Best APSATS Podcasts (2024)

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Healing Through a Trauma-Informed Lens: Insights from APSATS President, Jeanne Vattuone 47:05

1h ago47:05

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Jeanne Vattuone, LCSW, CSAT, and current APSATS president. She explains the evolution of the trauma-informed treatment model and its benefits for the betrayed and the betrayer over the traditional co-addict or co-dependent model. Jeanne also details the APSATS multidimensional partner…

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Double Abuse: Understanding the Hidden Pain of Relational Betrayal | Part 1 of 2 38:00

4h ago38:00

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In this episode of *Betrayal Recovery Radio*, Dr. Jake Porter hosts a discussion with Pam Blizzard and Steph Farnsworth, exploring the complex layers of relational abuse within the context of betrayal trauma. They define relational abuse as a covert, disempowering experience, highlighting how behaviors like gaslighting and manipulation compound the…

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Intensive Treatment for Betrayal Trauma with Aarti Chidambaram 47:35

5d ago47:35

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In recent years, the demand for "intensive treatment" has increased, as more and more betrayed partners seem methods of accelerating their healing process. Though relatively new to the field of professional counseling and coaching, intensives have become keystone elements of some individuals' recovery journeys. In this episode, Dr. Jake is joined b…

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Healing the Traumatized Brain with Laura Childers 57:10

12d ago57:10

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Advances in neurotherapy now allow specialized clinicians to take much of the guesswork out of understanding and working toward healing for those affected by trauma. APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Laura Childers is just such an expert, using cutting edge technologies to look into the brains of betrayed partners and recovering addicts …

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Step 6 - Speaking From Scars, Not from Open Wounds w/ Brady W 42:01

15d ago42:01

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery Podcast, host Justin B. guides listeners through step six of the 12-step recovery program with guest Brady W. Justin shares his experiences as a recovering sex addict and introduces Brady, who discusses his decade-long journey battling addiction to lust and his recent recovery with SAL 12 St…

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Gaslighting, Betrayal Blindness & Self-Deception w/ Michelle Mays 48:58

1M ago48:58

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Michelle Mays about the complex and harmful phenomenon of gaslighting. Mays explains the four types of gaslighting—lying, reality manipulation, scapegoating, and coercion—and the impact each has on those who experience betrayal trauma. The discussion delves into the mental health rami…

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Step 5 - Rigorous Honesty w/ Carolyn E 48:55

2M ago48:55

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, Justin B. explores step five of the SAL 12-step program with guest Carolyn E. Carolyn shares her personal journey through the steps, particularly her experiences with Step 5, highlighting the importance of rigorous honesty, accountability, and the support of a sponsor. She discusses…

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Meet the Speakers of the 2024 S.A. Lifeline Conference & Why You Won't Want to Miss It 18:01

2M ago18:01

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Send us a text In this special episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland introduces speakers from the upcoming 2024 S.A. Lifeline virtual conference happening on September 26-28, 2024. The episode features insights from notable speakers like Janice Caudill, Dan Drake, Crystal Hollenbeck, Roy Kim, Tammy Gustafson, and MJ Denni…

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The Scoop on Defining and Diagnosing the Problem and the Latest in Sexual Addiction Research w/ Stefanie Carnes 49:10

2M ago49:10

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Dr. Stefanie Cranes about the challenges of defining and diagnosing sex addiction. Topics covered include the historical context for diagnosis problems, the stigma and societal misunderstandings surrounding it, and the prevalence and causes of sex addiction based on recent research. D…

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Q&A - What are some barriers to working Step 4 and how do I overcome them? 25:13

2M ago25:13

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss the challenges and significance of Step Four in the recovery process. The hosts elaborate on the fears and barriers associated with Step Four, emphasizing the need for trust in God, honesty, time, and support from sponsors and group members. They address the added complexit…

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Step 4 - Help Me See What I Am Not Seeing w/ Bill K 50:16

3M ago50:16

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin B., a recovering sex addict, discusses Step Four of the 12-step recovery program with guest Bill K. Bill shares his personal journey, exploring his struggles with sex addiction, his family’s history with alcoholism, and the impact of past traumas. He recounts his experie…

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Q&A - Is relapse a part of recovery? 17:37

3M ago17:37

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss the concept of relapse in the context of recovery from sexual addiction. The main discussion revolves around whether relapse is part of recovery, differentiating between terms like lapse and relapse, and emphasizing the importance of rigorous honesty and a recovery mindset …

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Why Couples Need to Grieve and Mourn to Facilitate Betrayal Trauma Healing & Addiction Recovery w/ Jake Porter 42:40

3M ago42:40

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland and guest expert Dr. Jake Porter discuss the significance of grief in the healing process for betrayed partners and how essential it is for both partners in a relationship to engage in the mourning process. He emphasizes the need for safety and stabilization before addressing grief and mourning, …

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Q&A - How do recovery principles change the way I parent? 18:21

4M ago18:21

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss applying recovery principles in parenting and how these principles can positively impact parenting style. They emphasize the importance of surrender, trust in God, and the shift from control, fear and pride to surrender, faith, and humility. Personal anecdotes and member sh…

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Step 3 - Willingness, Boundaries, and Relief w/ Brittany B 49:18

5M ago49:18

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast , host Justin B. and guest Brittany B. discuss the transformative power of the 12-step recovery program, focusing primarily on Step 3. They touch on the significance of turning one's will and life over to the care of God, the importance of willingness and boundaries, and the principl…

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Q&A - Why and how do I decide to turn my will over to God? 15:56

5M ago15:56

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B discuss the challenges and importance of Step 3 in the recovery process: making the decision to turn our will and lives over to the care of God. They delve into why this can be difficult, and how it is a daily commitment rather than a one-time action. The dialogue includes personal …

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Your Nervous System During and After Sexual Betrayal w/ KayLee Dunn 1:01:33

5M ago1:01:33

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland welcomes guest expert KayLee Dunn, a psychotherapist and betrayal navigation coach. KayLee shares her expertise in helping individuals, especially women, rebuild trust and heal after intimate betrayal. She discusses the role of the nervous system in betrayal trauma, introducing concepts like neur…

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Q&A - How can I respond to trauma triggers in a healthy way? 14:16

5M ago14:16

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland and S.A. Lifeline executive assistant Jeni Brockbank discuss how to manage trauma triggers effectively. Jeni shares insights on understanding trauma triggers and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, self-care, and setting boundaries. The episode includes a discussion on practical steps t…

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Step 2 - Love, Hope, and Trust w/ Harvey E. 49:08

6M ago49:08

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Send us a text In this episode, host Justin B. and guest Harvey E. discuss the transformative power of Step Two in SAL 12-Step and in general 12 Step programs. Harvey, a 69-year-old Orthodox Jewish dentist and a recovering sexaholic, shares his journey of over 35 years struggling with same-sex attraction while being married, and shares his experien…

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Q&A - What is one of the biggest obstacles in recovery? 14:32

6M ago14:32

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Send us a text In this episode, Justin and Tara discuss the importance of overcoming fear as a major obstacle in successful recovery from addiction and betrayal trauma. The discussion delves into personal experiences with fear and the significance of surrendering to a higher power to gain serenity. They emphasize the need for replacing self-relianc…

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Post Discovery Triage Care: Establishing Safety & Stabilization for the Betrayed and Betrayer w/ Amanda Christenson 48:28

6M ago48:28

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland talks with therapist Amanda Christensen about first steps to take immediately following discovery of sexual betrayal. Amanda shares her personal and professional experience, emphasizing the importance of safety, stabilization, and recovery steps for both the bet…

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A Neurosurgeon's Perspective: Making a Case for Sexual Addiction & Hope for Recovery w/ Don Hilton 48:12

6M ago48:12

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, Tara shares a recent presentation given by Dr. Donald L. Hilton Jr., a neurosurgeon and academic who has studied the effects of pornography on the brain. Hilton discusses how his background informs his understanding of addiction and recovery, offering insights into the nature of add…

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Q&A - Is God powerful enough/good enough to restore me to sanity? 13:31

7M ago13:31

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Send us a text Hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. delve into the crucial question of whether the God of one's understanding is strong enough to restore sanity in the context of recovery. They discuss the common doubts and struggles individuals in recovery face regarding their perception of a higher power, including feelings of abandonment and the …

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Step 1 - I Didn't Think it was My Problem w/ Julie M 39:54

7M ago39:54

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Send us a text The podcast episode features Justin B. and guest Julie M. discussing her personal journey through betrayal and recovery due to her husband's sexual addiction. Julie shares her initial reluctance to seek help for herself, believing she wasn't the one with the problem. However, upon realizing her life was unmanageable, she turned to th…

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Q&A - What does it mean to be powerless and making room for the miracle when we 'give up' 12:07

7M ago12:07

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. explore the concepts of powerlessness and unmanageability in the context of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. They discuss how admitting to these states can be challenging yet crucial for individuals dealing with addiction and for those who are in a relationship with them. Just…

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The Value of Therapeutic Disclosure & Tips and Strategies for Best Outcomes w/ Dan Gray 52:53

7M ago52:53

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland welcomes Dan Gray to discuss therapeutic disclosure in the healing process for individuals affected by sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Dan emphasizes the critical role of disclosure to help break the cycle of secrecy and shame surrounding addiction, highlighting the benefits of therapeutic …

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Q&A - Should I call it sexaholism or sex addiction and why does my sobriety definition matter? 12:18

8M ago12:18

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. explore a listener's question about the distinction between calling oneself a sexaholic versus a sex addict, and the implications of that decision. The discussion delves into the SAL definition of sobriety, highlighting the importance of personal values in determining what terms an…

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Step 0 - Willing to go to Any Lengths...Even Connect with Others w/ Bryan F 32:15

8M ago32:15

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Send us a text In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin B. speaks with SAL 12-Step member Bryan F. about 'Step Zero,' a concept not formally recognized in the traditional 12 steps but crucial for initiating the journey towards true recovery. Bryan emphasizes the importance of community building as the foundational piece of St…

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Q&A - What first steps should I take post discovery of sexual betrayal? 16:13

8M ago16:13

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Send us a text In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss strategies for moving forward after the discovery of betrayal in relationships. The episode emphasizes the emotional turmoil that follows discovery, and the importance of establishing safety and stabilization. They share personal stories, including Justin's own missteps pos…

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The Drama Triangle & Navigating Communication after Sexual Betrayal w/ Dorothy Maryon 45:06

8M ago45:06

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Send us a text In this special episode, therapist Dorothy Maryon presents on communication after betrayal for the SAL 12-Step Men's Online Workshop. Dorothy delves into the drama triangle—a concept explaining common unhealthy communication patterns that hinder relationship repair. She discusses strategies for breaking free from these patterns by un…

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Q&A - How do boundaries and bottom lines interrupt the cycle of addiction? 19:05

8M ago19:05

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Send us a text In this Q&A, hosts Tara and Justin provide some final commentary on the subject of setting boundaries and bottom lines in the recovery process. They emphasize how boundaries and bottom lines can effectively help break the cycle of addiction and suggest that the creation of these action plans should take place during moments of relati…

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Healthy Boundaries for Protection and Peace w/ Karin C. and Jan S. 1:02:23

9M ago1:02:23

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Send us a text In this episode, host Justin B. speaks with SAL 12-Step members Karin and Jan to discuss the importance of setting healthy boundaries in recovery from betrayal trauma. Both Karin and Jan share their own experiences navigating relationships affected by betrayal. They describe setting boundaries as a way of protecting themselves and th…

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Q&A - What are the differences between boundaries and bottom lines and how do you apply them in relationships? 23:06

9M ago23:06

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Send us a text In this Q&A episode, host Tara McCausland interviews Steven and Rhyll Croshaw, co-founders of S.A. Lifeline Foundation, who share their experiences and insights on setting boundaries and bottom lines in relationships and personal recovery. They discuss the differences between boundaries and bottom lines. Steven explains how he sets h…

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Empowering Betrayed Partners Through Boundary Setting w/ Sheri Keffer 1:02:47

9M ago1:02:47

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Send us a text In this episode, Tara McCausland talks with Dr. Sheri Keffer about the importance of setting and holding boundaries in relationships, particularly when dealing with sexual betrayal and addiction. Dr. Keffer shares her personal journey of recovery and emphasizes the need for betrayed partners to have courage and patience with themselv…

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Q&A - The 12 Steps 101: Where They Came From, What They Are, and Why They are Effective for Recovery 26:05

9M ago26:05

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Send us a text In this Q&A, hosts Tara and Justin briefly review the origins of the 12 steps and touch on each one in preparation to take a deep dive into each of the steps in future episodes. They talk about the foundation, cornerstone, and keystone of the 12 steps, as well as the importance of first admitting powerlessness, turning to the God of …

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Brace for Impact: Why Qualified Therapy is Vital in Recovery w/ Josh Walpole 49:22

10M ago49:22

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Send us a text In this episode Justin B talks with Josh Walpole, a sex addict living in long-term recovery as well as a therapist who specializes in treating sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. We discuss the importance and perhaps necessity of qualified therapy to help all involved prepare and brace for impact. Both the impact of the consequence…

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Q&A - How has recovery work changed the way you set goals? 18:06

10M ago18:06

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Send us a text Hosts Tara and Justin explore how their New Year's resolutions have evolved in the context of recovery learning and application. They discuss the significance of incorporating a higher power into their goal-setting process. The conversation delves into the concept of surrendering personal will and allowing divine guidance to shape go…

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Qualified Therapy: Why it's Important, How to Find it, and Why it Complements 12-Step Work w/ Dan Drake 50:37

10M ago50:37

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Send us a text Host Tara McCausland and therapist Dan Drake discuss the importance of finding a qualified clinician that has specialized training in sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. They suggest questions/ways to vet a therapist to ensure best therapist-client fit. They explore how having a therapist during the disclosure process is helpful, a…

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Navigating the Holiday Season in the Midst of Betrayal with Rebecca Ray 45:49

11M ago45:49

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In today's episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, we delve into the complexities of the holiday season, a time filled with joy but often marred by the challenges of betrayal trauma. Joined by Rebecca Ray, we'll navigate the delicate dynamics faced by those affected by betrayal, whether as the betrayed or the betrayer. Rebecca Ray is a Licensed Marriag…

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Q&A - What does it mean to 'surrender' and why is it so powerful? 16:16

12M ago16:16

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Send us a text In this episode, host Tara McCausland is joined by her assistant and friend, Jeni Brockbank. They discuss the concept of "surrender" as part of recovery, especially during challenging times such as the holidays. A three-step surrender process "on your knees, on the phone, in a box" is also shared which includes prayer, reaching out t…

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The What & Why of SAL 12-Step for Betrayal Trauma Recovery w/ Kahi Winget 44:46

12M ago44:46

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Send us a text In this episode, Tara McCausland interviews Kahi Winget, the SAL Women's 12 Step executive director. Throughout the interview, they discuss the structure and benefits of SAL 12-Step meetings for individuals suffering from betrayal trauma, the hurdles to joining the meetings, as well as the journey of recovery. Both encourage newcomer…

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Q&A - What brought you to SAL 12-Step and what are some of the blessings of the program? 28:55

1y ago28:55

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Send us a text Host Tara McCausland speaks with two leaders of the SAL 12-Step program, Kahi Winget and Andrew Schmucker. They discuss what originally brought them to SAL 12-Step meetings and how the reasons for their participation have evolved through the recovery process. Kahi and Andrew share unique blessings from working the SAL 12-Step program…

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The What & Why of SAL 12-Step for Sexual Addiction Recovery w/ Andrew Schmucker 30:01

1y ago30:01

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Send us a text In this episode Tara talks with Andrew S, the men's Executive Director for SAL 12 Step and a recovering addict. Andrew explains what someone can expect when they attend a 12 Step Meeting, and how SAL's 12 Step differs from other programs. Tara and Andrew discuss spiritual connection, one of the pieces in our Recovery Puzzle. How does…

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The Prevalence of Domestic Violence in the Lives of Partners of Sex Addicts | With Lisa Taylor 50:29

1y ago50:29

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In this interview I share the results of my Masters thesis which show that rates of domestic violence are considerably higher in the lives of partners of sex addicts than in the general population. This is significant because women are arriving daily on therapists’ doorsteps seeking help for betrayal trauma, but with their experiences of DV under r…

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Q&A - What is healthy vs. unhealthy sexuality? 29:21

1y ago29:21

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Send us a text In this Q&A, hosts Justin and Tara compare and contrast healthy vs. unhealthy sexuality using a document prepared by Dr. Jill Manning. See the post here. Understanding the broad scope of this question, they suggest that personal values and a God-centered approach are helpful starting points for thoughtful individuals seeking guidance…

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Quality Education and Experience w/ Steven Croshaw 42:25

1y ago42:25

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Send us a text This week, Justin B takes some time to talk quality education, the value of rigorous honesty in recovery, and experience in the school of life with Steven Croshaw. In this episode, Steven addresses if shame is the driving factor in addiction, the process of surrender, and helpful educational resources are discussed. Access those reso…

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Q&A - What is the difference between a slip, lapse, and relapse? 18:33

1y ago18:33

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Send us a text In this Q&A episode, hosts Justin and Tara discuss the importance of having a common language and vocabulary to use when it comes to important recovery words and definitions. They discuss importance of having a strong sobriety definition as a basis for recovery that is understood and agreed upon and consider the S.A. Lifeline definit…

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Navigating Betrayal: Answering the Hard Questions with Conversations Podcast 56:00

1y ago56:00

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Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, hosted by Dr. Jake Porter. In this engaging installment titled "Navigating Betrayal: Answering the Hard Questions with Conversations Podcast," we delve deep into the complex landscape of betrayal within relationships. Joining Dr. Jake in this enlightening discussion are esteem…

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Finding Quality Education to Aid in Recovery from Sex Addiction & Trauma w/ Geoff Steurer 36:40

1y ago36:40

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Send us a text This week Tara talks with licensed marriage and family counselor, author and podcaster Geoff Steurer. Part of the recovery puzzle for both pornography addiction and betrayal truama is to find quality education and therapy. How does one go about this? How do you know what sort of sources to trust? Tara and Geoff discuss these issues a…

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2023 S.A. Lifeline Conference Q&A Panel - Part 2 20:57

1y ago20:57

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Send us a text Tune in for the second portion of the 2023 S.A. Lifeline Conference Q&A Panel. Some of the questions answered in this episode include: -What are some effective methods you use, therapists, with your clients to help them process difficult emotions? -How can you navigate being in recovery, addict side, while being a nurse, or in the me…

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