A podcast about late diagnosed and self diagnosed autistics.Each episode we will cover a topic that looks at how an autistic person makes their way in the world after not being aware of their autism most of their life. Hosts Dan and Bianca bring a more personal and lived approach to the table and hope that their stories can help others along the way.
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Welcome to "Let's Raise Awareness of Mental Health," produced by your hostess Victoria Kidson! Are you tired of seeing women with autism overlooked and under-represented in society? In each episode, we'll be joined by women and marginalised individuals who will share their personal recovery journeys and provide valuable tips and resources for managing autism and/or maintaining mental well-being. I also acknowledge the positive impact that men are making to change the world of disabilities, m ...
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Puzzlelife.voice is about speaking the hard truth about #Specialneeds ,the importance of #autismacceptance for all. Follow our journey on Instagram Puzzlelife.voice 💙💙💙🙏
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Episode 51 - Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to today’s episode, where we delve into the often misunderstood world of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). This condition, closely associated with ADHD, manifests as an intense emotional response to perceived or actual rejection or criticism. We are joined by writer and editor Lindy Ralph as we explore the nuances…
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Episode 50 - Austism camp and celebrating our fiftieth episode
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Send us a Text Message. In this milestone episode, hosts Bianca and Dan reflect on getting to our 50th episode relatively unscathed and with a troupe of Party Poopers joining the party (in their own time of course). Thanks to you all for your continuing support and encouragement. Remember, the Late To The Party podcast offers a unique perspective o…
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Episode 49 - CEO of autism organisation Different Journeys Mel Spencer
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Send us a Text Message. We are so happy to finally be speaking with Mel Spencer, the Chief Executive Officer of Different Journeys, is a fierce Autistic advocate. As a parent to three Autistic teenagers and an Autistic individual herself, she is committed to creating a more accommodating and accepting world for the Autism community. Mel co-founded …
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Episode 48 - Listener Questions from our Party Poopers
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan have much to discuss on this episode, from sex mad SIMS, weird stalkers, upsetting Ben Lee and much more. But most importantly there has been a flurry of activity over on the private Facebook page with some fascinating insights and questions. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. W…
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Episode 47 the queer and autistic experience with Koda - Part 2
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Send us a Text Message. We are so very proud to release part 2 with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much present. We very much want you to share your stories and opinions. Jo…
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Episode 46 - the queer and autistic experience with Koda - Part 1
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Send us a Text Message. We are so very proud to release part 1 of a 2 part episode with Koda, an independant support worker with a wealth of knowledge and experience in all things queer, trans, autism and gender. We had sooooo many questions. Here is what was covered during just this episode - What are pronouns and who cares. Do only gay people hav…
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Episode 45 - The incredible value of Support Coordinators
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode we welcome Jason Crabtree from Bubble Support, a disability services and support organisation. Disability support coordinators play a vital role in improving the lives of individuals with disabilities. They assess needs, develop personalized support plans, coordinate services, monitor progress, advocate for p…
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Episode 44 - Autistic self care post party
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Send us a Text Message. So you had a big night and you have woken up exhausted. On this episode we explore the challenges of how to take care of yourself after a big night out. Attending big parties can be challenging for autistic individuals due to sensory overload and social demands. We offer some useful coping strategies that will help you deal …
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Episode 43 - Autism and preparing for a party
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Send us a Text Message. There is a reason we called the podcast Late To The Party. On this episode we explore the challenges of preparing yourself for an upcoming event. We provide some useful tips on how to get yourself ready for what can be an overwhelming experience. As usual we have an Autistic Moment, Listener Feedback and Neurodivergent Diges…
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Episode 42 - misconceptions about Autistic adults
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to episode 42 Party Poopers. Welcome to our podcast where we discuss the misconceptions surrounding autistic adults. Autism is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. Unfortunately, there are many myths and stereotypes surrounding autism that can lead to mis…
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Episode 41 - Do you think I am autistic?
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to season 3 of Late To The Party. What a year it was. Thank you to all our listeners for their ongoing support and a big thank you to all our Party Poopers on the private group for their continued contributions. Everyone is welcome to join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726 On this episode we talk…
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Episode 40 - Our Christmas Autistic Family Spectacular
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan proudly present their unforgettable Autistic Family Spectacular. How our dear listeners choose to interpret the word unforgettable is up to them. This is not our usual format and dare we hazard to say the professionalism this episode is as on-point as getting your husband to wrap the presents. So join us and s…
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode Bianca and Dan talk all things teenager. Specifically, how different is the teenage experience for autistic people. With depression, anxiety and eating disorders being so prevalent for autistic teens, it is not a stretch to say that this period of your life can be the pits. Bianca and Dan also talk to some ac…
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Episode 38 - holiday guide for autistic travellers
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Send us a Text Message. Have you packed your toothbrush? Never fear, Bianca and Dan take you on a journey of discovery as they discuss what it is like being autistic and going on holiday. To help us we invited special attaché party pooper Sonja as she regales us with her recent holiday with an all-neurodivergent cast of characters, Bianca and Dan p…
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Episode 37 - Autism and coping with Christmas chaos
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan talk about the upcoming holidays, what we enjoy and what we struggle with. Most importantly they provide some excellent coping strategies (well some are pretty weird) to help you get through the silly season. Dan also shares some of his favourite Christmas themed music. See below for the playlist. They also re…
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan have been absent for a few weeks and Chartreuse has something to say about that. Which leads us to this episode's topic. Anxiety. On a previous episode the listeners got to experience Bianca going through a tough stretch with her anxiety, and while she soldiered on it was clear the wounds were still new. But w…
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Episode 35 - Rini from Wilderness Labs
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Send us a Text Message. This episode has a smell of success about it. There is an aroma of positivity and friendship in the air as we speak to perfumer Rini, a late diagnosed autistic who owns and runs Wilderness Labs, an award-winning business that sells botanical Solid Perfumes and Lotion Bars. Rini talks about her life and her late diagnosis wit…
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Episode 34 - Make Autism great again?
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode we dispel the idea that we need to return to better days. For an autistic person this is not a sensible or likely solution. We read a brilliant article from Kristy Forbes and look at common issues that autistic people experience when trying to just get life done. We have another excellent review by Party Poop…
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Episode 33 - Why you need an OT with Charlinda Parsons
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Send us a Text Message. This episode we speak with Occupational Therapist Charlinda Parsons. For anyone late diagnosed autistic or ADHD this is an incredibly informative conversation that provides insight into why an adult needs an OT just as much as any other age. Bianca and Dan round off the episode with a deep dive into laughter and wait around …
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Episode 32 - Autistic advocate Nicholas McMahill
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode we get to speak to Nicholas McMahill. We have been following his journey on Facebook for a while now and have been so impressed by how much he has achieved in such a short time since being diagnosed Autistic. He is a Special Olympics athlete, a podcaster, YouTuber and is a strong neurodivergent advocate in hi…
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Episode 31 - a psychologist's view on autism diagnosis - Laura Addabbo
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode we discuss the merits of Dan's newly coloured beard against the legitimacy of Barbie with the help of the amazing Blindboy Podcast. Dan is given a new role at work which a lot of our Party Poopers will appreciate. Most importantly we get to speak to Dan (and Bianca's former) psychologist Laura Addabbo. For an…
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Episode 30 - Love on the Spectrum star Micheal Theo
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Send us a Text Message. Thirty episodes, we are so proud of ourselves. And what an episode we have for you all. We speak to everyone's favourite actor and star of Love on the Spectrum, Micheal Theo. It was an absolute thrill for us, and we had such a fun conversation with him. This is not your boring typical interview. Michael gets to show his amaz…
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Episode 29 - Autism and body dysmorphia
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Send us a Text Message. This episode proves to be a difficult challenge for Dan as he opens up about his body dysmorphia. Dan, always the resilient chap, drops his guard and invites listeners to share his difficult journey from shame to revelation and hopefully acceptance. Please note this episode deals with eating disorders and may be triggering f…
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Episode 28 - Living with a neurotypical
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan discuss the highs and lows of mixed relationships, those being neurodivergent and neurotypical. We look at the experience from both sides point of view and offer some practical advice on what you can do to maintain a happy healthy relationship. Listen in to a phone call between producer Chartreuse and Biancas …
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Send us a Text Message. Dan realises he has an apology to make, which is excellent timing given this weeks topic is about friendships. Bianca and Dan delve into their past to try and make sense of friendships lost and maintained. This is without doubt the most Autistic episode that has been recorded. Friendships are hard! Enjoy regular segments Aut…
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Episode 26 - The Last Of Us - an Autistic obsession
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode Biance and Dan talk games, particularly The Last Of Us, and Bianca offers up a classic 'have you noticed.' Dan also speaks to his daughter Eloise about games, parents and bullies. We are also treated to two Autistic Moments involving Eloise and Bianca. Please come join us on our socials where we are very much…
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Episode 25 - What changed after Autism diagnosis
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Send us a Text Message. On this episode Bianca and Dan want to talk about what happens after the diagnosis (this includes self-diagnosis) in terms of how it changes you. Do you behave more Autistic? Are other people saying this? How has it changed you. The call was made to the Late To The Party private group and we share some of their experiences t…
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Episode 24 - Interview with an Autistic Psychologist
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode we are excited to share with you an interview with Autistic and ADHD diagnosed Provisional Psychologist Lynette Dickenson. Lynette shares with us her many interesting jobs that led her to become a psychologist. Lynette combines her professional expertise with personal experiences. We delve into her journey, d…
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Send us a Text Message. This episode Dan takes you through his journey to getting an ADHD diagnosis. Bianca asks Dan questions about how it felt as well as how the medication is going. Also, Biancas 'street' name lasted one week. She has changed it to match her new flower child persona. Don't forget our usual segments such as Neurodivergent Digest,…
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Send us a Text Message. There has been a longer gap between episodes than usual. And that has a lot to do with our subject this episode. Anxiety and Autism regularly share the same headspace and we discuss our own relationships with it. Be sure to also go on our socials to see our horrendous attempts at making hip videos like Chloe Hayden has for h…
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Navigating Trauma as a Multicultural Woman during Autism and Sexual Assault Awareness Month with Denisha Seals CEO
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Welcome to my podcast, "Happy-Go-Lucky At Heart" In this episode, I will be chatting with Denisha Seals, author of children's books and CEO of Water2Spirit, about her experiences as a multicultural woman with autism and how she navigates the complexities of trauma. Denisha Seals is a well-known figure in the autism community and has been a passiona…
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Meat The Mind: New Hope For Autism with Anthony Chaffee MD
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P.S Everyone has their right to their own opinion, it’s a free world! I welcome debates. If you don’t like controversial topics, then you are welcome to give this episode a miss :-) Welcome to Happy-Go-Lucky At Heart, in this episode we explore the connection between diet and mental health. we'll be discussing the potential benefits of a carnivore …
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Episode 21 - What is your face saying? Autism and masking.
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan re-introduce themselves to our new listeners from all over the world. Dan manages to get a few logical fallacies through the wicket keeper. Bianca's Mum hates Dan's recent video posts. We talk about our Easter break and go more in depth about our masking. The logical fallacies discussed - The no true Scotsman.…
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Episode 20 - Easter mini episode. Games people play.
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Send us a Text Message. Bianca and Dan are enjoying Easter holidays so please enjoy this mini episode. Bianca figures out Dans predilection for leading questions. They also discover some very strange games they played as kids and share tales of loneliness and imagination. They really should be called Bored games.…
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Send us a Text Message. I installed an anti-virus on my computer. Now it has Autism. That's right, this episode is all about comedy. Bianca and Dan talk about the kind of humour they love and dispel the rumour that all Autistic people are humourless and do not get a joke. The comedy continues with segments like Neurodivergent Digest, Recommendation…
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The Inspiring Story of Brilliant Species Fashion Brand with Jordan Marquise
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In this episode, we will be discussing the intersection of neurodiversity, entrepreneurship, and fashion in the Black community. Our guest today is the founder of Brilliant Species as known as Jordan Walker. Brilliant Species is a fashion brand that is dedicated to creating unique and inclusive designs that celebrate diversity and self-expression. …
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Episode 18 - A powerful interview with an Autistic friend
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Send us a Text Message. This episode Dan interviews his friend and old workmate Shirl. It is an incredibly moving, candid and funny discussion that so many people will be able to associate with. Shirl was diagnosed Autistic four years ago, around the same time as Dan, and shows another side to the diagnosis fallout. This was not an easy discussion …
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Send us a Text Message. This episode contains more than your daily prescription of memes. Dan considers releasing an album of segment music given he seems to be writing a new one each week. This time it is a segment called Social Stories. On this episode we talk about what we hate to wear, and Bianca offers up a description of a particular body par…
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Episode 16 - We totally tapped that
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Send us a Text Message. It is Episode 16. Thank you so much for your continued support. This episode we talk about our likes and dislikes and look for commonalities. Dan is given some news about his vocal stylings and Bianca tells us more about her home life than we probably asked for. We have a killer Autistic Moment and yet another new segment ca…
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Send us a Text Message. Like many other late diagnosed adults, we have to put up with verbal (and nonverbal) accusations of not actually being autistic, and we are up to here with it. Bianca and Dan offer their experiences around why masking is often confused with faking by some people. If you are not sure how to respond to these claims this is the…
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Breaking Barriers: Exploring Neurodiversity, Anti-Racism, and Inclusive Psychiatry With Dr. Loucresie
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Welcome to Happy-Go-Lucky At Heart In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Loucresie, a renowned expert in the field of psychiatry, to discuss the importance of embracing neurodiversity and promoting anti-racism in mental health care. Dr. Loucresie will provide a comprehensive explanation of what neurodiversity means and why it is crucial to acknowle…
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Send us a Text Message. There is a twist this episode that sends tremors through the podcave. Our segment Compiment From Dan is turned upside down. What will be the fallout. We discuss a post by Kristy Forbes over at Intune Pathways Bianca reads an email from a wise Buddhist that only serves to boost her inflated ego We also discuss a superb articl…
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to the second season of the podcast. Thanks for all the lovely feedback. Don't forget to keep passing the word and if you could add a review in iTunes or wherever you get the podcast it actually makes a huge difference. This episode we take a relaxed approach to ease you back in. Bianca and Dan discuss the holidays, …
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Lifting Voices: Celebrating Black Women Power in Honour of Black History Month
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In this episode of Happy-Go-Lucky At Heart, we are celebrating Black women power in honour of Black History Month (USA). This month is dedicated to remembering and recognising the achievements, struggles, and contributions of African Americans throughout history. Why is it important to celebrate Black women power? It is important to celebrate Black…
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Unlocking the Mystery: Exploring ME/CFS with Maddy Moore
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Welcome to Happy-Go-Lucky At Heart, the podcast where we explore different aspects of Autism in women and mental health In this episode, we're diving into the world of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME/CFS) with my special guest, Maddy Moore from Designs in Mind in Oswestry. Maddy is a member at Designs In Mind who has ME/CFS. …
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Send us a Text Message. On this the final episode of Season 1, Bianca and Dan take you on a yuletide journey back into Christmas past, present and future. They discuss how Christmas looks for an autistic family and provide some tips on how to traverse the big day with family and all the sensory overload that comes with it. See you in 2023! Read som…
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Episode 11 - The Date. A special mini podcast
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Send us a Text Message. This is a special extra mini episode leading up to our final episode. It is a short piece written by Dan and inspired by a great comment from party pooper Sonja on a recent dating disaster. We hope you enjoy. We very much want you to share your stories and opinions. Join our public and private pages to start the discussion. …
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Send us a Text Message. For this episode we take a look at dating from the perspective of an autistic person. Dan and Bianca speak to their significant others about what it was like to date undiagnosed autistic peeps. Listeners get to appreciate Bianca and Dans acting chops of full display and we learn about what goes on in the Olympics village. Th…
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In this week's episode, I celebrate World Disability Day and continues to raise awareness about violence against women and marginalised people as part of UN Women UK's #16daysofactivism campaign. I discuss how autistic traits and ADHD can make individuals more vulnerable to sexual abuse and provides tips on how to spot signs of abuse in children an…
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In this week's episode, I join UN Women UK's #16daysofactivism campaign to raise awareness about violence against women and girls. The host discusses the concept of rape culture and the issue of corrective rape, and highlights the fact that abuse can take many forms and is not always physical. I share my own insights and experiences as I discuss th…
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