Best Dr Les Carter Podcasts (2024)

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Episode 15: Narcissistic Mothers and Their Adult Daughters 48:44

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In this episode, Dr. Z delves into the complex dynamics between narcissistic mothers and their adult daughters. She discusses how the behavior patterns of narcissistic mothers challenge societal norms of the mother/daughter relationship and have a profound impact on their daughters’ self-esteem and mental health. Dr. Z also addresses the grieving p…

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Best Advice for Divorcing a Narcissist Without Losing Your Sh*t: Interview with The Dirty Laundry Podcast 27:13

10h ago27:13

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Send us a Text Message. Divorcing a narcissist often ends up a contentious battle. Victims come into court shaken up and traumatized, whereas their toxic ex appears poised and confident. Today, two Toronto legal mediators, Amanda Silver and Alex Howard, are joining me. They are also the co-hosts of the Dirty Laundry Podcast. They are going to share…

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Episode 14: Surviving and Thriving After Trauma Bonds with Dr. Nadine Macaluso 47:16

1h ago47:16

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“I was in a quintessential trauma bond with my ex-husband, the ‘Wolf of Wall Street,’ Jordan Belfort,” says Dr. Nadine Macaluso. “It started, as most trauma bonds do, with love bombing and promises of love and adoration forever, along with extreme affection. It was very intense and fast-paced, and then it blew up like many trauma bonds do.” Dr. Nad…

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When You Can't Leave: How to Survive a Narcissistic Relationship 25:13

8d ago25:13

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Send us a Text Message. What if you're not going to leave a narcissist? What if leaving isn't possible? Is there a way to survive a toxic relationship? Sometimes, leaving a toxic relationship isn't possible due to complex reasons. Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss why some victims find themselves trapped in a bad partnership and what to do i…

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Episode 13: High Conflict Personalities and Divorce with Rebecca Zung 48:40

1d ago48:40

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“They actually thrive and enjoy being in this drama, trauma, and chaos, getting people stirred up,” says Rebecca Zung, describing high conflict personalities. In this episode, Dr. Z talks with Rebecca, a top-ranked trial lawyer, high conflict negotiator, and international bestselling author of “Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and…

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Stop trauma dumping on me! How to know if you're trauma dumping vs. trauma reprocessing 28:32

14d ago28:32

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Send us a Text Message. Have you heard of trauma dumping? It’s become a new way to attack victims for talking about their narcissistic abuse experiences. Rossana Faye joins me as this week’s special guest to explore the importance of sharing your trauma and the role it plays in helping you heal from abuse. And you don’t want to miss this week’s Pod…

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Episode 12: Divorcing a Narcissist: Family Court and Parental Alienation with Tina Swithin 50:27

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“What is happening behind closed doors of the family court system would horrify everyone in the country and around the world if they truly knew,” says Tina Swithin, renowned family court advocate, author of the “Divorcing a Narcissist” book series, blogger and owner of One Mom’s Battle, and founder of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification P…

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Aren't all relationships tough? Why We Struggle to Spot Narcissistic Abuse 25:44

25d ago25:44

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Send us a Text Message. In celebration of the upcoming holiday, this episode features three of our listeners’ favorites. Listen in as Tara Blair Ball and I discuss: 1. How narcissistic abuse is different from emotional abuse 2. Why covert narcissists are difficult to spot 3. If it's true that narcissists make good lovers Listen to the full episodes…

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Episode 11: The Effects of Narcissistic Abuse on Physical Health 33:45

21d ago33:45

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“In today’s society, we’re often taught that these are two very separate things,” says Dr. Z as she delves into the impact that narcissistic abuse can have on physical health. “It couldn’t be further from the truth. Our brains and our bodies are one, and you really need to think about yourself in terms of how those two things are connected.” In thi…

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Only Me & Never You: Inside the Bizarre Mind of a Narcissist - Interview with Dr. Les Carter 21:10

1M ago21:10

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Send us a Text Message. The mind of a narcissist is wildly self-absorbed and oblivious to those around them. They are excessively focused on me, me, me. Dr. Les Carter joins me to discuss what victims get wrong about the mind of a narcissist. He shares how our assumptions and misunderstandings create false hope, causing us to stay too long and to g…

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Episode 10: Breaking Down Behaviors of NPD with Dr. Les Carter 42:29

23d ago42:29

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Today, the word “narcissist” is frequently thrown around and used within inappropriate contexts, such as a broad label for “toxic” individuals. How, then, do we differentiate between someone with unhealthy patterns and the manipulative behaviors of a person with NPD? In this episode, Dr. Z talks with Dr. Les Carter, a clinical psychologist and foun…

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I desperately love and fear them: The Terrifying Power of a Trauma Bond 29:37

1M ago29:37

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Send us a Text Message. Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. Learn more about how to recognize if you're trauma-bonded …

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Episode 9: Coercive Control and Domestic Violence with Laura Richards 1:09:23

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“Coercive control is about trying to take away someone’s autonomy and their agency,” explains Laura Richards, a renowned criminal behavioral analyst and expert on domestic violence. In this episode, Dr. Z sits down with Laura and dives into the concept of coercive control, a form of domestic abuse that is often misunderstood and frequently dismisse…

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Why Can't I Leave? The Crazy Confusion from Late-Stage Cognitive Dissonance 25:52

2M ago25:52

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Send us a Text Message. Have you asked yourself, "Why can't I leave?" You know you should. You've even started hiding the ugly truth of what's really going on behind closed doors. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss late-stage cognitive dissonance. Learn the underlying cause of the agonizing confusion that paralyzes the victim from acti…

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Episode 8: The Role of Fitness and Wellness in Healing from Trauma with Karena Dawn 42:43

2M ago42:43

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“Be a kid. What did you love doing as a kid? Don’t forget those little moments because that’s when you’re carefree and just doing all the things—play, have fun," advises Karena Dawn, a renowned figure in the fitness and wellness industry. In this episode, Karena and Dr. Z explore the journey of healing after narcissistic abuse, drawing from Karena’…

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Episode 7: 8 Reasons Why Women "Don't Just Leave" 45:03

2M ago45:03

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“It’s a big problem in our society that women are just not believed the first time because people think they’re trying to get attention or money,” Dr. Z explains, addressing the pervasive disbelief of women who report abuse. In this episode, she delves into how societal skepticism, particularly through the lens of recent high-profile cases such as …

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Feeling duped and conned? Why We Miss the Signs of a Covert Narcissist: An Interview with Eleni Sagredos 24:10

2M ago24:10

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Send us a Text Message. Have you left a relationship feeling duped? Not just betrayed, but conned? You’ve likely met a covert narcissist. In this episode, Elena Sagredos, author of But They’re So Nice, joins me to talk about the deceptiveness of covert abuse. We often miss the signs we’ve met a covert narcissism behind their guise of niceness, only…

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Episode 6: Why Narcissists Sabotage Special Occasions 44:33

2M ago44:33

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“Once you see these patterns, you are going to see them everywhere,” says Dr. Z as she outlines the distinct playbook of narcissistic abuse. As you become increasingly aware of the narcissist’s patterns, “you’re going to know exactly what's going to happen, when they're going to do it, and how they’re going to do it," she elaborates. In this episod…

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Is my partner a narcissist? Highlights from Dr. Kerry's 3 Favorite Interviews 24:55

2M ago24:55

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Send us a Text Message. Relationships with narcissists can be confounding, confusing, and incredibly frustrating. Join Dr. Kerry for this holiday episode when she revisits the highlights of her three favorite interviews. Hear Dr. Les Carter’s explanation of why narcissists are so tricky, Lisa Sonni’s three steps to breaking a trauma bond, and Dr. R…

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Episode 5: Breaking Down Financial Abuse 30:01

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“Money is just the vehicle in which they do it,” explains Dr. Z, referring to “financial abuse,” a common manipulative tactic used by those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). In this episode, Dr. Z delves into the damaging impact of financial control in narcissistic abusive relationships, especially within marriages. She discusses how na…

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What Do Narcissists Gain By Belittling You? 31:39

2M ago31:39

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Go to https://betterhelp.com/survivingnarcissismpodcast for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored Sign up for Dr. Carter’s NEW course: Ready, Set, Connect https://courses.survivingnarcissism.tv/courses/ready-set-connect Get 30% off when you use the coupon code: SNCom…

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"We're just trying to help!" How to Manage Toxic In-Law Drama 27:30

2M ago27:30

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Send us a Text Message. Are you battling toxic in-law drama? Is your mother-in-law or father-in-law intruding into your relationship or family? This week, Rossana Faye joins us to discuss common toxic in-law drama, particularly when it involves a narcissistic mother- or father-in-law. This week's self-help tip is the importance of strengthening you…

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Episode 4: 5 Myths of Narcissistic Abuse 42:52

2M ago42:52

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“The reason why it’s important to know what the myths are about narcissistic abuse and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is so that we can formulate healthy, effective, boundaried responses,” explains Dr. Z as she offers essential insights and debunks five myths about NPD and narcissistic abuse. Dr. Z breaks down the misconception that narcis…

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"How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play 26:47

2M ago26:47

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Send us a Text Message. Do you find yourself exasperated or angry at your partner, but you aren’t sure why? Do they put you into no-win binds? Covert narcissists love to play subtle, often hidden mind games. They are masterful at twisting the truth, hiding exploitative agendas, and playing the victim, enraging their partners and families while keep…

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Episode 2: Am I Dating a Narcissist or Just a Jerk? 39:58

3M ago39:58

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Are you dating a narcissist, or is your partner just a jerk? Find out in this episode of “Next Up: Narcissism,” where Dr. Z, a licensed clinical psychologist and narcissistic abuse expert, outlines the key, underlying differences between behaviors that may be toxic in nature, versus those that are consistent with narcissistic abuse. Listeners will …

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Episode 3: Boundaries and Narcissistic Parents with Terri Cole 52:15

3M ago52:15

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“Expect that you're going to get pushback from them, because you will,” says Terri Cole, about what can happen when establishing boundaries with others. Terri is a licensed psychotherapist and author of “Boundary Boss.” Together with host Dr. Z, they delve into the critical aspects of setting boundaries and managing interactions with a narcissistic…

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Episode 1: The ABCs of NPD 57:43

3M ago57:43

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“It is such a buzzword right now, which is good and bad,” says Dr. Z of the word narcissism. “We hear the terms narcissism and narcissistic abuse everywhere.” In this debut episode of “Next Up: Narcissism,” Dr. Z, a licensed clinical psychologist and narcissistic abuse expert, reconnects with her listeners to establish her mission: to provide accur…

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Breaking Free From Trauma Bonds, featuring Dr. Nadine Macaluso 43:06

3M ago43:06

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Dr. Les Carter is joined by Dr. Nadine Macaluso who specializes in treating relationship trauma and C-PTSD. Her personal story was depicted in the movie, The Wolf Of Wall St. starring Leonardo DiCaprio. Actress Margot Robbie’s played the role based on Nadine’s life. Once she broke away from her harrowing experiences, she took time to heal, eventual…

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"You're trying to control me!" Why Managing Boundaries with Narcissists Fails 27:10

3M ago27:10

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Send us a Text Message. Have you noticed managing boundaries with narcissists always fails? That they find some tricky way to evade limit setting? Suddenly, you’re being accused of being too controlling or sensitive, or they can’t understand what you're asking. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the problems of managing boundaries with…

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"You’re not taking my babies from me!" How Jessica Kent Escaped Abuse 28:13

3M ago28:13

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Send us a Text Message. (Trigger Warning: This episode contains graphic descriptions of abuse.) This week, Jessica Kent, a wildly popular social media figure, joins me to share her story of escaping abuse. Jessica reveals how covert narcissistic abuse can go from subtle to violent, especially when victims leave the relationship. Jessica Kent is bes…

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Episode 219: Tay Sweat - The Principles Of Making 8 Figures In Stocks & Shares 41:46

3M ago41:46

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Meet Tay Sweat: Entrepreneur, Investor, and Community Builder Tay Sweat is a dynamic entrepreneur and investor with a remarkable story of success. From humble beginnings as a personal trainer to building an 8-figure business, Tay has proven himself as a master of securing the bag. With 12+ years of experience in trading equities, real estate, and c…

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Healthy Versus Unhealthy Boundaries, Featuring Terri Cole 36:36

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Dr. C welcomes therapist Terri Cole who has worked with many individuals seeking to find appropriate relationship boundaries. She lays out many of the do’s and don’ts of managing boundaries, with the idea that it’s each person’s responsibility to oneself to be authentic. Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment …

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How Could I Have Not Known? How Devastating Betrayals Blind Us 26:31

3M ago26:31

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Send us a Text Message. Sometimes, the truth can be right in front of you, but you still can't see it. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss a concept Dr. Jennifer Freyd, in her book Blind to Betrayal, calls “betrayal blindness.” Some truths can be so devastating that they are difficult to face. And, the self-help tip is the importance of list…

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Why I'd Snoop Again: How this Toxic Behavior Sometimes Provides Closure and Safety 27:57

3M ago27:57

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Send us a Text Message. Is it ever okay to go through your partner's phone? I've been guilty of snooping and might consider doing it again. Narcissists and toxic personalities are masters at creating ambiguity. My ex used to readily offer me his credit card after we first started dating. He'd send photos of broken machinery and take me on company r…

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Episode 218: JM Ryerson - How To Harmonize Your Life For More Success 52:37

3M ago52:37

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JM Ryerson isn't just a seasoned entrepreneur with 3 successful business sales under his belt… He's your go-to guide for leading teams to the top. He’s a business leader with 20+ years of experience, an international speaker, the voice behind the "Let's Go Win" podcast, and the best-selling author of 3 impactful books including Let's Go Win: The Ke…

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