This podcast and community create a safe space for women to find support, inspiration, and tools to uncover more joy and fulfillment in sex. Everyday women share stories, successes, and struggles, and experts give insights, address relationship/sexual challenges, and teach practical tools to help you embrace your sexuality. Join Ariel Finlinson as we talk about influences such as connection, culture, body image, religion, and anatomy. Together, let’s create a world where women’s sexuality is ...
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Created by certified sex coach and educator Sara Tang, this podcast features intimate conversations about navigating sex in the modern world. On this frank, informative and lighthearted show, we tackle the taboos that many people commonly experience around sex. Expect banter and open hearted discussions between the hosts and their guests, as we dish up inspiration around how to get Better in Bed. Featured as the Best Sex Podcast on Esquire, The Guardian and more! Tune in now at http://sarase ...
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Welcome to Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey! Welcoming to my virtual therapy rooms! Talking about sexual concerns, issues and problems can be incredibly difficult. Finding accurate information in this age of information overload is a challenge. Finding a safe space to raise sexual desires, fears and worries is often almost impossible. As a sex coach and psychotherapist, I offer a safe place from which to explore. Each week I will delve into a topic from the realm of sex, intimacy and ...
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71: Create a Life You Love // Melissa Havertz
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Don’t put joy on hold until your next getaway. Start loving the life you’re in right now! Connection and fun can be found right where you’re sitting. In this episode, Melissa Havertz gives real tips to discover joy in the little moments of life and how to use them for greater connection with the ones that matter most. 💜 Learn more from Melissa at h…
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If you are out of practice in making love with your partner, it might feel awkward or even intimidating. But connecting with your partner on a regular basis will help your intimacy thrive. If you are out of the rhythm of sex, it's time to try again! In this episode, Ariel shares her own story of what it can feel like to be out of practice and why i…
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69: Navigating the Changing Seasons of Sex // Tammy Hill
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Tammy Hill joins Ariel to cover what you can expect in your sex life throughout your lifespan. From newlywed to empty nester, Tammy shares what she has seen in each stage and tips on how to help your intimacy thrive — no matter the season you’re in! 🌟 Use code TALKINGLOVE for 10% off Mentionables Lingerie 💜Find Tammy @tammy_hill_lmft and her websit…
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68: The Unseen Journey of Pregnancy // Carlie Palmer-Webb
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On social media, pregnancy can look like all rainbows and sunshine. But this isn’t always the case! If you feel like a train wreck while carrying a little one, you aren’t alone. Carlie and Ariel share what pregnancies can look like (without the glowing filters), and how to get through when it’s the hardest thing in the world. ☀️Need a joy boost in …
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67: Ideas for Initiating Sex // Ariel Finlinson
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You’ve probably heard plenty of spicy ideas to initiate sex, but in this episode I’m going to give you the bread and butter of making initiating sex work for your relationship like it never has before! ☀️ Want more? Download my free guide: Top 10 Things to Ask Your Spouse About Sex Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit lad…
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66: You Deserve Pleasure // Dr. Lindsey Brooks
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Stop believing your pleasure is not a priority! Dr. Lindsey Brooks joins this episode and teaches about breaking down barriers to a better sex life with your partner. Through society, there can be beliefs we carry with us that hold us back from understanding pleasure and allowing it to flourish in our lives. Dr. Brooks will open up your understandi…
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65: Sharing Housework // Dr. Dave Schramm
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The overwhelm of housework seems never ending. While it should be shared between spouses, it can feel tricky to ask for support in tackling these tasks. Dr. Dave Schramm talks about how to troubleshoot the balancing act of housework. He teaches the key to better discussions when emotions are high and how to get on the same page with your partner. 🌟…
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Laura and Sharon share stories of infertility from two different perspectives. This intimate conversation will shed light on a difficult challenge and what these women have learned in the process. 🎗️Learn more about endometriosis here 💜 Checkout “Staying Connected Through Infertility” episode here Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instag…
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63: What You're Doing to Stifle Connection // Dr. Amber A. Price
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As women, we desire to make our relationships deep and fulfilling. We sacrifice ourselves as we try live up to all the ‘shoulds’ and ‘should-nots’ that make a “good” wife and mother. But living this way makes it almost impossible to create the authentic relationships we desire. Dr. Amber Price joins us for another episode to dig into her research a…
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In this special Valentines episode, Ariel shares a quick win you can take on today to add a little more joy to your relationship. I caught one of Kyle’s bids for connection on video here 🌟 💜 Missed my live FREE masterclass? There’s still time to sign up for my signature course: FROM PRESSURE TO PASSION, but only until 4 PM (MST). Learn more here! J…
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61: Functioning at Your Peak // BreeAnn Allred
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It’s time we stop accepting peeing our pants or painful sex as the 'norm' after baby. Enter pelvic floor therapy. BreeAnn Allred, an experienced pelvic floor physical therapist of 17 years and mother of 4, talks about the ins and outs of pelvic floor PT. Learn what can be treated with pelvic floor therapy, what an appointment might look like, and h…
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60: Tips for When You Feel Touched Out // Ariel Finlinson
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If you have ever felt touched out, this episode is for you! Get inspired to find ways to connect in meaningful ways despite sometimes feeling touched out from your kids. 💜 Sign up here for my *Free Masterclass* From Touched Out To Turned On before it closes! 💜 Dr. Morgan Cutlip’s recent reel “What if you treated your kids like you treat yourself?” …
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59: Finding Joy Through Boundaries // Ralphie Jacobs
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Parenting on a sex podcast? You bet! When it comes to our satisfaction in sexual relationships, there can be so many things that affect how we show up. Parenting is one of them. In this episode, Ralphie Jacobs, exceptional parenting educator and passionate advocate for strong families, teaches about setting boundaries with our children. You’ll lear…
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58: 4 Things Holding You Back from Sexual Fulfillment // Ariel Finlinson
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You are capable of immense sexual pleasure and deep connection. When this isn’t happening in your sex life, it can fill you up with all sorts of negative feelings towards your partner and any sexual encounter you two might share. It doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode, Ariel shares 4 things that could be keeping you from the fulfillment yo…
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57: Invisible Labor: What it is and How to Lighten the Load // Dr. Julie Hanks
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In this episode, Dr. Julie Hanks delves into the meaning of invisible labor. She uses her almost 30 years of experience empowering women to tackle the invisible load many of us silently carry; with the goal of helping us create partnership marriages. Listen in, as we discuss what invisible labor is, how it can strain relationships and how to unpack…
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The battle for positive body image can feel like an impossible dream. Our dislike for our body may seem like a truth that the universe can’t change. This negative focus on our bodies can steal so much of our lives without us even realizing it. Erin Palmer brings her passion and insight to this episode as she expounds upon ways we can obtain body pe…
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55: From Coping to Connection // Cameron Staley
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Cameron Staley (a clinical psychologist, Tedx speaker and program developer) reframes our understanding of pornography use from addiction to a coping mechanism. Even if you don’t have a direct connection to pornography use, you most likely have unhealthy ways of coping when things get tough. You’ll go away feeling empowered to lean into discomfort …
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54: A Formula for Connection // Ariel Finlinson
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The holiday season can be a difficult time to stay connected to our spouse, especially as we balance the demands of the season. In this episode, Ariel shares a quick formula to stay connected and bring more joy during the holidays. Get my FREE downloads by sending me the DM “BLUEPRINT” on Instagram @ladies.talkinglove or by clicking on one of the f…
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53: Creating a Partnership Marriage // Tim and Aubrey Chaves
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Partnership: a relationship of equals. This is something we all want in our marriage, but it can be surprisingly difficult to put into practice. Cultural conditioning and personal weaknesses can get in the way of living that partnership dream. Aubrey and Tim Chaves, hosts of the Faith Matters Podcast, join me in this episode to share their journey …
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52: A Reason for Sexual Purity // Dr. Camden Morgante
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Teaching kids sexual values and beliefs can be challenging when you’ve got your own baggage! Dr. Camden Morgante is back to help us know how to talk about sexual purity with our kids, while leaving out negative messages from purity culture. Listen in for practical tips on giving our kids a reason to stay sexually pure without the baggage! Get my FR…
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51: What You Didn’t Know: The Sexual Response Cycle // Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus
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Is spontaneous sexual desire the norm? Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, internationally recognized sex therapist and author, teaches us about a new way to understand our sexual response … Spoiler, it doesn’t start with desire! Join us as we break down a new understanding of the sexual response cycle and why that’s important in your sex life today. Find Dr. Ba…
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58. Managing Jealousy in Relationships ft. Multiamory
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Why do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger. Some people romanticize this feeling in relationships. Others use jealousy as a justification for controlling and destructive behaviour. On this episode, Sara sits down with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase, the host…
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50: Pleasure - Courtesy of Female Anatomy (Encore!) // Carlie Palmer-Webb
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Sex researcher and educator Carlie Palmer-Webb dives into the ins and outs of female anatomy so that women can uncover pleasure in their sex lives. She gives us a deep look into how to navigate religious or cultural beliefs while also getting to know our bodies. Find Carlie Palmer-Webb on Instagram @thechristiansexeducator and access her courses an…
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49: Debunking Male Sexuality Myths (Encore!) // Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray
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Sexuality researcher Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray shares her groundbreaking discoveries surrounding male sexuality. In this episode, Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray challenges views of male sexuality that are prevalently accepted and believed. She opens the door to more understanding and authentic dialogues around male sexuality. You can find Dr. Murray’s blog,…
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48: Talking to Kids about Sex: Part 3 (Teens) // Dr. Padilla-Walker
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We often characterize the teenage years as being full of raging hormones and emotions. But is there a way to help our kids navigate this time without shame and fear while living within their values? In this episode, Dr. Laura Padilla-Walker shares foundational building blocks we can use to talk with our kids about healthy sexuality during the teen …
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47: Talking to Kids about Sex: Part 2 (ages 9-12) // Dr. Padilla-Walker
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Did you think you were dying when your period started? Or wondered what was in your underwear when you woke up? It’s time to do better for our kids! But when should I start talking about puberty with my kids? In this episode, Dr. Padilla-Walker breaks down when most children experience puberty and how to start the conversation. From puberty to sex,…
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46: Talking to Kids about Sex: Part 1 (Ages 0-7) // Dr. Padilla-Walker
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When should I start talking to my kids about sex? How do I talk to them about it? In Part 1 of this 3 part series, Dr. Laura Padilla-Walker breaks down how to talk with our kids about healthy sexuality from birth to age 3 and then from ages 3-7. Tune in to find tips for making these types of conversations natural and open. Find Dr. Padilla-Walker’s…
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45: Letters to My Younger Self // Bonnie Young
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Marriage and Family Therapist Bonnie Young joins us to talk about her new book, Sex Educated: Letters from a Latter-day Saint Therapist to Her Younger Self. This book covers common challenges women experience as they grow up with the shame and unknowns surrounding sex. In this interview, Bonnie brings to light several major roadblocks women face as…
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Yoni massage, which has its origins in Tantra, has recently been getting a lot of attention in the sexual wellness space. What is the meaning of Yoni anyway? It’s Sanskrit term that means “sacred portal” and it represents all the female genital parts - the vulva, vagina, womb and feminine essence. On this episode, Sara is joined by her sex-positive…
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44: Help for Painful Sex // Dr. Sara Reardon
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It's time to shout it from the housetops… Intercourse should not be painful! In this episode pelvic floor specialist Dr. Sara Reardon (PT, DPT, WCS) shares some of the causes for painful sex and how to get help. Listen in and tell everyone you know! Find Dr. Sara and her resources below: IG: @the.vagina.whisperer Tik Tok: @thevagwhisperer Website: …
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56. Achieving Work Life, Sex Life Balance
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Many of you are busy people with multiple responsibilities and who lead stressful lives. So how do you navigate a good work life, sex life balance? On this episode, Sara talks with Lisa Fei and celebrity matchmaker Carmelia Ray about how to juggle a busy work life and maintain a fulfilling sex life. Respectively, Lisa and Carmelia are the Founder a…
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55. Bonus: The Science of Horniness from Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
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On this bonus episode, I’m sharing an excerpt of a new podcast I’m enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science. You’ll get a modern guide to sexual wellbeing, backed by groundbreaking research about desire, anatomy, orgasm and much more. …
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Curious about attending a sex party, also known as a play party? Think about entering a party with a giant bed, and everyone’s exploring their kinks and fetishes. It’s a smorgasbord of pleasure… On this episode, Sara speaks with a sex-positive couple, James and Kat, who enjoy organizing sex parties. They share their experiences on the ins and outs …
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43: Fostering Holiday Connection // Camille Jensen
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It’s that time of year where the hustle and bustle can take us away from what it’s really all about: connecting with our spouse, family, and friends. Join life coach Camille Jensen and I as we talk about tips for building connection with your partner not only during this busy time of year, but all year long. Find Camille on Facebook at CampJay Coac…
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How can you enjoy porn ethically - with more of the pleasure and less of the guilt? Porn is commonly used to accompany masturbation. On this episode, Sara chats with erotic filmmaker Paulita Pappel (www.paulitapappel.com) on what constitutes “ethical porn” and how to consume it in a healthy and responsible way. As someone who has been both in front…
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52. Oh My G! Finding & Stimulating the G-Spot
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It’s been called the “Holy Grail” of the woman’s pleasure anatomy. But does the G-spot even exist? It's been a highly debated question. And one that Sara discusses with co-host Kat Leung and guest Vera Lui on this episode. Vera is the founder of Sally Coco (http://sallystoy.com), the first female-friendly sex toy shop in Hong Kong, and a certified …
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51. Sex FAQs - How Do I Get My Libido Back?
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How do I get my libido back? From antidepressants, to trying to conceive and having kids, Sara invites clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kristin Zeising (http://drzeising.com) on this Sex FAQs episode to tackle the different real-life situations that could cause one’s libido to do a disappearing act. We answer the following questions: “Se…
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Have you heard of the “male G-spot”? It’s another name for the prostate and it’s a major erogenous zone. But it’s an area that has been largely unexplored by most people. On this episode, Sara and Prescott Gaylord (http://prescottgaylord.com), an improv actor and intimacy co-ordinator, go on a journey to explore everything in prostate play. First, …
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42: Unpacking Purity Culture // Dr. Camden Morgante
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If you grew up in a religious faith tradition, purity culture has likely impacted you. Purity culture often holds back our potential for a thriving couple relationship by negatively impacting our sexual and emotional connection. Join us as Dr. Camden Morgante helps us deconstruct purity culture and gives tips to reconstruct our faith in a way that …
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41: Talking with Teens about Masturbation // Dr. Dean Busby (Part II)
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Figuring out how to help your teens make decisions that align with their values around masturbation can be challenging. In this episode, Dr. Busby gives parents helpful advice about navigating these tricky topics with their teens. Dr. Busby’s co-authored books include: A Better Way to Teach Kids about Sex Sexual Wholeness in Marriage Follow us @lad…
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40: What do I do When My Young Child is Masturbating? // Dr. Dean Busby (Part I)
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I remember feeling fearful as I watched my young children start to explore their bodies. I didn’t want to create shame around their sexuality, but I didn’t know how to handle the situation. The more I’ve learned about this topic, the more I understand that self-touch is a natural part of a child’s development and can be handled in simple ways that …
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49. Practicing Mindful Masturbation
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How can you be more mindful with masturbation? Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation. Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you feel good. The practice encourages everyone to slow down, becom…
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You know that super sticky handful of lube you pull away after applying? Women’s sexual coach Dani Todd explains that it should not be that way. She shares the beauty of using a quality lube from orgasm to vaginal health. The Dating Diva’s 2022 virtual sex Seminar is AVAILABLE NOW!! Use this link for the 2022 Sex Seminar and get $15 OFF I’ve teamed…
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48. Sex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?
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What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations. On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around buil…
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38: Celebrating Motherhood through the Eyes of Children
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Mother’s Day can be hard, beautiful, heavy, and joyful. Some of us have lost our moms, don’t have children but desperately want them, or don’t feel celebrated in a way that helps us feel loved. Others of us may love Mother’s Day. Whatever your Mother’s Day holds, I hope that this episode will help you lean into the joys, challenges, and beauty of m…
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47. Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny Lang
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Is three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vonnylang), to chat about our personal experiences around …
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37: Round Table - Overcoming Body Image Struggles
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Working through body image struggles can feel overwhelming and lonely. It can feel like everyone else has their life together, AND the body that you wish you had! In this episode, two friends share some of their journeys as they’ve worked to overcome body image struggles. They share tips of things that have helped and things they currently use to w…
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36: Uncovering Your Sexual Potential // Carlie Palmer-Webb
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Have you ever heard: “Women don’t like sex as much as men.” or “Just have sex to keep your husband happy.” Well friends, often women simply haven’t been taught how to have good sex! Pleasure in sex is just as much for women! In this episode, sex educator and researcher Carlie Palmer-Webb helps us uncover ways to create the pleasure and connection w…
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35: Do I Have Vaginismus? // Dr. Janelle Howell
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Do you have pain with sex? Women’s health physical therapist Dr. Janelle Howell shares not only common symptoms of vaginismus but how to get help. There is hope for those who struggle with pain during intercourse and it’s time to get help! Find Janelle at the vaginarehabdoctor.com and on Instagram @vaginarehabdoctor Pelvic Floor PT Finder Follow us…
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46. Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?
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Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start? On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I han…
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