EP 29 Lessons in Triggers and Healing

The Surviving Alzheimer's Podcast

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Healing our Triggers: The Parable of the Pool
Ken Cardita shares a heartfelt story called 'The Parable of the Pool.' Ken recounts his journey of caring for his wife, Shanna, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2017. Despite initial resistance, Ken decides to build a pool for Shanna, honoring a promise he made 30 years ago.
Throughout the episode, he illustrates how untreated triggers can cause emotional damage and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing a loved one’s desires over personal fears and logic. Ken also discusses the emotional ups and downs they faced, how the pool became a source of joy and connection, and the lessons he learned about addressing triggers and reprogramming negative emotions. He concludes by announcing upcoming training materials and coaching opportunities to help others in similar situations find peace and healing.
00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Emotional Triggers
00:36 Welcome to the Surviving Alzheimer's Podcast
02:46 Listener Comment: A Shared Journey
03:49 Background: The Parable of the Pool
09:02 The Pool Dilemma: A Source of Frustration
13:39 Decision to Build the Pool
17:51 Building the Pool: A Gift of Love
19:25 Cherished Memories and Lessons Learned
25:50 The Pool After Shanna's Move to Memory Care
28:20 Final Reflections and Moving Forward
31:12 Upcoming Resources and Closing Remarks
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