How to generate the HOOKUP once she's at your place (BEDROOM GAME)

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Incessancy is an understatement when referring to the number of times the past year guys have been asking me to write a bedroom game article. I talk about in this video some of the basic things I see as important when I take a girl back to my place. I've made other videos and articles on how to pull from a date, but this piece focuses exclusively on what to do once you actually get her back to your place. The first important point is: Do not service her in any way. Do not ask if she wants some water. Do not ask if you can get her some wine. This behavior on the male's end is catering and beta and will only function to increase the chance she shuts herself off. Some guys might think this sounds excessive. It's not. You need to be focused on just moving quickly to hook up. It's not about making her comfortable. Don't worry about her comfort level. The second important point is: The more time you spend at your place, the less likely you are to actually hook up. Do not spend time talking and getting comfortable. The same exact way your date should be as short as possible (i.e., 10-30 minutes tops), once she's at your place, do not dither where you are entering deep convo mode over wine. You literally want to walk through the door and just get some sort of movie ready. I walk into my place with the girl. During the first 60 seconds, I shut the curtains, dim the lights slightly, turn on my lava lamp, and open my laptop and find a movie. While I'm doing this, I tell her to find her name on the Kanji poster on my wall (almost all of the girls I bring back are Japanese). Then I walk over to my bathroom and quickly wash my hands. Part of the reason I do this is because it allows me to smoothly shut off the light by the door at the same time I turn the bathroom light off. I will also lock the door at this time (if she hadn't already done that when she followed me in). I then just start the movie and sit down on my bed. I'll tell her she can sit. If she sits more than 1-2 feet away, within 5-10 seconds I'll put my arm around her and tell her she can sit closer. She will usually move next to me at this point. I then dim the lights fully and within 30 seconds go for the kiss. If the girl is not putting up any resistance, then it's obviously just clear-sailing from there. However the value I can communicate is when the girl is putting up varying degrees of resistance. If she doesn't kiss, don't try to kiss her a second time. I'd say at least one-half to two-thirds of the girls I hook up with at my place refuse the kiss. It's been to my subjective understanding over many years that going for the kiss repeatedly when she refuses the first time risks genuinely putting her off. Many girls will be willing to hook up; they just don't want to kiss.

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