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Lying for the narcissist is as predictable and natural as the sun rising i the East. High level narcissists lie through commission and omission and by intricate combinations of the two. They pile one lie on top of the other with great "skill" and insouciance. Remember, narcissists unlike you and me do not have a fully developed conscience.
High levels are shameless with their lies. They tell huge ones without blinking or blanching or having the slightest prick of conscience.
The high level focuses on his primary goals:
Keeping his /her ego fully inflated at all times.
Seeking power over others within his occupational and societal orbit.
Keeping his eyes on the prize - material largesse, getting rid of competitors and if this involves smear campaigns the high level is gifted at ruining reputations through lies, accusations and insinuations.
The consequences of their multiple lies, misdeeds, cruelties, betrayals never enters their minds. In fact they blame everything that goes wrong on their victims and other innocents that are handy. Spreading lies and rumors are all part of their playbook. :
When things get touch the lying high level leaves you behind. You have worn thin - they are looking and finding a new shiny replacement. You are exhausted and no longer attractive to them. So they are off to create another delusion with someone who is naive, compliant, even worshipful of them.
You have awakened to the true nature of the high level narcissist.
You are moving forward despite your history with this dreadful personality.
You have persevered - through your knowledge, psychological stamina, inner wisdom, intuition. This is your time of transformation, healing, restoration.