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282. My husband became my safe place when....diving into this viral reel and giving you THE HOW to help you switch this in your marriage.
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In this podcast episode, I reflect on the pivotal moments when I realized my husband had become my safe place and share insights on fostering a strong, intimate relationship. I discuss the importance of shifting perspective, separating facts from interpretations, and the power of empathy through the seven-step forgiveness process. I emphasize the need to avoid diving into logistics upon a partner's return home, advocating for creating genuine connections instead. I delve into releasing resentment through emotional processing and physical practices, acknowledging the role of body language in intimacy. Furthermore, I explore the challenge of letting my inner child be seen without defensive reactions and the transformative impact of unconditional love and acceptance in a relationship. My personal journey and recommended resources offer valuable guidance for building a resilient partnership.
“You have to learn how to process it out of your physical body, because we think just acknowledging it or talking about it will do the trick. But that's not true, because the emotion is felt it's not thought it's felt”
I share my personal journey of realizing how my husband became my safe place, sparking a deep dive into strengthening our relationship.
Emphasizing the importance of changing negative narratives and recognizing the power of challenging our assumptions about our partner's intentions.
Exploring a transformative process that includes separating facts from interpretations and gaining empathy, leading to a fresh outlook on the relationship.
Acknowledging the need to pause and connect emotionally with your partner when they return home, rather than jumping into logistical discussions.
Resentment Trap Link: https://www.levelupbabe.com/thelevelupclub
Use code PAYINFULL to get $111 off the price when you pay in full
Listen to this Podcast Episode: 7 Step Forgiveness Process:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/level-up-babe/id1486277372?i=1000458880102
Connect with me: Email: behealthywithjoy@gmail.com / joy@levelupbabe.com Website: level-up-babe.mykajabi.com Instagram: @joyharrington.ig / @levelupbabe.igFacebook: Joy HarringtonTikTok: @joyharrington01YouTube: Joy Harrington - LEVEL UP Babe
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“Cheer for your girls like you got pom-poms at a pep rally.” - Lisa Bilyeu
Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women:
“Choose your life’s board members like you’re building a Fortune 500 company.” - Lisa Bilyeu
Lisa Bilyeu on being a boss:
“Be brave. Fearless. Be badass at 15 years old. Be badass at 80 years old.” - Lisa Bilyeu
Lisa Bilyeu on personal development:
“If you’re still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror.” - Lisa Bileyu
Glennon Doyle on women’s empowerment:
“People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don’t need help.” - Glennon Doyle
Glennon Doyle on being yourself:
“Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world.” - Glennon Doyle
Glennon Doyle on personal development:
“What if pain - like love - is just a place brave people visit?” - Glennon Doyle
Glennon Doyle on being yourself:
“I have met myself and I am going to care for her fiercely.” - Glennon Doyle
Mel Robbins on personal development:
“You need to hear this loud and clear: No one is coming. It is up to you.” - Mel Robbins
Mel Robbins on being yourself:
“There will always be someone who can't see your worth. Don't let it be you.” - Mel Robbins
Mel Robbins on being a boss:
“You have been assigned this mountain so that you can show others it can be moved.” - Mel Robbins
Rupi Kaur on being yourself:
“Loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself.” - Rupi Kaur
Rupi Kaur on being a boss:
“How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you” - Rupi Kaur
Rupi Kaur on women’s empowerment:
“If you were born with the weakness to fall you were born with the strength to rise” - Rupi Kaur
288 episodes
Manage episode 377287096 series 2913672
In this podcast episode, I reflect on the pivotal moments when I realized my husband had become my safe place and share insights on fostering a strong, intimate relationship. I discuss the importance of shifting perspective, separating facts from interpretations, and the power of empathy through the seven-step forgiveness process. I emphasize the need to avoid diving into logistics upon a partner's return home, advocating for creating genuine connections instead. I delve into releasing resentment through emotional processing and physical practices, acknowledging the role of body language in intimacy. Furthermore, I explore the challenge of letting my inner child be seen without defensive reactions and the transformative impact of unconditional love and acceptance in a relationship. My personal journey and recommended resources offer valuable guidance for building a resilient partnership.
“You have to learn how to process it out of your physical body, because we think just acknowledging it or talking about it will do the trick. But that's not true, because the emotion is felt it's not thought it's felt”
I share my personal journey of realizing how my husband became my safe place, sparking a deep dive into strengthening our relationship.
Emphasizing the importance of changing negative narratives and recognizing the power of challenging our assumptions about our partner's intentions.
Exploring a transformative process that includes separating facts from interpretations and gaining empathy, leading to a fresh outlook on the relationship.
Acknowledging the need to pause and connect emotionally with your partner when they return home, rather than jumping into logistical discussions.
Resentment Trap Link: https://www.levelupbabe.com/thelevelupclub
Use code PAYINFULL to get $111 off the price when you pay in full
Listen to this Podcast Episode: 7 Step Forgiveness Process:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/level-up-babe/id1486277372?i=1000458880102
Connect with me: Email: behealthywithjoy@gmail.com / joy@levelupbabe.com Website: level-up-babe.mykajabi.com Instagram: @joyharrington.ig / @levelupbabe.igFacebook: Joy HarringtonTikTok: @joyharrington01YouTube: Joy Harrington - LEVEL UP Babe
————————————————————————————————————————————
Lisa Bilyeu on women’s empowerment:
“Cheer for your girls like you got pom-poms at a pep rally.” - Lisa Bilyeu
Lisa Bilyeu on women helping women:
“Choose your life’s board members like you’re building a Fortune 500 company.” - Lisa Bilyeu
Lisa Bilyeu on being a boss:
“Be brave. Fearless. Be badass at 15 years old. Be badass at 80 years old.” - Lisa Bilyeu
Lisa Bilyeu on personal development:
“If you’re still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror.” - Lisa Bileyu
Glennon Doyle on women’s empowerment:
“People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don’t need help.” - Glennon Doyle
Glennon Doyle on being yourself:
“Every girl must decide whether to be true to herself or true to the world.” - Glennon Doyle
Glennon Doyle on personal development:
“What if pain - like love - is just a place brave people visit?” - Glennon Doyle
Glennon Doyle on being yourself:
“I have met myself and I am going to care for her fiercely.” - Glennon Doyle
Mel Robbins on personal development:
“You need to hear this loud and clear: No one is coming. It is up to you.” - Mel Robbins
Mel Robbins on being yourself:
“There will always be someone who can't see your worth. Don't let it be you.” - Mel Robbins
Mel Robbins on being a boss:
“You have been assigned this mountain so that you can show others it can be moved.” - Mel Robbins
Rupi Kaur on being yourself:
“Loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself.” - Rupi Kaur
Rupi Kaur on being a boss:
“How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you” - Rupi Kaur
Rupi Kaur on women’s empowerment:
“If you were born with the weakness to fall you were born with the strength to rise” - Rupi Kaur
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