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Jenny Shane – Hating Your EX Less to Love Your Kids More
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Jenny Shane is the founder of Divorce in Peace. She is a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, Florida Bar Licensed Attorney, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDSâ„¢) through the National Association of DivorceProfessionals, and she has a Bachelor's of Science degree in Psychology.
As a divorce coach, Jenny guides individuals through all stages of divorce and life afterwards. She is skilled in helping her clients understand the legal process behind divorce and how to take control of their divorce decisions, whether they are lawyers represented or not.
Jenny shares her unique journey from a lawyer to a divorce coach, focused on helping parents create and modify effective parenting plans that prioritize the best interests of the children. The discussion also touches upon empowering children to voice their preferences, especially teenagers, and the significance of a comprehensive approach to mental health within the family dynamic.
Takeaways
1. Integrate mental health provisions
2. Be kind to your co parent during divorce
3. Involve teens in time-sharing decisions
Timestamps
00:00 Transition from litigation to family law mediation.
04:21 Transitioned from law to divorce coaching, found fulfillment.
09:33 Working with only one person limits understanding.
10:22 Provide tough love, evaluate behavior, improve relationship.
16:56 Detailed documentation is needed for custody modification.
18:28 Parallel parenting in high conflict divorces occurs when parents refuse to work together, resulting in separate households and parenting styles.
22:32 Transition challenges for young children in custody.
26:37 Children need both parents for balanced support.
29:24 Teen sleeps in closet for privacy, needs empowerment.
33:21 Parenting plans address counseling and cost sharing.
34:26 Each parent is responsible for child therapy.
38:41 Avoiding conflict by intervening in emotionally charged situations.
41:02 Communication through DM and email preferred.
🔗 Connect with Jenny Shane:
Instagram: FamilyTalkwithJenny
Website: divorceinpeacemediation.com
🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld:
Instagram | info@parentcoachesunleashed.com
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