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How to get her contact IF SHE'S RUSHING

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In this video I discuss a short point on how one can calibrate on the cold approach when the girl seems lean-unreceptive and doesn't want to talk right now. That is, you approach her directly and tell her she's cute. She instantly appears to be in a rush, or puts up her hand and says she can't talk now. Or she isn't necessarily rushing but is moving away from you as you're trying to carry the short convo. Greater than 99% of guys would interpret this type of girl as straight-up unreceptive and would probably quickly recede out of the interaction. I've talked about before how many girls who might seem unreceptive actually aren't. If the male is a little bit pushy in his interactions, he'll be able to exchange with quite a few girls whom the more novice male wouldn't be able to secondary to insufficient audacity. If you open a girl and she seems like she doesn't want to talk but is nevertheless responding minimally to you, one thing you can do is essentially hyper-emphasize that you're not going to consume her time. You're going to make it clear that you're not that guy who wants to consume 9 minutes of her time; you only want 15-20 seconds. You're making it clear. You say at least 3-5 times, while also gesturing with your body and pointing away from her, "Well anyway, I've gotta head that way," or "Well anyway, I need to go that way." Convo will go something like this: You: "Hey you're cute." Her: "Hey. I'm in a rush I can't talk now." (moving away from you) You: "I've gotta head that way. How old are you." Her: "Im busy now." You: "I'm Michael. Well I've gotta go that way. How old are you." Her: "22." You: "What are you doing now?" Her: "I'm going to go meet a friend." (moving away from you) You: "Well I need to go that way. Do you like tapioca." Her: "It's okay." You: "Alright well let's talk again. I need to go that way. Let's exchange." (She exchanges) Guy reading this says, "What? I don't get it. Is that really a thing? Sounds weird Michael." I'm just telling you one highly effective calibration I've evolved into when it comes to attempting to exchange with girls who are in a rush and/or are moving away from you and seem like they don't want to talk. This is not something I've romanticized or...

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In this video I discuss a short point on how one can calibrate on the cold approach when the girl seems lean-unreceptive and doesn't want to talk right now. That is, you approach her directly and tell her she's cute. She instantly appears to be in a rush, or puts up her hand and says she can't talk now. Or she isn't necessarily rushing but is moving away from you as you're trying to carry the short convo. Greater than 99% of guys would interpret this type of girl as straight-up unreceptive and would probably quickly recede out of the interaction. I've talked about before how many girls who might seem unreceptive actually aren't. If the male is a little bit pushy in his interactions, he'll be able to exchange with quite a few girls whom the more novice male wouldn't be able to secondary to insufficient audacity. If you open a girl and she seems like she doesn't want to talk but is nevertheless responding minimally to you, one thing you can do is essentially hyper-emphasize that you're not going to consume her time. You're going to make it clear that you're not that guy who wants to consume 9 minutes of her time; you only want 15-20 seconds. You're making it clear. You say at least 3-5 times, while also gesturing with your body and pointing away from her, "Well anyway, I've gotta head that way," or "Well anyway, I need to go that way." Convo will go something like this: You: "Hey you're cute." Her: "Hey. I'm in a rush I can't talk now." (moving away from you) You: "I've gotta head that way. How old are you." Her: "Im busy now." You: "I'm Michael. Well I've gotta go that way. How old are you." Her: "22." You: "What are you doing now?" Her: "I'm going to go meet a friend." (moving away from you) You: "Well I need to go that way. Do you like tapioca." Her: "It's okay." You: "Alright well let's talk again. I need to go that way. Let's exchange." (She exchanges) Guy reading this says, "What? I don't get it. Is that really a thing? Sounds weird Michael." I'm just telling you one highly effective calibration I've evolved into when it comes to attempting to exchange with girls who are in a rush and/or are moving away from you and seem like they don't want to talk. This is not something I've romanticized or...

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