Best Scott & Vanessa Martindale Podcasts (2024)

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Beating Blended Family Burnout: Overcoming Invisible Mental Loads Together 19:26

3h ago19:26

19:26

On this exciting episode of the BKF podcast, Beating Blended Family Burnout: Overcoming the Invisible Mental Load Together, Scott and Vanessa discuss an important topic impacting many marriages and blended families - the invisible mental and emotional load that so many spouses in blended families carry. Join us as we explore what this often-overloo…

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A Stepmom’s Faith-Based Guide to a Thriving Blended Family 21:54

3h ago21:54

21:54

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, A Stepmom’s Faith-Based Guide to a Thriving Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Courtney Williams—a wife, mother, stepmom, and faith-driven lifestyle influencer—to share her journey in creating a thriving blended family. From single motherhood to a beautiful family of eight, Court…

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Spotting the Signs: Tips for Parents to Tackle Bullying For Good 19:08

2d ago19:08

19:08

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Spotting the Signs: Tips for Parents to Tackle Bullying For Good, Scott and Vanessa unpack the challenging topic of bullying— from cyber to verbal to physical, and how bullying affect kids today. Learn from real-life examples, discover the common signs of bullying, and gain valuable tips on how parents can create…

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Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family 33:32

16d ago33:32

33:32

Are you starting the journey of blending a family and striving to build a marriage that honors Christ? In this episode, Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by friends Stephen and Kate Srein, a newly blended family navigating the challenges of merging two families into one. From pa…

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Screen Time Tips: How to Navigate Screens & Technology in Blended Families 20:52

16d ago20:52

20:52

In this episode of the BKF podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss a challenging issue that impacts all blended families: understanding and managing screen time. With statistics showing kids spend up to 9 hours a day on screens, they explore practical solutions to create balanced and healthy media habits. They share their own family’s rules on screen ti…

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How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family 21:53

23d ago21:53

21:53

In this episode of the BKF podcast, How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa discuss the challenging dynamics of favoritism within blended families. They discuss how favoritism can impact both biological and stepchildren, ways to identify signs of favoritism, and share strategies you can implemen…

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When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage 18:29

1M ago18:29

18:29

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa tackle a common issue faced by blended families: when one partner feels like their spouse is choosing their children over them. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and maintain a strong marriage whil…

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Navigating Legal Issues and Going Back to Court in Blended Families 16:51

1M ago16:51

16:51

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Family podcast, Scott and Vanessa explore the complex legal challenges faced by blended families, including child custody modifications, visitation rights, co-parenting struggles and more. Whether you are going through or preparing for a legal dispute, this practical advice, rooted in both faith and profession…

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Marriage After Addiction: Blended Family Success with Eric Kennedy 31:34

1M ago31:34

31:34

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges …

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How to Effectively Lead Your Blended Family with Dr. Jon Chasteen 26:35

2M ago26:35

26:35

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fix…

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How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families 21:33

2M ago21:33

21:33

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds…

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Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families with Pastor Wade Smith 26:25

3M ago26:25

26:25

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intent…

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How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families 18:38

3M ago18:38

18:38

Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while address…

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What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It 19:20

3M ago19:20

19:20

Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty …

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Top 4 Co-Parenting Tips for Blended Families 31:28

3M ago31:28

31:28

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communicati…

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Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment 21:06

4M ago21:06

21:06

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with commun…

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Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective 18:35

4M ago18:35

18:35

In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting rela…

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Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective 16:34

4M ago16:34

16:34

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting…

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Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist? 20:28

4M ago20:28

20:28

Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advi…

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How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice 18:28

4M ago18:28

18:28

Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting …

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Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips 19:27

5M ago19:27

19:27

Discover the transformative power of effective co-parenting in our latest episode, Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips! Join us as we delve into practical strategies and encouraging truths for navigating the complexities of co-parenting with love and respect. Whether newly separated or looking to improve your c…

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Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting 20:38

5M ago20:38

20:38

Unlock the secrets to successful co-parenting in our latest episode, Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting! Learn practical strategies to foster a loving, supportive environment for your children and bonus children, even after separation or divorce. Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of viewing love as an actio…

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Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families 12:04

5M ago12:04

12:04

Summer can bring new challenges for blended families as routines change and kids move between households. In this episode, Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share valuable strategies and tips to help families navigate summer transitions smoothly. From planning quality time with all children to nurturing y…

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Finding Hope in the Storm 16:21

5M ago16:21

16:21

In this episode, Finding Hope in the Storm, Vanessa, Kristen, and Dan have an inspiring roundtable discussion about finding hope and joy in the midst of life's challenges. They share powerful Bible verses that have encouraged them during difficult seasons and provide practical tips for staying grounded in God's truth. Whether you are facing a diffi…

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3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families 16:03

6M ago16:03

16:03

Stress is a common challenge in blended families, but it doesn't have to control your life. In this podcast episode, 3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share 3 practical tips for managing stress through spiritual intimacy, physical activity, and setting healthy boundaries. Enjoy this discussion as you learn h…

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Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion 21:04

6M ago21:04

21:04

In this podcast episode, Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of physical intimacy in marriage and how to navigate challenges that can arise, such as stress, life transitions, and physical or emotional barriers. They encourage couples in blended families to prioritize open communication, cultivate intent…

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Let's Therapy Season 3 Finale: Finding and Living in Hope and Healing 11:30

6M ago11:30

11:30

In this season finale episode, Finding and Living in Hope and Healing, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale, expert counselors on blended families and mental health, provide encouragement and practical advice for those navigating the challenges of blended families. They discuss the common feelings of fear and isolation, and they share stories of how …

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God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever 22:52

6M ago22:52

22:52

In this podcast episode, God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever, Vanessa and Dan discuss the growth and impact of the Blended Kingdom Families (BKF) ministry over the past 4 years. They share their personal journeys, celebrate the impact of God through BKF for millions of blended families, discuss challenges of ministry work, and the excitin…

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Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families 17:16

6M ago17:16

17:16

In this episode of Let's Therapy, Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the impact of slander in blended families and offer practical advice on how to effectively cope with it. They delve into the damaging effects of negative speech on children and bonus children, the importance of s…

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Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage 24:47

6M ago24:47

24:47

In this insightful podcast episode, Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of embracing masculine and feminine energies in marriage and blended family life. They share personal experiences and provide practical advice on how couples can promote and nurture these God-given qualities within…

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Emotional Regulation and Blended Families: Tips for Parents 16:14

7M ago16:14

16:14

In this episode of "Let's Therapy," counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the challenges of emotional regulation for children and stepchildren in blended families. They provide practical advice on building trust, validating feelings, modeling healthy emotional responses, and setting clear expectations. They also emphasize the importance o…

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Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage 16:24

7M ago16:24

16:24

In this episode, Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage, Vanessa and Scott discuss the challenges of cell phone usage and how screen time can impact blended family marriages and parenting. They discuss their own past struggles with managing screen time and provide thoughtful advice to help you manage scre…

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Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection 19:14

7M ago19:14

19:14

Dealing with stepchild resentment and rejection in blended families can be one of the most challenging aspects of blended family relationships. In this episode of Let's Therapy, Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection, Scott and Vanessa offer thoughtful insights and practical advice for stepparents on managing difficult emotions related to re…

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How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage 25:26

7M ago25:26

25:26

In this episode, How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage, Scott and Vanessa dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity and blended family marriage. They share personal experiences and offer practical advice for couples seeking to rebuild trust and restore relationships after betrayal. This episode covers topics including the importance of tr…

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Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations: Effective Strategies for Preserving Your Mental Health 14:33

7M ago14:33

14:33

In this episode of Let's Therapy, Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations, Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the challenging topic of co-parenting in high-conflict situations. They provide practical and insightful strategies for maintaining your mental health, and offer tips for conflict resolution with a co-parent. The discussion centers around…

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Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience 21:22

7M ago21:22

21:22

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience, Vanessa and Jessica have an honest and emotional conversation about Jessica's unique blended family experiences. After the unexpected loss of Jessica's sister-in-law, Jessica and her husband found themselves in an unexpected …

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Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families 14:06

7M ago14:06

14:06

Feeling overwhelmed in your blended family? In this episode,Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the therapy options for your stepfamily. They provide insights on breaking through stigmas, opening up to emotional healing, and utilizing resources like family therapy, EMDR, couples counseling, and …

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Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore 19:26

7M ago19:26

19:26

In this episode, Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore, Scott and Vanessa discuss the critical importance of recognizing pre-marriage red flags and determining non-negotiables in a potential spouse. They highlight common relationship red flags like differing spiritual foundations, unresolved past trauma, ongoing legal issues…

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Navigating Power Dynamics and Triangulation in a Blended Family 11:34

7M ago11:34

11:34

Feeling caught in a destructive family triangle? Whether it's biological parents pitting a child against each other or in-laws taking sides, triangulation wedges people apart. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale define and provide examples of triangulation in blended families. They also offer strategies for coping with these toxic dynamic…

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Ex-Spouse Sabotage in Blended Families 22:47

8M ago22:47

22:47

How do you handle an ex-spouse who actively tries to undermine your new marriage? Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle this topic in this week’s podcast. They provide proven strategies and tips for setting healthy boundaries, seeking professional counseling, fostering open communication with your spouse, and making your marriage a top priority. In a…

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Recover Your Autonomy: Dealing with Enmeshment and Emotional Incest in Blended Families 13:11

8M ago13:11

13:11

In this episode of Let’s Therapy, Scott and Vanessa explore the definitions and signs of enmeshment and emotional incest within blended families. They define this problem from a clinical perspective and discuss how these unhealthy dynamics can deeply impact family relationships. They also offer strategies to break free from these toxic patterns, su…

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Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism & Alienation 22:04

8M ago22:04

22:04

In this thought-provoking episode, Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism and Alienation, Scott and Vanessa delve into the complex issue of Narcissistic Parental Alienation Syndrome (NPAS). They provide insights on recognizing the signs, confronting the situation, and finding healing for parents and children affected by this toxic form of co-paren…

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Understanding Narcissism: Being Assertive and Seeking Out Support 12:39

8M ago12:39

12:39

In this third and final episode of the series about the impact of narcissism on blended families, Scott and Vanessa share effective strategies for dealing with narcissistic relationships. They share helpful action steps that include setting boundaries, finding peer support, developing assertiveness skills, and using discernment. Did you enjoy this …

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Why You Need A Mentor 16:12

8M ago16:12

16:12

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we discuss everything from intimate moments with the Lord to practical guidance in blended family dynamics. Listen to real-life stories and biblical wisdom that illustrate the transformative power of having a mentor. Join us as we delve into the value of mentorship and how it can deepen your …

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Understanding Narcissism: Love Bombing, Boundaries, and Self-Care 12:48

8M ago12:48

12:48

This is the second episode in our three-part series on narcissism. In it, Scott and Vanessa take a deeper dive into understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and its impact on relationships. They reveal the tactic of love bombing, the importance of setting boundaries, and the crucial role of self-care in maintaining mental and emotional…

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How To Be A Better Stepparent 33:30

8M ago33:30

33:30

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Vivian Cumins as she shares her journey of healing and growth within her blended family. From managing expectations to seeking forgiveness, Vivian's insights offer wisdom and encouragement for all blended families. Don't miss out on this inspiring discussion! Join Our Community - Ready to connect with other…

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Understanding Narcissism: The Behaviors and Tactics You Need to Know 15:24

8M ago15:24

15:24

What is a narcissist and what behaviors define their interactions? In this Season 3 opener of Let's Therapy, Scott and Vanessa delve into what characterizes narcissistic personality disorder, including an inflated self-image, lack of empathy, and sense of entitlement. We explore the hallmark narcissist behaviors like gaslighting, love bombing, and …

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Praying with Your Spouse 18:21

8M ago18:21

18:21

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa delve into the transformative power of prayer in marriages and blended families. They discuss encouraging statistics revealing the significant decrease in divorce rates among couples who pray together daily. Throughout the episode, Scott and Vanessa share practical advice on…

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The Power of Resilience: Embracing God Amidst Trials in your Blended Family 26:02

9M ago26:02

26:02

Discover the power of resilience in this latest episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. Special guest Rebekah Lyons joins Scot and Vanessa Martindale to talk about her journey of faith and seeing God's hand in every season, especially the hardest ones. Our hosts and their guest share profound insights on dying to yourself to discover your …

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Intimacy & Sex in Second Marriages 18:49

9M ago18:49

18:49

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle the sensitive topic of physical intimacy and sex within second marriages. They share vulnerably about their own experiences, and highlight the importance of working through past trauma, triggers, and comparison. The conversation centers on the importance of open commu…

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