Q & A: How to Getaway on a Budget?

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How do you know when it’s time to make your next big career move? With International Women’s Day around the corner, we are excited to feature Avni Patel Thompson, Founder and CEO of Milo. Avni is building technology that directly supports the often overlooked emotional and logistical labor that falls on parents—especially women. Milo is an AI assistant designed to help families manage that invisible load more efficiently. In this episode, Avni shares her journey from studying chemistry to holding leadership roles at global brands like Adidas and Starbucks, to launching her own ventures. She discusses how she approaches career transitions, the importance of unpleasant experiences, and why she’s focused on making everyday life easier for parents. [01:26] Avni's University Days and Early Career [04:36] Non-Linear Career Paths [05:16] Pursuing Steep Learning Curves [11:51] Entrepreneurship and Safety Nets [15:22] Lived Experiences and Milo [19:55] Avni’s In Her Ellement Moment [20:03] Reflections Links: Avni Patel Thompson on LinkedIn Suchi Srinivasan on LinkedIn Kamila Rakhimova on LinkedIn Ipsos report on the future of parenting About In Her Ellement: In Her Ellement highlights the women and allies leading the charge in digital, business, and technology innovation. Through engaging conversations, the podcast explores their journeys—celebrating successes and acknowledging the balance between work and family. Most importantly, it asks: when was the moment you realized you hadn’t just arrived—you were truly in your element? About The Hosts: Suchi Srinivasan is an expert in AI and digital transformation. Originally from India, her career includes roles at trailblazing organizations like Bell Labs and Microsoft. In 2011, she co-founded the Cleanweb Hackathon, a global initiative driving IT-powered climate solutions with over 10,000 members across 25+ countries. She also advises Women in Cloud, aiming to create $1B in economic opportunities for women entrepreneurs by 2030. Kamila Rakhimova is a fintech leader whose journey took her from Tajikistan to the U.S., where she built a career on her own terms. Leveraging her English proficiency and international relations expertise, she discovered the power of microfinance and moved to the U.S., eventually leading Amazon's Alexa Fund to support underrepresented founders. Subscribe to In Her Ellement on your podcast app of choice to hear meaningful conversations with women in digital, business, and technology.…

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Dating your spouse is oh-so-important, but what if your finances are on the struggle bus? I'm sharing four budget-friendly getaway ideas you'll want to try in your marriage. All of these tips are an invitation to the adventure of consistently dating your spouse . . . for a longer time stint. No money? No problem. Listen as I share some tips on how you can utilize the people in your circle to plan creative ideas for spending time with the one you love.

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Q & A: How to Getaway on a Budget?

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Ep. 52 - Making Love Outside the Bedroom

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Q & A: How to Get Someone to Change When They Don't See the Problem? 11:40

4 days ago11:40

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A new listener, Gina, feels like she's putting all the effort into her marriage while her husband seems perfectly content with where things are. I totally get where she's coming from—I’ve been there! We'll talk about how to navigate this situation and discuss why behavior follows belief. I’ share some personal insights and strategies on how to motivate change in someone who doesn't see there's a problem by shifting those underlying beliefs. Whether you're trying to improve your marriage, your parenting skills, or your friendships, today's episode is packed with practical advice. So grab a cup of coffee, get comfy, and let's dive in to help transform those connections into more fulfilling relationships. I'm so glad you're here! Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Struggling to overcome an affair? Get my 12-Step Affair Recovery Checklist here. Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Why Did This Happen? (Healing After Infidelity) 27:37

7 days ago27:37

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One of the questions every betrayed spouse grapples with when dealing with infidelity is, "Why did this happen?" Infidelity can be one of the most challenging obstacles a marriage may face. Understanding the 'why' is crucial because every affair has a reason. It’s essential here to distinguish between a reason and an excuse. While reasons offer insights into underlying issues, excuses deflect responsibility. The truth is infidelity is always a choice, a willful decision, in nearly every case. This episode outlines five reasons that commonly underlie affairs, including: emotional disconnection unresolved personal issues lack of boundaries unmet needs personal crises. It’s important to note that while these reasons might explain why an affair happened, they don't excuse the betrayal. We also discuss “What now” after an affair has happened. If you find yourself in the unfortunate situation of infidelity, there is hope and healing is possible whether you stay in or leave your marriage. Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Reeling from Infidelity? Get my “Affair Recovery Checklist” and take the first next steps toward healing. Ep. 49 - 5 Boundaries Every Marriage Needs Like the show? Be sure to give it a five-star rating and a positive review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: How Do I Meet My Spouse's Never-Ending List of Needs? 9:05

11 days ago9:05

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When it comes to meeting our spouse’s needs, marriage can feel like a complex game of tug of war. Today’s listener question brings us into the nuanced territory of communication and expectations between spouses. Our listener shares her frustration about feeling overwhelmed by her husband's evolving needs. She explained that her husband, previously very passive in communicating his needs, has transformed since starting therapy. While therapy is inherently a positive journey, in this case, it's brought a seemingly endless list of requirements from her husband, inducing feelings of inadequacy and frustration in her. If you’ve ever had unmet needs in your marriage or felt like you weren't meeting your spouse’s needs, this conversation is for you. Let’s discuss the dynamics at play and explore strategies for navigating this emotional challenge while working toward meeting your spouse’s needs. Other Helpful Episodes: Ep. 225 - Navigating Core Needs in Marriage Ep. 281 - How to Encourage Change in Your Marriage Without Encouraging Complaints If you enjoy the show, please be sure to leave a five-star rating and write a review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Are Marriage Conferences Worth Attending? 29:42

14 days ago29:42

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We’re off the heels of our marriage conference and I have some insights to share for those looking to attend a marriage conference in the future. Information is only good if you have a revelation that causes transformation. And when it comes to strengthening our marriages, this couldn't be more true. So let's explore why attending a marriage conference might be the game-changer you've been looking for. Why Make the Commitment to Attend? You might be wondering, why attend a marriage conference? Aren’t those just for couples in crisis? Absolutely not! Like successful entrepreneurs attend business conferences to stay on top of their game, thriving couples attend marriage conferences to sustain healthy relationships. It’s all about growth, connection, and gaining new insights. For first-timers, choosing the right conference is crucial. Not all conferences are created equal, and some might leave you feeling discouraged if they’re not a good fit. I’ll share some tips on finding the right one so you come away feeling inspired and equipped. Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Get Your Free "5 Simple Steps to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship" Couple's Guide Learn more about the XO Marriage Conference Learn more about Family Life's Weekend to Remember Like the show? Be sure to give it a 5-star rating and write a positive review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: I Feel Like I've Outgrown My Spouse 11:41

18 days ago11:41

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A listener who describes her marriage of eleven years as "routine" and feels she's outgrown her husband needs advice. She says that while her husband is a good man, she feels a lack of attraction due to his complacency with routine life. This includes his responsibilities at work, caregiving for his mother, and domestic duties, all of which have led their marriage to feel stagnant. She admits to being drawn to other men but remains committed to her marriage because of their children and shared responsibilities, yet she struggles with the feeling that her marriage may have run its course. Many spouses feel this way . . . disconnected from their spouses. Over the years, their interests, values, and goals sometimes diverge, leading to feelings of loneliness and frustration. This sets the stage for the episode's central focus: addressing these feelings and fostering growth in marriages. Listen and learn four marriage tips to help overcome disconnection and reignite a sense of shared meaning in your marriage. Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Take the "How Connected Are You" Partner Quiz Need Marriage Coaching? Schedule a Call Here Like the show? Be sure to give it a five-star rating and write a positive review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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The Power of Marriage: The Secret Sauce - Mended Pt. 3 35:09

21 days ago35:09

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How do you build a stronger marriage? Often, marriage is often seen as a path to happiness and companionship. But through my experiences and insights shared in this episode, I challenge this notion by inviting you to see marriage as a tool for personal and spiritual growth. This episode wraps up our three-part mini-series, "Mended: God's Plan for Marriage," where we explore the deep-seated essence of marriage, emphasizing resilience, growth, and alignment with your divine purpose. The episode begins with a recent sermon I preached at my church, highlighting the importance of resilience in marriage. The power of marriage often remains untapped because people focus too much on personal happiness and having their needs met rather than understanding the greater purpose of marriage . . . what I call the "secret sauce" of marriage: realizing that marriage is about more than just personal satisfaction—it's about helping each other become more like Christ. This is a powerful episode with the potential to change how you view your spouse and your marriage forever. Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Listen to the full sermon here. Learn more about my brand new course: Infidelity Intensive Remember to give the podcast a 5-star rating and write a review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: How to Win Back Your Spouse Without Pressuring Them 11:13

25 days ago11:13

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Is your marriage on the line but you’re trying to win your spouse back? Rebuilding your marriage isn't easy, especially when your spouse isn't on the same page. In this episode, we address a listener's question about how to effectively communicate his desire to reconcile after a difficult time in his marriage. Despite being separated for three months due to past traumas and ego, he's actively working on self-improvement and seeking advice on how to win back his spouse without putting undue pressure on her. Key Discussion Points: Taking Responsibility: It’s important to take responsibility for the choices we make in our marriage. Our listener acknowledges his shortcomings as a husband and is encouraged to be specific about the changes he's implementing. Healing Past Traumas: If we don’t understand the role of past traumas in our marriage conflicts, we are likely to not fully heal from them. Genuine healing often requires professional help. Asking for Forgiveness: Sincere and specific apologies are significant, not as a means to an end, but as a genuine show of remorse for past hurt we’ve caused. Respecting Boundaries: If the spouse decides not to reconcile, respecting her decision is crucial. While working towards reconciliation, we must acknowledge our spouse's free will and potential decision to move on even if it hurts. Got a marriage-related question you want answered on the podcast? Email your questions or submit a direct message on Instagram . Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Get Your Free Heart to Heart Conversation Starters here . Like the show? Be sure to give it a five-star rating and write a positive review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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The Purpose of Marriage - the Great Mystery - Mended Pt. 2 25:23

28 days ago25:23

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If you’ve ever questioned what marriage is truly about beyond friendship and happiness, this is the episode for you. We're continuing with part two of a mini-series dedicated to exploring some hidden truths about marriage. We begin by addressing the misconceptions society and culture often hold about marriage, such as its purpose is primarily happiness or getting our needs met. When we misunderstand the purpose of something, it leads to misuse and abuse. So buckle up. Christian marriage, in particular, has been called "a great mystery" because of what marriage truly represents. Marriage is both an agent of holiness and healing, providing a space for mutual growth and spiritual connection. In this way, marriage can be a living testament to God's redemptive power and love. If you feel overwhelmed or trapped in your marriage, this episode offers hope that transformation and redemption are possible through faith and surrendering to God's plan. Key Takeaways: Why marriage is not solely about personal happiness How holiness and healing go hand in hand How marriage unlocks the potential for deeper connection and spiritual growth. Marriage as a living example of Christ's redemptive love and commitment. Want to connect more in your marriage? Take my free "How Connected Are You" Partner Quiz at https://danache.com/partnerquiz. If you know someone engaged or considering marriage, share this episode with them so they can get their marriage started off on the right foot! Remember to give the podcast a 5-star rating and write a review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: Do Women Still Care About Valentine's Day? 7:38

5 weeks ago7:38

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Valentine's Day is upon us! I'm answering a listener's question on whether women still care about Valentine’s Day gifts and what makes the perfect present. What are some gift ideas to make your special someone feel loved and appreciated? I've got a few suggestions up my sleeve. Highlights: Do Women Still Expect Gifts? I polled my friends to learn about their Valentine’s Day expectations—and the results were hilarious. Creative Gift Ideas: It’s not about how much you spend, but the thought and creativity you put into it. Hear about my most memorable Valentine's Day. Understanding Love Languages: Discover how knowing your partner’s love language can elevate your gift-giving, whether it’s words of affirmation, acts of service, or quality time. Balancing Gift Traditions: My thoughts on how the commercialization of holidays might affect genuine gift-giving and why it’s better to focus on creative intention. Special Resource for You: Don’t forget to download my Ultimate Couples Checklist —a free guide with five simple steps to rekindle intimacy and connection available at danache.com/ultimatecouple . We’d love to hear from you! If you have a marriage-related question, don’t hesitate to reach ask here or drop a message on Instagram . Thank you for being a part of our community. Don’t forget to subscribe to the Rebuilding Us Podcast on your preferred platform so you never miss an episode! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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The Problem of Marriage: Sin, Shame, and Passivity - Mended Pt. 1 20:06

5 weeks ago20:06

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"The Problem of Marriage” is the first part of my three-part mini-series, inspired by a sermon I recently preached at my church, focusing on some profound aspects of marriage—the marriage problems we face, the purpose behind marriage, and the incredible power marriage holds. Today, I'll be sharing insights on the problem of marriage, and I hope you find these reflections as enlightening and transformative as I did when preparing this series. Today's episode uncovers the roots of all marriage problems, confronting passivity in marriage, the ripple effects of sin, decoding the curse of conflict and control, and more. Links Mentioned in this Episode: Watch the Full Sermon Mended: God’s Plan for Marriage Get Your Free “7 Secrets to a Happier, Healthier Marriage” Audio Looking to Connect Better in Your Marriage? Check out My “From Conflict to Connection Course” Like the show? Be sure to write a review and give it a five-star rating! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: My Spouse Wants to Leave. Should I Wait Around? 9:48

6 weeks ago9:48

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I received a question from a listener whose husband wants to leave the marriage to seek “personal happiness.” She faces the difficult decision of whether to wait for him to find clarity or to move forward with divorce after their 24 years together, of which 13 were spent in marriage. Here are some of the highlights from the episode: Understanding Where Happiness is Found: I discussed the common misconception that happiness is a destination. In reality, happiness is a choice you make. Chasing after it without internal work is often fruitless. Purposeful Separation & Marriage Goals Even Here: If separation is the route chosen, it should be approached with clear goals. Arranging a separation with a mutually agreed-upon purpose and timeframe can help both spouses understand what they truly want from the future. Working on Yourself No Matter the Outcome: I applauded my listener for seeking therapy and emphasized the importance of continuing personal growth, regardless of her husband's decisions. The Power of Forgiveness: Even when reconciliation is not possible, pursuing forgiveness can free individuals from bitterness and resentment, enabling them to heal and move forward positively. When considering separation, it’s important to ask whether everything that could be done to save the marriage has been tried before deciding on divorce. This way, even if the marriage ends, you’ll know you gave it all you could give. If you have any questions or issues in your marriage that you'd like me to address, feel free to reach out via my website or on Instagram . Links Mentioned in this Episode: The "7 Secret Marriage Rules" audio For those of you considering a similar path, I suggest listening to my episode with Dr. Kim Kimberling, "Five Boxes to Check Before You Divorce" (Episode 245), to thoroughly evaluate your decision. Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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The #1 Reason Marriages Fail That No One Talks About 27:37

6 weeks ago27:37

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What is the real reason so many marriages are failing? It’s not often addressed in mainstream marriage advice. When we take a look at the core issue of marriage problems and look at scripture, personal experiences, and real stories, we see one main culprit as the number one reason marriages break up. Key Discussion Points: Understanding Apathy in Marriage The Core Issue: Hardness of Heart Indicators of a Hardened Heart The Path to Restoration and Healing Real-Life Application Resources Mentioned: Get My Free Audio: 7 Secrets to a Healthier Marriage Dive Deeper with My "From Conflict to Connection Course" Episode 88: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Episode 68: How Passivity & Apathy Are Silently Killing Your Marriage Be sure to give the podcast five stars and write a positive review! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: How to Be Intimate When I'm Not Attracted to My Husband 13:33

7 weeks ago13:33

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A truly sensitive yet relatable marriage topic is what to do when you feel a lack of physical attraction to your spouse. It can be embarrassing to admit to ourselves, much less talk about it openly, but it's necessary if we want to find solutions and improve our intimacy. A listener reached out to me, sharing her struggle. She explains that despite taking care of her own appearance, her husband has gained weight, which has affected her physical attraction to him. She has moments when she can overlook his flaws, but the inconsistency in attraction makes sustaining intimacy challenging. She wants to know how to continue keeping her husband sexually satisfied even when she's not feeling that attracted to him. In response, I explore several avenues to help address her concerns by digging to find the cause of her unattractiveness, having a courageous conversation with her husband, seeking help from the Lord, putting herself in remembrance of her husband’s strengths, and “making love” where love doesn’t seem to exist. Links Mentioned in this Episode: Ep. 310 - 5 Types of Intimacy Your Marriage Can’t Live Without Get My Free “Conversation Starters” for Couples in Conflict Like the show? Be sure to give it a five-star rating and write a positive review. Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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I'm Praying My Marriage Changes But I Don't See Any Evidence 33:47

7 weeks ago33:47

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Are you struggling to keep praying for your marriage but not seeing evidence of change? In this episode, I open up about my own journey in marriage and faith. Like so many of you, I've had to grapple with trusting in God when everything around me seemed unchanged or even worsening. My husband, Shaun, and I have been through our share of struggles, and it wasn't until I truly learned to let go and surrender my own desires that I began to see God's work in our lives. Throughout this episode, I outline five strategies that are crucial for maintaining faith, especially when you see no evidence of change: Continue to Pray Refocus Your Vision Imagine Positive Outcomes Act in Faith Surrender to God's will Links Mentioned in this Episode: 5 Ways to C.O.V.E.R. Your Marriage in Prayer Ep. 214: If God is For Me, Why Am I Suffering? Ep. 216: How to Walk by Faith When Life is Hard Like the show? Be sure to give it a five-star rating and write a positive review so others can find the show too! Support the show: https://danache.com/donations/support-the-show/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .…

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Q & A: I Asked for a Massage - He Bought Me an Exercise Bike 10:28

8 weeks ago10:28