In this podcast, we dive deep into the nuances of living and dealing with a BFRB (body focused repetitive behavior) and how to UNTAP your potential in healing from one. This podcast is brought to you by Raffaela Marie, a Dermatillomania Coach who knows from personal experience what it's like to struggle with a BFRB. On her quest to heal herself, she dove down the rabbit hole into human psychology and behaviour so that she could take this knowledge and experience and help others to heal as sh ...
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'3 From The 7' is Relix’s weekly news podcast, chronicling three of the jam world’s biggest news stories from the last seven days. Hosted by Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta (Assistant Editor, Relix) and Karina Rykman (Bassist, Marco Benevento + Karina Rykman), '3 From The 7' takes an exciting look at everything from tour announcements to festival lineups to epic live sets.
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16: Sick? Managing body focused repetitive behaviours when you're unwell
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If you've ever noticed that the urge to pick, pull, or bite at your body increases when you're "under the weather" and you'd like that NOT to be the case - then this episode is for you! As always, Raffaela has a simple yet effective strategy to share with you on how you can navigate being sick so that you can reduce the frequency and severity of pi…
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15: How to build unshakeable boundaries to break free from your BFRB
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This episode is for those of us who struggle to say "no"... Those of us who feel over-committed to others and under-committed to themselves... Who feel like their life is chaotic and overwhelming... If you're about ready to "put your foot down" and make some changes then listen-in to this episode! Raffaela shares how incredibly essential strong bou…
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WARNING: If you're looking for a "quick fix" this episode is not for you. Let's be real, if preventing falling into yet another picking, pulling, or biting session were easy... this episode wouldn't be necessary. If we could "just stop" we would. Most information and support you'll find on managing and healing from a BFRB are simply a collection of…
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13:The connection between your attachment style and BFRB
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Find out on this episode how your attachment style has EVERYTHING to do with how you will heal from your body focused repetitive behaviour... And get some solid advice on using this mind-blowing information to your advantage so you can make genuine progress in finding your freedom from this behaviour! The answers you're looking for go so much deepe…
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12: Guided self-care after a picking or pulling session
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Are you feeling lost, frustrated, disappointed? Knowing what to do after a picking or pulling session can be hard. In this episode, let Raffaela guide you through the real-time process of caring for yourself after a picking or pulling session so that you can move through it with more ease. This process will help you to reduce the severity and frequ…
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11: How to be rid of it - The intense highs and lows of healing
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Have you ever felt like you've made progress in healing from skin picking, hair pulling, or nail biting... and then the next day you feel like you're moving 10 steps backward? This happens again and again and it feels like an exhausting, devastating, and painful cycle full of intense highs and lows that are somehow outside your control... There is …
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Odds are you've probably already tried replacing skin picking, hair pulling, or nail biting with something else, or you've at least been thinking about it. There's a reason why it never really works how we'd like it to. Find out why in this episode! Shift your perspective on what it means to "replace" a BFRB* and learn 3 unconventional yet highly e…
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9: The human beneath addiction | Adam Hudson
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Adam Hudson is not only a great friend but also an incredible coach, dedicating himself to supporting women in their journey to reconnect with themselves and reclaim their personal power. His work extends to a mental health facility, where he assists individuals in recovery from drug and alcohol addiction as well as eating disorders. In this episod…
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8: ADHD and body focused repetitive behaviours (BFRBs)
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Is there a link between BFRBs and ADHD? There is! This episode explores how this impacts you and how you can become the master of your own mind and behaviour through ditching societal "norms" and learning how to live for yourself. Raffaela explores this topic through sharing her story of learning to live harmoniously with ADHD and how it helped her…
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7: Healing yourself and your child who picks their skin | Athena Niccolaides
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Hear it from someone who has lived it! Athena is a former client of Raffaela and mother of 2 beautiful daughters, one of whom struggles with chronic skin picking (14yrs). This is her story of healing and transformation, going from being anxious and not knowing what to do to becoming a source of calm and secure guidance for her daughter as she embar…
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6: How to help a child with a body focused repetitive behaviour (BFRB)
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Does your child chronically pick their skin or pull out their hair? Are you a dedicated parent who wants to learn how to best support them in healing and leaving this self-destructive behavior behind? (Probably, or you wouldn't be reading this) Then this is the episode for you! Listen in and learn what you should and SHOULDN'T do and the KEY factor…
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5: The struggle of INCONSISTENCY and how to conquer it
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Learn the brain science behind motivation and how you can use it to become consistent in healing from your BFRB! (body focused repetitive behaviour life chronic skin picking, hear pulling, nail biting) We all know the struggle of "consistency" on this healing journey. It's like we KNOW what we should probably be doing but how do we stick to it long…
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4: ACNE! You don't have to have perfect skin to be free from chronic skin picking
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Acne is a very real trigger for those of us with dermatillomania... The great news is, you don't have to have perfect skin BEFORE you find freedom from skin picking! In this episode, I share with you a highly effective strategy to help you pave the path to freedom DESPITE what your skin is doing.By Raffaela
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3: STRESS and how it's both the CAUSE and the CURE for body focused repetitive behaviours
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Rest assured, if we didn't experience stress we wouldn't be picking apart our skin or pulling out our hair! In this episode we dive into the difference between regular stress and chronic stress and how you can become more resilient to it so that you can break free from this self-destructive behaviour and TRANSFORM your life. Gain access to your Pro…
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2: Feeling stuck, toxic shame, and how you can FINALLY move forward in your healing
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*BFRB = Body Focused Repetitive Behaviour* *AKA = chronic skin picking, hair pulling, nail biting, and cheek biting* We often think that if we could "just stop" picking our skin or pulling our hair that life will get exponentially better... But instead of "just stopping" we find ourselves stuck in the cycle of wishing we could, trying, relapsing, a…
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1: How understanding the origins of your BFRB will help you to transform your life
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*BFRB = Body Focused Repetitive Behaviour* *AKA = chronic skin picking, hair pulling, nail biting, and cheek biting* Questions people with a BFRB ask themselves... WHY did I develop this disorder? WHY can't I "just stop"?? WHERE do I start with healing??? All these questions can be answered by understanding the origins of your BFRB. With this knowl…
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It's a season-finale cliffhanger! The dynamic duo reflect on '3 From The 7' as Raf bids farewell. [Recorded on Nov. 16, 2021]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Astroworld is on everyone's mind as the music world reels from this tragedy.[Recorded on Nov. 8, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Halloween has come and gone, my oh my! Karina and Raf talk Phish Vegas, Tame Impala in SF, Goose in Massachusetts and more![Recorded on Nov. 1, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 121: Bill Kreutzmann On The Mend, $17K Grateful Dead Shirt, Rolling Stones Underplay
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Bill Kreutzmann is bouncing back from a Colorado time-out, a Grateful Dead shirt was just auctioned for over $17,000 and The Rolling Stones have a new show on the books! Listen now![Recorded on Oct. 25, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Phish's Fall Tour is up and running, and there's lots to discuss![Recorded on Oct. 19, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 119: ACL, Phil at The Cap, Silk Sonic
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This week, Karina and Raf chat about Phoebe Bridgers at Austin City Limits, Phil Lesh's reunion with The Q, Goose at Terminal 5, Silk Sonic's new record and so much more![Recorded on Oct. 12, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 118: SweetWater 420 Fest, David Lee Roth Retires, Innings Festival
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Let's talk SweetWater, let's talk Van Halen, let's talk... baseball? Karina and Raf have plenty to discuss this week on '3FT7'[Recorded on Oct. 5, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 117: Brooklyn Bowl Philadelphia, R.E.M. Will Never Reunite, Red Hot Chili Peppers On Tour
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Did you know there's a new Brooklyn Bowl opening in Philly? Did you know R.E.M. is never getting back together? Did you know Red Hot Chili Peppers are awesome? All this and more this week on 3 From The 7![Recorded on Sept. 28, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 116: Fugees Reunion, Metallica Underplays, Pearl Jam at Sea.Hear.Now
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Whether you're into the Fugees, Metallica or Pearl Jam, there's something for everyone on this week's '3FT7'![Recorded on Sept. 21, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By karina rykman, raffaela kenny-cincotta
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Ep. 115: Kacey Musgraves, Fleetwood Mac, Phil-O-Ween
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From Kacey Musgraves 'star-crossed' to the newest round of Fleetwood Mac drama to Phil Lesh's upcoming Halloween get-down, Karina and Raf have lots to say this week on 3FT7! [Recorded on Sept. 13, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep 114: Bonnaroo Canceled, DMB at The Gorge, Robert Plant Rant
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This week, Karina and Raf talk Bonnaroo, Dave Matthews Band's COVID audible at The Gorge, and Robert Plant's recent diss to legacy rock bands.[Recorded on Sept. 7, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 113: The Rolling Stones Appreciation Week
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After the passing of Charlie Watts, Karina and Raf (and almost every touring band in America) are celebrating the glory of The Rolling Stones.[Sponsored by 'Layla Revisited: Live at LOCKN' and Andy Frasco / Recorded on Aug. 30, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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The world's a bit of a bummer, so let's play a game of This or That! Dr. Dre or Dr. John? Coachella or Burning Man? Listen to find out Karina and Raf's answers![Sponsored by U-Roy's new album 'Solid Gold' / Recorded on Aug. 16, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 111: Jazz Fest Canceled, Free Slightly Stoopid Livestream, Bonnaroo 2021
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It's deja vu all over again... Things are weird in the music industry right now (Jazz Fest canceled, Bonnaroo updating COVID requirements), but there's some good stuff to celebrate, like free livestreams! [Sponsored by David Crosby's new LP 'For Free’ / Recorded on Aug. 10, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]…
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Ep. 110: NYC Vax Protocol, Phish Alpharetta, NYE Announcements
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This week, Raf and Karina ponder the importance of NYC's new vaccination requirements, reflect on Phish's red-hot summer tour, and look ahead to My Morning Jacket and moe.'s New Year's Eve plans. [Sponsored by Blues Traveler's new LP 'Traveler's Blues' / Recorded on Aug. 4, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]…
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Ep. 109: Sob Rock, Woodstock '99, EOTO's No More
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Raf's back from vacation to talk with Karina about all things John Mayer, the new Woodstock '99 doc and the end of EOTO.[Sponsored by The Wallflowers' 'Exit Wounds' / Marbin, Recorded on July 27, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 108: Karina Takeover with Isaac Slone
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Karina's taking over with her trusted pal Isaac to chat Widespread Panic, Jerry Garcia NFTs, Bob Dylan entering the livestream era, and more. [Recorded July 20, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Isaac Slone
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Ep 107: New T.A.B. Bassist, Bob Weir's on TikTok, Bonnaroo Lineup Changes
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Trey Anastasio Band have a new bassist, Bob Weir's been trying out a new form of social media, and Bonnaroo is making lineup changes just two months out from its big 2021 event. All this and more on 3FT7. [Recorded July 13, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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The jam scene is abuzz with all things Peach! Let's talk about it![Recorded July 6, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Karina and Raf! In the same room! Together! In New York! [Recorded June 29, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 104: Foo Fighters Reopen MSG, Mike Rempel Leaves Lotus, Trey at SPAC
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Live music is back, baby! Raf and Karina celebrate Madison Square Garden's Foo Fighters celebration, discuss Lotus' lineup shifts and (of course) talk plenty about Trey Anastasio and Phish.[Recorded June 21, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 103: Clapton Tour Dates, Dead on the Rocks, Bisco Las Vegas
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Just another Manic Monday (and Tuesday and Wednesday) for 3FT7... Karina and Raf talk Eric Clapton's U.S. Tour, Billy & The Kids at Red Rocks and The Disco Biscuits Halloween in Las Vegas.[Recorded June 14, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 102: Foo Fighters at MSG, Central Park Mega-Concert, Phil Lesh Halloween Run
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It's a New York episode: Foo Fighters are opening MSG this month, Central Park will host a 60,000 person mega-concert, and Phil Lesh will descend upon The Capitol Theatre for nine shows this October.[Recorded June 8, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 101: LOCKN' Farm, Phish Mexico, John Mayer 'Sob Rock'
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Sorry for the delay! After a busy Memorial Weekend, Karina and Raf talk LOCKN' Farm, Phish Mexico and John Mayer's new album.By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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100 episodes later and we’re still having a great time…Sponsored by Mickey Hart & Zakir Hussain's new series of sonic meditations to transform your consciousness and relax deeply. Listen for free at onecommune.com/sound[Recorded May 25, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 99: Phish, Dead & Company, Hulaween, Peach
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Where do we even begin? Phish Tour, Dead & Company Tour, Hulaween, The Peach Music Festival and much much more this week on 3FT7![Recorded May 18, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 98: Grateful Mahalo, The Avett Brothers, Trey at SPAC
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It's been a busy week: Karina and Raf chat about the star-studded Grateful Mahalo event, The Avett Brothers' recent Red Rocks announcement and Trey Anastasio's upcoming solo run at Saratoga Performing Arts Center. [Recorded May 10, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Keny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 97: Bob Weir & Phil Lesh Reunited, Gov't Mule in Connecticut, RIP Tony Markellis
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Karina and Raf reflect on Bob Weir's surprise appearance with Phil Lesh, Gov't Mule's first show in over a year, and the passing of bassist Tony Markellis. [Recorded May 4, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Karina and Raf hear from YOU, the listeners! [Recorded April 26, 2021, Sponsored by the vinyl subscription club Bandbox, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 95: Billy Strings Relix Cover, Tedeschi Trucks Tour, Grateful Aloha
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Billy Strings on the cover of Relix! Derek Trucks and Susan Tedeschi tour dates! Grateful Aloha destination event! All this and more on this week's 3FT7![Recorded April 20, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Karina Rykman, Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta
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Ep. 94: Widespread Panic Tour, Kris Myers of UM Gets COVID, 'Cluster Flies' Phish Tribute
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From Widespread Panic's 2021 tour plans to a COVID diagnosis at Umphrey's McGee HQ to a star-studded tribute to Phish's 'Farmhouse' there's lots to talk about this week on 3 From The 7![Recorded April 13, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 93: Medeski/Rykman/Kimock, Page McConnell Solo Album, Playing in the Sand 2022
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This week: Karina returns to the stage with John Medeski and John Morgan Kimock, Page McConnell preps a new solo album and Dead & Company look forward to their 2022 Mexican vacation. [Recorded April 6, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 92: Benevento/Russo Duo Reunion, David Byrne's Latest Project, Bob Weir Cover Story
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Karina and Raf talk the Benevento/Russo Duo's latest reunion, David Byrne's new social distance dance club, and the latest 'Relix' cover story on Bob Weir.[Recorded March 30, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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Ep. 91: Outside Lands, Florida, Phil Lesh's 81st Birthday
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Karina and Raf have Spring Fever chatting about Outside Lands' new October dates, Billy Strings' rowdy St. Augustine Show and Relix's upcoming celebration of Phil Lesh's 81st birthday.[Recorded March 23, 2021, Send your messages to RafandKarina@gmail.com]By Raffaela Kenny-Cincotta, Karina Rykman
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