Best Scott & Vanessa Martindale Podcasts (2024)

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Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment 21:06

1d ago21:06

21:06

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with commun…

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Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective 18:35

2h ago18:35

18:35

In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting rela…

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Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective 16:34

5h ago16:34

16:34

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting…

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Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist? 20:28

5d ago20:28

20:28

Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advi…

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How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice 18:28

13d ago18:28

18:28

Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting …

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Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips 19:27

20d ago19:27

19:27

Discover the transformative power of effective co-parenting in our latest episode, Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips! Join us as we delve into practical strategies and encouraging truths for navigating the complexities of co-parenting with love and respect. Whether newly separated or looking to improve your c…

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Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting 20:38

27d ago20:38

20:38

Unlock the secrets to successful co-parenting in our latest episode, Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting! Learn practical strategies to foster a loving, supportive environment for your children and bonus children, even after separation or divorce. Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of viewing love as an actio…

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Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families 12:04

1M ago12:04

12:04

Summer can bring new challenges for blended families as routines change and kids move between households. In this episode, Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share valuable strategies and tips to help families navigate summer transitions smoothly. From planning quality time with all children to nurturing y…

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Finding Hope in the Storm 16:21

1M ago16:21

16:21

In this episode, Finding Hope in the Storm, Vanessa, Kristen, and Dan have an inspiring roundtable discussion about finding hope and joy in the midst of life's challenges. They share powerful Bible verses that have encouraged them during difficult seasons and provide practical tips for staying grounded in God's truth. Whether you are facing a diffi…

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3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families 16:03

2M ago16:03

16:03

Stress is a common challenge in blended families, but it doesn't have to control your life. In this podcast episode, 3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share 3 practical tips for managing stress through spiritual intimacy, physical activity, and setting healthy boundaries. Enjoy this discussion as you learn h…

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Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion 21:04

2M ago21:04

21:04

In this podcast episode, Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of physical intimacy in marriage and how to navigate challenges that can arise, such as stress, life transitions, and physical or emotional barriers. They encourage couples in blended families to prioritize open communication, cultivate intent…

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Let's Therapy Season 3 Finale: Finding and Living in Hope and Healing 11:30

3M ago11:30

11:30

In this season finale episode, Finding and Living in Hope and Healing, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale, expert counselors on blended families and mental health, provide encouragement and practical advice for those navigating the challenges of blended families. They discuss the common feelings of fear and isolation, and they share stories of how …

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God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever 22:52

2M ago22:52

22:52

In this podcast episode, God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever, Vanessa and Dan discuss the growth and impact of the Blended Kingdom Families (BKF) ministry over the past 4 years. They share their personal journeys, celebrate the impact of God through BKF for millions of blended families, discuss challenges of ministry work, and the excitin…

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Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families 17:16

3M ago17:16

17:16

In this episode of Let's Therapy, Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the impact of slander in blended families and offer practical advice on how to effectively cope with it. They delve into the damaging effects of negative speech on children and bonus children, the importance of s…

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Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage 24:47

2M ago24:47

24:47

In this insightful podcast episode, Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of embracing masculine and feminine energies in marriage and blended family life. They share personal experiences and provide practical advice on how couples can promote and nurture these God-given qualities within…

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Emotional Regulation and Blended Families: Tips for Parents 16:14

3M ago16:14

16:14

In this episode of "Let's Therapy," counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the challenges of emotional regulation for children and stepchildren in blended families. They provide practical advice on building trust, validating feelings, modeling healthy emotional responses, and setting clear expectations. They also emphasize the importance o…

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Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage 16:24

3M ago16:24

16:24

In this episode, Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage, Vanessa and Scott discuss the challenges of cell phone usage and how screen time can impact blended family marriages and parenting. They discuss their own past struggles with managing screen time and provide thoughtful advice to help you manage scre…

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Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection 19:14

3M ago19:14

19:14

Dealing with stepchild resentment and rejection in blended families can be one of the most challenging aspects of blended family relationships. In this episode of Let's Therapy, Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection, Scott and Vanessa offer thoughtful insights and practical advice for stepparents on managing difficult emotions related to re…

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How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage 25:26

3M ago25:26

25:26

In this episode, How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage, Scott and Vanessa dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity and blended family marriage. They share personal experiences and offer practical advice for couples seeking to rebuild trust and restore relationships after betrayal. This episode covers topics including the importance of tr…

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Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations: Effective Strategies for Preserving Your Mental Health 14:33

4M ago14:33

14:33

In this episode of Let's Therapy, Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations, Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the challenging topic of co-parenting in high-conflict situations. They provide practical and insightful strategies for maintaining your mental health, and offer tips for conflict resolution with a co-parent. The discussion centers around…

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Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience 21:22

4M ago21:22

21:22

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience, Vanessa and Jessica have an honest and emotional conversation about Jessica's unique blended family experiences. After the unexpected loss of Jessica's sister-in-law, Jessica and her husband found themselves in an unexpected …

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Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families 14:06

4M ago14:06

14:06

Feeling overwhelmed in your blended family? In this episode,Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the therapy options for your stepfamily. They provide insights on breaking through stigmas, opening up to emotional healing, and utilizing resources like family therapy, EMDR, couples counseling, and …

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Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore 19:26

4M ago19:26

19:26

In this episode, Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore, Scott and Vanessa discuss the critical importance of recognizing pre-marriage red flags and determining non-negotiables in a potential spouse. They highlight common relationship red flags like differing spiritual foundations, unresolved past trauma, ongoing legal issues…

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On Wings Of Eagles with Scott and Vanessa Martindale 37:35

4M ago37:35

37:35

On this seasons final episode, we welcome Scott + Vanessa Martindale, Founders of Blended Kingdom Family to the podcast. The Martindales are published authors, host their own podcast, are a part of the XO Marriage Team, licensed counselors, + do family + marriage coaching. Take some time to hear from them as they share about rising above storms on …

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Navigating Power Dynamics and Triangulation in a Blended Family 11:34

4M ago11:34

11:34

Feeling caught in a destructive family triangle? Whether it's biological parents pitting a child against each other or in-laws taking sides, triangulation wedges people apart. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale define and provide examples of triangulation in blended families. They also offer strategies for coping with these toxic dynamic…

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Ex-Spouse Sabotage in Blended Families 22:47

4M ago22:47

22:47

How do you handle an ex-spouse who actively tries to undermine your new marriage? Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle this topic in this week’s podcast. They provide proven strategies and tips for setting healthy boundaries, seeking professional counseling, fostering open communication with your spouse, and making your marriage a top priority. In a…

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On Wings Of Eagles with Pastors Micah and Chelsea Gay Pt. 2 30:07

4M ago30:07

30:07

Today on part 2 of our conversation with Pastors Micah & Chelsea Gay who served as the associate, kids, + youth pastors at High Praise Church in Panama City, FL under the leadership of Apostles Robert & Stacey Gay for nearly a decade. They have both served in full time ministry for over 15 years. Micah + Chelsea have been married for 12 years and h…

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Recover Your Autonomy: Dealing with Enmeshment and Emotional Incest in Blended Families 13:11

4M ago13:11

13:11

In this episode of Let’s Therapy, Scott and Vanessa explore the definitions and signs of enmeshment and emotional incest within blended families. They define this problem from a clinical perspective and discuss how these unhealthy dynamics can deeply impact family relationships. They also offer strategies to break free from these toxic patterns, su…

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Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism & Alienation 22:04

4M ago22:04

22:04

In this thought-provoking episode, Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism and Alienation, Scott and Vanessa delve into the complex issue of Narcissistic Parental Alienation Syndrome (NPAS). They provide insights on recognizing the signs, confronting the situation, and finding healing for parents and children affected by this toxic form of co-paren…

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On Wings Of Eagles with Pastors Micah and Chelsea Gay Pt. 1 24:00

4M ago24:00

24:00

Today we welcome Pastors Micah & Chelsea Gay served as the associate, kids, + youth pastors at High Praise Church in Panama City, FL under the leadership of Apostles Robert & Stacey Gay for nearly a decade. They have both served in full time ministry for over 15 years. Micah + Chelsea have been married for 12 years and have three children - Levi, G…

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Understanding Narcissism: Being Assertive and Seeking Out Support 12:39

4M ago12:39

12:39

In this third and final episode of the series about the impact of narcissism on blended families, Scott and Vanessa share effective strategies for dealing with narcissistic relationships. They share helpful action steps that include setting boundaries, finding peer support, developing assertiveness skills, and using discernment. Did you enjoy this …

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Why You Need A Mentor 16:12

5M ago16:12

16:12

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we discuss everything from intimate moments with the Lord to practical guidance in blended family dynamics. Listen to real-life stories and biblical wisdom that illustrate the transformative power of having a mentor. Join us as we delve into the value of mentorship and how it can deepen your …

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On Wings Of Eagles with Ashley Shores 24:41

5M ago24:41

24:41

On this weeks episode we welcome Ashley Shores onto the podcast to share about rising above storms. Ashley is a high school junior on the Emerald Coast. She has been dancing for 14 years + dancing competitively for 3 years. Recently, she began singing as a worship leader at church, + she loves being able to worship alongside others her age. Outside…

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Understanding Narcissism: Love Bombing, Boundaries, and Self-Care 12:48

5M ago12:48

12:48

This is the second episode in our three-part series on narcissism. In it, Scott and Vanessa take a deeper dive into understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and its impact on relationships. They reveal the tactic of love bombing, the importance of setting boundaries, and the crucial role of self-care in maintaining mental and emotional…

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How To Be A Better Stepparent 33:30

5M ago33:30

33:30

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Vivian Cumins as she shares her journey of healing and growth within her blended family. From managing expectations to seeking forgiveness, Vivian's insights offer wisdom and encouragement for all blended families. Don't miss out on this inspiring discussion! Join Our Community - Ready to connect with other…

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On Wings Of Eagles with Marsha Clemons 23:58

5M ago23:58

23:58

On this Episode, Marsha Clemons joins to talk about testimonies of rising above. For years, Marsha and her husband served as Pastors and mentored the next generation in North Alabama. Now they reside in Orange Beach, AL. Recently, Marsha wrote a book called "Beautiful Pieces: A Story of Hope When All Hope is Shattered." She has discovered the stren…

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Understanding Narcissism: The Behaviors and Tactics You Need to Know 15:24

5M ago15:24

15:24

What is a narcissist and what behaviors define their interactions? In this Season 3 opener of Let's Therapy, Scott and Vanessa delve into what characterizes narcissistic personality disorder, including an inflated self-image, lack of empathy, and sense of entitlement. We explore the hallmark narcissist behaviors like gaslighting, love bombing, and …

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Praying with Your Spouse 18:21

5M ago18:21

18:21

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa delve into the transformative power of prayer in marriages and blended families. They discuss encouraging statistics revealing the significant decrease in divorce rates among couples who pray together daily. Throughout the episode, Scott and Vanessa share practical advice on…

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On Wings Of Eagles With Allyson Goolsby 39:08

5M ago39:08

39:08

On this weeks episode, The Tomlins welcome Allyson Goolsby from Merritt Island, FL to talk about rising above storms. Allyson has served at East Coast Christian Center for over a decade by leading the youth band, leading worship, preaching, as well as leading small groups. By day she works in the marketplace in her community. She has her own podcas…

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The Power of Resilience: Embracing God Amidst Trials in your Blended Family 26:02

5M ago26:02

26:02

Discover the power of resilience in this latest episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. Special guest Rebekah Lyons joins Scot and Vanessa Martindale to talk about her journey of faith and seeing God's hand in every season, especially the hardest ones. Our hosts and their guest share profound insights on dying to yourself to discover your …

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On Wings Of Eagles with Holly Myers 33:23

5M ago33:23

33:23

On this episode of the Waves Ministry Podcast, Michael + Caroline Tomlin talk with Holly Myers in sharing testimonies of rising above + soaring above storms. Holly Myers calls North Carolina home. She is passionate about seeing girls and women embrace freedom. She is a speaker, author and podcaster. She also writes for the Lifeway Girls blog. Holly…

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Intimacy & Sex in Second Marriages 18:49

5M ago18:49

18:49

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle the sensitive topic of physical intimacy and sex within second marriages. They share vulnerably about their own experiences, and highlight the importance of working through past trauma, triggers, and comparison. The conversation centers on the importance of open commu…

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On Wings Of Eagles with Hannah Irby 20:46

6M ago20:46

20:46

On this episode of the Waves Ministry Podcast, Michael + Caroline Tomlin talk with Waves Intern, Hannah Irby, in sharing testimonies of rising above + soaring above storms. Hannah Irby is studying Youth and Family Ministry with a minor in Communication at ACU and set to graduate in May. She has served with Delight Ministries (Christ-centered commun…

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I Feel Alone! Finding Community in Blended Families 31:48

6M ago31:48

31:48

If you have ever felt alone and isolated or have struggled to find a supportive community while navigating blended family challenges then this episode is for you! Navigating life in a blended family can be a beautiful but complex journey. In this episode, I Feel Alone - Finding Community in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined …

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On Wings Of Eagles with The Tomlins 21:22

6M ago21:22

21:22

On this episode of the Waves Ministry Podcast, Michael + Caroline Tomlin introduce Season 8 in sharing testimonies of rising above + soaring above storms. Caroline is a wife, mom, author, speaker, life & ministry coach, but most of her life centers around the mission to be making waves for Christ. Follow Caroline at @mrscarolinetomlin on Instagram.…

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Enmeshment With Ex-Spouses: Blended Family Boundaries 17:31

6M ago17:31

17:31

Welcome to the latest episode of the Blended Family Podcast - Enmeshment with Ex-Spouses: Setting Boundaries in Blended Families. Join hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they discuss the intricate dynamics of blended families, focusing on the challenges and nuances of enmeshment between ex-spouses. In this episode - Enmeshment with Ex-Spouses: B…

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Enmeshment Between Parents & Kids - Maintaining Healthy Boundaries in Blended Families 17:02

6M ago17:02

17:02

Enmeshment between parents and kids is an important factor in families and maintaining healthy boundaries in blended families can help. Dive into the complexities of enmeshment in blended families on this podcast episode: Enmeshment Between Parents & Kids - Maintaining Healthy Boundaries in Blended Families. Hosts Scott and Vanessa shed light on sc…

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Blended Families: My Nest is Empty—Coping with Kids Leaving Home 20:07

6M ago20:07

20:07

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by guests Eric and Keisha Gomez to talk about the empty nest phase of marriage and family. Eric is the XO Marriage Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Keisha is a Marriage Mediator at XO Marriage. Together, they talk about preparing for the empty nest before the last child leaves, the importanc…

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Preparing to Launch - Sending Kids to College in a Blended Family 27:00

7M ago27:00

27:00

In this episode Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by guests Eric and Keisha Gomez. Eric is the XO Marriage Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Keisha is a Marriage Mediator at XO Marriage. Eric and Keisha share personal experiences and advice for sending kids to college as a blended family, including preparing children academically and spiritua…

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The Power of Untethered Worship - 2024 Word of The Year 26:56

7M ago26:56

26:56

In this podcast episode, Scott and Vanessa talk about their practice of asking God to give them a word for the year ahead. They share how they both seek God for a word individually as well as for their blended family, and how this annual activity draws them closer together. We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Fa…

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