"Will McGuire On Starting Your Own Business, Real Estate, Investing & Being A Present Father"

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Artificial intelligence is evolving at an unprecedented pace—what does that mean for the future of technology, venture capital, business, and even our understanding of ourselves? Award-winning journalist and writer Anil Ananthaswamy joins us for our latest episode to discuss his latest book Why Machines Learn: The Elegant Math Behind Modern AI . Anil helps us explore the journey and many breakthroughs that have propelled machine learning from simple perceptrons to the sophisticated algorithms shaping today’s AI revolution, powering GPT and other models. The discussion aims to demystify some of the underlying mathematical concepts that power modern machine learning, to help everyone grasp this technology impacting our lives–even if your last math class was in high school. Anil walks us through the power of scaling laws, the shift from training to inference optimization, and the debate among AI’s pioneers about the road to AGI—should we be concerned, or are we still missing key pieces of the puzzle? The conversation also delves into AI’s philosophical implications—could understanding how machines learn help us better understand ourselves? And what challenges remain before AI systems can truly operate with agency? If you enjoy this episode, please subscribe and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. Sign up for our newsletter at techsurgepodcast.com for exclusive insights and updates on upcoming TechSurge Live Summits. Links: Read Why Machines Learn, Anil’s latest book on the math behind AI https://www.amazon.com/Why-Machines-Learn-Elegant-Behind/dp/0593185749 Learn more about Anil Ananthaswamy’s work and writing https://anilananthaswamy.com/ Watch Anil Ananthaswamy’s TED Talk on AI and intelligence https://www.ted.com/speakers/anil_ananthaswamy Discover the MIT Knight Science Journalism Fellowship that shaped Anil’s AI research https://ksj.mit.edu/ Understand the Perceptron, the foundation of neural networks https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perceptron Read about the Perceptron Convergence Theorem and its significance https://www.nature.com/articles/323533a0…

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"Will McGuire on Starting Your Own Business, Real Estate, Investing & Being a Present Father" | #046

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We tackle some big questions: Is college worth it, or does real-world hustle win? What’s “house hacking,” and can people in their 30s actually own homes, or is that a myth like Bigfoot? Oh, and pro tip: Get your credit right if you want those sweet investing opportunities.

But it’s not all business—Will gets real about life as a husband, dad of two, and certified “girl dad,” sharing how parenting has made him more patient, reflective, and more intentional in showing up for his family. We also dig into mental health, the importance of giving yourself grace, and building an imaginary council of advisors in your head, inspired by Think and Grow Rich. Spoiler alert: Will’s head council definitely includes Dumbledore.

Speaking of Harry Potter, don’t miss Steve and Will’s nerd-out session over the wizarding world. Oh, and if you haven’t heard of this groundbreaking new tool called Google, Will has got you covered.

This episode is packed with laughs, insights, and heartfelt moments you don’t want to miss. Will McGuire: businessman, dad, and now, podcast legend.
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"The Power of Family, Overcoming Overwhelm, & Lessons That Last a Lifetime" | EP055 52:59

4 days ago52:59

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In this episode, we open up about the evolving role of family in our lives and the unexpected ways it shapes us. From navigating the overwhelming nature of big life changes to learning how to be present with the people who matter most, we reflect on the moments that define us. We talk about the resistance that comes with pushing ourselves toward new goals, the importance of giving ourselves grace in times of self-doubt, and why deep, honest conversations—especially with our parents—can be so transformative. JP shares his personal struggle with overthinking, and we discuss the power of stepping away from distractions to find clarity. We also explore the idea of building a true community, where meaningful connections replace surface-level interactions. This episode is about embracing life’s challenges, appreciating the people around us, and staying true to the journey, even when it feels overwhelming. Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Brandon Purdy: The Healing Power of Music & Discovering Creativity in Spirituality" | EP054 1:21:45

18 days ago1:21:45

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In this episode, we sit down with musician Brandon Purdy to dive into the healing power of music, creativity, and spirituality. Brandon shares how loss and personal struggles reshaped his artistic journey, transitioning from making “hollow” music to creating songs with real meaning. We explore the importance of reconnecting with childhood passions, the influence of legends like Prince and Michael Jackson, and the creative battles with comparison and perfectionism. Brandon opens up about meditation, journaling, and the impact of Rick Rubin’s "The Creative Act" in keeping his creativity centered. We discuss how psychedelics, breathwork, and spirituality have helped us process grief and trauma, as well as the role of forgiveness and gratitude in moving forward. This conversation is a raw, unfiltered look at the journey of self-expression, healing, and the realization that as long as you’re still in the game, you’re winning. Listen to Brandon's newest single "Keep Going" here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDAdIQEHUHs Instagram & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/itsbrandonpurdy/ https://www.tiktok.com/@itsbrandonpurdy 0:00 This weeks guest, musician Brandon Purdy 3:00 dealing with loss through the expression of music 5:00 Transitioning from making “hollow” music to meaningful expression through a creative rebrand 6:30 what sparked the newfound authenticity and being able to share your music with everybody of all ages 9:00 reconnecting with the things you loved as a child, for Brandon it was dancing 12:30 You don’t know how many people you’re helping without even knowing it 15:00 Being inspired by the greats like Prince and Michael Jackson and learning new skills and instruments 17:00 Wrestling with creativity when comparison and perfectionism creeps in 22:00 Journaling and reading “the creative act” by Rick Rubin to keep your creativity centered 26:00 the power of putting pen to paper and getting your thoughts out in the open 30:00 the spiritual process of finding your flow 35:00 Making a connection with spirituality 39:00 the importance of meditation and noticing your own thoughts 41:30 the shit I was doing, I shouldn’t be alive, but somehow, I’m here 43:20 nobody knows shit, we’re all just trying to figure all of this out 45:00 Dealing with loss as the world keeps going 48:00 the power of psychedelics and dealing with your past with intention 55:00 Dealing with guilt around loss and giving yourself forgiveness for the past that can’t be changed 1:01:45 nothing bad is going to come from being honest 1:04:00 unleashing the power of your mind and body in breath work and the wim hof method 1:08:00 Getting out of your own head and into your body so you can release trauma 1:12:00 forming gratitude around the small things Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"LMSW Nina Lugo: The Reality of Social Work, Mental Health Stigmas & Learning Coping Skills" | EP053 1:45:19

25 days ago1:45:19

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In this episode, we welcome Licensed Master Social Worker Nina Lugo, a passionate social worker making a difference in the lives of students, parents, and educators. Nina opens up about the realities of social work, shedding light on the often-overlooked emotional toll that comes with helping others navigate life's challenges. We explore how social work extends beyond just students—supporting parents and coworkers is just as important. Nina shares how she approaches tough conversations, from guiding parents through difficult truths about their children to breaking the stigma around mental illness and helping kids develop healthy coping mechanisms. We also dive into the state of the education system, the lack of essential life skills being taught in schools, and the pressing need for more mental health resources and role models for young men. Nina emphasizes how anxiety and fear are normal emotions that shouldn’t be demonized and how reframing conversations around mental health can help dismantle outdated stereotypes—especially regarding men and emotional expression. Throughout this conversation, Nina offers incredible insight into self-care as a social worker, the struggles of keeping work stress from creeping into personal life, and the importance of being in this field for the outcome, not the income. This is a raw, honest discussion about mental health, resilience, and the people working behind the scenes to create lasting change. Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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“Big News, Bigger Feelings: Life-Changing Moments & the Road to Fatherhood” Episode 052 41:19

5 weeks ago41:19

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This episode is a big one. An important one. Our most personal one yet. We told you we were gonna cry today—and for good reason. Steve is having a baby, and we dive deep into the whirlwind of emotions that come with it. Excitement, nerves, and the realization that life is about to change forever. We talk about giving up vices when major life shifts happen, the risks and rewards of big decisions, and the responsibility of breaking family patterns when bringing a new life into the world. Plus, a little debate on what the baby is gonna call Uncle JP, and why Knocked Up just became required viewing. This one’s real, raw, and straight from the heart. Tune in. 💙 0:30 I told you we were gonna cry today 2:00 Steve is having a baby 5:40 Excitement and nerves go hand in hand in these moments 12:00 Giving up your vices when life changing events come along 17:00 Risks always have rewards in these situations 18:50 Live Podcast from the Delivery room? 22:00 How are you excited to prepare for this baby on the way? 25:30 Breaking the patterns of yourself and your family when bringing a new life into the world 30:00 Wondering what the baby is gonna call Uncle JP 40:00 Now we gotta watch “Knocked Up” before the baby comes Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Trusting Yourself, Taking Risks & Updates on Consistency" EP051 33:11

6 weeks ago33:11

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In this episode, we dive into the environments that fuel our best work, the luxury of staying ahead, and the mindset shifts that help us keep going. We reflect on learning to trust ourselves, overcoming perfectionism (“Perfectionism is better spelled paralysis” – Winston Churchill), and embracing where we are while recognizing how far we've come. From Kobe Bryant’s lessons in discipline to the importance of taking risks in life, career, and money, this conversation is all about persistence, self-belief, and the power of consistency. Plus, we ask: what if we were 52 weeks ahead on the podcast? Tune in for an inspiring, thought-provoking episode! 1:00 What environment do you do your best work in? 4:30 the luxury of being ahead on the podcast 6:00 How’s your heart? & learning to trust yourself 10:00 the power that comes from not giving up 14:00 “Perfectionism is better spelled paralysis” -Winston Churchill 16:30 this podcast is just two guys doing a Rick Rubin impression 19:00 The excitement of having things to look forward to 20:15 Embrace where you’re and recognize how far you’ve come 22:00 The power of seeing our consistency pay off 26:44 Learning a lesson from Kobe Bryant and the 2008 USA basketball team 28:55 Life is all about taking risks, in money, in your career, in your personal life 31:00 what would it be like to be 52 weeks ahead on the podcast Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Rayvin Rey: Overcoming Scarcity, Embracing Patience, & Finding Your Soulmate” EP050 (Pt. 2) 1:21:17

7 weeks ago1:21:17

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In part two of our conversation with Rayvin Rey, we explore powerful insights on overcoming scarcity mindsets and embracing patience in personal growth. Rayvin shares her thoughts on finding alignment outside of relationships, balancing happiness with financial success, and breaking free from childhood beliefs about money. We discuss how physical activity can help manage stress, the importance of authentic self-expression, and the value of building a supportive community. Rayvin opens up about self-love, giving yourself the care you often seek from others, and nurturing meaningful relationships through attention, space, and listening. She also shares lessons from “The Alchemist” and her take on staying true to yourself, all while reflecting on the deeper meaning of love and how being your own soulmate is the foundation for everything. This episode is packed with wisdom, inspiration, and heartfelt moments you won’t want to miss! Support Rayvin on her website: https://rayvinrey.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayvin_rey/ Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@rayvinrey24 And support her podcast "The Self Love Sanctuary" here: https://open.spotify.com/show/5TxW0FumW1ZkNFdsItSGwZ or here Timestamps: 00:45 Changing the view around your 9 to 5 job and fulfilling your passions 3:30 Getting in alignment with yourself outside of a relationship 4:30 What’s more important? Happy relationships or making money? 6:00 Focusing on lack and losing the “must be nice” mentality 8:00 Fighting back against the money and scarcity beliefs that you grew up around 13:00 The struggle of striving to make something you love doing profitable 14:00 Regulating your attention span in a world of quick gratification 16:15 Patience with yourself and how it applies to personal growth 19:45 Using physical activity to handle mental stress 25:00 Sharing authentically while trying to improve, learn, and grow a community 27:30 "You don’t want 50 million fans. You want 5,000 people who care." 29:20 Lessons from Russ, Mike, and "The Alchemist" on being true to yourself 35:50 Conquering hard things is in the little things 40:00 Shameless plug for Whoop 45:30 Nighttime wind-down routine with stream-of-consciousness journaling 48:00 Giving yourself the love you desire so badly from others in relationships 51:30 The expression of love by listening to your partner’s podcast (if they have one) 55:30 True love is giving your partner the space they need 59:00 Conquering the shame of hurting someone the way you were hurt 1:02:00 The power of showing your partner attention 1:10:00 Should we call this episode “How to Find Your Soulmate?” 1:14:00 Your soulmate is yourself 1:15:00 Rayvin’s council Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Rayvin Rey on Overcoming Shame, Cultivating Self-Love, & Finding Your Authenticity" EP050 (Pt. 1) 1:31:21

8 weeks ago1:31:21

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"Rayvin Rey on Overcoming Shame, Cultivating Self-Love, & Finding Your Authenticity" EP050 (Pt. 1) In this episode, we sit down with our longtime friend and inspiring guest, Rayvin Rey , to explore the transformative power of unlearning, self-love, and personal growth. Rayvin shares her journey of shifting her baseline from negativity to positivity, using daily meditation practices like mirror meditations, and breaking free from the shackles of perfectionism. We dive into the importance of self-awareness in relationships—when to stop trying to change others and how character defines what we value most. Rayvin also opens up about rebuilding tough family relationships, handling shame, and navigating the ever-changing nature of life. From tackling negative self-talk to finding authenticity and inspiring others to do the same, this episode is packed with heartfelt wisdom, practical advice, and powerful reflections. Whether you’re struggling with perfectionism, relationships, or self-doubt, Rayvin’s perspective will resonate deeply and inspire you to embrace yourself fully. Tune in to hear about self-compassion, navigating shame’s impact on our view of money, and so much more! Don’t miss this uplifting and thought-provoking conversation. Support Rayvin on her website: https://rayvinrey.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayvin_rey/ And support her podcast "The Self Love Sanctuary" here: https://open.spotify.com/show/5TxW0FumW1ZkNFdsItSGwZ 2:50 – What was it like being friends with Steve and JP many years ago? 8:00 – Who is Rayvin Rey, and what is her path? 11:15 – The power of unlearning as you get older. 12:00 – Transforming your baseline from negative to positive. 16:00 – Cultivating awareness to catch yourself in the moment. 17:30 – Exploring mirror meditations and using meditation daily. 19:00 – Avoiding staleness by switching up your routine. 21:00 – Practicing self-love and accepting yourself for who you really are. 24:00 – Knowing that you are enough as you are. 25:00 – Tapping into your authenticity to inspire others. 30:00 – Recognizing self-awareness in your relationships and knowing when to stop trying to change others. 35:35 – How character shapes what you value in a relationship. 36:40 – Rebuilding tough relationships with your family. 39:00 – Avoiding stonewalling the people closest to you. 41:00 – Embracing change as the only constant in life. 52:00 – Dealing with rumination and practicing self-compassion. 54:30 – Handling negative self-talk with kindness and care. 57:00 – The daunting nature of perfectionism in all areas of life. 57:45 – “If I stop putting stuff out right now, people will only see the beginning.” Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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“Karate Master Joe Fry: Crushing Self Doubt, Building Confidence & Embracing Sensitivity” EP049 1:18:15

9 weeks ago1:18:15

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This week, we’re thrilled to bring you a very special episode, recorded live from the dojo with our longtime friend and karate master, Joe Fry! Joe is not only the owner of a thriving karate studio and a 5th degree black belt, but also a dedicated mentor, parent, and entrepreneur. In this episode, he shares his incredible journey of resilience, self-discovery, and teaching life lessons through martial arts. We dive deep into Joe’s story, starting with his childhood experiences of bullying and how they inspired him to embrace karate as a path to confidence and strength. He shares his philosophy of getting "1% better every day" and how martial arts has shaped his approach to life, parenting, and business. Whether it's battling imposter syndrome or staying accountable, Joe’s insights are powerful and relatable. The Impact of Teaching on Parenting: How working with students influenced Joe’s approach as a father. Overcoming Obstacles: The mental and physical discipline needed to own a business and navigate life's challenges. Building Confidence Through Karate: How martial arts empowers students to develop self-assurance and resilience. Battling Self-Doubt: Confronting imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and self-doubt while staying accountable. Physical and Mental Well-Being: Balancing fitness, mindfulness, and rest to avoid burnout and improve mental health. Finding Meaning in Spirituality and Nature: How staying present and embracing curiosity can lead to personal growth. Deep Questions About Life: Joe asks us thought-provoking questions like, “Would your 10-year-old self be proud of you?” Joe’s honest reflections about running a business, navigating fatherhood, and striving for personal growth will leave you inspired to take on your own challenges with confidence and clarity. Plus, he shares advice on how to avoid staleness in your physical activities, why good sleep and nutrition matter, and how spirituality connects us to something bigger. Visit the Fry's Karate on the web @ https://www.frykarate.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/frykarate_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hvmdk/ 1:40 - Live from the dojo with Joe Fry 5:00 - Teaching shaping parenting 7:00 - Partnering with your spouse 9:25 - Childhood bullying 11:00 - Pushing your body young 12:30 - 1% better daily 14:00 - Challenges of owning a business 15:56 - Overcoming obstacles 17:15 - Separating work and family 18:15 - Finding yourself in the pandemic 20:26 - Karate and confidence 23:11 - Inspiring student growth 26:15 - Imposter syndrome and self-doubt 28:00 - Staying accountable 29:25 - Living in the present 31:00 - Physical health for mental well-being 33:50 - Aging and injuries 35:27 - Avoiding staleness 37:45 - Sleep and nutrition 39:30 - Masculinity and sensitivity 44:00 - Providin Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"New Year Reset: Ryan Holiday’s Stoic Wisdom, Breaking Bad Habits & Crushing 2025 Goals" 1:38:13

10 weeks ago1:38:13

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It’s a New Year, and we’re starting 2025 by looking back at everything we learned in 2024. We talk about how one of us made the life-changing decision to get sober, and how that single choice improved not only our personal lives but the direction and consistency of this podcast. We also reflect on the massive growth we’ve seen since taking the podcast seriously in August—more views, more watch time, and way more subscribers. As for 2025? We’ve got big goals. We’re saying goodbye to bad habits (yes, we’re giving up the weed), doubling down on self-discipline, and focusing on showing up for ourselves and our audience in bigger, better ways. We dive into how we plan to tackle personal growth, like being more present, overcoming people-pleasing tendencies, and leaning into authenticity—even when it’s uncomfortable. We also talk about getting deeper spiritually, with one of us committing to explore their relationship with God and purpose by diving into philosophical and religious texts. On the professional side, we’re excited to improve the podcast even more by bringing in new guests, engaging with our listeners, and staying consistent in everything we do. This episode is full of real talk—about the challenges of staying grounded, learning from failure, and balancing life while chasing your dreams. It’s an honest look at where we’ve been, where we’re headed, and how we plan to make 2025 a year of transformation. Tune in, and let’s take this journey together! 00:10 - Time Jump in Our Podcast Schedule! 01:00 - Yearly Recap: Reflecting on Our Podcast Journey Personal Growth & Achievements 01:31 - Podcast Growth Since August 2024: Our Numbers! 03:09 - Consistency & Dedication: The Secret to Success 03:40 - How Sobriety Changed Our Personal & Professional Lives 04:44 - Sober Life Reflections: More Than Just a Change in Routine 05:59 - Sobriety Struggles: The Ups and Downs Challenges & Reflections 10:00 - Action vs. Overthinking: Lessons Learned 11:30 - Embracing Not Knowing Everything 12:22 - Spending Time Alone to Grow & Reflect 14:27 - Focusing on Trust & Intuition 18:15 - Take Action Now: Don’t Wait for the Perfect Moment 20:00 - How Physical Exercise Boosts Mental Health 25:01 - Wishing We’d Focused More on the Podcast Sooner Goals & Intentions for 2025 31:00 - Asking for Help & Managing Emotions Better 35:00 - Staying Present: The Power of Focus 40:00 - Quitting Bad Habits (Like Weed) for a Healthier Life 50:00 - Breaking Free From Vices: The Struggle to Stay Strong Philosophical & Spiritual Exploration 01:22:41 - Exploring My Relationship with God & Spirituality 01:24:05 - Trusting the Universe: A Spiritual Discussion 01:27:00 - Diving Into Religious & Philosophical Texts for Deeper Insight Podcast Improvements & Audience Engagement Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Grounding into Gratitude & Dealing with Your Displaced Anger" | Episode #048 1:03:55

11 weeks ago1:03:55

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"Grounding into Gratitude & Dealing with Your Displaced Anger | Episode #048 This week, we’re digging into the big stuff—like how to handle displaced anger, break free from people-pleasing, and challenge outdated stereotypes about masculinity. We explore how mindfulness and gratitude can help you stay grounded, even when life throws you a curveball. Plus, we dive into how noticing your irritability and physically grounding yourself can shift your mindset in powerful ways. On the practical side, we share tips for eliminating brain fog in the morning, celebrating the growth of others, and learning how to stop caring what people think about your lifestyle choices. And, as always, we sprinkle in some chaos: Steve gets fired up about perseverance, JP confesses his undying love for Kendrick Lamar’s "GNX," and we brainstorm whether advertising on a Macy’s Day Parade float could be the ultimate power move. Life’s unpredictable, so why not celebrate the wins, rethink what’s possible, and laugh along the way? Tune in for honest reflections, actionable advice, and a few ridiculous ideas that might just inspire you. 00:18 Guests are coming 3:25 Bringing our audience unique and interesting perspectives 9:45 Awareness around how you treat strangers when you aren’t feeling your best 11:40 Dealing w/ Displaced Anger 13:15 Society stereotypes about masculinity 15:45 Disciplined mindfulness 18:00 Running in the Rain 20:15 Being your own support system 22:00 People pleasing 26:30 Rejoicing in the growth of others 29:30 Not caring what people think about your lifestyle choices 31:25 Noticing your irritability 35:15 Nothing is guaranteed in this life 38:30 Physically Grounding yourself in gratitude 43:00 Come back to this video on episode 4,000 46:55 “I want the Whoop AI to be my friend” 47:30 Steve loves the idea of perseverance 48:55 JP is very grateful for Kendrick Lamar’s “GNX” 53:00 Eliminating Brain fog in the morning 58:00 Should we advertise on a Macy’s Day Parade Float?? Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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“The Power of Consistency, Mastering Your Brain States, Wisdom from Matthew McConaughey" | EP 047 52:42

12 weeks ago52:42

52:42

“The Power of Consistency, Mastering Your Brain States, Wisdom from Matthew McConaughey | EP 047 We’re back, and we’re leveling up. In this episode, we recap Will McGuire’s last visit, hype up our plans to bring on new, fascinating guests, and celebrate sticking with this podcast journey. Spoiler alert: we’re kind of proud of ourselves. We dive into the life hacks that are changing our game: yoga for better sleep, avoiding your phone in the morning, and hypnotizing yourself into becoming the best version of you. Along the way, we tackle some hard truths: stop half-assing things (shoutout #MatthewMcConaughey), control the controllable (thanks, John Cena), and admit that scrolling on social media might be ruining your brain (yikes). But hey, Deepak Chopra says you do have enough time to meditate, so there’s hope. As always, we sprinkle in some ridiculous tangents—color TV is the root of all evil, #veganrecipes are everywhere on our Instagram feed, and apparently Tom Glavine is the number 47 GOAT. Plus, every time you watch our #podcast , you’re helping us feed our dogs. What’s not to love? 2:00 Recap of Will’s previous episode, More guests are coming 6:00 Expanding our podcast 8:20 Proving to ourselves that we could stick with the podcast consistently 9:15 We’re looking for new and interesting guests 12:10 Wanted Ad: Looking for Good Person 14:50 “You can’t shoot for the moon when you don’t even work at nasa yet” 20:00 Taking stock of the progress we’ve made so far 23:00 Incorporating yoga to improve your sleep cycle and circadian rhythm 24:40 Avoiding being on your #smartphone right away in the morning hours 26:30 Beta and alpha brain states and hypnotizing yourself to be the best version 29:20 the importance of keeping your body in peak condition 29:45 Our podcast instagram news feed is just #veganrecipes 31:00 Discussing how proud we are of our whoop scores 32:35 Giving up wrestling for yoga? No fucking way 33:50 Little habits make big gains 34:50 Your future self will thank you for putting in the work 35:22 stop half assing things and don’t bullshit yourself- Matthew McConaughey 36:50 Color TV is the root of all evil 37:55 the science behind scrolling on socials and comparing yourself to others 38:55 becoming aware of the fact that many of our problems have ourselves at the root #selfreflection 39:10 Deepak Chopra says you do have enough time to meditate 41:29 Consuming our podcast mindfully is better for you than mindlessly scrolling on TikTok 43:00 Nothing like a spirited conversation to get the podcast going 43:10 What could happen or change in your life if you cut your screen time down 45:00 Watch our podcast so we can feed our dogs 46:35 “Control the controllable” - John Cena 47:00 Tom Glavine is indeed number 47, Troy Percival is not Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Will McGuire on Starting Your Own Business, Real Estate, Investing & Being a Present Father" | #046 1:11:20

13 weeks ago1:11:20

1:11:20

We do apologize for the poor sound quality in this episode, we had some audio issues throughout this episode, but we're still in good spirits because our good friend of the pod and honorary member of the Who Thought We’d Be Here? family, Will McGuire, stops by to drop knowledge, crack jokes, and remind us why he’s one of our favorite people. Will walks us through his journey of buying Joker Ink, taking risks, and always knowing he was destined to work for himself. We tackle some big questions: Is college worth it, or does real-world hustle win? What’s “house hacking,” and can people in their 30s actually own homes, or is that a myth like Bigfoot? Oh, and pro tip: Get your credit right if you want those sweet investing opportunities. But it’s not all business—Will gets real about life as a husband, dad of two, and certified “girl dad,” sharing how parenting has made him more patient, reflective, and more intentional in showing up for his family. We also dig into mental health, the importance of giving yourself grace, and building an imaginary council of advisors in your head, inspired by Think and Grow Rich . Spoiler alert: Will’s head council definitely includes Dumbledore. Speaking of Harry Potter, don’t miss Steve and Will’s nerd-out session over the wizarding world. Oh, and if you haven’t heard of this groundbreaking new tool called Google, Will has got you covered. This episode is packed with laughs, insights, and heartfelt moments you don’t want to miss. Will McGuire: businessman, dad, and now, podcast legend. Check out Joker Ink here https://www.jokerink.com/ and here https://www.instagram.com/jokerink_ny/ Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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Breaking Through Creative Blocks on the Spot: An Insight to Overthinking & Self Judgement” | Epsiode 045 47:00

14 weeks ago47:00

47:00

In this reflective and candid episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, we tackle resistance, overthinking, and finding balance in life and creativity. Recorded the day after the election, we start with a discussion on seasonal warmth in New York and dive into the struggles and lessons of the week. Steve opens up about his rough week and the importance of enjoying your own company. We explore the mental and physical release that comes from running and how pushing yourself during the day can lead to better rest at night. Reflecting on the Tao Te Ching and embracing life’s paradoxes, we share insights on staying present through deep breathing and managing emotions in the moment. The conversation turns to creative challenges, from dealing with resistance while recording the podcast to overcoming perfectionism and imposter syndrome in your work. We emphasize the importance of giving yourself the space to grow in your passion and resisting the pressure to make every episode a cinematic masterpiece. We also share inspiration from Alan Watts and Jay Shetty, discuss the dream of bringing Steven Pressfield on the show, and talk about facing fear head-on while staying true to your authentic vision. This episode reminds us that every journey starts somewhere, and it’s okay to solve creative blocks as they come. Whether you're struggling with overthinking, perfectionism, or self-doubt, we’re right there with you. 2:00 Warm in November in NY 4:09 I feel the resistance 6:00 Steve had a rough week 6:53 Enjoying being alone with yourself 8:10 Waking up in the morning feeling like I am going to prevail 9:22 The physical and mental release that comes along with running 11:20 Do you sleep better at night knowing that you pushed yourself today? 12:30 Recapping the Tao De Ching 13:37 Being ok with everything in life being a paradox 16:15 The past is nothing more than something that exists in your mind #AlanWatts 17:00 Using deep breathing to embrace your current state of emotions 18:45 Dealing with resistance and overthinking while recording this podcast episode 20:25 this is only the beginning of this podcast, we shouldn’t be applying pressure to ourselves 22:00 Jay Shetty “taking 90 seconds to pause can save your life” 23:00 We gotta get Steven Pressfield on this podcast 26:00 Giving yourself the space to learn and grow in your field of passion 28:05 The struggles of perfectionism in your creative work 32:25 The struggle of imposter syndrome when being compensated for your skills 33:30 This episode should be called “Solving blocks on the spot” 34:05 Being super sensitive to the energy around you 40:00 Stop trying to be somebody else vs following your own authentic vision 43:00 Every episode can’t be a cinematic and emotional masterpiece #WhoThoughtWedBeHere #Podcas Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"Side Dishes & Self Reflection" | A Thanksgiving Episode 14:07

15 weeks ago14:07

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In this special Thanksgiving episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, we’re here to keep you company on the way to your family gathering or maybe on that walk before dinner with your favorite cousin. The focus today is all about gratitude, self-reflection, and enjoying the season. We kick things off with a reminder to embrace the moment and focus on what you’re blessed with rather than what’s lacking. If you’re dreading family questions like “Are you still single?”—don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with some lighthearted advice and gratitude-centered perspectives. The conversation touches on what we’re grateful for this year, including personal growth, family support, and even the podcast itself. We encourage you to reflect on where you see yourself by next Thanksgiving and think about how to set yourself up for success in the coming year. There’s also a shoutout to #RamDass and a heartfelt moment about being grateful for yourself—because sometimes, that’s the most important form of gratitude. Of course, no Thanksgiving episode is complete without food talk. We debate the merits of turkey versus side dishes, discuss the mystery of Mississippi pot roast, and even throw pineapple and ham steak into the mix. Don’t forget to comment with your favorite Thanksgiving dish! We wrap things up with a blooper reel where things get a little out of hand, and a reminder to support Who Thought We’d Be Here? by subscribing, following, and sharing with friends. Wishing everyone a Happy Thanksgiving—don’t forget, it’s all about gratitude! Timestamps 0:35 Listen to this on the way to hang out with your family 1:10 Be happy to be here 1:35 Don’t focus on the lack, focus on what you are blessed with 1:55 This episode is for you if you are dreading your aunt asking you if you’re still single 2:25 What are you grateful for this year (Steve) 3:53 Bring gratitude to your thanksgiving gathering this year 4:15 Reflecting on where you see yourself on #thanksgiving next year 5:00 How do I want to set myself up for success ? 6:05 JP shares what he’s grateful for this year 7:10 Sometimes you have to be grateful for yourself 7:35 Shoutout to #RamDass 8:00 Being grateful for the podcast and the people who support us 9:00 Try to be your best self as much as possible, whatever that looks like for you 9:50 Support us by subscribing and following as well as downloads, comments, sharing this with a friend 10:15 Pineapple & Ham Steak? 11:00 Happy Thanksgiving and turkey is overrated, it’s all about the side dishes 12:30 What in the lords name is a Mississippi pot roast? 13:15 Comment your favorite thanksgiving dish? 14:00 BLOOPER REEL #WhoThoughtWedBeHere #PodcastBlooperReel #ThanksgivingPodcast #BehindTheScenes #PodcastLife #EpicFails #ThanksgivingLaughs #BloopersA Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free! https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/ Sign up for online therapy with our referral link. Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link: https://www.online-therapy.com/create_account.php?ref=199376&click_id=1025bb329a3007391208e272f114bc&utm_source=3088_Who%20Thought%20Wed%20Be%20Here%20Podcast&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2&offer_ref=offer1&&cookie_test=1 Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK https://www.jokerink.com/ NEW EPISODES WEEKLY! "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepod Please Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!…

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"That Old B*tch Self Doubt: How to Release Your Past & Prioritize a Meaningful Future" | Episode 044 50:53

16 weeks ago50:53