))
87. Safety vs. Comfort: Allowing Your Child to Learn Through Failure
Manage episode 414191233 series 3389590
Content provided by Beth Hillman | Parent Coach for Parents of Struggling Teens. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Beth Hillman | Parent Coach for Parents of Struggling Teens or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.
Are you allowing your child to learn through failure?
There’s a thin line between offering safety and comfort. Just like safety, offering comfort to your kid is a way of protection. It’s a way to protect your child so they don’t have to experience the hardships and difficulties that you had to go through yourself. But is it really in your child’s best interest to keep them from experiencing unsuccessful events?
“By preventing it, you’re also enabling it” - Seth Gottlieb
Our children don’t learn from an unsuccessful event if we rescue them.
Our teens don’t learn from the lesson if you pick up the pieces for them.
But where’s the line? Let’s discuss it with Seth in today’s episode!
In this episode on safety vs. comfort, we discuss:
- What’s the difference between offering safety and comfort?;
- Is something ever really a failure or is it an unsuccessful event that can lead to success through learning?;
- How providing comfort can be enabling;
- Examples of safety versus comfort in daily life;
- And more!
Need support?
🗺️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan!
🤍Influence lasting change in yourself and your struggling teen with my private coaching or parent group program specifically created for parents of struggling teens.
Ps. Are you getting great value out of this podcast? It would mean the world to me if you could leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This way, you will help me reach and help more parents of struggling teens develop healthy responses and boundaries instead of acting out of fear and anxiety. You can leave a review by clicking here, scrolling to the bottom, tapping to leave a star rating and then write your review. Thanks so much!
And if you haven’t already done so, make sure to subscribe to our show so you don’t miss any of my future episodes!
And remember parents, the change begins with us.
I'd love to hear from you! Click here to easily send me a quick message and make my day!
🔆 Small GROUP COACHING program starting September 4th, 2024 🔆
Sign up or learn more over at www.bethhillmancoaching.com/groups
I hope to see you there
99 episodes
Share
