It’s your Sex, Intimacy and Relationship, Coach Azaria Menezes. I'm also known as "The Pussy Fairy" and my greatest passion is to bring you small doses of ways to bring more pleasure into your body, relationships, and sex life.
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Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious an…
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Feeling disconnected from your sensuality?
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Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover. If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book Come …
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Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped and you may or may not fin…
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If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how …
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I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how…
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An update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle. In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can prac…
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From dislike to love - Ry and I's relationship
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Drop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore on our first time together and how the tools we used…
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Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire? How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually con…
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For all of you baddies who want to create amazing aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life. If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make it fun and how it can really benefit us with in any r…
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In this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures. I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and desire. Midnight sex is underrated and I know that after th…
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The 1 thing that will suck the fun out of your sex life
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If you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though.. In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these simple reminders, but often times we don't think too d…
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Ancestral work, motherhood + sexual healing with Mina Aidoo
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After a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo. Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual healing journey as a whole and of course motherhood. Com…
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Start your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence? Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby. 8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way. This is all you need to spark that fire back up! xo The Pussy Fairy I…
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New Update: Intimacy Made Easy couples course
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Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamene…
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Do you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun! We also get into airplane sex and thoughts on edging …
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Fantasies, why I love them and why you should too
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The stories around fantasy's can be varied, but in this episode I share why I love them so much and why they can be such a powerful way of connecting in your relationships. What do they show us? How can we make them fee more expansive? Do we have to live them out? How can we use them to our advantage? Drop into this episode and leave feeling inspir…
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Parent Tell interview: The roller coaster that is sex after baby
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If you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I talk about all the ups and down's that come with the changes of kids + small babies in parti…
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"How do I talk about my desires with my partner?"
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This is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have around desires and fantasy's. I go over things like: …
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Learn the art of surrender and receiving in the bedroom
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If you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering? The one big thing you need to know about surrender and receiving, and the one pre-curser to surr…
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We didn't have sex for almost 4 weeks.... tips for you too!
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OMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours. This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out sex? The sex or nothing phenomenon I see so often amo…
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This episode might surprise you a little! I spent the weekend celebrating pride with my hubby, my ex and her partner and I felt really called to get up-close and personal with you all about how I feel. We have a choice in how we show up in the relationships in our life. Sometimes just sometimes, things don't go the way we planned. In this episode I…
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What's that thing blocking your pleasure and intimacy?
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If you want to know what that thing is thats often blocking you from greater pleasure + intimacy, or what that thing is that totally stops you from doing the things you KNOW would be the game changer in your sex life... tune in. We all have this in one area of our lives or more. When it comes to sex and relationships; I see this one come up ALOT. I…
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Boundaries, self trust and self love with Veronica Puryear
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Let's unpack all the ways you can use boundaries, self love and self trust for your relationships with yourself and others. Veronica a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide sits down with the Pussy Fairy to chat about all the ways we can celebrate all of our parts so we can show up feeling more grounded in our self trust. If you have ever w…
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Why do couples fight? An instagram live quickie!
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What's the real reason couples get into arguments? Why do these arguments even start? How is it that one small thing can turn into a silly debate? What is the thing that triggers an argument in couples? This instagram live was too good not to share on the podcast! This has been a common theme amongst my couples clients in the last two weeks. These …
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A past client shares all the tea about the work we did
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We want the real tea from real people. I caught up with Sky, a previous client of mine and she shared all the HOT details of her dating life, how our work together has changed and shifted how she feels about herself and her open relationship. What it means to see the results and how the tools from our coaching supported in all of these intimate and…
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So you want more orgasms? Listen to this episode
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You want more orgasms? This episode will give you everything you need to know! Allow The Pussy Fairy to blow your mind, because I'm about to tell you the opposite about everything you may have learned orgasms to be. I dropped all the goodies in this one, and you might be surprised at how much is possible for you after listening to this episode alon…
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Do you want all the deets on how to move through heartbreak? Well, this week you're in luck because Lucy Price - The heartbreak expert, is in the house. We dive deep into what it looks like to tend to your heart during a break-up, how to navigate finding empowerment in the healing stages, how to deal with heartbreak grief, and how to navigate the l…
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Menstrual Magic and Blood Rituals with Laura Carmody
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Have you ever wondered what rituals you could do with your menstrual blood? Maybe you've been curious as to what sacred menstruation means or even how to create your own blood magic ritual. In this episode, we dove deep into menstrual magic with my special guest Laura Carmody, who is a menstrual health and empowerment educator. Whether you're a new…
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The practice that showed me the shame and judgment my pussy held
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I share how one powerful practice showed me all the judgment and shame I had around my pussy. I thought I loved the way she looked, but what I didn't know is what she felt. I honestly assumed this would be the most amazing spiritual practice ever until I was met with a shit ton of BIG emotions. This practice was one of my first lessons in self-love…
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From monogamy to non-monogamy with Carla Crivaro
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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to consciously transition from monogamy to non-monogamy? In this episode Carla Crivaro a sex, love, and relationship coach, spills it all. We talked about the hard conversations that had to happen, the incredible growth that came from them, and the infinite possibility's that non-monogamy brought into he…
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5 journaling prompts for your sexual thriving. Who doesn’t love a little potent quickie? xo The Pussy Fairy If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi.…
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Fertility Cycles and Hidden Ovulation with Elsa Marie
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This is an episode I was soooo curious to explore because I have never heard about hidden ovulation. In this episode, I dive into it with Elsa and she shares how astrology plays into fertility and the possibilities of hidden ovulation. If you're anything like me you're always looking to expand your mind to new ideas and concepts, especially if you'…
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Want more pleasure? Think about these things
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Eyyy, This week we are dropping into all the richness of what pleasure has to offer us. IF you're craving more pleasure in your life or you just wish your partner could give you more pleasure in the bedroom; tune in. I share some really practical and simple ways to get in touch with your own well of pleasure and also give you some really great ques…
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A full guided practice for you and your lover - Inspired by my 14 Days to hotter intimacy ebook
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Okay, I am soooo excited about the launch of my new 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book, that I am sharing a connecting practice from the ebook with you here. BUT you know I love you, so I am dropping a FULL guided audio practice for you to tune into. I share all the juicy info about my new eBook and then you'll drop straight into your practice. All …
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2 things that contributed to having the best sex ever last weekend
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Yall, you know this podcast is gonna be good because this week, ya girl had the best sex ever! I'm talking like out of this world, into a different dimension, multiorgasmic, blackout sex. Now you might be wondering HOW, and I always like to rewind the process and think on: What actually was it that made the sex this good? I can tell you one thing, …
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Role play; how do you really get into it?
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Let's talk about my favorite thing ever: Roleplay! If you are one of those people who think role play is super awkward or maybe you just really want to be inspired and bring a little role play spice into your life... this episode is for you. This isn't just your 101 roleplay episode, I talk about how to actually get super embodied in role play and …
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How I deal with my low libido when my anxiety hits hard
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OMG yall, when that anxiety hits my libido and desire to be intimate go straight out the window. I mean obviously, I wouldn't expect a different response! The body is prioritizing and just trying to get by during survival mode. In this episode, I share why we shouldn't run from connecting with our partners when we feel anxious even though it's the …
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Everyone loves date nights, guess what? So does Pussy! This episode is going to be a little different than all the usual ones. It's time to take a little action and take your Pussy on a date. We know that it can feel really hard to connect with our bodies through all the rush and hurry of the days. I'm going to make it super easy and juicy for you …
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This was a recording of a juicy workshop I did for all the honey's in my "Getting Intimate" Facebook group. Pull up a chair and pull up your boobs because this workshop is dedicated to THEM. Do you want to cultivate more self-love? Feel more confident? Connect to your source of power? In this workshop, I go over things like : Why is it so hard to l…
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"Okay, how do I tell my partner exactly how I like it in bed?" How to ask for what you want
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This is for my Pussy owners who are never quite sure how to explain how or what they like in the bedroom. Have you ever struggled with the pressure of how to say exactly what you like or maybe even just abandoned ship and pretended to like something when you damn well know you didn't but you already tried to explain how a few too many times? I hear…
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An Intimate reflection on new years rituals and our sex life in 2021
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Damm okay well I guess we are welcoming 2022! I wanted to do an episode that was a little more intimate than I usually do aka. I have a very special guest where we talk about our sex life and intimacy in 2021. I also share some things around new years rituals and if you listen all the way to the end you'll receive a special gift with a link below t…
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Feeling triggered or activated? Let's regulate together
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Feeling triggered, activated, or feeling like your nervous system is taking you for a ride can be overwhelming. I know personally how scary it can feel to be in this state of activation. The more tools we have to support our nervous systems to find back to balance the better. Tune into this guided support to invite some calm back into your nervous …
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"I want deeply connecting sex" 3 non-sexual things to cultivate this
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This is the one I hear the most " I wish I could just feel more deeply connected during sex" because FUCK yes we all want to feel this. I mean sex is good but have you ever had deeply connected, present, totally in your body + pleasure sex? That shit is next level baby. The three things I share with you today have actually very little to do with se…
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The one thing people are forgetting about their sexuality
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OOOO Okay, so this one is a juicy one. I share the one thing that people easily forget about their sexuality. Have you ever found yourself in the post-honeymoon phase of your relationship, wondering where the hell your sex life went? Or wondering why your connection to your own sexuality is feeling like a distant memory of the past? In this episode…
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5 ways you can increase your wetness factor in the bedroom
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Okay, soo this is a juicy little quicky I took from the Getting Intimate Facebook group because it was too good not to share on here. Have you ever wanted to know what supports your personal wetness factor in the bedroom? Do you ever wonder if there's any way you can increase it? Of course, a woman's wetness factor is going to vary depending on wha…
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The one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality
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Have you ever felt like you wanted to maintain that connection to your sexuality + aliveness? You know you see these women just oozing in their sexuality and you're like " Shit, I want that". Well, guess what, I have the damm secret for you. In this episode, we go over the one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality always.…
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"I feel awkward initiating sex with my partner" How to feel more at ease initiating sex
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Oooo Okay I know there are some people out there that this might benefit. If you've ever felt like initiating is awkward, you resist it because maybe you fear getting rejected or you just don't even think about initiating because you don't think about sex this is for you. In this episode, we go over topics like What's the deal with initiating anywa…
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Are you sitting in the passenger seat of your sexuality?
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Have you ever wondered how you can shift your perception of sex? Ask yourself this: Are you sitting in the driver's seat or the passenger seat of your sexuality? In this quick little episode, I go over what that looks like and how you can shift it. Sometimes we just need those good little reminders in life to get in the driver's seat. Pussy fairy i…
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A quick 10min practice to start your morning feeling juicy and grounded
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Trick or Treat - Always treat. Happy Halloween, I have a treat for you. Pussy owners! A Juicy morning practice to start your day. This one is best done before you start your morning, still in bed, your eyes barely open and you're still snuggly in your sheets. You can do this practice every morning or just on those days where you just want to start …
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Yalll, I know you want to have great sex because; same. In this episode, I drop my favourite ways to shift mediocre sex into great sex. Now we know that sex isn't mindblowing all the time, but we can definitely shift into having great sex A LOT of the time. There are a million ways to have great sex, trust me I discover more and more every day but …
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