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Cheri Torres and Jackie Stavros on using Appreciative Inquiry to create conversations worth having (#41)
Manage episode 321413657 series 2955384
2:28 - how Cheri and Jackie first came across the idea of Appreciative Inquiry.
4:04 - how many hours in a day are you in conversation?
4:32 - what is appreciative inquiry.
5:34 - difference between a good and a bad conversation.
7:18 - you can feel when you are in a destructive, depreciative conversation.
7:42 - how many of our conversations can be worth having?
9:42 - our words affect each other.
11:13 - what to do when the conversation is turning sour.
12:02 - our conversations with loved ones are often less intentional than with strangers.
12:41 - example of using Appreciative Inquiry in the real world.
14:14 - Appreciative Inquiry is not about having rose-coloured glasses.
15:22 - the technique of flipping.
16:52 - how Appreciative Inquiry has impacted Cheri and Jackie's life.
17:15 - our words matter immensely because they shape our world.
19:08 - conversations worth having at home.
20:57 - how to get your children to actually talk to you.
24:26 - the constructionist principle.
26:32 - the poetic principle.
29:01 - Are appreciative conversations something we're born with or can it be learned?
31:01 - there is a place for the sceptic.
31:40 - appreciative inquiry doesn't mean you ignore problems.
31:54 - analytical approach: looking for positive deviants.
33:17 - overcoming negativity bias.
36:15 - how to manage your emotions in the moment.
37:47 - asking generative questions.
42:11 - dealing with negative people who don't want to have constructive conversations.
44:45 - a conversation worth having is not just a positive conversation.
45:23 - don't assume people don't want to talk to you just because they are shy or introverted.
47:30 - example of how leaders can use appreciative inquiry.
51:55 - why appreciative inquiry is more likely to influence and create change.
54:21 - How Jackie used appreciative inquiry in the hardest conversation of her life.
1:01:03 - connect with Jackie and Cheri.
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/cheri-torres-and-jackie-stavros
52 episodes
Manage episode 321413657 series 2955384
2:28 - how Cheri and Jackie first came across the idea of Appreciative Inquiry.
4:04 - how many hours in a day are you in conversation?
4:32 - what is appreciative inquiry.
5:34 - difference between a good and a bad conversation.
7:18 - you can feel when you are in a destructive, depreciative conversation.
7:42 - how many of our conversations can be worth having?
9:42 - our words affect each other.
11:13 - what to do when the conversation is turning sour.
12:02 - our conversations with loved ones are often less intentional than with strangers.
12:41 - example of using Appreciative Inquiry in the real world.
14:14 - Appreciative Inquiry is not about having rose-coloured glasses.
15:22 - the technique of flipping.
16:52 - how Appreciative Inquiry has impacted Cheri and Jackie's life.
17:15 - our words matter immensely because they shape our world.
19:08 - conversations worth having at home.
20:57 - how to get your children to actually talk to you.
24:26 - the constructionist principle.
26:32 - the poetic principle.
29:01 - Are appreciative conversations something we're born with or can it be learned?
31:01 - there is a place for the sceptic.
31:40 - appreciative inquiry doesn't mean you ignore problems.
31:54 - analytical approach: looking for positive deviants.
33:17 - overcoming negativity bias.
36:15 - how to manage your emotions in the moment.
37:47 - asking generative questions.
42:11 - dealing with negative people who don't want to have constructive conversations.
44:45 - a conversation worth having is not just a positive conversation.
45:23 - don't assume people don't want to talk to you just because they are shy or introverted.
47:30 - example of how leaders can use appreciative inquiry.
51:55 - why appreciative inquiry is more likely to influence and create change.
54:21 - How Jackie used appreciative inquiry in the hardest conversation of her life.
1:01:03 - connect with Jackie and Cheri.
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/cheri-torres-and-jackie-stavros
52 episodes
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