)
• Experience Healing Through Psychodrama
• How To Reframe A Porn Relapse

Take the Husband Material Journey...

• Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
• Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
• Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
• Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!

Chapters

1. Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture (00:00:00)

2. Understanding Purity Culture and Outgrowing Porn (00:00:01)

3. Supportive Approach to Relapse and Vulnerability (00:14:41)

4. Supportive Conversations About Personal Struggles (00:35:11)

5. Group Dynamics and Connection Exploration (00:45:00)

6. Inner Battle, Befriending Our Urges (00:52:17)

7. Overcoming Porn Addiction and Personal Growth (01:11:03)

8. Healing Program for Overcoming Porn Addiction (01:18:58)