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38 | Why You Can’t Seem to Stop Controlling And How to Turn Things Around
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Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽
Trauma survivors develop controlling behaviors as a coping mechanism to regain a sense of safety, security, and control over their environment following experiences of trauma.
If you find that you can’t help but control others and things or people have told you you’re so controlling, I know that on one level, that hurts, but on the other hand, you just don’t know how else to survive. And that’s the thing, traumatized people see controlling as a survival mechanism
While controlling behaviors may provide a temporary sense of relief or security for trauma survivors, this behaviour can strain or even destroy your relationships. Whether it's a romantic relationship, friendship, or professional partnership, controlling actions can erode trust and lead to resentment and conflict.
In this episode, I provide an understanding of where the controlling behaviours come from, and steps to begin changing and healing.
I hope this episode blesses you.
In Healing and Love 😊
Jenniel
🌟Your Next Steps🌟
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78 episodes
Manage episode 410001216 series 3494449
Hey, Sister-friend 👋🏽
Trauma survivors develop controlling behaviors as a coping mechanism to regain a sense of safety, security, and control over their environment following experiences of trauma.
If you find that you can’t help but control others and things or people have told you you’re so controlling, I know that on one level, that hurts, but on the other hand, you just don’t know how else to survive. And that’s the thing, traumatized people see controlling as a survival mechanism
While controlling behaviors may provide a temporary sense of relief or security for trauma survivors, this behaviour can strain or even destroy your relationships. Whether it's a romantic relationship, friendship, or professional partnership, controlling actions can erode trust and lead to resentment and conflict.
In this episode, I provide an understanding of where the controlling behaviours come from, and steps to begin changing and healing.
I hope this episode blesses you.
In Healing and Love 😊
Jenniel
🌟Your Next Steps🌟
👉🏼Leave a review for the show
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shades-of-trauma-healing-childhood-trauma-trust/id1697943321
👉🏼Sign up to be an Insider
Go to subscribepage.io/STHPodcast to receive:
- Personalized Email Every Week that Includes the Latest Podcast Episode
- Healing Strategies, Motivational Tips and Biblical Applications to Support Your Trauma Healing Journey
- Early Bird Access to Special Offers and Exclusive Events
- First Access Content and Opportunities that are Reserved Exclusively for Insiders.
- Direct Communication with Jenniel, Your Podcast Host.
👉🏼Join the FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/shades.of.trauma.healing
👉🏼Email Me: support@shadesoftraumahealing.com
***DISCLAIMER: This podcast is not a substitute for individual coaching or therapy. It is for educational purposes only. For professional support, seek out and follow the advice of your licensed mental health practitioner.
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