Best Intimacy Coach | Christian Husband Podcasts (2024)

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Q&A: How Do I Get My Point Across Without Arguing? 9:16

2h ago9:16

9:16

Isn't it frustrating when you can't seem to agree on anything in your relationship? Today's question comes from a listener who wants to know how to get his point across without arguing with his spouse. Maybe you've wondered the same. I am sharing a very effective communication tool called the "mirror moment." This is when you explain to your spouse…

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193: The Fast and Furious: Over-Coming Premature Ejaculation, featuring Mark Goldberg 45:38

2h ago45:38

45:38

I get asked frequently about what to do when you (or your husband) comes too quickly during sex, or has premature ejaculation. I wanted to do an in-depth episode on this topic to address the many questions that we have because frankly, sex isn't that enjoyable when it's over too quick or you just don't last as long as you'd like to. Even if this is…

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Turning Dark Years into Light: Lessons from Barb and Mark Case 47:30

2d ago47:30

47:30

Send us a Text Message. What if understanding your partner's childhood wounds could transform your marriage? Join us as we sit down with Barb and Mark Case, a couple who have spent 35 years navigating the ups and downs of life together. They share their candid journey from the blissful early days of their marriage to the financial strains and signi…

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10 Reasons for Lack of Intimacy in Marriage and How to Fix It 15:02

3d ago15:02

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On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack …

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[Sweet Repeat] - 12 Steps to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship 35:49

3d ago35:49

35:49

Rebuilding trust in your relationship when it has been damaged or destroyed may seem like an impossible feat. However, I believe there are 12 steps every marriage or relationship can benefit from when seeking to rebuild trust. Today's episode is a "sweet repeat" of episode 107 from July, 2022. These timeless truths will help any relationship with t…

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59 | Is It Over? Take These 5 Steps to Save Your Marriage After Adultery 37:25

4d ago37:25

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The day you never imagined you’d ever live to see has come and gone; D-Day. You have discovered sexual betrayal in your marriage. Whether you found out or your spouse confessed, you can’t believe that this has happened. You may be asking yourself, Is my marriage over? Is it worth saving? Is it possible to move forward? Today we are going to answer …

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Trying New Positions | Ep. 175 31:03

4d ago31:03

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Trying new positions can be a lot! Maybe you're not sure how to approach the conversation or you don't even know any other positions to try. This week, Ellen and Kathleen talk all things trying new positions in the bedroom! NOW AVAILABLE The Catholic Sex Positions Guide 48% off for a limited time! Over 70 pages, 50 + positions with illustrations, i…

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Episode 213: Potential Energy 26:35

4d ago26:35

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We are all full of potential energy. It's what's stored inside of us, waiting for us. It's what's possible in our lives. But we are often stuck there. Just in the potential. And today I'm talking about what's keeping you stuck in potential energy, what's preventing you from actually having what you want in your life-and how to change it! If you're …

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192: Why is it Hard to Keep Sex Passionate When You've Been Married for a Long Time? with Jenn Pinkerton & Dan Purcell 39:45

7d ago39:45

39:45

For most couples, there's a lot of hot passion and excitement during the early dating and engagement time and for a while after the wedding. But over time, we develop routines, scripts, and become habituated to each other. This is normal and serves a good purpose. However, herein lies the challenge: how do you create an intimate marriage with lots …

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Transforming Love: Marriage Ministry with Scott & Jenny Means 39:02

9d ago39:02

39:02

Send us a Text Message. Join us as we sit down with our dear friends Scott and Jenny Means to explore their incredible journey into marriage coaching. Scott shares his path from worship leadership to creating a curriculum that intertwines spiritual principles with marital relationships, a journey that has deeply enriched his and Jenny's marriage. D…

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How to Liven Up a Boring, Disconnected Marriage 17:38

10d ago17:38

17:38

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack …

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Do You Need a Hug, Help, or to Be Heard? 31:19

10d ago31:19

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When someone we love needs support, jumping into advice-giving mode is easy. Instead, we should ask these three powerful questions before dishing out solutions: Do you need a hug? Do you need help? Do you need to be heard? Beginning conversations with these questions deepens our connection and communicates respect, trust, and genuine concern. Recen…

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58 | Purpose from Pain. Did Sexual Betrayal Destroy God’s Plan for Your Marriage? 30:15

11d ago30:15

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Do you ever stop and wonder why? Why did this happen? Have you lamented, “Can anything good ever come of it?” When the discovery of sexual betrayal threatens to destroy your marriage, you may think you won’t survive it. Then, if you have made the choice to stay and do the hard work of recovery, you start to see God working in your life and marriage…

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They Mystery of Sexual Pleasure and the Body | Ep. 174 12:44

11d ago12:44

12:44

In this episode Ellen delves into why there isn't a checklist for sexual pleasure in marriage and why that's a good thing. She discusses the theological perspectives on the human body and sexual pleasure, emphasizing the opportunity for couples to learn and grow through the newness of each intimate encounter. Ellen encourages couples to embrace the…

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Episode 212: Opting Out 22:39

11d ago22:39

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Do you ever get annoyed by all the text messages and emails from shops alerting you to sales and information? Yeah, me too. But, at one point, you opted in to receving them...and that's exactly what's going on in your brain too. Today I'm talking about how that happens with our thoughts and feelings and how you can change it! Also, it's Rob's birth…

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Q & A: How Do I Tell My Spouse I Want a Divorce? 12:41

14d ago12:41

12:41

Today's Q&A is from a listener who believes their marriage is at a breaking point and needs advice on how to tell their spouse they want a divorce. Knowing little about the fallout of this marriage, I first encourage every couple in this situation to re-evaluate your marriage. Oftentimes, your marriage is not as far gone as you may believe. The fac…

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191: What the Heck is 'Relational Self-awareness,' and How Does it Help You Be a Better Lover? with Dr. Alexandra Solomon 37:24

14d ago37:24

37:24

It's so easy to notice how our spouse is making choices that get in the way of them getting what they really want. Our brains expend tremendous amount of energy trying to get our spouses to see things our way, because from our vantage point, they're self-sabotaging, right? It's so obvious (to us anyway). Of course, our spouses think think the same …

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Your Triggers Might be WRONG! Rethinking what your triggers REALLY mean. 16:02

16d ago16:02

16:02

Welcome back to Anatomy of Us! 🎙️ Today, Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive deep into a hot topic: triggers. Ever feel like you're constantly on edge, blaming others for how you react? This episode's insightful discussion is for you! 🙌 Here's what you'll learn: Redefining Triggers: Melanie breaks down why the term "trigger" is overused and ofte…

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The Sex Education Every Couple Needs with Paul & Lori Byerly 42:01

16d ago42:01

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Send us a Text Message. Unlock the secrets to a fulfilling marriage with esteemed marriage educators Paul and Lori Byerly. With an impressive 39 years of marital experience and 27 years dedicated to intimacy education, they share invaluable insights from their journey, including the creation of TheMarriageBed.com, their influential blogs The Genero…

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Trial Separation vs. Unstructured Separation: Which is Better for Reconciling? 17:32

17d ago17:32

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On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack …

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From Destruction to Restoration: 3 Keys to Rebuilding Your Marriage 24:42

17d ago24:42

24:42

Many marriages face problems and losses that test the very fabric of their relationships. From communication breakdowns to deep-rooted conflicts, navigating through the complexities of a marriage can be difficult. But there is hope. In this episode, we will explore the crucial concept of tearing down and building up in the context of a struggling m…

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57 | Alone No More: How Isolation Fuels Sex-Addiction and How to Defeat It 38:15

18d ago38:15

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What is isolation, and where does it truly begin? Imagine a lone animal in the wild, separated from its herd. We've all seen those heart-wrenching documentary scenes where isolation turns them into easy prey. Nature's example is a powerful reminder of a harsh reality: when we isolate ourselves from our community, we become vulnerable to the schemes…

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Grooming and Shaving | Ep. 173 34:33

18d ago34:33

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In this episode Ellen and Kathleen discuss the nuances of grooming and shaving the genital area from a Catholic perspective. They address common questions around the morality of grooming, reasons people choose to groom, and the purpose of genital hair. The episode also covers the importance of communication between spouses about grooming preference…

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Episode 211: How To Heal Resentment 21:24

18d ago21:24

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Do you feel resentment toward someone in your life? Maybe it's your spouse for his pornography problem, or your mom for making you take piano lessons, or your car because it's always unreliable...today I'm giving you a taste of what I taught in my "Healing Resentment" master class and going into what resentment is and the main causes of it! If you …

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Q & A: My Husband is Looking at Semi-Nude Pics of Women Online 9:55

21d ago9:55

9:55

In today's digital age, many affairs start online. Today's question is from a wife whose husband looks at semi-nude pics of women online and gets angry when she confronts him. This listener wants to know how to set boundaries with her husband to change his behavior. Take a listen as I explain how boundaries work in marriage and what she can do if h…

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190: Cultivating Healthy Eroticism in Long-term Marriages, with Dan Purcell 32:33

21d ago32:33

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For a lot of us, we associate the word "eroticism" with something that's distasteful or something that we probably shouldn't want as a Christ-loving people, right? We don't go embracing the things we see on Las Vegas billboards, for example. So eroticism to to some is kind of something hard to hear. Now, this is a concept I teach towards the end of…

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Take Life by the Horns! 11:04

22d ago11:04

11:04

🎙️ Welcome to Anatomy of Us! 🎙️ In today’s special mini-episode, Melanie takes the reins solo to share some transformative insights that have been floating around in her mind. 💭 She dives deep into the empowering concept of Taking Life by the Horns and how you can direct your path with intention and strength. 🔹 Empowerment through Choice: Learn how…

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Cherishing Each Other's Passions 37:24

23d ago37:24

37:24

Send us a Text Message. Imagine dreaming big dreams with your partner and creating a safe space for vulnerability and shared aspirations. In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of supporting each other's passions, even when they seem unattainable. This isn’t just about fulfilling dreams; it's about the journey of dreaming together and t…

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5 Reasons Why Your Husband Doesn't Respect Your Boundaries and How to Get Him to 18:28

24d ago18:28

18:28

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack …

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Live Coaching a Couple Reconnecting After Separation 34:48

24d ago34:48

34:48

Have you ever wondered what happens in a marriage coaching session? Will and Jo, a husband and wife married for three years need help reconnecting after a separation. They willingly discuss the challenges that led them to separate and what they're doing today to make version two of their marriage work. Jo and her husband navigated through financial…

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56 | Identifying Sex Addiction: Take the First Step Today 23:02

25d ago23:02

23:02

As a recovering sex-addict, I now find comfort in knowing that my addiction was real and that there is hope through recovery that I will not have to live the rest of my life as a “dis-integrated” man, always trying to hide myself from others based on a lie that if they really knew what I was doing, they would reject me. But I didn’t always understa…

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Painful Sex, Differing Comfort Levels, and Communicating about Sex | Ep. 172 25:08

25d ago25:08

25:08

Today Ellen is answering a question from Instagram: My husband really resists oral, but sex has been painful for me. He's really rough. I spoke up and there's been no change. As you can see there are a lot of facets to this question and we cover it all in this episode! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode…

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Episode 210: Resignation V Acceptance 13:45

25d ago13:45

13:45

Do you feel resigned to your situation? Like it's not something you can change and you just have to live with it? I get it. Today I'm diving into what resignation is and why it's a lie-yup. I said it! I'm going into the difference between resignation and acceptance and how to shift into acceptance! Come join me in coaching! Click here to get full p…

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Bonus: Business Client Success Story with Shelby Hansen 40:22

28d ago40:22

40:22

It's time to celebrate! Over the last 6 months I have coached some incredible business clients inside an intimate business mastermind! And today I am honored to share with you Shelby's story! Not only is she an incredible coach who's personal story inspires me immensly (which she shares in this interview), she has also seen incredible growth over j…

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Q & A: How Do I Pray Scripture Over My Marriage 12:02

28d ago12:02

12:02

One of the most powerful ways to pray is to use the Word of God in your prayers. Scripture teaches us how to enact God's kingdom here on Earth in our lives, including our marriages. Today’s question comes from a listener who listened to another episode I recently shared about prayer and wanted to know how exactly to pray the Scripture over her marr…

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189: The Secret to Saving Our Sabotaged Sex Lives (and how they got so messed up in the first place!), with Rhonda Farr 46:33

28d ago46:33

46:33

Did you know that most couples that visit traditional sex therapy have very poor outcomes? They're still just as dissatisfied two years later as they were before therapy. Now this insight is particularly striking to me. I think this happens because conventional sex therapy has a primary focus on the individual genitals and sexual dysfunction; there…

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Is this Anxiety REALLY Mine?! Examining Inherited Anxiety 13:24

30d ago13:24

13:24

👋 Welcome to Anatomy of Us! Today Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive into a topic that's been on her mind: Inherited Anxiety. 🌟 In this episode, Melanie explores how we often unknowingly inherit anxieties and fears from our families and claim them as our own. 😲 Join Mel as she breaks down the importance of examining and distinguishing between i…

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How to Have More Emotional Intimacy with a Difficult Spouse 11:57

1M ago11:57

11:57

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack …

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5 Boxes to Check Before You Divorce - with Dr. Kim Kimberling 36:14

1M ago36:14

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I don’t know where you are in your marriage today, but I believe God led you to this episode for a purpose. If we’re honest, most married people have thought about divorce at some point in their relationship. Perhaps, right now, you might be about to file papers or maybe you desperately want to help a friend or loved one who is considering divorce.…

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55 | Our Podcast is One Year Old!!! Marriages Redeemed, Hearts Renewed 24:55

1M ago24:55

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Have you ever felt like God was nudging you towards something challenging in life? Maybe a call to step out of your comfort zone and venture into the unknown. It can be intimidating, right? Would you be willing to take that leap of faith and trust that God has your best interests at heart, even when the path ahead seems uncertain? If you have taken…

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Lingerie Style Guide | Ep 171 33:42

1M ago33:42

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In this week's episode Kathleen and Ellen talk about some common elements of lingerie. They discuss both personal preferences as well as how certain elements can fit well for certain body types or seasons of life (like postpartum or pregnant bodies!) We talk through some pieces specifically on the Mentionables website. While we reference specific p…

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Episode 209: Correlation V Causation 16:44

1M ago16:44

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It seems like your husband's pornography problem is causing all of the issues you are facing...but what if that's not true? And what if that's the best news ever? Today I'm using my concepts from my Sociology degree and talking about the difference between when one thing CAUSES another to happen (and what that means) versus when one thing is CORREL…

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Q & A: We Have a Blended Family But My Wife is Too Strict! 9:57

1M ago9:57

9:57

Whether you have a blended family or not, agreeing on how to parent the kids can be a challenge. Today's question comes from a listener who wants to know how to handle when his wife is too strict with the kids. He's tried bringing the issue to her attention but she gives him the silent treatment. Listen as I share three thoughts on how to agree wit…

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188: Awesome Intercourse and Pleasurable Penetration, with Susan Bratton 53:20

1M ago53:20

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In this episode, we're going to be talking about making penetration pleasurable, a how to make intercourse amazing, and how to close the orgasm chasm in your marriage, as well as some specific techniques on how to make sex with your spouse sweeter and more worthwhile. I love doing episodes like this because I learn a lot about how to make sex fun a…

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