Why You Can’t Change Him: Embracing Authentic Love and Letting Go of Control.

You First- A Journey to Self

In this episode of *You First: A Journey to Self*, we’re getting real about one of the biggest relationship traps—trying to change our partners. As women, it’s common to fall for someone’s potential and believe that with time, we can mold them into the ideal partner. But the truth? You cannot change them. And more importantly, you shouldn’t want to.
We’ll explore why it’s impossible to change someone, especially a man, and why healthy masculine energy naturally resists attempts at control. Instead of putting all our energy into fixing someone else, we’ll dive into the idea of focusing on ourselves—our own needs, values, and growth.
We also discuss how clashing energies—unhealthy masculine vs. healthy masculine—can create distance and disconnection, leading to frustration and even infidelity. Learn how to embrace your feminine energy in a way that creates balance and polarity in relationships, rather than frustration and power struggles.
Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or have been with your partner for years, this episode will guide you in understanding when to accept someone for who they are and how to foster true, deep connection without trying to control or mother them.
Tune in for a candid conversation about love, independence, and the power of letting go of the need to change others!

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