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Focusing on the Wrong Things After Infidelity | Ep #186
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In this episode we talk about how important it is to focus on personal growth after infidelity rather than fixating on the actions of the partner. We need to prioritize self-healing, understanding the true nature of remorse, and the significance of moving forward rather than trying to return to the past.
Key Takeaways:
- Focus on personal growth rather than the partner's actions.
- The decision to stay or go should not be the first question.
- Remorse from a partner does not equate to personal healing.
- Healing is not contingent on the partner's regret or recognition.
- Self-care and personal needs should take precedence over monitoring the partner's change.
- Moving forward is essential; returning to the past is not an option.
- Trusting oneself is more powerful than surveillance.
- Liberation from dependency on others is key to healing.
- Ask yourself who you are becoming in the healing process.
- This experience can sharpen important aspects of your character.
More from me:
- Sign up for the class "Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide
- Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/
- Follow on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/
Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability. Thank you!
For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit Andrea's website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/
© 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles
196 episodes
Manage episode 477677572 series 2883763
In this episode we talk about how important it is to focus on personal growth after infidelity rather than fixating on the actions of the partner. We need to prioritize self-healing, understanding the true nature of remorse, and the significance of moving forward rather than trying to return to the past.
Key Takeaways:
- Focus on personal growth rather than the partner's actions.
- The decision to stay or go should not be the first question.
- Remorse from a partner does not equate to personal healing.
- Healing is not contingent on the partner's regret or recognition.
- Self-care and personal needs should take precedence over monitoring the partner's change.
- Moving forward is essential; returning to the past is not an option.
- Trusting oneself is more powerful than surveillance.
- Liberation from dependency on others is key to healing.
- Ask yourself who you are becoming in the healing process.
- This experience can sharpen important aspects of your character.
More from me:
- Sign up for the class "Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide
- Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/
- Follow on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/
Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability. Thank you!
For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit Andrea's website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/
© 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles
196 episodes
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