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Episode 4: Partner Betrayal Trauma
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In this episode, counselor and author John Sternfels discusses partner betrayal trauma. Partner Betrayal Trauma refers to the emotional, psychological, financial, spiritual, and relational distress experienced by an individual when their partner engages in actions that violate trust and betray the core values of the relationship.
This type of trauma often arises from infidelity, deception, or other forms of betrayal within a romantic relationship.
Critical components of partner betrayal trauma include:
- Trust Violation: The betrayed partner experiences a breach of trust, a fundamental element of a healthy relationship. Trust is essential for emotional intimacy and the stability of the partnership.
- Emotional Impact: Betrayal trauma can lead to intense and overwhelming emotional reactions. The betrayed partner may experience feelings of shock, disbelief, anger, sadness, anxiety, and profound hurt.
- Cognitive Distress: The betrayed individual may struggle with intrusive thoughts, rumination, and a sense of cognitive dissonance as they try to reconcile the actions of their partner with their expectations and beliefs about the relationship.
- Impact on Self-Esteem: Betrayal can significantly impact the betrayed partner's self-esteem and self-worth. They may question their adequacy, attractiveness, and value within the relationship.
- Changes in Relationship Dynamics: The revelation of betrayal can alter the dynamics of the relationship. Communication may break down, and rebuilding trust becomes a challenging process. The betrayed partner may also struggle with forgiveness issues and the ability to move forward.
John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI
Owner/Clinical Director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling
Counselor and Author
Books Available:
"A Partner's Guide To Truth & Healing" (available now)
"Behind The Smile" (available early 2024)
"DOWNLOAD for Parents" (available late 2024)
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