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Selfishness: The Root Cause of Divorce

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I was asked over on Quora what causes divorces. My one word answer was “Selfishness”.

It really is that simple.

Married couple has difficulties in relationship; both point finger at themself

It could be his selfishness, or her selfishness. In truth, it’s always a combination of his and her selfishness. Sometimes one spouse is far more selfish than the other. Sometimes they are both bad.

Selfishness can manifest as what we do, or what we refuse to do. It can result in not caring or caring too much. It can become destructive or abusive. But be it large or small, selfishness eats away at our marriage.

Find some place where you’re selfish, and change that.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and selfish comes way too easy.

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I was asked over on Quora what causes divorces. My one word answer was “Selfishness”.

It really is that simple.

Married couple has difficulties in relationship; both point finger at themself

It could be his selfishness, or her selfishness. In truth, it’s always a combination of his and her selfishness. Sometimes one spouse is far more selfish than the other. Sometimes they are both bad.

Selfishness can manifest as what we do, or what we refuse to do. It can result in not caring or caring too much. It can become destructive or abusive. But be it large or small, selfishness eats away at our marriage.

Find some place where you’re selfish, and change that.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and selfish comes way too easy.

Image Credit: © Bacho Foto | stock.adobe.com
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