Best Sharon Costanzo Podcasts (2024)

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139. Four Steps to a Better Marriage with the Better Marriage Blueprint 17:05

6m ago17:05

17:05

We hear all the time that marriage is work. But nobody is talking about what that work is, how to work with a less enthusiastic partner, when what you’ve got is as good as it gets, or when to shift gears and try something else. In this episode, Sharon breaks down her four part framework for realistic, lasting relationship growth. Topics Discussed: …

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138. Contemplating Divorce with Anna Howerton 41:53

42m ago41:53

41:53

What should you do if you’re unhappy enough in your marriage to consider divorce? Divorce is expensive, it’s messy, and complicated. And it’s hard for kids. But staying in a marriage that isn’t working is also a really hard and painful way to live. Anna Howerton joins the podcast to talk about navigating the divorce contemplation phase. Listen to l…

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137. Setting Boundaries With Difficult Behavior 17:34

7h ago17:34

17:34

Would you like to learn how to set boundaries around difficult behavior without creating more drama? In this episode, we dive into the often discussed but misunderstood concept of boundaries. Sharon shares some ideas for de-escalating and neutralizing offensive behavior without being punitive or provocative. Website and Linktree: Get the full show …

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136. How to do Conflict Right with Kat Newport 32:13

7d ago32:13

32:13

Let’s face it. Most of us haven’t been taught how to do conflict well. And our lack of skill in tough conversations can really wreak havoc on our relationships. In this episode, host Sharon Costanzo talks to Kat Newport about the principles from her book Smart Conflict. Kat has done some brilliant work identifying and teaching the core skills for n…

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135. Seeing Your Relationship Blind Spots with Jessica Myers-Adams 42:47

15d ago42:47

42:47

Feel like you’re doing too much work in your relationship? Jessica Myers-Adams, a certified therapist and relationship coach talks about the power of being a relationship visionary. We explore practical strategies for improving relationships even in the face of personal challenges & disappointment. We discuss: the importance of self and other diffe…

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134. Stability, Intimacy, and the Power of Faith in Relationships with Dr. Bruce Chalmer 26:14

22d ago26:14

26:14

Can too much stability in a relationship be a bad thing? Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a psychologist with over 30 years of experience in couples therapy says that often couples get so good at stability in their relationship that they neglect their need for intimacy. We discuss: The tension between stability & intimacy in relationships Bruce’s seven word form…

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133. Challenging the 'Let the Man Lead' Paradigm with Corrie Woods 53:54

1M ago53:54

53:54

A very casual conversation with Corrie Woods about our mutual dislike for the very common relationship advice to “let men lead.” Website and Linktree: Get the full show notes and links to the resources mentioned at https://respectedandconnected.com/podcast/b/ep-133 Sign up for the next Thriving Together Couples Call: https://www.respectedandconnect…

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132. Understanding “Nice Guys” in Relationships with Jason Lange 42:17

1M ago42:17

42:17

What’s wrong with being a “Nice Guy” anyway? Jason Lange, a specialist in men’s issues, particularly the Nice Guy Syndrome shares his insights on the evolution of men’s roles and the importance of being connected with one’s power, head, and heart. We discuss: What is the Nice Guy Syndrome and how do men develop it Challenges and misconceptions abou…

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131. Defining and Creating a Partnership Marriage with Dr. Julie Hanks 33:08

1M ago33:08

33:08

Have you ever felt hesitant to speak up and advocate for the supportive partnership that you want? Dr. Julie Hanks, a licensed therapist, owner of Wasatch Family Therapy, and well known influencer, shares her insights on creating partnership families and the challenges that often come with this endeavor. We discuss: The concept of aspirational sham…

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130. The Pain of Partnering with Men with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud 39:24

2M ago39:24

39:24

Would you like to experience greater intimacy and connection with your male partner? In this episode, we welcome Eric Fitz Medrud, a therapist specializing in relationships and men's issues. Eric shares his personal journey from struggling with his own desires and ethical values to becoming a specialist in relationship and sexuality therapy. He hig…

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129. Reclaiming Intimacy: Navigating Sexual Shame and Marriage with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers 35:45

2M ago35:45

35:45

What did you learn about sex growing up and how is it impacting your marriage? In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, an esteemed author and sex therapist, to explore the profound impact of sexual shame on intimacy and relationships. Dr. Sellers shares her extensive knowledge on the subject, drawing from years of …

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128. What to do When Your Spouse Says No 17:58

3M ago17:58

17:58

What’s the best way to respond when your spouse rejects your carefully considered requests? In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked yet critical topic of dealing with rejection in marriage. Sharon shares valuable insights on maintaining a healthy relationship despite disappointments. Listen to learn how to handle rejection with grace and…

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Building a Balanced Partnership: Sharon Costanzo on Shared Values and Resilience in Marriage 35:23

3M ago35:23

35:23

Ever wondered how to maintain a strong, balanced marriage amidst life's chaos? Sharon Costanzo from Respected and Connected joins us to share her compelling journey from an achievement-oriented upbringing to creating a partnership that thrives on mutual respect and egalitarian values. Sharon opens up about the unique challenges she faced in finding…

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127. Understanding and Valuing Personality Differences in Relationships with Erin Woodruff 34:34

3M ago34:34

34:34

Do you ever wonder if your marriage would be easier if your spouse was just a little more like you? In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities and beauty of personality differences within relationships. Our guest, Erin Woodruff, a life coach who specializes in helping high-achieving women stay happily married to introverts, joins us…

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Healing and Renewal in Marriage: Brad and Lisa Valencia's Journey of Faith, Redemption, and Personal Growth 49:48

3M ago49:48

49:48

Could your marriage withstand the weight of hidden challenges and small compromises? Join us on this powerful episode of the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast as we welcome Brad and Lisa Valencia from Unrelenting Pursuit. They courageously share their transformative story from marital strife to triumph, driven by Brad's conviction to reveal the miracl…

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Welcome to Respected & Connected 1:34

3M ago1:34

1:34

Welcome to Respected & Connected the podcast dedicated to helping couples build more balanced and equitable relationships. Whether you're in the thick of raising kids and trying to establish a career or you’re considering what you want your empty nester chapter to look like our conversations are here to empower you and validate your experiences. In…

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126. The Power of Being Free to be Yourself with Megan Gibson 41:04

3M ago41:04

41:04

Tired of the old advice on the "right" way to get what you need in your relationships? Discover the transformative power of discovering your true identity and how your relationships can benefit with Megan Gibson. We discuss: The journey from people-pleasing to self-empowerment How to identify and let go of false identities Practical tips for aligni…

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Overcoming Communication Barriers in Marriage: 3 Key Deterrents and Biblical Insights: A Throw-Back Episode 35:42

3M ago35:42

35:42

Ever found yourself lost in translation within your own marriage? This week on The Vision-Driven Marriage we drop a throwback episode to continue on our quest to help you avoid separation. In this episode we return to episode 4 of the podcast to discuss the importance of understanding our differences and giving grace in times when communication is …

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125. Navigating Relationship Challenges: Couples vs. Individual Work 11:41

3M ago11:41

11:41

Many couples facing relationship issues are faced with the question - do we need help as a couple or do we need to do individual work first? In this episode we're exploring the differences between individual work and couples work and when you should consider each type. We discuss: The risks and benefits of couples work The limitations of individual…

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Honest and Open Communication: The Art of Transformative Communication in Marriage 19:43

3M ago19:43

19:43

Have you ever wondered how to turn communicating in a relationship from mundane check-ins to profound connections? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we reveal how open and honest communication can act as the glue that binds the hearts of spouses together. Honest and Open Communication Our discussion peels back the layers of fear that often shroud …

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124. Healing Relationships in the Aftermath of a Child's Suicide with Lark Galley 32:35

3M ago32:35

32:35

In this podcast episode, Sharon interviews Lark Galley, a wife and mother who has experienced the profound grief of losing a son to suicide. Lark shares the challenges this tragedy posed to her marriage and how it has affected both her and her husband's perception of success, personal achievements, and their relationship with each other. We explore…

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Loving Selflessly 24:34

4M ago24:34

24:34

Unlock the secrets to a more resilient and loving marriage with us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we delve into the art of selfless love on the Vision-Driven Marriage podcast. Inspired by the profound wisdom of 1 Corinthians 10:24, we reveal how putting your spouse's well-being at the forefront can dramatically shift the dynamics of your relationship. …

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123. Empowering Your Relationship: Dealing with Burnout and Building Resilience 20:25

4M ago20:25

20:25

Working on your marriage without seeing any noticeable results is exhausting. If you're running out of energy and motivation to work on your marriage, but you're not ready to walk away, this episode is for you. We talk about three reasons we get burned out on working on our relationships and some ideas for how you can address them, so that you can …

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Rescuing Your Marriage from the Brink: Randy Pryor's Guide to Reconnection and Personal Growth 41:23

4M ago41:23

41:23

Have you ever felt the ground beneath your marriage start to crumble, leaving you scrambling for a foothold? Randy Pryor joins us to extend a lifeline, introducing his SOS Reconnection Method for men facing separation head on. As a former workaholic whose marriage was torn apart, Randy transformed his life and now guides others through the labyrint…

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122. Redefining Power and Self-Connection with Violetta Znorkowski 29:34

4M ago29:34

29:34

Violetta Znorkowski is on a mission to close the gender gap from the inside out. Listen in for an insightful conversation about: Recovering from hustle culture Self-leadership Recognizing and releasing emotions that don't serve us Redefining personal empowerment & success Navigating gender biases Get the full show notes and links to the resources m…

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The Top Three Things That Keeps Couples from Playing The Long Game 25:41

4M ago25:41

25:41

Have you ever felt like you're speaking a different language than your partner, even when you're both speaking English? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the top three things that keeps couples from playing the long game. In our heartfelt dialogue, we discuss the art of active listening and echo back techniques that forge a path to clari…

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121. Making The Decision to Seek Help With Your Marriage 16:07

4M ago16:07

16:07

Making the decision to get help with your marriage can be difficult, especially if you want help more than your spouse does. If you're on the fence about getting help because you don't know if things are bad enough to warrant it or if you're afraid to rock the boat this episode is for you. We're talking about: signs to look for, the value of third-…

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Feeling Lonely In a Marriage? How to Deter Miscommunication and Connect in Your Marriage 23:29

4M ago23:29

23:29

Feeling lonely in a marriage? Have you and your spouse ever found yourselves surrounded by a life full of blessings yet shadowed by an inexplicable sense of solitude? That's the silent shadow we, Doug and Leslie Davis, confront this week as we candidly open up about our own journey through the nuanced challenges of marital loneliness. Amid the hust…

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120. How to Rebuild Trust & Connection After a Major Conflict or Disappointment 22:17

4M ago22:17

22:17

If you're in a relationship for any period of time you're going to experience a major conflict or disappointment and that is not easy to deal with. In this episode we share what it takes to rebuild trust and connection after conflict and disappointment so that you can grow together as a couple instead of slowly drifting apart. We discuss: The impor…

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Will My Relationship Last? Understanding How To Play The Long Game in Marriage 33:25

4M ago33:25

33:25

Have you ever found yourself at a Christmas celebration, only to realize that what you thought was the perfect gift led to a miscommunication and a need for forgiveness? Leslie and I found ourselves in such a pickle, which became a lesson in grace and understanding—a story we share with you, our cherished listeners. This episode of Vision Driven Ma…

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119. How To Create a Safe Space for Discussing Sensitive Issues 23:49

5M ago23:49

23:49

Spoiler alert...safety in intimate relationships is a myth! Many of us hesitate to discuss sensitive issues, even in our most important relationships. But relationships don't work longterm when you can't discuss concerns and issues openly and honestly. In this episode we're talking about things you can do to create more courage, curiosity, & humili…

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Secrets of a Successful Marriage with Colette and Bryce Schaffer 44:15

5M ago44:15

44:15

Discover the sacred blend of divine guidance and practical wisdom as marriage coaches Colette and Bryce Schaffer join us to unravel the secrets of a successful marriage. They shed light on the sobering reality of marriages breaking at an alarming rate and how to counteract this trend with a robust Biblical foundation. The Schaffers bring nearly thi…

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118. Deepening An Awareness of Our Unconscious Patterns in Relationships with Dr. Tonia Winchester 26:57

5M ago26:57

26:57

We're fooling ourselves if we think that every choice we make in our relationships is consciously determined. But how to we access our subconscious so that we can make more conscious and aligned actions toward deeper understanding and connection? Dr. Tonia Winchester joins us on the podcast to talk about how to slow down, question our triggered tho…

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Navigating Life's Journey with Faith: Barbara Culver's Testimony of Love, Purpose, and Resilience 32:16

5M ago32:16

32:16

When Barbara Culver joined us, her words painted a vivid tapestry of a life utterly transformed by faith. Her story, which we're thrilled to share with you, begins with a lonely childhood and unfolds into a rich narrative of love, purpose, and the profound influence of Scripture. As she recounts her path to becoming a cherished teacher of the Word …

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117. Three Effective Strategies for Addressing Conflict as a Team 29:03

5M ago29:03

29:03

Conflict in our intimate relationships is inevitable. When we’re faced with a conflict in an intimate relationship we’re trying to achieve two goals at the same time. Maintain a connection with our person and our autonomy. It can be challenging to stay connected when we feel like our personal goals and desires are at risk. And since very few of us …

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Struggling with Jealousy? Debunk These 5 Myths For a Deeper Understanding 30:25

5M ago30:25

30:25

Is jealousy truly a hallmark of love, or have we been led astray by common misconceptions? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we embark on a journey to uncover the biblical truths about jealousy in marriage. We tackle the pervasive myth that jealousy is an expression of love, instead revealing how true love, as depicted in 1 Corinthians 13, thrives…

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116. How to Approach Your Partner When You're Upset or Frustrated 18:37

5M ago18:37

18:37

We all want happy, healthy relationships. And that can be hard to achieve when you're feeling disappointed or frustrated with your spouse. Sharon shares a few ideas for approaching your partner when you're frustrated so you can address the issue and use a difficult conversation as an opportunity to connect and deepen your relationship. Get the full…

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Overcoming Jealousy in Relationships 22:48

5M ago22:48

22:48

Jealousy can be a silent saboteur in the strongest of marriages, yet it's a topic many couples shy away from discussing. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we courageously tackle this subject with five steps to overcome jealousy in relationships. Together, we untangle the complex web of emotions that fuel jealousy in relationships, illuminating a p…

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115. How to Talk to Your Partner About the Burden of Invisible Labor with Laura Mickler 26:56

6M ago26:56

26:56

Every woman from every walk of life understands the burden of invisible labor. Laura Mickler, a mindset coach and yoga studio owner, joins us on the podcast for an insightful conversation about how to understand and share the burden of the mental load with your partner and family members. We discuss: The concept of invisible labor Why it can be so …

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Unveiling Jealousy: Recognizing the Telltale Signs in Your Marriage 27:35

6M ago27:35

27:35

Ever wrestled with the green-eyed monster gnawing away at your relationship? Leslie and I unpack the signs of jealousy in marriage, distinguishing between the kind that's rooted in love and the variant that harbors destructive selfishness. You're not alone if you've felt that twinge or witnessed it in your partner. We delve deep into the intricate …

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Transforming Marriage Through Understanding and Overcoming Jealousy With Shanenn Bryant 30:47

6M ago30:47

30:47

Have you ever felt the sting of jealousy in a relationship and wondered if others struggle with the same silent battle? Shanenn Bryant, a relationship confidence coach with a deeply personal tale of conquering jealousy, joins us on the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast to shed light on this common yet often unaddressed challenge. Her raw and relatable…

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114. Transforming Relationships, Starting with Yourself with Dr. Marcia Martin 33:26

6M ago33:26

33:26

Dr. Marsha Martin, a spiritual empowerment counselor and best-selling author, discusses the importance of healing one's relationship with themselves. We discuss: Acceptance and self love as the foundation for personal growth Taking responsibility to shift from blame to personal transformation The role of tools and resources in self-transformation E…

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Love's Restoration Stories Part 3 30:55

6M ago30:55

30:55

Have you ever witnessed the incredible transformation that faith can bring into a marriage? Scott and Katie LaPierre join us this Valentine's season to unpack the potent blend of grace and tenacity that defines a vision-driven marriage. Their story, a genuine testament to the power of Biblical principles, delves into the intricacies of parenting, h…

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Love's Restoration Stories Part 2 37:56

6M ago37:56

37:56

Have you ever stood, hand in hand with your partner, facing a gale that threatened to tear you apart? Angie and Matt Baughman did just that, weathering a storm of intense scrutiny that challenged to undermine their marriage. They, along with Ron and Halee Wood, join us this week on The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast to share their extraordinary jou…

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113. Navigating Relationships Through Better Listening with Laura Janusik 44:52

7M ago44:52

44:52

Are you listening? Really Listening? Laura Janusik, a trainer, coach, consultant, speaker, and researcher talks about the importance of listening in communication. We discuss: How our listening habits shape our interactions The importance of quality listening and it's impact on the quality of our communication The concept of "listening intelligence…

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Love's Restoration Stories Part 1 21:37

7M ago21:37

21:37

When Anna McLaughlin humorously tossed her suitcase in frustration, little did she know it would unpack a journey of introspection and faith within her marriage. And when Rick and Nancy Kay Grace realized that they didn't want their marriage to be like that of their parents, they knew that they needed to invite Jesus to be at the head of their marr…

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Unlocking the Secrets of Successful Relationships with Cristie Cerniglia 37:27

7M ago37:27

37:27

Have you ever witnessed a transformation so profound that it shifts your perspective on love and commitment? Coach Cristie's metamorphosis from a distrustful skeptic to a beacon of hope for faith-infused marriages is nothing short of miraculous. Alongside her, we explore the trenches and triumphs that come with nurturing a relationship under God's …

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112. The Difference Between Good Communication & Manipulation 25:23

7M ago25:23

25:23

Does this sound like you...You know you want to communicate better, but you're not quite sure what to do differently? In this episode, we're talking about: The goal of healthy communication (spoiler alert - it's not getting the other person to change) Unhealthy attitudes and behaviors that prevent good communication Five specific skills to improve …

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Faithful Foundations: Cultivating Emotional and Spiritual Maturity in Your Christian Marriage 28:21

7M ago28:21

28:21

Have you ever wondered what it truly means to have a marriage that not only survives but thrives? Join us, your hosts Doug and Leslie Davis, as we share insights into the essential threads of spiritual and emotional maturity and their impact on building a resilient Christian marriage. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom where we dissect the …

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Experiencing The Fruit of the Spirit in Your Marriage 26:42

7M ago26:42

26:42

Have you felt the tension between love and conflict within your marriage? On this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we explore the profound impact the Fruit of the Spirit can have on your relationship. Discover how virtues like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control can not only mend but also…

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