287: GirlTalk: The either/or conundrum in sex, dating, and relationships

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

This episode is kinda edgy! Here we (a small group of women who are attracted to men) give you a peek behind the curtain in terms of what we really crave from the masculine. The thing we rarely outline so starkly.

The truth is, many of us human beings limit ourselves when it comes to having it all. We think we can either have a job we like, or one that pays us well ... we can either settle down and become 'boring,' or have an exciting life without stability.

This pattern of thinking is especially obvious when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships. A lot of people struggle with believing they can have a partner who is BOTH one thing and another thing. And for women who are attracted to men, that is frequently: I want to feel claimed/ravaged AND respected/cherished.

There's more to it than that, and here we get down and dirty with it. Listen on for insight into the light and dark masculine, fuckboys at Da Club, the shame we hold around this pattern, and how to embody everything a woman yearns for.

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Mentioned on this episode:

• Dear Men Episode 269: The heart/cock matrix

Memorable quotes from this episode:

• “I can either have fun … or be married.”
• “I liked the feeling of being respected, but I didn’t feel juicy.”
• “This is the best sex that I’ve ever had with anybody.”
• “I could trust that he would show up, and see parts of me that I wasn’t necessarily proud of.”
• “It’s not something you do or say. It’s a vibe!”