93. My Story: From a Struggling Parent of a Struggling Teen to Parent Coach

Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment

In this deeply personal episode, I share my own journey through the challenges of parenting a son struggling with anger and substance abuse.
In this crossover episode with People Who Suffer, Andrew McKee interviews me for a change and I’ll walk you through the first signs of my son’s struggles and how my emotions became entangled with his; when he was angry, I was angry. When he was upset, I was upset.
The situation escalated when my son confessed his substance use, disappeared emotionally and physically, and began skipping school, missing 60 days in one semester.
I know it sounds familiar to many of you when I say that shame overwhelmed me, causing me to shut down as a person and a mother, plagued by thoughts of what I should have done differently. I feared we had lost him. As parents, we were consumed by shame and tried to keep our struggles a secret.
Getting our son into wilderness was a decision that I firmly believe saved my son's life, leading to an incredible shift in my perspective and also many more ups and downs.
When I realized my own part in my son’s, family’s and my own struggles, and I started working on myself, it completely changed everything. It changes me, it changed my son, and it changed our family.
Now, years later, I can truly say my sons have a completely different mom emotionally. Have a listen to my personal story which I hope will benefit all of you.
In this episode on how I went from a struggling parent to a parent coach, we discuss:

• My personal story from being a struggling mom of a struggling teen, all the way to being a parent coach;
• The first signs of our son struggling with anger and substance use;
• The shame and guilt I felt as a mom of a struggling teen;
• How we learned about wilderness and got our son in;
• The epiphany needed to change our lives;
• The moment that felt like the beginning of the rest of my life;
• And so much more!

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