We Should Talk About The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life with Sexpert Couple Vanessa and Xander Marin

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You heard them first with Glennon and Abby, but NOW, Jess and Jess get a chance to sit down and chat all things S-E-X with the adorable and incredibly knowledgeable "sexpert couple" Vanessa and Xander Marin! The authors of SEX TALKS: The 5 Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life come on the show to talk about why it's so hard for couples to talk to each other about sex, and that most sex problems between couples usually boil down to something much less complicated than drive or compatibility. It's communication that is key.
JessB is uncomfortable talking about sex on air, and JessK is super comfy talking about all things between the sheets. From fairy tale sex lives- what we most often see on television on repeat, to what "should" our sex lives look like, Vanessa and Xander challenge Jess and Jess to ponder what great sex actually means to them- and what they want in the bedroom.
Whether sex is the last thing you think about or it's on the forefront of your relationship struggles- you need to listen to this episode, and even more, you need to go and get the book!
About the authors:
Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. She has bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. She has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured many times in major publications like Oprah Daily, Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, and Real Simple.

Xander Marin is a regular dude who left a cushy career in tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day. He’s here to show you that you don’t need a graduate degree or a license to have extraordinary communication skills—you just need to have an open mind and willingness!

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