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Ep 31 Kink 101
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Here are some resources from Cameron for more info about kink:
Doctor Lindsey Doe, Clinical Sexologist, runs the YouTube channel Sexplanations (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkxMlA7rt-mnIc1AjbyAsPw). Her channel dives into a wide variety of sex topics. For further information on topics covered in today's episode have a look at the following videos:
Paraphilias - https://youtu.be/8powiyRASGM
Bondage 101 - https://youtu.be/RxH4DD-y1y0
Sexual Discipline - https://youtu.be/ONzKfbDJz_Q
Sex Shame - https://youtu.be/ZE_xn8Mhn_M
BDSM Dungeon Tour (definitely check this out if you're at all curious about what a dungeon is like!) - https://youtu.be/R0Zpyrbvo1o
Erotic Choking (we mentioned this briefly in the podcast - this video goes into much more detail) - https://youtu.be/DPlrum6p4xg
Daddies (a discussion about the term with a person who uses it in their own relationship) - https://youtu.be/8l9BfSD5knc
Watt's The Safeword is a sex education channel that focuses directly on BDSM topics - https://www.youtube.com/wattsthesafeword
For a more general guide, Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide To Kink is a good place to start: https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Kink-BDSM-Erotic/dp/157344779X/
Additionally Different Loving and its sequel, Different Loving Too are well-known. They are primarily about experiences as described by those interviewed, rather than about technique or method.
https://www.amazon.com/Different-Loving-Sexual-Dominance-Submission/dp/0679769560
https://www.amazon.com/Different-Loving-Too-People-Lives/dp/1771432586
For anyone interested in rope bondage specifically, Cam recommends the following books from his own collection:
https://www.amazon.com/The-Seductive-Art-Japanese-Bondage/dp/1890159387
https://www.amazon.com/Knotty-Showing-Ropes-Step-Step/dp/193116049X
https://www.amazon.com/Two-Knotty-Boys-Back-Ropes/dp/1931160694/
https://www.amazon.com/Shibari-You-Can-Use-Japanese/dp/0977872726/
Finding professionals who will treat kinky or kink-curious people with dignity can be an emotionally taxing experience. The Kink Aware Professionals directory is a fantastic resource to find professionals of all sorts, from psychologists to accountants to computer/IT pros. If you are a professional who is kinky or welcoming to kinky clients, you can add yourself to the registry to let people know you are a safe vendor to work with.
https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776
For readers interested in meeting people in their local kink scene, Cam recommends finding a local munch (mundane lunch) as a low-pressure social setting to make acquaintances. Several resources/strategies (none are fully comprehensive or bulletproof, mind) are:
http://findamunch.com/ - A general directory of kink gatherings, not just munches. Each event listed should have a description to help you understand what to expect and if that event is potentially right for you.
Google (seriously!) - Google "your city" + "kink" (or "bdsm") to see what events and groups are active in your area.
If you're interested in why Cam groaned at mentioning 50 Shades of Grey, this article does a thorough job of breaking down why kinky people dislike it: https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/film/three-reasons-50-shades-emotional-abuse-bdsm/940575
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When? This feed was archived on July 06, 2021 08:09 (). Last successful fetch was on May 31, 2021 21:40 ()
Why? Inactive feed status. Our servers were unable to retrieve a valid podcast feed for a sustained period.
What now? You might be able to find a more up-to-date version using the search function. This series will no longer be checked for updates. If you believe this to be in error, please check if the publisher's feed link below is valid and contact support to request the feed be restored or if you have any other concerns about this.
Manage episode 231595278 series 2427375
Here are some resources from Cameron for more info about kink:
Doctor Lindsey Doe, Clinical Sexologist, runs the YouTube channel Sexplanations (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkxMlA7rt-mnIc1AjbyAsPw). Her channel dives into a wide variety of sex topics. For further information on topics covered in today's episode have a look at the following videos:
Paraphilias - https://youtu.be/8powiyRASGM
Bondage 101 - https://youtu.be/RxH4DD-y1y0
Sexual Discipline - https://youtu.be/ONzKfbDJz_Q
Sex Shame - https://youtu.be/ZE_xn8Mhn_M
BDSM Dungeon Tour (definitely check this out if you're at all curious about what a dungeon is like!) - https://youtu.be/R0Zpyrbvo1o
Erotic Choking (we mentioned this briefly in the podcast - this video goes into much more detail) - https://youtu.be/DPlrum6p4xg
Daddies (a discussion about the term with a person who uses it in their own relationship) - https://youtu.be/8l9BfSD5knc
Watt's The Safeword is a sex education channel that focuses directly on BDSM topics - https://www.youtube.com/wattsthesafeword
For a more general guide, Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide To Kink is a good place to start: https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Kink-BDSM-Erotic/dp/157344779X/
Additionally Different Loving and its sequel, Different Loving Too are well-known. They are primarily about experiences as described by those interviewed, rather than about technique or method.
https://www.amazon.com/Different-Loving-Sexual-Dominance-Submission/dp/0679769560
https://www.amazon.com/Different-Loving-Too-People-Lives/dp/1771432586
For anyone interested in rope bondage specifically, Cam recommends the following books from his own collection:
https://www.amazon.com/The-Seductive-Art-Japanese-Bondage/dp/1890159387
https://www.amazon.com/Knotty-Showing-Ropes-Step-Step/dp/193116049X
https://www.amazon.com/Two-Knotty-Boys-Back-Ropes/dp/1931160694/
https://www.amazon.com/Shibari-You-Can-Use-Japanese/dp/0977872726/
Finding professionals who will treat kinky or kink-curious people with dignity can be an emotionally taxing experience. The Kink Aware Professionals directory is a fantastic resource to find professionals of all sorts, from psychologists to accountants to computer/IT pros. If you are a professional who is kinky or welcoming to kinky clients, you can add yourself to the registry to let people know you are a safe vendor to work with.
https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776
For readers interested in meeting people in their local kink scene, Cam recommends finding a local munch (mundane lunch) as a low-pressure social setting to make acquaintances. Several resources/strategies (none are fully comprehensive or bulletproof, mind) are:
http://findamunch.com/ - A general directory of kink gatherings, not just munches. Each event listed should have a description to help you understand what to expect and if that event is potentially right for you.
Google (seriously!) - Google "your city" + "kink" (or "bdsm") to see what events and groups are active in your area.
If you're interested in why Cam groaned at mentioning 50 Shades of Grey, this article does a thorough job of breaking down why kinky people dislike it: https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/film/three-reasons-50-shades-emotional-abuse-bdsm/940575
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