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Obsessed With The Enneagram: TYPE 1 The Perfectionist with Enneagram Coach Teri Bales
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Join Enneagram Coach Teri Bales with Jules and Tia as we explore everything about TYPE 1- The Perfectionist!
The Enneagram is a powerful personality system that helps individuals understand themselves and others better. It consists of nine distinct types, each representing a unique set of core motivations, fears, and coping mechanisms. In this article, we will delve into the characteristics of Enneagram Type 1, commonly known as "The Perfectionist". Email Teri Bales: chefteri@chefteri.net
- Type 1: The Perfectionist
- Type 1 is part of the Body Triad, along with Types 8 and 9, and is driven by a desire to maintain order and perfection in their world.
- Their core motivation is the need to be virtuous and right, leading them to strive for improvement and excellence in everything they do.
- Perfectionists tend to be principled, organized, and self-disciplined, seeking to make the world a better place.
- Key Traits and Characteristics
- Strong sense of responsibility: Type 1s feel a deep sense of responsibility and are often drawn to leadership roles due to their strong moral compass.
- High self-criticism: The Perfectionist can be overly critical of themselves and others, constantly seeking to improve and meet their high standards.
- Struggle with anger: Under stress, Type 1s can experience repressed anger, as they see so much that needs improvement but may not always express it openly.
- Black-and-white thinking: They tend to see things in absolutes, with a strong sense of right and wrong, which can lead to rigidity and inflexibility.
- The Core Fear and Coping Mechanism
- Fear of being wrong or flawed: The Perfectionist is driven by a fear of making mistakes or being imperfect, which can cause them great distress.
- Coping with anger through control: To manage their inner turmoil, Type 1s exert control over themselves and their environment, seeking to correct imperfections.
- Levels of Development
- Healthy: At their best, Type 1s are principled, wise, and balanced, using their critical eye constructively to inspire positive change in themselves and others.
- Average: In the average levels, they become overly critical and judgmental, obsessing over details and losing sight of the bigger picture.
- Unhealthy: At their worst, Perfectionists can become righteous and obsessive, imposing their ideals on others and feeling overwhelmed by their inner critic.
- Growth and Integration
- Healthy growth (moving toward Type 7): They learn to embrace spontaneity, relax their high standards, and allow themselves to experience joy and playfulness.
- Integration (in times of stress): Under stress, Type 1s take on the positive aspects of Type 7, becoming more open-minded and receptive to new ideas.
- Relationships and Communication
- In relationships, Type 1s value honesty, integrity, and reliability, and they can be supportive and encouraging partners.
- They may struggle with criticism and confrontation, needing to learn to accept constructive feedback without feeling attacked.
- Career Paths and Leadership Style
- Perfectionists often excel in roles that require attention to detail, precision, and adherence to rules and regulations.
- As leaders, they are principled and lead by example, setting high standards for themselves and their team.
Conclusion
Enneagram Type 1, The Perfectionist, brings a strong sense of responsibility and a desire for improvement to the world. While their pursuit of excellence can be admirable, they must learn to balance their self-critical tendencies and embrace imperfections to lead a more fulfilling life. By understanding the Enneagram, individuals can embark on a journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and improved relationships with others.
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