#140 This Is What Happens When You Give Up On Life - Still Living With Parents And .... - Bulldog Mindset Podcast

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Hello Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.

Today I'm gonna respond and give some constructive feedback to a comment from a subscriber, at the age of 33 years old still living with his parents who just gave up on life, who doesn't have any ambitions nor anything to lookout for in life other than smoking beers. Who sees best moment in his life back when he was homeless in Seattle.

When I read this, this comment hit me hard, there is so much in here, one of them is that when you don't have goals in life, you can end up feeling cornered, feeling imprisoned, feeling that life is nothing but a heavy toll.

This happen little by little, it didn't just happen with one big event, it was a chain of events, of small decisions that ultimately led to where this person is. When you don't want to do the work, the heavy work, the HARD work, this is where you can end up. The best moments of your life are when you land a good song on the radio. This is what happens when you give up on life.

Another thing is, the victim mindset is very strong in him, this is why i push the bulldog mindset so much on this channel. And can't allow anyone to interpret having bad things happen to them as a reason to develop the victim mindset.

He does mention having failed emotional relationships and being emotionally abused as a child, but again, who didn't? parents can do that when they have no clue what they're doing, kids can be mean and harsh on each other, the world can be an unjust place and get abused in many ways, you can be the best partner and give it your all but your partner end up screwing everything up. But that's not an excuse to act like a wimp, to give up on life.

If you do hard stuff, and live up to the limit and get on the uncomfortable side of life, so the little things in life can't derail you. So when The real need arise you can stand up and face reality.

I want you to be strong, to have abundance in life. To be skinned enough, to not allow yourself o be crushed. To be honest, the gentleman's life isn't really that hard, he didn't really be crushed to be honest.

I don't want to pick on you nor make fun of you, I want to help you in anyway I can, that is why i'm being tough on you.

I want to give you the advise you need not the advise you want to hear.

You can handle strong issues in life, you have to be strong. Everyone has to start at some point. And here is how you can do it, just pick up heavy work and follow through, go running, lifting weight my friend ... you might not be able to find a job right now.

But when you're doing hard things and making progress on them you start advancing in life. You motioned you like playing piano well go become a bloody Mozart ! You have in you and I believe in you. You're only 33 and you have a lot of amazing life in front you.

Take me my life from 33 to 38 in drastically different. You can become a millionaire no joke. You can master a lot of aspects of your life.

When you have your pride and figuring out how to survive alone, how to be dependent, knowing that you can make it on your own and improving. Then my friend YOU WILL FIND FULFILLMENT.

Even if you still live with your parents, don't give up on your life .