S9 E6: Creating a great parent-child relationship

The She Births® Show Podcast

Today's episode is extra special because it is a conversation with my beautiful son Leroy, who is now 22 years old.

We start our dialogue about what constitutes a good relationship and then explore what fosters that.

We ended up going into some deep dives about education and values at home, the importance of community and teachers, the importance of self expression and freedom that we give to our children.

We discuss in reflection the priorities that I have endeavored to bring into my parenting with Leroy - to see if he also thinks they were a good idea.

We were going to talk about intuition, and Leroy mentions intuition a couple of times, but these topics seemed a lot more relevant to you and our audience.

I will have more conversations with Leroy I hope on the show because a parent child relationship is always in the process of change and growth. As he talked about adolescence and his experience of identity changes, it felt so relevant to our new understanding of matresence and patresence (and even menopause and andropause too).

I wonder if we can, as a society, be more compassionate for all of these phases of change. Then, we can also connect and feel the privilege of having so many deep feelings during these times—as Leroy explains, he even misses them.

We chat about my regrets as a mum and the regulation of the nervous system. Plus, the latest research and discoveries about our awakened brain, the protection of spirituality, connection, and perspective in our lives. As you will hear, he is a very intelligent and very insightful young man, if I do say so myself.

He is my greatest gift, and I couldn't be prouder. But we certainly are not perfect, as you will hear in the conversation. (There is some swearing, so only for adult ears.)

I hope you have a few laughs, and I look forward to sharing more conversations with you next season, where we're going to launch with an amazing chat about boobs and feeding our babies.

It is winter here in Australia, so it feels like time to be a little quieter and more inward.

I'm finding my energy is deeply creative right now, during the cooler months. As I dive into the finer details of editing my book, I just changed the title. Funnily enough, I was reminded that this was the title I had five years ago when I first sparked the idea.

The creative process is a wild one, and I feel really grateful to be in it as grateful as I am almost to being a mum.

Sending lots of love to you and your tribe. Please help others by sharing or reviewing this episode - as we'd love to hear from you, too.

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Have a beautiful birth, enjoy your parenting and live a life you love.

Nadine xx

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