Best Watch If You Dare Podcasts (2024)

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Episode 142: Tetsuo: The Iron Man w/ special guest Jonathan Nowacki 2:19:13

11d ago2:19:13

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Jonathan returns in the guest seat to discuss 1989's Japanese experimental sci-fi body horror movie "Tetsuo: The Iron Man" directed, written, produced, and edited by Shinya Tsukamoto in his first first feature length film with Spoop Bois Aaron and Derek. They get into the themes or lack thereof, personal interpretations of what's happening in the m…

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Its Giving Big Dad Energy 1:00:50

9h ago1:00:50

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Send us a Text Message. In this hilarious and unapologetically candid episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive deep into the realities of turning 40, camping disasters, and navigating the treacherous waters of aging. As Bobby bids farewell to his 30s, the duo reflects on what it means to hit the big 4-0 and how it feels when your hangovers outlast y…

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How Can I Support my Partner (who I Betrayed) so She Can Enjoy Life Again? 38:39

1h ago38:39

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In Episode 241, Mark & Steve respond to a porn/sex addict in recovery who is facing an extremely difficult situation with his betrayed partner. Here's what he submitted through the PBSE contact form— Hey, my wife is one of the .01% of wives who expects me to be absolutely perfect. I don’t know what to do? I’ve been focusing on being serene. Learnin…

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How can I change their mind? 1:09:48

3h ago1:09:48

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Whether it was about foreign policy, the economy, or the best route to the grocery store, chances are you have changed your mind about something. What happens in your brain when you do, and what does that teach us about how we can change someone else’s mind on a political issue? Mónica talks with David McRaney, a leading voice on the science of per…

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S6EP08 - Bigfoot and Dogman - Gene Harrison from New York 56:34

1d ago56:34

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Is it possible that Bigfoot and Dogman could coexist? While most believe they are very adversarial, today I talk to Gene Harrison from New York State who has over a decade of his life looking into an area near his home where he has observed these two enigmatic beings allegedly coexist peacefully. Gene was a professional Stuntman for over 40 years a…

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What are the differences and similarities between male and female betrayal-traumatized partners? 30:04

7d ago30:04

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In Episode 240, Mark and Steve address an important issue submitted by a male betrayed partner. Here's his submission— How do male betrayed partners process betrayal trauma differently than women? What are the difficulties male partners have when trying to heal the relationship with their betrayer? Are there any differences in recovery and repair b…

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Beat | Can we talk? 14:51

7d ago14:51

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Say hello to David Kaufman, a conservative from South Carolina who’s made a serious habit of talking politics with liberals — with both sides learning loads as a result. Then join us in celebrating some of the people in YOUR lives who make tough disagreements worth having. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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S6EP07 - What is a Ghost? - Examining The Phenomena 1:00:51

8d ago1:00:51

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Do you believe in Ghosts? While ghost encounters and stories are a part of the culture and histories of all cultures on the face of the earth, what is the actual nature of this strange phenomena? Traditionally, the term ghost has been used as a blanket term to indicate encounters with unseen, presumably human spiritual presences. These disembodied …

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172 | Shadow in the Cloud 1:17:52

10d ago1:17:52

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Grab your pilot’s helmet and join us for a discussion of SHADOW IN THE CLOUD, an airborne WWII feminist creature feature starring Chloë Grace Moretz! We dig into disgraced writer Max Landis’ role in this project, the history of gremlins, and how this film relates to the infamous EHMON selection CARGO. Plus: everyone reviews LONGLEGS, Patrick and St…

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If The Last Supper Had An Open Bar, There Would've Been Less Holy Communion And More Divine Hookups 55:00

12d ago55:00

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Send us a Text Message. In this lively and irreverent episode of the "Not Well" podcast, hosts Bobby and Jim tackle a range of topics with their signature blend of humor and biting commentary. The episode opens with Bobby humorously expressing exasperation, setting the tone for a conversation filled with snark and wit. As they delve into the subjec…

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A Close Friend Matches My Addict Husband’s Past “Porn/Fantasy” Woman. I’m Triggered Whenever I’m Around Her! What Can I Do?! 35:28

14d ago35:28

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This episode, # 239, is in response to a very common and very painful, frustrating and limiting situation submitted by the betrayed partner of a porn/sex addict— My husband is currently in recovery, and I am unfortunately still in the depths of betrayal trauma. Unfortunately in the early discovery days (there have been 3 major ones over 20 years) I…

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How to keep speech free (and fun?) on campus 59:05

14d ago59:05

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Free speech - Free people - Free food. That was a tagline for a cross-partisan discussion forum Sam Rechek started as a freshman at the University of South Florida. In this episode, Sam shares what he learned from those tough weekly conversations, like the importance of humor and humility, and making sure every student on campus can be heard, no ma…

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Brat Pack Life: Fluff That Little Hog, Strut Your Stuff, and Make No Apologies 58:54

19d ago58:54

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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into the unexpected announcement of President Biden stepping down, sparking a chaotic and humorous discussion about the political landscape. They express shock at the news, joke about Kamala Harris possibly becoming the next president, and comment on the absurdities of the po…

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For an Addict Seeking to Overcome “Public Scanning,” is the “3-Second Rule” Harmful or Helpful? 31:42

21d ago31:42

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Episode 238 comes in response to a request from a long-time PBSE listener. Here's her submission— Can you talk about the "3 second rule" and why it’s not an ok rule?! Many people talk about it and/or say they’ve read, heard, or had addicts, partners, therapists, suggest this rule. I love the way you’ve described what crap that is because an addict'…

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Beat | How to navigate political fear 15:16

21d ago15:16

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Political violence and heightened rhetoric has turned up the intensity of an already tumultuous election season, adding to the fears and uncertainty on both the Left and the Right. Is there a way to stay grounded through this moment? We are joined by Dr. Bill Doherty, a “citizen therapist” who offers insight to help understand not just our own fear…

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S6EP06 - To Talk With Animals - Nick Musica 1:01:55

25d ago1:01:55

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Do you believe there are those that talk to animals? Could it be that animals communicate in a telepathic or spiritual nature? From our domesticated companions to creatures in the wilds, there are legends and stories that claim there are those among us who can communicate with animals. Today, we are joined by Nick Musica who is one of these people …

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Episode 141: Cronos 2:09:06

25d ago2:09:06

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On this episode, Aaron and Derek tackle Guillermo del Toro's first feature film and independent horror movie "Cronos" from 1992. They talk about Ron Perlman's casting in a Spanish language horror movie, del Toro's intention for this being his first feature, and how this provides the blueprint for del Toro's filmography. They also get into the natur…

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Drunk national anthems, devilish speeches, and gapped-tooth gays—just another day in America's circus 1:07:14

26d ago1:07:14

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Send us a Text Message. We kick things off with laughs and excitement, diving into a hilarious Ashley Tisdale video sighting. The conversation spirals into unexpected territory with mentions of bacterial vaginosis, stolen voices, and some notable cuts that keep everyone in stitches. Bobby then takes the stage to critique the Grammys, throwing shade…

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My Addict Partner was Doing Well in Recovery. Then the Lies Started Again. I’m Shattered! How do I Come Back from This?! 33:14

28d ago33:14

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In this Episode 237, Mark and Steve get passionate in responding to the heart-felt submission by a PBSE listener. Here's what she shared— In My partners and I are now 12 months into our journey and I have been doing really well for the most part. I had been feeling like I was really getting on top of my betrayal and processing everything that happe…

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How to citizen 1:13:47

28d ago1:13:47

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Is it the facts that get in the way in our politics, or our stories? Baratunde Thurston is a renowned comedian, activist, and PBS host who knows a lot about how the stories we tell about ourselves can either unlock our civic power... or make us forget we even have it. We’ll zoom in on two unforgettable times Baratunde crossed big divides and what t…

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HOW Does an Addict Get to Real, Lasting SEXUAL & EMOTIONAL Sobriety & Recovery? 40:01

29d ago40:01

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Episode 234 comes in response to TWO situations/questions sent to PBSE by porn/sex addicts in recovery. Here’s a brief overview of each— The first has been addicted to porn since he was 14 and is now well into his adult years. He was in a relationship for 3 years before disclosing his addiction. In his own words he says—Since then I have lied about…

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S6EP05 - Food To Die For - Amy Bruni 54:12

1M ago54:12

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The wonderful Amy Bruni joins me on this episode. We dive into her incredible career, talk about the events that brought her into the paranormal, becomming part of the "Ghost Hunters" cast and culminated in her own series with Adam Berry, "Kindred Spirits". As if all of this wasn't enough, Amy is also releasing an incredible new book called "Food T…

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Living In A Neon Pink Speedo World Where Cups Have Names And Dogs Twerk On Counters 37:33

1M ago37:33

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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of 'Not Well,' hosts Bobby and Jim return from a pool session donning pink Speedos and dive into their usual humorous banter. They discuss everything from their forced poolside attire to the influence of their drunk sunglass escapades. Bobby identifies strongly with Hannah from the TV show 'Girls,' comparing …

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Why is Knowledge of Horrific Abuse in the Porn Industry NOT Enough to Make Men Quit Their Porn Habit? 35:49

1M ago35:49

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In this episode, # 236, the betrayed partner of a porn addict writes a very raw and vulnerable message to PBSE with some deeply poignant, hard-hitting questions. Here's what we received from her— Hey Mark and Steve, my partner was 4 years porn-free and then relapsed, using porn intermittently for about 8 months before I caught him. He says he's ser…

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Beat | The scariest watch party in America 15:29

1M ago15:29

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A Braver Way was in Kenosha, Wisconsin, when hundreds of liberals and conservatives experienced the most polarizing event of the election season… together. Organizers prepared for the worst. What actually happened changed the game for everyone. Submit a question: If you’ve found yourself mulling on a concern or reflection as you’ve listened, turn i…

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S6EP04 - Aliens And Demons - Author Ron Felber 1:05:53

1M ago1:05:53

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Is there a connection between Alien Abduction and Demonic Possession? Could they, perhaps be the same thing? Author Ron Felber joins me on today's show and we dive into two of his incredible books that detail incredible cases of Alien Abduction and Demonic Possession. The books, "The Mojave Incident" and "Unwelcomed - The Curious Case of Clara Fowl…

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Something's Poking Them in Between Their Shoulder Blades....It's Your Dick 1:19:39

1M ago1:19:39

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Send us a Text Message. In this hilariously chaotic episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim kick things off with a nostalgic trip down memory lane, reminiscing about their childhood memories with Muzzy, the language bear. They humorously recount the bizarre yet endearing commercials that convinced American children they could effortlessly learn French. …

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Episode 140: Silver Bullet 2:23:59

1M ago2:23:59

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On this episode, Aaron and Derek tackle 1985's horror film "Silver Bullet" directed by Dan Attias and adapted from Stephen King's 1983 novella "Cycle of the Werewolf." They talk about the surprising darker themes present in the flick, the creativity of Stephen King bleeding through, and the interesting character reveal of the villain. They also dis…

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I’ve Disclosed my Sexual Addiction history to my partner—now what? How do I best support her going forward? 32:47

1M ago32:47

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In Episode 235, a PBSE listener writes in to ask Mark & Steve for guidance on how to best support his partner going forward. The couple were together off and on for 11 years and then married for the last 10 years. During the entire span of 21 years, he has struggled with sex/porn addiction and alcohol abuse. Recently, he got serious about getting i…

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How to fight right with Hamilton and Jefferson 1:02:51

1M ago1:02:51

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Thomas Jefferson and Alexander Hamilton were our nation’s first fierce partisan political rivals. What lessons can the famously long-winded hothead and his calculating, duplicitous political opponent offer our political brawls today? Historian Dr. Lindsay Chervinsky explains, and then we reflect: What makes some clashes more productive than others?…

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S6EP03 - They Are Watching - Barry From Western New York 1:31:52

2M ago1:31:52

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Are we alone in the cosmos? While there are many who have witnessed strange craft in our skies, there are a few whose experiences go much, much further. These are those rare individuals who report being abducted by these strange beings without their consent. The nature of these experiences vary. From benign and even benevolent interactions to horri…

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171 | Anaconda 1:15:31

2M ago1:15:31

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No step on snek! It's snek szn and we're reviewing ANACONDA, the tight 1997 thriller. Was it a charmer or did we fail to squeeze excitement out of it? We'll also discuss creature features in general, *that* accent, and if there's any philosophical difference between this and other big snake/shark movies. Plus: Steven reviews THE COFFEE TABLE, Patri…

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The Case of the Escaping Thong and Wandering Balls 44:49

2M ago44:49

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Send us a Text Message. ***Warning*** Bobby is hammered Hello, darlings! Buckle up for another electrifying episode of "Not Well" with your favorite disaster duo, Bobby and Jim! Tonight's show is serving up a cocktail of chaos, comedy, and maybe a touch of public indecency. As you hear this, we’re probably knee-deep in Pride festivities, or as we l…

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S6EP02 - In The Shadow of Bigfoot - Michael Freeman 1:24:08

2M ago1:24:08

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Does Bigfoot exist? The Freeman footage and the Patterson-Gimlin films would seem to indicate that there most definitely are undocumented, giant humanoid beings roaming the wilds of North America. Paul Freeman dedicated countless hours and energy into researching this incredible possibility after he came face to face with a Bigfoot in 1982. His evi…

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Episode 139: Midsommar w/ special guest Heather Murray 2:31:46

2M ago2:31:46

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Aaron's wife Heather returns to the show to discuss 2019's folk horror film "Midsommar" written and directed by Ari Aster. They talk about whether or not the morality of Dani's choices in the ending matter, what it means to find true freedom, and "The Wicker Man's" massive influence on this film and folk horror as a whole. They also get into the va…

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What’s the Point in Staying with a Porn/Sex Addict? What’s in it for the Betrayed Partner? 32:37

2M ago32:37

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In Episode 233, Mark & Steve respond to a very heart-felt submission from a betrayed partner, who asks some very hard questions about her relationship with a partner who is a porn/sex addict in recovery. Here's what she submitted to PBSE— Hi Mark and Steve, I’m feeling a lot of apathy in my marriage and I don’t understand the point in staying. I’ve…

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S6EP01 - Living Beyond Belief - George Noory 52:08

2M ago52:08

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A look into the life of George Noory as you've never heard before. George is the iconic host of Coast to Coast AM, a regular contributor to History Channel's "Ancient Aliens" and creator and host of Gaia TV's "Beyond Belief with George Noory". I had an amazing talk with George about his incredible career, the experience as an 11 year old child that…

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Who Needs Deodorant at a Musk Party When You Have Sulfuric Burps and Dry Mouth Nightmares? 45:45

2M ago45:45

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Send us a Text Message. In this outrageous episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into a whirlwind of unfiltered hilarity and unexpected revelations. They start with Bobby's new venture, Sugar Daddy's Creamery, which prompts a bizarre yet amusing discussion on homemade ice cream flavors. The conversation spirals into chaotic territory, touching …

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The PBSE/Dare to Connect Approach vs 12-Step Support Groups 33:02

2M ago33:02

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In PBSE Episode 232, Mark & Steve respond to a listener's experience and questions with regard to the approach to Betrayal Trauma healing that PBSE and Dare to Connect take, vs. the experience in 12-Step groups. Here's what the partner of a porn/sex addict submitted to PBSE— Is it me or are the approaches of partner-oriented 12-step fellowships the…

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Episode 138: Saint Maud w/ special guest Angela 1:53:09

2M ago1:53:09

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First time guest Angela joins Aaron and Derek to discuss 2019's psychological horror film "Saint Maud" written and directed by Rose Glass in her feature directorial debut. They get into how the movie explores adult spirituality juxtaposed with trauma, the nature of isolation and repression, and how Maud blends various Christian beliefs. They also t…

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