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Two sex addicts in long-term successful recovery are ALSO world-class mental health professionals who specialize in porn and sex addiction recovery. Drawing on 40 years of combined personal and professional experience, Mark and Steve get RAW and REAL about HOW to overcome addiction, heal betrayal trauma and save your marriage. If you're struggling with addiction—we get it. Recovery is hard. We've been there. We'll help you take the fight to your addiction like never before. If you're married ...
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Unfiltered Bedroom

Elisha Kolade - Overcoming Pornography , Inner Child Trauma Healing

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As host of Unfiltered Bedroom, I'm a coach, speaker, and author specializing in helping men overcome porn addiction through my proven Rewire Your Mojo TM program. Having journeyed through addiction myself, I understand firsthand how porn can destroy your mind, relationships, and potential. I've made it my purpose to help others quit porn for good and cultivate healthy intimacy. On the show, I hold nothing back, combining straight talk, inspirational stories, expert interviews, and practical ...
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Are you tired of struggling with porn and want to quit, but don't know where to start? Welcome to the Reclaimed & Unashamed podcast, where we help men break the shame and rewire their brains so they can start living a porn-free life. In this podcast, your host Kolton Thomas will share science, stories, and strategies to help you grow in self-awareness and self-control over your life and your habits online. We invite you to listen to our weekly episodes and join our community of men who can h ...
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This podcast is for anyone who wants to overcome pornography for good. It will teach you about your brain and how to completely quit a pornography habit, 100% shame-free. If your ideal life doesn't include a porn habit, then this is the show for you. Visit sarabrewer.com to learn more about overcoming pornography for good.
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The Realest Podcast. I touch on the right topics. Have a real listen. #Carchronicles313 #OpenDiscussion #IDontEditShit CashApp $MrPiston For Donations CarChronicles313 on Youtube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify Etc
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We’ve done some revamping over here on the podcast transforming Eat Play Sex into Sex Love Psychedelics. Sex Love Psychedelics with Dr Cat Meyer will stimulate + titilate your brain with all of the psycho-sexual conversations + guest experts to answer your curiosities on sex, love, and the psyche. Whether we are analyzing the complexities of love, giving tips on energetic orgasms, or getting off on the latest research in psychedelics, it’s going to be a very WILD + expansive experience for u ...
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This Podcast is created by Dr. Trish Leigh & Co.. Dr. Trish, a Cognitive Neuroscientist, runs a non-profit organization that helps men stop watching porn and acting out sexually. This channel is dedicated to women who get hurt from sexual betrayal, whether that be porn use or sexual acting out behaviors, or affairs. We are here to give you the tools to grow and strengthen your journey. We would not wish this experience on anyone because we know firsthand how hard it is on the soul. But, afte ...
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Think about all of the things you consider every day to help keep yourself, your loved ones, and your community happy, healthy, and hopeful. Now consider this: There is an ever-growing body of research demonstrating significant negative impacts, for yourself and the ones you love, in the consumption of pornography. It can change the way you think, harm your ability to connect with other people, and can contribute to changing the world in negative ways. Join us every other week as we consider ...
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Welcome to the Divine Intervention Show podcast! Here you will learn about all the amazing guests and show subjects for the Divine Intervention Radio Show. "Divine Intervention" is an interview show that features intriguing people who have experienced the hand of God in amazing ways. Divine Intervention was created and produced by Daniel and Sahani Fazzina with the purpose of encouraging believers, spiritual seekers and skeptics alike that Jesus is alive, and is still performing miracles and ...
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Welcome to No Holds Barred. This is the first series of conversations I’ve had with ordinary people who have lived extraordinary lives. I started recording these podcasts way back in March 2020, just after the first lock down happened. Some of the conversations you hear will be a snap shot of the time, specially the episodes where I spoke with nurses that worked directly on COVID wards during the first and second waves of the virus, or BLM movements, and other conversations are more ever gre ...
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Learning to Thrive Beyond Pornography use was the greatest challenge of our life and marriage. It had rocked my self confidence, tainted all of the most important experiences of my life and become the most impossible challenge I had as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. With this podcast or at https://www.zachspafford.com you'll learn about the struggle, how to overcome pornography use, and where to find additional resources to begin to thrive beyond pornography wit ...
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Hang out with aging hipsters Ian MacDog, Anand Bhatt, The Millenial Grrl (Kayla Lynch) and me, Earl Epstein! Have a laugh. Cringe, groan and raise a brow occasionally as we try to keep the wheels from falling off the show! Talk about chemistry! A middle-aged Jew, a Scotsman, and an Indian guy - lifelong buddies who forgot to grow up - and a Carribean millennial girl with attitude. We laugh about our bizarre lives, the latest news, rumors and trends (and annoy some pretty unusual guests. in t ...
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Iparentgen.com is a medically researched podcast that examines all the aspects of technology to provide parents, teachers, coaches and medical professionals with behavioural models, tips, strategies and protocols that can stop handheld addiction to help children lead their best lives. We focus on, The Consistent Parenting Method in all stages of life with online courses, videos, podcasts and mini-courses to support parents raising children in the digital world.
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Stand-up comedian Mike Eshaq is a United States Marine, an Arab American and a Muslim who can't stop eating bacon. His family hails from the country of Yemen, the yummiest of all the Arabs! Listen in as Mike shares dating advice in a segment called SLEEPING WITH THE YEMENI, rants about politics in a segment called YEMENI OF THE STATE and engages with guests about their own views of the world and these topics. This podcast is for anyone who wants an honest and hilarious take on the world from ...
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In this episode, # 236, the betrayed partner of a porn addict writes a very raw and vulnerable message to PBSE with some deeply poignant, hard-hitting questions. Here's what we received from her— Hey Mark and Steve, my partner was 4 years porn-free and then relapsed, using porn intermittently for about 8 months before I caught him. He says he's ser…
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In this raw and honest podcast, I share the real-world tools and techniques that helped me overcome my own sexual performance anxiety. No clinical jargon or textbook theories here - just straightforward, practical advice from someone who's been there. I'll walk you through the strategies that actually worked for me, helping you build confidence and…
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If you’re learning new skills related to your porn use, they’re changing your life, and you’re feeling the benefits, but other people don’t get it, you’re not alone. Many people find themselves in situations where they feel relentlessly attacked by shame messages. While it might feel like it’s hindering your healing process, the truth is your power…
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Explore strategies to combat brain fog while breaking free from pornography addiction. Learn about the neurological impacts, lifestyle changes, and mental exercises that can help restore cognitive clarity. Discover how to regain focus and mental sharpness on your path to recoveryBy Elisha Kolade - Overcoming Pornography , Inner Child Trauma Healing
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Discover the game-changing mindset that can accelerate your recovery from pornography addiction. Learn why being reactive or passive holds you back, and how embracing a proactive state of mind is your key to lasting freedom. Tune in to transform your recovery journey todayBy Elisha Kolade - Overcoming Pornography , Inner Child Trauma Healing
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Trigger warning: The following podcast episode contains discussions of child sexual abuse, sex trafficking, and image-based sexual abuse. Listener discretion is advised. Dawn Hawkins is the CEO of the National Center on Sexual Exploitation, which exists to build a world without sexual exploitation and abuse. She joins us for this Consider Before Co…
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In Episode 235, a PBSE listener writes in to ask Mark & Steve for guidance on how to best support his partner going forward. The couple were together off and on for 11 years and then married for the last 10 years. During the entire span of 21 years, he has struggled with sex/porn addiction and alcohol abuse. Recently, he got serious about getting i…
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Coach Kat is on the show this week to address the it’s-not-working mentality, where you feel stuck and like nothing has changed. Maybe it feels like you’ve been doing the work for months, only to keep viewing porn. Perhaps this plateau is tempting you to give up, but the truth is the breakthrough you’re looking for is right around the corner. Liste…
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Drawing from personal struggle, I've found effective ways to break free from the rumination trap. Learn practical techniques to quiet your inner critic, redirect your thoughts, and rediscover joy. I'll share real-world strategies that helped me move from constant worry to active living. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.…
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In this raw and revealing episode, I open up about my personal struggle with insecurity and self-doubt. From constantly second-guessing myself to seeking approval from others, I share the challenges I faced and the turning points that led to my transformation. I'll walk you through the key insights and practical strategies that helped me build genu…
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Episode 234 comes in response to TWO situations/questions sent to PBSE by porn/sex addicts in recovery. Here’s a brief overview of each— The first has been addicted to porn since he was 14 and is now well into his adult years. He was in a relationship for 3 years before disclosing his addiction. In his own words he says—Since then I have lied about…
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In today's digital age, pornography is more accessible than ever before. But does indulging in adult content spell doom for your love life? This controversial topic has sparked heated debates among relationship experts, therapists, and couples worldwide. Our latest episode dives deep into the complex world of porn consumption and its potential impa…
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This week’s Ask a Coach question is one many of you can probably relate to: “Does the shame I feel after slipping up and viewing porn ever really go away?” While we can learn to move through shame in different and more useful ways, I don’t know that it’s possible to completely get rid of it. The good news is that while shame will continue to show u…
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Uncover a simple yet powerful 3-second method to derail porn cravings instantly. Learn from real-world experience how to hijack your urges and regain control. This episode shares practical, easy-to-implement tactics to interrupt addictive patterns and strengthen your resolve on the path to recovery Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more in…
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In this candid episode, we explore the often-overlooked impact of frequent masturbation on sexual health. Hear a raw, personal account of how excessive self-pleasure affected erectile function. Learn about the physical and psychological connections, and discover steps towards recovery and improved sexual wellness Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/priv…
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Unlock your full potential in this inspiring episode about personal growth and perseverance. Discover the power of relentless self-improvement and unwavering determination. Learn practical tips to push past obstacles, embrace continuous growth, and transform into the best version of yourself. It's time to refuse mediocrity and strive for excellence…
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Discover four crucial steps to accelerate your recovery from porn addiction. This episode outlines specific, actionable measures you can take immediately to break free from dependency. Learn how to implement these critical changes, reshape your mindset, and fast-track your journey to a porn-free life Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more …
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In this episode with Dr. Eddie Capparucci, we discuss how men can unlock deeper emotional connections by reconnecting with their childhood experiences. Dr. Eddie Capparucci is the author of several books on healing from sex and pornography addiction, including Going Deeper and Why Men Struggle to Love. As you listen, you will gain insights into how…
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I thought watching porn was harmless fun until the unthinkable happened - I couldn't get it up with a real partner. In this brutally honest episode, I recount the night my dick stopped working and my shame spiraled into an obsession to regain my manhood. Little did I know, my porn addiction had been slowly rewiring my brain's arousal patterns. What…
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In this Consider Before Consuming Podcast episode, we had the opportunity to sit down with a panel of young adults about their experiences and perspectives on sexual exploitation, social media's role, and dating culture. Participants include survivors of human trafficking and sexual assault, former porn consumers, and anti-trafficking advocates. Th…
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I thought I could quit porn anytime, that it was just a harmless outlet. I told myself "Just one more video" countless times. That toxic rationalizing kept me hooked for years. The more insidious mindset was feeling so ashamed that I isolated myself, making recovery nearly impossible alone. And the victim mentality - blaming my addiction on others …
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In Episode 233, Mark & Steve respond to a very heart-felt submission from a betrayed partner, who asks some very hard questions about her relationship with a partner who is a porn/sex addict in recovery. Here's what she submitted to PBSE— Hi Mark and Steve, I’m feeling a lot of apathy in my marriage and I don’t understand the point in staying. I’ve…
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Porn hijacked my brain's reward system, but its true devastation was to my prefrontal cortex - the control centre for executive function. Slowly, my ability to think critically, plan, reason, and make rational decisions crumbled under porn's influence. I'd lose hours consumed by endless browsing and video binges. My impulse control was shot. I stru…
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A common theme we see frequently in our Ask a Coach feature revolves around our Learn and Move On worksheet. Clients fill in their Learn and Move On before sending it in for feedback, and because it’s such a vital part of our process, Coach Kat is here to share five ways you can make it more beneficial to you. Learn five practical tips for making t…
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Porn Ruined My Life: This Is My Personal Story I was hooked from a young age. What started as curiosity quickly became an obsession that controlled my life. Porn distorted my view of intimacy and relationships. It fed unrealistic expectations that no partner could match. My grades slipped, I lost friends, jobs. I hit rock bottom, alone and ashamed.…
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We've all been there - a moment of weakness, a lapse in judgment, a slip up that leaves us feeling defeated. But the true test lies in how we bounce back. In this empowering episode, we delve into the ultimate strategy for turning setbacks into comebacks. From reframing your mindset to actionable steps, you'll learn the secrets to resilience and re…
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Unlock the transformative power of affirmations in this groundbreaking podcast. Discover how these simple yet potent statements can reprogram your mindset, rewire your beliefs, and propel you towards profound personal growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.By Elisha Kolade - Overcoming Pornography , Inner Child Trauma Healing
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Join us for an insightful and thought-provoking exploration into one of the most taboo topics in faith-based communities. In this episode, we delve into the often-avoided subject of masturbation through the lens of biblical teachings and divine design. Gain a deeper understanding of varying perspectives, challenge preconceived notions, and uncover …
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Discover the healing power of putting pen to paper in this revealing episode. We delve into the transformative role that journaling can play in your journey to overcome pornography addiction. From processing emotions to reframing negative thought patterns, learn how this simple practice can become a potent tool for self-discovery, accountability, a…
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In this life-changing episode, we unlock the secrets to banishing chaos and embracing a life of clarity and recovery. Discover five powerful steps that will transform your mindset, empower you to take control, and unleash an unwavering sense of purpose. From cultivating self-awareness to implementing practical strategies, you'll gain the tools to c…
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In PBSE Episode 232, Mark & Steve respond to a listener's experience and questions with regard to the approach to Betrayal Trauma healing that PBSE and Dare to Connect take, vs. the experience in 12-Step groups. Here's what the partner of a porn/sex addict submitted to PBSE— Is it me or are the approaches of partner-oriented 12-step fellowships the…
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In this empowering episode, we explore the transformative power of finding your voice and speaking up. Discover three compelling reasons why breaking the silence can revolutionize your life. From cultivating self-confidence to driving positive change, learn how unleashing your authentic voice can unlock new possibilities and create a lasting impact…
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We’re diving straight into listener questions for a special Q&A on healthy sexuality. We tackle a variety of thought-provoking questions, from a listener who feels disconnected from his sexuality and believes it's controlled by his spouse to concerns about whether masturbation causes erectile dysfunction. Plus, we hear from someone who has overcome…
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You're not the man you want to be - the old you is holding you back. It's time to resurrect your best self by burying the insecure, reactive 'old man' weighing you down. In this episode, I guide you through confronting your past conditioning to demolish fears, narratives and habits stunting your growth. We'll purge the self-limiting beliefs, ditch …
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Learning to truly love yourself is one of the most important yet difficult journeys you can undertake as a man. For too long, we've been taught to neglect and reject the parts of ourselves that deserve compassion. In this episode, I break down the step-by-step process for developing unconditional self-love - no matter your past, upbringing or curre…
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I grew up craving my dad's love that never came. That void left me with an abandoned child inside, carrying wounds of rejection. This episode explores my journey of confronting that inner child, healing the father's wound, and becoming the man I needed. Through this process, I stopped seeking what I'd never get and found self-love instead. Hosted o…
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Every decision we make, every path we choose, has consequences that ripple through our lives. In this thought-provoking episode, I reflect on the lessons learned during my formative 20s and how those experiences have shaped my 30s. From navigating the highs and lows of early adulthood to grappling with the realities of personal growth and self-disc…
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In a world that often feels like a roller coaster of doom scrolling and bad news, is it possible to rewire your brain from "everything is awful" to "opportunity is everywhere"? Absolutely! Welcome to "How to Hack Your Brain," where we're not just talking about positive thinking—we're giving you the cheat codes to reset your mental operating system.…
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Victoria Sinis is the founder of Creating Gems, an organization created to help young women break free from harmful narratives about themselves. She is also a former OnlyFans recruiter and marketer. In this episode, she helps us understand what an OnlyFans agency is and the coercive and destructive realities faced by OnlyFans performers. Episode Re…
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