Best Chuck Nice Podcasts (2024)

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Rewriting the Script: Masculinity Beyond the Nice Guy Syndrome with Chuck Chapman 42:46

2h ago42:46

42:46

Chuck Chapman shares his transformative journey from a life shaped by societal expectations to one of authenticity and integrity. Facing a personal crisis, Chuck embarked on a path of self-discovery that led him to redefine masculinity and embrace a new set of values. He discusses the importance of courage, the process of unlearning inherited belie…

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The Number One Reason Nice Guys Don't Have the Life They Want 6:24

13d ago6:24

6:24

One of the major reasons Nice Guys don't get the life they want is because they are bad enders. They tend to stick around when something isn't working claiming to be loyal when in reality they are simply afraid to end things. In this video I teach you how to become a good ender so you can get what you want in life, love and sex.…

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Why You Won’t Be Successful Without A Men’s Group EP #62 29:07

3d ago29:07

29:07

Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress. I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you wa…

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The Silent Struggle: Why Men Are Losing Themselves in Success with Jeff Boyer 42:47

7d ago42:47

42:47

Jeff Boyer breaks down the myth of traditional success and the impact it has on men today. He shares how he went from achieving external success to realizing it left him unfulfilled and searching for deeper meaning. Jeff explains the pressures men face in trying to meet societal expectations, often at the expense of their true selves. His insights …

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Why Women Nag & How To Stop It EP #61 19:10

1d ago19:10

19:10

Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains. Then this podcast is for you and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Get Naked: Strength, Vulnerability, and Resilience with William Branum 45:02

4d ago45:02

45:02

William Branum, a former Navy SEAL, joins us to explore the intricacies of modern masculinity. He shares his journey of embracing vulnerability, the strength in asking for help, and the critical importance of self-reflection through after action reviews. William discusses the balance between toughness and empathy, revealing how removing the metapho…

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No More Mr. Nice Guy: Guide To Dealing With Cheating With Dr. Glover EP #60 1:26:14

8d ago1:26:14

1:26:14

Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman. The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success the…

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The Role of Men in Today's Families: Tradition vs. Modernity with Tiziano Sguerso 49:56

20d ago49:56

49:56

Tiziano Sguerso joins Hector for a conversation on the impact of family narratives and generational trauma on our lives. Tiziano shares his journey from being a professional kickboxer to becoming a family constellation therapist, and the insights he's gained about love, relationships, and the essential roles of men and women in the family. They als…

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What It’s Like When She Leaves EP #59 23:54

27d ago23:54

23:54

An anxiety I’ve often had in the past when it came to my relationships was that my partner might leave me. This only contributed to my Nice Guy Behavior in, well just about every area of the relationship. This fear that “she may leave you” is fuel to the Nice Guy Syndrome. I’ve seen this pattern over and over again with the men that I work with in …

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Exploring Sacred Sexuality and Full-Body Pleasure with Jasper Brown 47:23

18d ago47:23

47:23

Jasper Brown explores the concept of conscious sexuality, offering a fresh perspective on achieving deeper intimacy and pleasure. Jasper discusses the limitations of traditional methods and introduces his integrative approach, The Legendary Lover program, which combines education, mindfulness, and conscious practices. With insights into full-body p…

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Lead your partner, or lose her for good 7:09

24d ago7:09

7:09

How do you create leadership and polarity masculinity in your relationship? Today we discuss the advice of authentic masculine leadership in relationships and address the consequences of role reversal between partners. Learn how to set the tone, create a vision, inspire your partner, and develop a definite plan to restore balance and connection in …

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Money and Masculinity 14:05

27d ago14:05

14:05

We explore the deep connection between your relationship with money and your relationship with feminine energy. Masculine energy is what structures money. Discover how changing your view on feminine energy can impact your financial well-being. The video dives into the concept of financial independence, emphasizing three main pillars: mindset, habit…

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Why Women Love Bad Boys & Hate Nice-Guys EP #58 25:01

23d ago25:01

25:01

What is it about bad boys women can’t get enough of? Why do women keep going back to bad boys they know they are trouble? What type of men are they? What type of women bad boys? Why do nice-guys finish last? Do nice-guys need to become bad boys?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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The Power of Positive Masculine Energy: 30 Attributes in 30 Days 9:35

29d ago9:35

9:35

What is Positive Masculine Energy? It's needed in Positive Masculinity in men more today than at any other time. Discover the 30 rates of positive masculine energy and how the power of language shapes our unconscious mind and influences our actions. In this video, Chuck Chapman shares a personal mountain biking experience to illustrate the importan…

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Healing Generational Wounds with John and Norman D’Agostini 41:37

25d ago41:37

41:37

John and Norman D'Agostini are sitting down with Hector to discuss fatherhood across generations. They talk about the importance of physical and emotional connection, and the challenges of raising children in today's world. Norman shares his experiences of overcoming a traumatic upbringing and the lessons he learned about being a loving and dedicat…

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Six Psychological Needs - Men need #3 the most 9:20

1M ago9:20

9:20

I delve into self-improvement and self-development by teaching you the crucial questions to get what you want in life. I introduce six universal psychological needs—connection, security, respect, vision, purpose, and growth—that are essential for personal fulfillment. I also explore how societal and familial expectations can lead to feelings of sha…

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Are Nice Guys Commitment Phobes? EP #57 29:03

1M ago29:03

29:03

There is one stereotype about the nice guy that he is needy and clingy and stays in a bad relationship no matter what. And yes, I’ve been guilty of that. But what about the nice guy that can’t commit? Can’t commit to a woman or a job or a hobby or even meeting your friend for dinner?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Surviving and Thriving as a Single Dad with Kent Frazier 38:32

1M ago38:32

38:32

In this episode, Hector and Kent Frazier discuss the challenges and rewards of single fatherhood. Kent shares his personal journey of balancing responsibilities as a solo dad, entrepreneur, and community member. They talk about the importance of creating healthy rhythms, managing intense emotions, and redefining traditional roles in modern parentin…

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The Time I Was Slapped In The Face With A Sacred Dick EP #56 23:01

2M ago23:01

23:01

Recently I was complaining to my personal men’s group about being tired, about being disappointed in the ambivalence in some of the men I work with and men in general aren’t interested in self-development, and just uninterested in anything other than sex, sports and video games. I’ve been doing men’s work for almost 20 years both as a participant a…

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How To Be More Optimistic and Less Pessimistic Nice Guy EP #55 16:54

2M ago16:54

16:54

Are you hard on yourself and others? Do you tend to criticize and judge harshly? Do you always see life as half empty instead of half full?By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Men's Mental Health: Self Acceptance and Self Love 8:35

2M ago8:35

8:35

How do you accept yourself? How do you love yourself? In this episode, we explore the importance of having a strong sense of self to avoid becoming a people pleaser and to lead a fulfilling life. Learn about self-awareness, self-love, and how to set healthy boundaries. Practical advice includes daily practices like positive self-talk and understand…

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Why Men Quit: The Hidden Battle in Your Head with Steve Lutsk 46:15

2M ago46:15

46:15

Fitness trainer Steve Lutsk joins Hector to talk about the ongoing challenges and misconceptions surrounding fitness and modern masculinity. They discuss the struggle against complacency and the mental battles that accompany physical fitness. They go into the psychological benefits of maintaining a rigorous fitness regime, explaining how it goes wa…

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The Art of Emotional Control: Stop Freaking Out for Good 14:26

2M ago14:26

14:26

Discover the secret to emotional control, mastering emotional intelligence, and achieving emotional regulation. Learn impulse control, stress management, and resilience through mindfulness and self-awareness. Unlock your emotional mastery with proven strategies from behavioral psychology. Conquer emotional overwhelm and develop mental health skills…

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4 Questions to Diagnose Relationship Health 8:16

2M ago8:16

8:16

Struggling with relationship problems? Learn how to diagnose the health of your love life and decide whether to stay or leave. This video explores four critical questions to evaluate your relationship, covering topics like communication, intimacy, and fear. Discover the importance of physical and emotional connection, and learn how to cultivate a c…

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Is ADHD Part of My Nice Guy Syndrome? EP #54 28:06

2M ago28:06

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Are you a nice guy who has been diagnosed with ADHD? Or do you suspect you have ADHD? Why does it seem like every man with nice guy syndrome has ADHD too? In this episode we are going to break down just what is happening here and what are the differences between ADHD and nice guy syndrome.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Where To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP #53 17:59

2M ago17:59

17:59

Want to know the best and easiest places to meet attractive great women without dating apps or loitering around nights club? And especially if you are shy. Stick around for this episode Where To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP and I will reveal where you’ll find abundance of single women and hardly any compe…

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How to Stop Overthinking for Good 12:03

3M ago12:03

12:03

Breaking Free from Overthinking Learn how to stop overthinking for good and take control of your troubling thoughts. In this video, we'll cover tips on managing intrusive thoughts and improving your mental health. In this episode, I'm tackling the all-too-familiar problem of overthinking—how it paralyzes your decision-making, cranks up your stress …

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The Feminine Freakout! How To Bring Calm To Your Partner EP #52 24:46

3M ago24:46

24:46

Can you relate to this; you’re going along in your relationship, everything is fine and then you say something, something pretty innocent and maybe even a little funny. To you at least. And then suddenly like a dormant volcano erupting she explodes. Expletives are flying, accusations are being hurled and you find yourself like a deer caught in head…

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Relationships: Does Masculinity Still Matter in Modern Dating? with Greg Wasserman 33:26

3M ago33:26

33:26

Greg Wasserman talks about how societal expectations and traditional gender roles shape men's dating experiences and explore the importance of vulnerability and emotional healing. Greg also touches on the unique challenges men face when dating without a car in L.A. He shares his perspective on the often-unspoken pressures men deal with in modern re…

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What Nice Guys Get Wrong About Marriage 13:49

2M ago13:49

13:49

What Nice Guys Get Wrong About Women in their Marriages. If you've been a nice guy in your marriage and you're trying to reclaim your masculinity, this video is for you. We're diving deep into masculine embodiment and psychology, with insights from John Wineland. Feeling stuck in your nice guy persona? It’s time to step up and embrace your masculin…

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Episode 51 -How To Be Dumped Without Falling Apart 19:41

3M ago19:41

19:41

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari share their insights on handling breakups like a man. They discuss practical tips and strategies for navigating the end of a relationship with resilience and self-respect, helping Nice Guys keep their cool even when faced with heartbreak.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Parenting: Building Sovereign Families with Matt Beaudreau 45:38

3M ago45:38

45:38

Matt Beaudreau is here to talk about sovereignty and its impact on family, education, and personal freedom. Matt explains his mission to help families take full control of their lives. He shares his experience as an educator and leader, discussing the flaws of traditional schooling and the need for critical thinking. Matt also talks about practical…

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How to Break Free from Shame for Good 14:29

3M ago14:29

14:29

Toxic shame can be a hidden, yet powerful force, impacting everything from social anxiety to relationships. Healing toxic shame is crucial for overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome, as it fuels anxiety, depression, PTSD, and trauma. In this video, life coach and mental health advocate Chuck Chapman dives deep into the psychology of shame, providing insights…

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Are Nice Guys Control Freaks? 11:50

3M ago11:50

11:50

Looking back, it's pretty clear that controlling others is a major symptom of the Nice Guy syndrome. Who knew that being Mr. Nice Guy was just a passive way to be Mr. Control Freak? It's not a good masculine trait. And guess what? Being controlling doesn't create positive relationships or a fulfilling life. Shocker, right? It’s exhausting and total…

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Episode 50 - Why Raising Your Standards Makes Nice Guys Attractive To Women and Money 25:51

3M ago25:51

25:51

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of raising your standards and how it can make Nice Guys more appealing to women and boost their financial success. They discuss the transformative power of self-respect and setting higher expectations in various aspects of lifeBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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How one small change can revolutionize your world 10:50

3M ago10:50

10:50

Fair warning: You're not going to like what I have to say about Nice Guy Syndrome. Most nice guys will stay stuck in miserable, people-pleasing relationships, hoping for a different outcome. Moving from a nice guy to an integrated man is hard work. If you're ready to change, stay tuned. I'm going to give you the only thing you need to do to kill yo…

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Mindset: Finding Your Purpose and Creating Consistency with Matt LeBris 47:03

3M ago47:03

47:03

Matt LeBris joins Hector to discuss the importance of authenticity and consistency in achieving both personal and professional success. Throughout this conversation about his own experiences, Matt talks about facing life's challenges, the process of emotional healing, and the significance of community in personal growth. He introduces various heali…

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How a Formal Rite of Passage Changed My Life 12:38

3M ago12:38

12:38

Let's talk about the importance of rites of passage in the journey from boyhood to manhood, especially for us recovering 'NICE' guys. It's something we've lost and I think we should bring it back. I'll share my own story about a male rite of passage that helped me transition into adulthood and kick my addiction and 'nice guy syndrome' to the curb. …

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The Reason I Never Say I'm Sorry Anymore to Anyone! 8:52

3M ago8:52

8:52

People pleasing and the Nice Guy Syndrome are common for the Nice Guy and one of the ways this shows up for Nice Guys is that they are always saying I'm sorry. It's weak and meaningless. In today's video, I talk about why I never say I'm sorry anymore, and how it has changed my relationships for the better.…

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Episode 49 - She's Pissed! Defending Against Her Ambush 17:09

3M ago17:09

17:09

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dish out advice on how the Nice Guy can navigate those moments when his woman is feeling ticked off. They share tips and insights for handling conflict in relationships.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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The Dismal Reality of Being 'Monogamous to Mom' for Nice Guys 13:05

3M ago13:05

13:05

In this video, I explore the concept of 'Monogamous to Mom,' and The Nice Guy Syndrome. The concept that Dr. Glover Talks about in No More Mr. Nice is how many nice guys, have with their mothers and how these bonds influence our romantic relationships. I discuss the common pattern of seeking motherly approval, which often leads to choosing partners…

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Stark Reality About Attracting Women and Achieving Success 9:45

3M ago9:45

9:45

If you want to be more attractive to women, have more money, and success in life, the men with the Nice Guy Syndrome would do well to learn to be a leader, and self-leadership is the key to attraction and success. Until you learn to lead yourself, you won’t be able to attract (or keep) a really great woman into your life. You won’t have the kind of…

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Episode 48 - How To Deal With Her Flakiness 29:44

3M ago29:44

29:44

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the issue of dealing with a woman's flakiness, offering insights and strategies for Nice Guys navigating unpredictable behavior in their relationships.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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Business: Constructing a Balanced Life with Chaz Wolfe 45:33

3M ago45:33

45:33

This episode is an exploration of the multifaceted challenges men face in striving for the ‘exceptional life.’ Joined by serial entrepreneur, leader, facilitator and speaker Chaz Wolfe, they explore the delicate balance between professional ambition and personal fulfillment. From the trenches of fatherhood to the pursuit of business excellence, the…

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Episode 47 - How To Attract Women Like A Gentleman 20:53

4M ago20:53

20:53

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often finds it challenging to attract womenBy Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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How To Talk To Women: Advice for the Nice Guy 12:16

4M ago12:16

12:16

Nice Guys struggle with talking to women because they are not confident. In this video, I'm going to share with you how you can learn to talk to women (or anyone, for that matter) with confidence and certainty. In this video, I dive deep into the crucial skills of communication skills as the number one way to increase your confidence and assertiven…

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Episode 46 - WTF Is Your Why? 23:25

4M ago23:25

23:25

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari get real about the importance of discovering and owning your 'why'. They explore how understanding your purpose can fuel personal growth and lead to a more fulfilling life.By Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman

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The sex-starved marriage | Why Nice Guy's tolerate the dead bedroom 8:49

4M ago8:49

8:49

Sex-starved marriage, Nice Guy syndrome, and dead bedrooms—let's dive into solutions to revive intimacy and passion in your relationship! In today's episode, I cover a detailed approach to moving beyond mere duty in your marriage and bringing back the spark using the R.E.P.A.I.R. method.By Chuck Chapman, M.A.

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The Broken Psychology Behind The Nice Guy Mentality - Dr. Robert Glover 12:14

4M ago12:14

12:14

What's the most common mistake Nice Guys make while trying to recover from the Nice Guy syndrome? In this video, we talk about Dr Robert Glover's book and what most men do wrong when trying to stop being Nice Guys. This problem that most ignore, This approach leads to swapping one flawed paradigm for another and ultimately does not result in person…

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Relationships: How Men Can Lead So That a Woman Wants to Follow with Coach Raph 45:36

4M ago45:36

45:36

Coach Raph helps men lead a life in a way that a woman naturally wants to follow. He provides a safe place for men.In today’s episode, Coach Raph and Hector discuss the pressures of male stoicism and the liberation found in vulnerability. This powerful conversation not only questions the pillars of traditional manhood but also offers you a new visi…

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