I know I’m Crazy podcast, hosted by Master Life Coach, Naja Hall focuses on divorce, coparenting, steparenting and mental health by putting a light-hearted spin on very serious topics.
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I’m Jill Coil, the author of the book and docuseries “No One Dies from Divorce.” But with the mental, emotional, financial, physical, and spiritual toll that divorce takes on people, the scope is so big that I decided to create a podcast, so this can be an ongoing conversation.Divorce sucks. I know because I’m a divorce attorney and have divorced hundreds of clients at this point. I also went through a separation myself with my husband. Though our journey ultimately did not end in divorce, i ...
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Do you feel stressed out, bewildered, emotionally compromised, or overwhelmed with navigating your divorce? Today we are talking with author Andy Heller about how to deal with high-conflict divorces and co-parent effectively. Through his own divorce and life experience, Andy has outlined a pathway for how to manage emotional, logistical, and financ…
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The Ugly Truth About Co-Parenting with Samantha Boss
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Samantha Boss spent years in and out of court, fighting to modify a poorly crafted divorce decree. This experience inspired Samantha to begin coaching others through the divorce process in order to help more parents avoid the pitfalls of parenting plans. Join us on this episode as we talk about the need for a solid, perfectly tailored parenting pla…
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Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce
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Divorce is hard on everyone. Between Mediation, decrees, lawyer fees, court dates, parent-time, and more, the divorce process can create a lot of chaos. Often the children of divorce get lost in the conflict, and their voices are not heard. Today we are talking with Grace Casper, a young woman who was a child of divorce. Grace is sharing her perspe…
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How to Move Forward after Loss, Divorce, & Grief
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Shelly Anderson is passionate about life's journey and the stages we grow through. At times that includes loss, divorce, and death. Join us as we discuss how grief isn't just a single stage, and that trauma becomes a part of who we are. Time does not heal all wounds; time allows the body to absorb the wounds and create space so we can mourn the lif…
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The Cost of Blended Families with Naja Hall
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If you're divorced and dating or dating a divorcee, then this episode is for you! Listen in as Naja Hall tells it like it is. Blended families are difficult under the best of circumstances, but marrying someone with a High-Conflict divorce comes at a cost. It will test you mentally, emotionally, and financially, and test your relationship with your…
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Should I stay or Should I go? with Kate Anthony
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Regardless of where you're at in your marriage or divorce process, there are a few key things to consider before choosing to stay or go. Divorce coach Kate Anthony talks about the importance of doing the emotional work which can guide you to finding joy and/or exit with grace. She says, Happiness is an inside job and it begins with making the choic…
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Why Not Ask? Getting what you want and need after divorce.
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The question we should all be asking ourselves Why not ask is relevant in all facets of life. From high-conflict divorces to negotiations in the workplace, we can all benefit from the art of having Crucial Conversations that apply to all our relationships. Join us as we talk with Negotiation expert, Christine McKay, about how Negotiation isn't abou…
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Divorce and the Unspoken Childhood Trauma with Tara Seals
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Make your passion your purpose and it becomes your profession, something Tara Seals, The Bossy Educator has definitely accomplished. As a child of divorce, an educator, and a bonus mom herself, Tara knows all about what divorce means for children. In this episode, Jill and Tara dive into the unspoken trauma and confusion that impacts children when …
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Let Him See That Child with Attorney Boyd
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For Jill and Joanna, family law was a calling. A call to represent the underdog and even the playing field for fathers. Both women have set the bar high in establishing firms that advocate for equal rights, parent time, and a voice is doing what's best for the child. Too often children are weaponized and used as leverage for money and control. List…
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A Path to Peaceful Resolution with Jan & Jillian
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Navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce can be exhausting and at times infuriating. However, many couples are able to come to peaceful resolutions having little to no conflict with the help of experts Jan and Jillian. Divorce doesn't have to ruin your life, but it will redefine it. In some cases, it may open old wounds and push you to find emot…
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Murdaugh Murders: Scandal of a century with Kara North
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You are in for a wild ride as we journey down the Rabbit hole of corruption with the Murdaugh family murders. At the center of it all is underage drinking, poor parenting, white privilege, and a prominent family wrapped in a web of deceit and corruption. On the surface what appeared to be a reckless boating accident turned into the scandal of a cen…
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So you fell in love with a partner who has kids! Everything seems pleasant at first, but quickly you become villainized as the “wicked stepmother.” You feel overwhelmed, unseen, blamed, and like you're always walking on eggshells. If this sounds like your journey as a step parent, join us as Radical Stepmom Christina shares her personal and profess…
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Unbounded: How to reclaim your life with Mary Crafts
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Today we are talking with Mary Crafts about her hard won life lessons in her newly published book, Unbounded: From Sorrow to Summitt. At 50 Mary found herself, overworked, overweight, and in a toxic loveless marriage. Something had to give. Join us as she shares her wisdom on how to honor yourself, reclaim your life, and let go of fear.…
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Women Breaking Barriers with Kathleen Martinez
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In this episode we uncover the outdated beliefs and practices within the legal system and how being a strong, independent woman comes with unique challenges. Listen in as Jill and Kathleen share their journey to success by overcoming the odds and obstacles of discrimination, shaming, and self doubt within the legal field. Join them as they champion…
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Doing Divorce Differently with Kate Strong
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Sadly our society and the legal system encourages that we stack the evidence against our spouse to justify why we deserve a divorce. Often this approach only makes things worse and children become the collateral damage. There is another way. Today we are talking with Kate Strong about what it really means to do divorce differently. It starts with A…
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Old School Dating Standards with New School Style ft. Katy Clark
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Dating after divorce can be daunting and exhausting. “The grass isn't always greener. It still has to be watered and most of it is fake. 80% of the dating pool is junk, they haven't done the work to be a good date,” says Katy Clark. Join us as we dive into how to reinvent yourself post divorce, start your Glow-Up and go from frumpy to fabulous with…
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When We Know Better, We Do Better with Cindy Stibbard
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Often when we are young we are blinded by love and overlook the small acts of indiscretion and disrespect in a relationship. Years later after marriage, kids, and abandonment of self, we face divorce filled with anger, fear and resentment. Together Jill and Cindy are on a mission to eradicate the shame and stigma around divorce. Listen in as certif…
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Time to clean house: How Real Estate can affect your Divorce
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Divorces are messy, especially when it's time to clean house and sell! Today we are talking to divorce real estate expert, Joe Gordon on why you want a certified specialist vs. a standard agent when selling a house during a divorce. Having experienced his own divorce and the complexities of selling, Joe understands the delicate process it is to unr…
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Breakup to Breakthrough with Leanne Kanzler
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With a New year, new you under way, this might include new relationships. But first, before we can start something new, we need to break up with the old and let go of what is holding us back. Join me and Leanne Kanzler as we talk about how to Breakup to Breakthrough and live your best life! It's time to break free from what isn't working.…
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It's that time again! Join us as we present this year's calendar challenge designed with you and life in mind. We all have roadblocks, setbacks, and heartbreak, but we also have dreams, goals, and ambitions. This month focus on one daily challenge to create a better you. And remember, courage begins with one step!…
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What should have been a clear cut divorce turned into a 3 year long battle with wild accusations, late night social media rants, and massive public scrutiny. Join us as we talk all about Kim and Kanye, his radical behavior, her ice cold shut outs and how even an iron clad prenup won't save you from a PR and legal nightmare.…
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Smoke and Mirrors: the Jen Shah and Momtok Scandals
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There is no shortage of drama in Utah when it comes to the Wizard of Oz, Jen Shah and Momtok “swinger,” Taylor Frankie Paul. Jen Shahs is facing potentially 30 years in federal prison for fraud and Taylor is facing solitary confinement as a newly proclaimed monogamous woman. Shah struck gold by defrauding elderly people out of their retirement and …
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Tackling Teenage Angst During Divorce with Amy Parry
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"How can I help the individuals going through a traumatic event like divorce,” is the question psychiatrist Amy Parry asks herself? Oftentimes teenagers get thrown to the side when parents are divorcing. Amy was drawn to teenagers who are struggling with the fallout of divorce on mental health. In her work she focuses on trying to understand what t…
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Stephanie Andersen- Cultivating Gratitude
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With the holiday season upon us, we often become quickly overwhelmed with to-dos. In this episode, Steph Andersen talks about the power of healing and yoga: to unit or become one with self. If the heartbreak of divorce and fractured relationships have you stressed out, take a minute to release those trapped emotions and center yourself. Finding bal…
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Relationships are hard and being human is complex, especially when you're going through a divorce. Today we are diving into why therapy is beneficial to individuals and families during or post separation. Divorce doesn't erase the relationships, it just changes the dynamics. We all need a safe space to unpack the emotions without shame or blame. Li…
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How to go from Lonely to Loved with Dr. Morgan
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As an expert on attachment theory, Dr Morgan shares with us her insights on how to attract relationships you deserve. In today's episode we discuss how the habit of putting others' needs before our own, or ignoring our internal experiences, drives us to seek distractions from dealing with ourselves. Join us as we explore how healthy romantic relati…
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The spooky side of divorce (Halloween edition)
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Not all divorce is high conflict. In this special Halloween edition, we uncover the seemingly dark side of divorce. We shake the bones loose and question the cost of Adultery, being a bad Spouse vs a good parent, and do moms always win? Listen in as we blast some of the spooky myths about divorce.By Jill Coil
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Getting creative and compromising in mediation
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You can't fight for your rights if you don't know your rights. Rob Jepson has dedicated his career to helping divorcees avoid heartache, pain, and financial setbacks through solution oriented mediation. We all need guidance on what is legal, within our rights, and what we really want during divorce. Join us on this episode as we talk about the goal…
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Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Family with Andy Heller
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While navigating through the turmoil of his own divorce, Andy Heller read countless support books to help him through the process. He identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women experiencing divorce. His book, “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family,” is his give back with a stated goal of ma…
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Two Attorneys Talk all things Johnny Depp-Amber Heard trial. Ft. Jahan Kalantar
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Jahan Kalantar fell in love with advocating for the little guy. During the pandemic, overnight he went from a booming practice in Syndey to zero revenue. The Government's regulation was confusing, convoluted and divisive. So he took to TikTok to help explain the law in plain English. Then he struck TikTok gold with the Depp-Heard case, or as he cal…
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Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo co-host one of the top marriage podcasts on Apple called, The One Extraordinary Marriage Show. From their own experience and years of helping others, they know a thing or two about what it takes to make any relationship last. It starts by understanding the six pillars of Intimacy. Tony and Alisa have written a best selling …
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Her Hips Don’t Lie: The shake down of Shakira and Gerard’s split.
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Shakira and Gerard Pique split after 12 years together. They have two children together. There is much speculation and gossip around why they are breaking up. Join us as we go into all the juicy details of the power couples split. Shakira’s hips may not lie but her lips aren’t moving and the truth behind their break up may never come to light. And …
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Tomorrow Needs You! You are never alone: Suicide Prevention Month
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Michael Wise is a paralegal for MoxieLaw, a personal injury firm. He is dedicated to helping people find peace and closure through difficult times, including the struggles many of us have with mental health. Today Michael and I will be discussing the very sensitive yet crucial topic of suicide. Join us as we go over 5 things you can do to help you …
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Tessa White: Crucial Coaching on How to Be Successful in Your Career
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Welcome to season 2! Tessa is the founder of The Job Doctor. A practice dedicated to building career strategies and re-engaging people in the workplace. She believes anyone and everyone can gain new skills to enter the workplace and thrive. Tessa was newly divorced and had been out of the workplace for a while. She knew she had to provide for her f…
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IKIC Ep 99: Tiktok Phenom Lisa Sonni chats narc abuse and how to beat ’em
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Naja chats with TikTok phenom Lisa Sonni. As a survivor of domestic assault and narcissistic abuse, her first-hand experience has led her to become a certified Life & Relationship Coach who helps clients of all genders and walks of life overcome challenges stemming from traumatic partnerships. She is the author of The Trauma Bond Recovery Journal, …
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098: Josh The Shaman breaks down Mental Science
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Naja chats with a real life Shaman! You can also watch this episode on youtube https://youtu.be/-C4aIbsknmI As a mental scientist, Josh The Shaman studies the spirit's effect on the mind and the mind's effect on physical matter. We all want beautiful results in our love lives, in our homes, and in our worlds; but have you ever felt like there’s an …
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097: The Coparenting Coach Anthony Johnson talks break up, healing, and acceptance
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Coach Naja and Coach Anthony Johnson have a candid chat about the ins and outs of coparenting. After Anthony and his coparent ended their romantic relationship, he spent time learning how to take his family away from hardship to love. It wasn't always easy for him, but today he helps other families, individuals, and coaches find balance. Visit him …
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096: IKIC Chats with Intentional Peace with Mediator Charles Robinson
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Naja chats with Mediator Charles Robinson, JD about single fatherhood, the practice of intentional peace, and how meditation changes the shape of your brain. About Charles: Charles Robinson has extensive training and experience in Labor/Employment Law, and Mediation. A graduate of the University of Wisconsin-Law School, he is a former Administrativ…
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095: Is it possible to Enjoy Your Blended Family with Randall and Scarlett Tandy
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Randall and Scarlett Tandy, founders of EnjoyingYourBlendedFamily.com chat revolving doors, family conflict, & unexpected joy. To watch this episode https://youtu.be/z_m0iIPyolY MEET THE TANDYS: We officially started our blended family journey in 2008, after dating a year and a half. We started with our 3 kids (one "his baby" and two "her babies") …
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No One Dies from Divorce concludes it's first season. Thank you everyone for the support and we will see you in the fall! Follow @jillcoil on Instagram, Tiktok, and Facebook to stay up to date.By Jill Coil
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094: Jamie Scrimgeour on ours babies, compassion, and setting boundaries
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Jamie Scrimgeour is a wife, stepmom of three, and mom of one. Professionally she is a Life Coach with a specialization in Stepfamily Dynamics, a podcast host, and a digital content creator. After gaining an instant family, she found herself needing help with the tricky transition. Jamie inspires other Moms and Stepmoms to live a KICK-ASS life as sh…
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A Better Way to Come Through Trials with Krista Andersen
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Krista Andersen is passionate about living fully, family, conflict engagement, using words to heal instead of harm, and creating memorable experiences. Her passion for how words are used to heal and harm led her to the field of mediation where Krista is devoted to helping clients learn how to engage in conflict in healthy ways. Knowing that conflic…
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The final divorce tip this season! I'm explaining what to do when divorcing a NarcissistBy Jill Coil
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From Falling Flat to Standing Tall with Megan Sanford
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You sometimes have to fall flatter on your face then you ever have to be able to stand taller than you ever could. This is exactly how Megan Sanford would describe her experience of being addicted to Meth, pregnant at 19, and not knowing if she would be here tomorrow. Megan shares her most vulnerable story with the world in hopes that it will give …
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"If you are in a relationship that is keeping you from being happy for whatever reason, then it is probably not best to stay in said relationship."By Jill Coil
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093: Katie Davie chats Coparenting Peacefully
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Katie Davie, founder of Coparenting Peacefully stops by I Know I'm Crazy with Naja Hall to chat raising balanced kids, conflicted coparenting and life after love. Katie is a seasoned co-parenting Mama, co-parenting coach, and aspiring mediator. As someone who was previously trapped in a high-conflict relationship, she has been through it all. copar…
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Family and Immigration Law Broken Down with Pooja Mehta
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Immigration is scary and a complicated process for those that have started, are in the middle and/or are in the final stages of the process. It can be almost paralyzing when having to deal with immigration when going through a divorce. In fact many think that they cannot divorce or leave an abusive relationship because of their immigration status. …
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Not all divorces go to trial, but some do. I explain in this divorce tip episode why that would happen.By Jill Coil
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092: Unapologetic Divorce Lawyer Nicole Sodoma chats choosing happiness & self love
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Naja chats with fellow Southern belle and Family Lawyer, Nicole Sodoma about how her perspective on divorce changed after she experienced her own. Nicole Sodoma is the Founder and Managing Principal of Sodoma Law. For the past 25 years, Nicole has pioneered a way through the often-dreaded field of family law with integrity, compassion, and tenacity…
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Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard - Trial broken down with Sterling Swank
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Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard’s Defamation trial has been heard around the world. Millions are captivated at every move, argument and evidence that has been presented regarding Johnny Depp's Defamation case against Amber Heard and her Counter Complaint for Defamation against Johnny Depp and his Lawyer. Jill Coil and Sterling Swank break down the trial…
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