Stepping Off Now is a podcast about how to live your creative best life. I’m Kendra, a social scientist and writer. I spent decades feeling creatively unfulfilled while I pursued conventional life goals, culminating in severe burnout that took years to recover from. This podcast chronicles my journey in real time as I find my way home to my essential creative self. I discuss topics like harnessing the intuitive creative process, using creativity to manage mental health, and sorting through a ...
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Welcome to Collective Healers, a podcast designed for sensitive souls on a mission to achieve mind, body, and spirit harmony while growing their heart-centered business. Hosted by Kristina Bentle, an intuitive energy guide, Splenic Projector with a 1/3 profile, INFJ, and empath with over 20 years of experience in Fortune 50 companies, start-ups, coaching, leadership, strategy, and optimization. Kristina combines her deep love for science and spiritual growth to help you heal and transform yo ...
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Sup. I'm Deepak, a human being of the male persuasion, recording his voice every once in a while, sharing what I know with my like-minded brothers & sisters. If Warren Buffett & Louise Hay had a baby, left in the tanning booth a bit long, yes, that's me. This show is about me peeling the onion, one layer at a time. If you need some labels, I'm a highly sensitive person, empath, INFJ, introvert. Atheist baby born to traditional Indian Hindu parents, but now I love all beliefs equally (Buddhis ...
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Quiet Messenger is for the deep feelers, the sensitive rebels, the neurodivergent introverts with something BIG to say. Adria Sophia -- TEDx Speaker, Guide for Quiet Leaders, Messaging Weaver -- will help you tap into the message that moves you, embrace intuitive marketing in integrity with your values, and use your voice to share your truth clearly and courageously to call in your people and your next level of impact...without needing to change who you are. Uncover your unique way to show u ...
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Cosmic Tickle is a show for sensitive, intuitive & empaths who want to stop overthinking, stressing and embody an authentic life of purpose, using and sharing their gifts, and do it on their terms. This means embracing all your uniqueness and magical humanity... and creating more authentic, sustainable ways of being and working. Here you can expect stories, anecdotes, and insights about our perfectly messy minds, our unique path, living in flow, self-love, empowerment, and deep fulfilment. M ...
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The dark season is starting in the Northern Hemisphere and many of HSPs and INFJs will feel like sleeping down to their darker days as well. I don't know how about you, but I always feel like I could crawl into bed and sleep through the following months. The challenge is that it might just threaten their ego and it's agenda to perform, serve, suppo…
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HSP's and INFJ's – Low Energy & Exhaustion
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Feeling like running on a low battery is a common experience for most Highly Sensitive People, INFJ and INFP personality type folks. It's possible you are high functioning or not, in either scenarios the underlying causes is the same. Today I'm discussing why HSPs might often feel tired or fatigued, based on the mindbody understanding. You'll learn…
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E152. Are the Things We Suck At Actually Special Talents in Disguise?
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With novel #1 winding its way toward publication (hopefully), I have officially begun work on novel #2...and I've realized I will have to approach writing it in an entirely different way. Not only that, I'm going to have to use a technique I have utterly failed at in the past: preplanning the plot. Simply put, I suck at plot. It was the last thing …
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Highly Sensitive People struggle with a lot of stress, overwhelm and anxiety. This makes them often feel like they're all the time in the fight flight mode, putting out fires and dealing with some sort of pain. Today I'm talking about some of the main root reasons this happens, and specifically why it's different for highly emphatic, sensitive intr…
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How to create safe relationships with anyone as a HSP, INFJ, or Empath
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It's no news that Empaths, HSP, and INFJs have a trouble belonging, and feeling safe sharing their authentic selves. The result is that they often end up isolating, or only forming relationships with people like them, to make sure that they are not hurt. This, unfortunately limits both ability to exchange with diverse people, and evolve. Let alone …
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E151. When All You Have Is a Drum... Play
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I'm not really sure how to summarize this episode, y'all...but you'll want to listen! Contact meBy Kendra Patterson
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"Why is our life so hard?" is something that's on the minds of highly sensitive people, like INFJs. I hear this question from people like us, and I resonate with it deeply. For many years it was something that I would routinely ask the Universe after another set of obstacles was thrown in front of me. Many HSPs are really challenged by interactions…
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Surrendering to the Divine can Feel Incredibly Painful
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In this episode, I want to share with you my own journey of learning to surrender to the Divine. Along this path of discovery have been plenty of moments of deep pain and suffering. While in the middle of that pain, surrendering can feel impossible. In this episode, I will be sharing: The destructive habits that I lean into when I feel out of contr…
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The Real Cause for Overthinking Exhaustion - INFJ & HSP (Not Ni-Ti loop)
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Overthinking is an exhausting habit that leads to anxiety, insomnia and self-doubt amongst other troubles that so many INFJs can relate to. Today I'm talking about the core reason that is not the Ni-Ti loop but something deeper making you spin your wheels and spiral into a rabbit hole each time something throws you off. ---- Join me at my FREE MIND…
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E150. The OG Society Thought Experiment: Why and How We Share Our Art
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Sometimes it can be difficult to see how our own societies and cultures influence us. I have this trick I use to help reveal some of those hidden influences that I call the OG Society Thought Experiment. I imagine how a small pre-capitalist "original society" would have functioned and compare that to my modern capitalist society. Today I use this t…
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INFJ, INFP & Highly Sensitive People - Easy Targets For Manipulation?
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Have you ever experienced manipulation or abuse from a narcissist or another malevolent type? If you're an Empath or INFJ, you're unfortunately a very attractive target. Learn about why in today's video. ---- Join me at my FREE MINDBODY EVENT for HSP, EMPATHS, INFJ, INFP Details: • 16th August at 4pm (TBC by email update) • Best for HSP, Empaths, I…
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Healing from Emotional Trauma and Embracing Authenticity
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Have you ever felt trapped by the weight of emotional trauma, unable to express your true self? In this episode, I share my own journey of healing emotional trauma and uncovering my authentic self. I also share practical advice on how to navigate this transformative process so you can discover the powerful connection between healing and embracing w…
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There is only so much energy we have. Introverted people like INFJ and many highly sensitive folks often experience burnout that can throw their life off track. This can also result in experiencing various symptoms like fatigue, headaches, brain fog, etc. Today I'm talking about burnout and getting right into the root cause that most people don't u…
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Highly Sensitive or Trauma Response? How to Identify and Embrace Your True Self
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Have you ever wondered if your sensitivity is a natural trait or a response to past trauma? Are you actually an HSP, or are you traumatized? In this episode, we explore the interesting overlap between being a highly sensitive person and experiencing trauma, helping you understand the differences so you can more fully embrace your true self. Drawing…
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E149. Are Big Dreams Bad for Us? Learning to Not Miss the Stars
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In this episode I take stock of where I am in my creative journey as I contemplate what lies beyond the dreams we hold for ourselves. Are dreams holding us back? Do they ultimately make our lives less happy and satisfying? W.H. Auden's poem, The More Loving One Contact meBy Kendra Patterson
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Why do HSP and INF people bypass spiritually?
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INFJ and other Highly sensitive people are escape artists. Their sensitivity makes being in this physical world very challenging. Spiritual bypassing is a very natural solution that's also supported by a genuine desire to evolve. However, this won't solve their earthly problems. Today I talk a little about the reasons why it's so characteristic for…
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The *SURPRISING* Connection Between Trauma & Spiritual Growth
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Have you ever wondered how trauma can influence your spiritual journey? Or perhaps, have you ever considered that you chose this life and all the pain that came with it?!! This is a tough topic but I want to share my own personal experience on trauma and spiritual evolution. In this podcast, you'll learn about: How trauma can act as a catalyst for …
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Why are HSP, INFJ, and Empaths afraid of their own power?
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Highly sensitive, empaths, and INFJ have so much power and confidence that's dormant and stuck. They are often unconsciously terrified of accessing power because of how they are energetically set up. But to deal with our reality and feel empowered in life, to set boundaries they need to find a way of tapping into it. Today I talk about the obstacle…
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A Spiritual Approach to Toxic Family *Parental Estrangement *
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Navigating the emotional maze of parental estrangement can be incredibly challenging; you're not alone. In this episode, I share my personal journey through the pain of estrangement and how embracing spirituality helped me find peace and clarity. When I finally decided to cut off contact, my body was deteriorating; I wasn't going to live much longe…
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E148. Looking for Your Lights in the Dark
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Notice: The Kishōtenketsu Workshop I am doing with Andy Mort is coming up next week! You can find more info and sign up a this link. In this episode I discuss two women I've learned about recently who are lights in the dark for me. They inspire me to keep going through tough times, and to not lose hope. Table tennis phenom Zhiying Zeng, who is maki…
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How to Live Life by Design for Joy, Abundance, & Health
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Living out of alignment can seriously damage your health and well-being. I should know—I spent most of my life on the edge of burnout, constantly exhausted and disconnected from my true self. In this episode, I share with you how I struggled to embrace my Projector type because of conditioning and how it impacted all aspects of my life. I will also…
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Emotional Overwhelm of Highly Sensitive People (HSP) & Empaths - Mindbody Explanation
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It's a very common thing for a highly sensitive person or an empath to get easily overwhelmed by emotions. Typically, I don't tend to go deep into energetic description in my public teachings, but today I'm bringing a few for those who are more curious about their inner workings. Make sure to sign up to my newsletter If you need support to deal wit…
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Life and Creativity Cycles of INFJ, INFP, and Sensitive People. Conversation with Lauren Sapala.
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A special episode today! Come and join me in a conversation with Lauren Sapala, an Author, Speaker, Teacher and INFJ. Lauren talks with me about many things including life & creativity cycles, self-validation, ups and downs, our alternative realities and more. Sign up to Lauren's Newsletter: https://laurensapala.com/newsletter/ Lauren's YT Channel:…
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E147. In Search of Continuities in Our Artistic Identity
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I recently discovered a notebook filled with poetry I wrote thirty (!) years ago, and in one fell swoop it reconfigured my understanding of myself as an artist. In this episode I contemplate the threads that define who we are as artists that weave their way through our lifelong body of work (creative or otherwise). And I read one of those thirty-ye…
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Are You Truly Living Authentically & Fully Expressing Your True Self?
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In this episode, I share my journey from hiding behind a mask of pain and trauma to embracing my true, authentic self. Explore what it truly means to live authentically and how to recognize when you're not being true to yourself. Discover the signs of inauthentic living and its profound impact on your mind, body, and spirit. Learn how to reconnect …
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Healing the unconscious blind spots of INFJ, INFP, HSP and Empaths / Part 2
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Sign up to Gosia's newsletter ✨https://gosiaporaj.com/newsletter Introverted intuitives, empaths and many other highly sensitive folks have blind spots that make them susceptible to self-neglect, abuse, burnout and overwhelm. These are the unconscious ways of being that I see happening in my clients and this is what I know very well from my past ex…
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The Science of Sensitivity & Understanding the Highly Sensitive Person
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Discover the connection between trauma, sensitivity, and spirituality. This episode delves into the science behind being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) and how trauma can fundamentally change the brain and body, leading to heightened sensitivity. Learn how trauma can change your brain and body, which can lead to heightened emotional responses. Und…
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From Darkness to Light: Embracing Sensitivity and Healing Trauma for Harmony
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In the debut episode of Collective Healers, join Kristina Bentle as she opens up about her transformative journey through two profound dark nights of the soul. From childhood trauma and becoming a young widow, Kristina shares how she navigated deep trauma while climbing the corporate ladder. Discover how Kristina learned to finally embrace her sens…
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The unconscious blind spots of INFJ, INFP and Empaths - Part 1
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Sign up to Gosia's newsletter ✨https://gosiaporaj.com/newsletter Introverted intuitives, empaths and many other highly sensitive folks have blind spots that make them susceptible to self-neglect, abuse, burnout and overwhelm. These are the unconscious ways of being that I see happening in my clients and this is what I know very well from my past ex…
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E146. In Which I Read My Short Story "The Trash House"
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In summer I like to mix it up on this podcast, so I decided to share some of my short stories. "The Trash House" is a women-centered retooling of the Japanese Kitsune (fox) folklore. Enjoy!By Kendra Patterson
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Existential depression and creativity in lives of sensitive idealists & empaths
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Sign up to Gosia's newsletter ✨https://gosiaporaj.com/newsletter As an INFJ I've had times of being completely overwhelmed by humanitarian and ecological crisis. Many idealists, empaths and highly sensitive people share this pain. Today I share some insights that are really helpful about it and completely changed how I approach this tendency. When …
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E145. Re-Envisioning the Creative Journey through the Kishotenketsu Lens
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Last episode I discussed the "conflict free" Japanese Kishotenketsu storytelling framework as a gentler alternative to the Western-style Hero's Journey. In this one I contrast the two as lenses through which we can interpret our creative lives. The Hero's Journey, though it may make for compelling entertainment, can be toxic when used as a way of u…
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Why do INFJ and Highly Sensitive People struggle with changes?
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All highly sensitive and especially those with introverted intuition (my lovely INF folks, I'm waving at you!) have a tough time processing all changes in their life. Not just the negative changes can throw them off but also the positive, so called "happy" changes can become a big hurdle. When you understand the involvement of the mindbody factor y…
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Why do INFJ have a hard time with not being seen?
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I’m not attached to things but there are a few books I regret reselling. One of them was titled “The Invisible Child” by Tove Jansson. It was a story about a child who ceased to appear as a result of abuse, neglect and not being loved. What was left was a dress and a bow. I still have a tote bag with that picture. Many INFJ, INFP, and Highly sensit…
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Why are INFJ & HSP secretly controlling and inflexible?
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One of serious and often missed challenges in the lives of INFJ and many other Highly Sensitive People (HSP) has to do with trying to control life and others. Those who became aware of this habit might have generated an added stress of feeling guilty of trying to control your friends or romantic partners to take your advice or do something "your wa…
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E144. Special Release: The Calming Effects of Kishotenketsu Narrative Structure
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I'm dealing with some personal life stuff right now and so dug into my Patreon archive for an episode for you all today! In this one I discuss the Japanese (and more broadly Asian) narrative structure called Kishotenketsu. This is generally seen as being a low-conflict or even conflict-free form of narrative, and it's a balm to the soul for those o…
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How I navigate the inner and outer chaos as INFJ, empath & a highly sensitive person
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✨Hey, my sensitive and intuitive people! The world is changing and we are changing. But not without an intense chaos that's escalating as we move into a new earth. As an INFJ, an empath and a very sensitive person I can feel the pressure intensifying and thought it would be good to share how I view this time and how I navigate this process of sievi…
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Why am I getting more sensitive with time?
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"Am I highly sensitive person or just traumatised?" I hear this question a lot. Today I talk about of developing and increasing high sensitivity that is so misunderstood and confused even by the thought leaders of this subject. There are 2 reasons why your sensory-processing sensitivity might increasing, one is much more common than the other. If y…
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E143: The Writing Conference and Live Pitching Experience
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Last week I made the trek down to Tampa to attend a writer's conference and live pitch my novel to two agents! This type of experience can be overwhelming for creatives who are highly sensitive or have other types of sensory processing conditions--or for those who struggle with anxiety and/or mental health challenges. In this episode I discuss all …
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How your sensitivity is a gift and how to fulfil your purpose using it
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Many Highly Sensitive people are overwhelmed by they sensitivity. In the most natural reaction to this they cut themselves off from using their senses. Actually most humans do everything to numb their sensations by thinking, distractions, addictions, unhealthy relationships, etc. Today I speak about how you can raise from feeling burdened and victi…
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E142. Handling Rejection Sensitivity for Neurodiverse and Highly Sensitive Creatives
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Rejection sensitivity is one of the primary challenges neurodiverse and highly sensitive creatives face in reaching for their dreams. It can cause us to isolate, not seek out opportunities to share or showcase our work, or even keep us from doing creative work in the first place. If we do put ourselves out there, we risk severe mental health conseq…
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Accepting your gifts of high sensitivity and unique perception as a HSP, gifted & neurodiverse
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When someone tells you that you're gifted because of high sensitivity, unique perception, complex mind etc, how do you feel? From many conversations I've had, I know that many people don't see it that way. They can see how it might be a gift for others when they get to take advantage of those gifts. Today I talk about how to claim and accept these …
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E141. Following What's Alive in Your Creative Work
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This episode begins with an update on my preparations for the writers' conference I'm attending in Tampa on April 12. You can skip ahead to the 10:36 mark for the topical discussion. We're often counseled to follow our own vision or intuition in our creative work, but what does that actually look like in practice? How do you do it? In this episode …
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E140. Update Episode! Plans for Pitching My Novel
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At loooooooong last, I am (nearly! almost!) ready to start querying my novel to agents, so I decided it was the right time to do an update episode on where things stand and my plans going forward. I touch on topics such as what it feels like to be done, preparing for querying, and finding opportunities for professionalization as a prospective autho…
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Understand these 3 Types of Perfection to Release Pressure & Stress (for HSP, artists & thinkers)
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Check out the Audit to learn about your level of mind-body disconnection which also explains steps to embodiment and self-acceptance https://gosiaporaj.com/blog/mind-body-disconnect-for-highly-sensitive-women-audit Perfectionism is deep habit of internalising high standards that often come at a very high price of stress, anxiety, low self-esteem to…
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Why are boundaries so hard for gifted, HSP, and empaths?
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Check out the Audit to learn about your level of mind-body disconnection here: https://gosiaporaj.com/blog/mind-body-disconnect-for-highly-sensitive-women-audit Today I talk some more about the energy and the mindbody makeup of Highly Sensitive and gifted women. Watch also: ✨Why people dump pain and project on empaths and HSP (and how to STOP this!…
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E139. Ordinary vs. Extraordinary Times in the Creative Process
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Most timelines of the creative process depict it as linear and progressive, an "up and to the right" trajectory (like on a graph). But what I am finding in the final stretch of writing my novel, though, that this phase is entirely different from every part of the process that came before. Nothing about how I'm working as I struggle toward that fini…
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2 underrated ways to build confidence as HSP woman
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Confidence is not about projecting certain image outside. Real confidence is about aligning with your authentic self. Highly Sensitive women often struggle with the worry that they will offend others and that being in their power might threaten someone. Too bad for them, because it’s time for you to shine! Today I talk about some basic ways you can…
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E138. Recognizing and Recovering from a Creativity Injury
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My sister is a competitive cyclist, and we enjoy discussing the similarities between athletic practice and creative practice. The other day she was telling me about how she and the cyclists she coaches recognize, treat, and recover from physical injuries. It made me wonder: can creatives and artists suffer from injuries, too? If so, how do we recog…
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E137. Good vs. Bad Discomfort in Creative Practice and Life
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I credit my creative practice with helping me recover from my life-altering burnout at the end of my PhD. I've maintained from the beginning (and often talked about in this podcast) that creative work should feel good most of the time. For many years I've been gentle and compassionate with myself in both my creative practice and life, never pushing…
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