Welcome to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! If you are in need of resources that deal with remarriage, step-parenting, co-parenting, preparing to blend, or divorce-proofing your marriage, we are here to serve you! Blended Kingdom Families is a step-family ministry that is committed to providing resources for individuals, families, and churches by implementing biblical foundations and practical tips. Our mission is to break the generational cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite bl ...
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Welcome to Let's Therapy—where faith, mental health, and blended family converge. We are your hosts, Scott and Vanessa Martindale, therapists and founders of Blended Kingdom Families. As members of a blended family, we know the importance of good mental health as well as a vibrant relationship with God. In this podcast, we offer a biblically-sound and therapeutic approach to the most pressing issues blended families face. Our hearts' desire is to serve, educate, support, and empower you and ...
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Waves Ministry Inc. exists to encourage & equip young women, leaders, + families to discover their identity in Christ and walk out their unique God given calling in order to start MAKING WAVES for Christ in their homes, communities, and world.
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How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families
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Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds…
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Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families with Pastor Wade Smith
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In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intent…
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How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families
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Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while address…
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What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It
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Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty …
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Top 4 Co-Parenting Tips for Blended Families
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Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communicati…
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Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment
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In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with commun…
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Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective
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In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting rela…
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Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective
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Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting…
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Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advi…
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How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice
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Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting …
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Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips
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Discover the transformative power of effective co-parenting in our latest episode, Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips! Join us as we delve into practical strategies and encouraging truths for navigating the complexities of co-parenting with love and respect. Whether newly separated or looking to improve your c…
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Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting
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Unlock the secrets to successful co-parenting in our latest episode, Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting! Learn practical strategies to foster a loving, supportive environment for your children and bonus children, even after separation or divorce. Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of viewing love as an actio…
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Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families
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Summer can bring new challenges for blended families as routines change and kids move between households. In this episode, Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share valuable strategies and tips to help families navigate summer transitions smoothly. From planning quality time with all children to nurturing y…
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In this episode, Finding Hope in the Storm, Vanessa, Kristen, and Dan have an inspiring roundtable discussion about finding hope and joy in the midst of life's challenges. They share powerful Bible verses that have encouraged them during difficult seasons and provide practical tips for staying grounded in God's truth. Whether you are facing a diffi…
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3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families
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Stress is a common challenge in blended families, but it doesn't have to control your life. In this podcast episode, 3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share 3 practical tips for managing stress through spiritual intimacy, physical activity, and setting healthy boundaries. Enjoy this discussion as you learn h…
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In this podcast episode, Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of physical intimacy in marriage and how to navigate challenges that can arise, such as stress, life transitions, and physical or emotional barriers. They encourage couples in blended families to prioritize open communication, cultivate intent…
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Let's Therapy Season 3 Finale: Finding and Living in Hope and Healing
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In this season finale episode, Finding and Living in Hope and Healing, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale, expert counselors on blended families and mental health, provide encouragement and practical advice for those navigating the challenges of blended families. They discuss the common feelings of fear and isolation, and they share stories of how …
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God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever
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In this podcast episode, God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever, Vanessa and Dan discuss the growth and impact of the Blended Kingdom Families (BKF) ministry over the past 4 years. They share their personal journeys, celebrate the impact of God through BKF for millions of blended families, discuss challenges of ministry work, and the excitin…
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Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families
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In this episode of Let's Therapy, Strategies for Coping with Slander in Blended Families, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the impact of slander in blended families and offer practical advice on how to effectively cope with it. They delve into the damaging effects of negative speech on children and bonus children, the importance of s…
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Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage
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In this insightful podcast episode, Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of embracing masculine and feminine energies in marriage and blended family life. They share personal experiences and provide practical advice on how couples can promote and nurture these God-given qualities within…
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Emotional Regulation and Blended Families: Tips for Parents
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In this episode of "Let's Therapy," counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the challenges of emotional regulation for children and stepchildren in blended families. They provide practical advice on building trust, validating feelings, modeling healthy emotional responses, and setting clear expectations. They also emphasize the importance o…
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Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage
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In this episode, Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage, Vanessa and Scott discuss the challenges of cell phone usage and how screen time can impact blended family marriages and parenting. They discuss their own past struggles with managing screen time and provide thoughtful advice to help you manage scre…
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Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection
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Dealing with stepchild resentment and rejection in blended families can be one of the most challenging aspects of blended family relationships. In this episode of Let's Therapy, Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection, Scott and Vanessa offer thoughtful insights and practical advice for stepparents on managing difficult emotions related to re…
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In this episode, How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage, Scott and Vanessa dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity and blended family marriage. They share personal experiences and offer practical advice for couples seeking to rebuild trust and restore relationships after betrayal. This episode covers topics including the importance of tr…
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Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations: Effective Strategies for Preserving Your Mental Health
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In this episode of Let's Therapy, Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations, Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the challenging topic of co-parenting in high-conflict situations. They provide practical and insightful strategies for maintaining your mental health, and offer tips for conflict resolution with a co-parent. The discussion centers around…
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Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience
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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience, Vanessa and Jessica have an honest and emotional conversation about Jessica's unique blended family experiences. After the unexpected loss of Jessica's sister-in-law, Jessica and her husband found themselves in an unexpected …
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Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families
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Feeling overwhelmed in your blended family? In this episode,Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the therapy options for your stepfamily. They provide insights on breaking through stigmas, opening up to emotional healing, and utilizing resources like family therapy, EMDR, couples counseling, and …
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Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore
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In this episode, Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore, Scott and Vanessa discuss the critical importance of recognizing pre-marriage red flags and determining non-negotiables in a potential spouse. They highlight common relationship red flags like differing spiritual foundations, unresolved past trauma, ongoing legal issues…
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On Wings Of Eagles with Scott and Vanessa Martindale
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On this seasons final episode, we welcome Scott + Vanessa Martindale, Founders of Blended Kingdom Family to the podcast. The Martindales are published authors, host their own podcast, are a part of the XO Marriage Team, licensed counselors, + do family + marriage coaching. Take some time to hear from them as they share about rising above storms on …
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Navigating Power Dynamics and Triangulation in a Blended Family
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Feeling caught in a destructive family triangle? Whether it's biological parents pitting a child against each other or in-laws taking sides, triangulation wedges people apart. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale define and provide examples of triangulation in blended families. They also offer strategies for coping with these toxic dynamic…
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How do you handle an ex-spouse who actively tries to undermine your new marriage? Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle this topic in this week’s podcast. They provide proven strategies and tips for setting healthy boundaries, seeking professional counseling, fostering open communication with your spouse, and making your marriage a top priority. In a…
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On Wings Of Eagles with Pastors Micah and Chelsea Gay Pt. 2
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Today on part 2 of our conversation with Pastors Micah & Chelsea Gay who served as the associate, kids, + youth pastors at High Praise Church in Panama City, FL under the leadership of Apostles Robert & Stacey Gay for nearly a decade. They have both served in full time ministry for over 15 years. Micah + Chelsea have been married for 12 years and h…
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Recover Your Autonomy: Dealing with Enmeshment and Emotional Incest in Blended Families
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In this episode of Let’s Therapy, Scott and Vanessa explore the definitions and signs of enmeshment and emotional incest within blended families. They define this problem from a clinical perspective and discuss how these unhealthy dynamics can deeply impact family relationships. They also offer strategies to break free from these toxic patterns, su…
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Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism & Alienation
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In this thought-provoking episode, Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism and Alienation, Scott and Vanessa delve into the complex issue of Narcissistic Parental Alienation Syndrome (NPAS). They provide insights on recognizing the signs, confronting the situation, and finding healing for parents and children affected by this toxic form of co-paren…
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On Wings Of Eagles with Pastors Micah and Chelsea Gay Pt. 1
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Today we welcome Pastors Micah & Chelsea Gay served as the associate, kids, + youth pastors at High Praise Church in Panama City, FL under the leadership of Apostles Robert & Stacey Gay for nearly a decade. They have both served in full time ministry for over 15 years. Micah + Chelsea have been married for 12 years and have three children - Levi, G…
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Understanding Narcissism: Being Assertive and Seeking Out Support
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In this third and final episode of the series about the impact of narcissism on blended families, Scott and Vanessa share effective strategies for dealing with narcissistic relationships. They share helpful action steps that include setting boundaries, finding peer support, developing assertiveness skills, and using discernment. Did you enjoy this …
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On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we discuss everything from intimate moments with the Lord to practical guidance in blended family dynamics. Listen to real-life stories and biblical wisdom that illustrate the transformative power of having a mentor. Join us as we delve into the value of mentorship and how it can deepen your …
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On this weeks episode we welcome Ashley Shores onto the podcast to share about rising above storms. Ashley is a high school junior on the Emerald Coast. She has been dancing for 14 years + dancing competitively for 3 years. Recently, she began singing as a worship leader at church, + she loves being able to worship alongside others her age. Outside…
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Understanding Narcissism: Love Bombing, Boundaries, and Self-Care
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This is the second episode in our three-part series on narcissism. In it, Scott and Vanessa take a deeper dive into understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and its impact on relationships. They reveal the tactic of love bombing, the importance of setting boundaries, and the crucial role of self-care in maintaining mental and emotional…
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Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Vivian Cumins as she shares her journey of healing and growth within her blended family. From managing expectations to seeking forgiveness, Vivian's insights offer wisdom and encouragement for all blended families. Don't miss out on this inspiring discussion! Join Our Community - Ready to connect with other…
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On this Episode, Marsha Clemons joins to talk about testimonies of rising above. For years, Marsha and her husband served as Pastors and mentored the next generation in North Alabama. Now they reside in Orange Beach, AL. Recently, Marsha wrote a book called "Beautiful Pieces: A Story of Hope When All Hope is Shattered." She has discovered the stren…
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Understanding Narcissism: The Behaviors and Tactics You Need to Know
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What is a narcissist and what behaviors define their interactions? In this Season 3 opener of Let's Therapy, Scott and Vanessa delve into what characterizes narcissistic personality disorder, including an inflated self-image, lack of empathy, and sense of entitlement. We explore the hallmark narcissist behaviors like gaslighting, love bombing, and …
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On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa delve into the transformative power of prayer in marriages and blended families. They discuss encouraging statistics revealing the significant decrease in divorce rates among couples who pray together daily. Throughout the episode, Scott and Vanessa share practical advice on…
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On this weeks episode, The Tomlins welcome Allyson Goolsby from Merritt Island, FL to talk about rising above storms. Allyson has served at East Coast Christian Center for over a decade by leading the youth band, leading worship, preaching, as well as leading small groups. By day she works in the marketplace in her community. She has her own podcas…
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The Power of Resilience: Embracing God Amidst Trials in your Blended Family
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Discover the power of resilience in this latest episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. Special guest Rebekah Lyons joins Scot and Vanessa Martindale to talk about her journey of faith and seeing God's hand in every season, especially the hardest ones. Our hosts and their guest share profound insights on dying to yourself to discover your …
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On this episode of the Waves Ministry Podcast, Michael + Caroline Tomlin talk with Holly Myers in sharing testimonies of rising above + soaring above storms. Holly Myers calls North Carolina home. She is passionate about seeing girls and women embrace freedom. She is a speaker, author and podcaster. She also writes for the Lifeway Girls blog. Holly…
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On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle the sensitive topic of physical intimacy and sex within second marriages. They share vulnerably about their own experiences, and highlight the importance of working through past trauma, triggers, and comparison. The conversation centers on the importance of open commu…
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On this episode of the Waves Ministry Podcast, Michael + Caroline Tomlin talk with Waves Intern, Hannah Irby, in sharing testimonies of rising above + soaring above storms. Hannah Irby is studying Youth and Family Ministry with a minor in Communication at ACU and set to graduate in May. She has served with Delight Ministries (Christ-centered commun…
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I Feel Alone! Finding Community in Blended Families
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If you have ever felt alone and isolated or have struggled to find a supportive community while navigating blended family challenges then this episode is for you! Navigating life in a blended family can be a beautiful but complex journey. In this episode, I Feel Alone - Finding Community in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined …
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On this episode of the Waves Ministry Podcast, Michael + Caroline Tomlin introduce Season 8 in sharing testimonies of rising above + soaring above storms. Caroline is a wife, mom, author, speaker, life & ministry coach, but most of her life centers around the mission to be making waves for Christ. Follow Caroline at @mrscarolinetomlin on Instagram.…
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